Duality and Opposites

Yes, of course. When you become more aware, you become more aware of positive and negative probabilities because you are simply becoming more aware of All-That-Is. Now, it doesn’t mean that you have to buy into them.

Sometimes the only reasons that these ideas of dualities begin to manifest in your reality when you expand yourself is because you bring along with the expansion the belief that just being aware of a negative reality means that somehow it’s going to spring to life.

But you can still make the choice. Just being aware that it exists as a probability doesn’t mean that it has to manifest. Do you understand the difference?

One of the ways to most quickly diffuse the negativity in any situation is not to first assume that it is automatically negative just because it looks the way you have been taught to believe a negative situation looks. You must stand back and realize that all situations are fundamentally neutral and do not have a built-in meaning to them.

If you give yourself the opportunity, no matter what happens, to stand back for a moment and say, “All right, wait a minute. I started to react. But wait a minute, I now remember this situation is fundamentally neutral and there must be a positive reason why it happened this way because I say there must be.”

Then eventually you will begin to realize that it did actually serve you positively because every situation you can extract from every situation either a positive result or a negative result. How you react to it, what meaning you give to it determines the effect you get out of it.

So give yourself the opportunity to stop yourself before you actually buy all the way into it and say, “Oh, oh, oh, look at the horrible thing I am creating.” And say, “All right, all right. Just because it looks on the surface like what I have been taught to believe must mean something bad, I now determine that it cannot be bad because I say so. Because I know I am now positively oriented.

And therefore I know that even if I never discover consciously intellectually what it is that this incident is going to serve me in a positive way and only a positive way somehow and I don’t have to know how I just have to know that it is a part of the positive idea that I am.”

And when you diffuse the situation that way by giving it a positive meaning then you take control and you will begin to see positive synchronicity more and more and more in your life.

I just told you how. Once you have seen what your preference is, then understand that first of all the negative quote unquote reality has already served you by allowing you to see what your preference is and therefore has already served you in a positive way. That’s how you immediately change the energy. You understand? And then you start moving in the direction of what seems to be the thing that gives you the most joy, the most excitement.

This does not have to be complicated. Keep it simple. Does this help you?** Um, do you wish to be more specific so that we can see how this applies in your life? Can you pull up a specific incident?

But you can remember as we have just illustrated even situations you don’t prefer ultimately are what you prefer if you use them in a way that allows you to be more the person you want to be.

So even when you create something you don’t prefer, you can transform it into something you do. So what are you afraid of? You’ve already exhibited this. You have the power to transform a negative into a positive. So no matter what you create from this point forward in the future, you always have the ability to transform into a positive idea.

Because you believe you are doing it that way. Because you believe there is an opposing force to push against. You believe there is something outside of you and there is nothing outside of you. There is no outside. It’s all within you.

All the opposing forces are simply opposing belief systems within you. You are simply at war with yourself because you believe that this belief system and this belief system must be in conflict just because of how you’re defining them.

What you need to do is create a new definition that says that you can have apparently opposing belief systems, but that they don’t have to conflict.

Since you are capable of having what appear to be opposing belief systems, and since they both must come from you, then obviously that tells you that somewhere in you, there is a place that they both come from. Therefore, they must have a commonality somewhere. They must in a sense be the same idea somewhere, just looked at from a different perspective. That’s all.

You don’t have to believe that these ideas are actually in conflict just because one is positive and one is negative or because one is what you prefer and one is what you don’t. You are simply associating the definition of conflict to things that seem to be mutually exclusive but which actually are mutually enhancing and simply a matter of equal choices.

The blue man says, “Thank you because it is part of your agreement that you should.”

The blue man suggests that you might be able to use a variation of the idea of the blue man in one of your stories at some time. You’ve got it. But he will leave that up to you, buttercup.

Having enough of whatever form of abundance you need to do what you need to do is a direct reflection of being enough of the person that is representative of the expanded idea.

The idea is that whatever level of abundance exists in someone’s life is absolutely not a penny more nor a penny less than a directly equal representation of whatever level of expansion they are operating on.

The release of the money in that way as we perceive your energy now will actually serve many different purposes. One, it may allow you to decide in the future to be of assistance in establishing centers of learning, centers of housing, centers of help and assistance to individuals like that individual to teach them that they don’t need to do those kinds of things to learn that they are already as powerful as they need to be to create the reality they want without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to create it. You might get involved in that because of this incident.

Another thing that works for you again is to reassess the notion of the flow of abundance. Understanding that people who are quote unquote rich are only flowing money through them. They don’t actually hold on to it. This idea can also assist you. That it is truly a complete system going to and fro, exchanging back and forth.

You can recognize that you do not prefer this to happen in this way. But again, you can also use this incident to get in touch with your true feelings, your true desires, and reassess how you wish to define the world. And in so doing, how you wish to begin to relate to the other people in it, and how you can share with them by example the ideas that they are powerful enough to also be rich, to also be abundant, that they do not have to fear the idea of lack or loss, and then fear that they must dominate others and take from them in order to experience a false sense of power.

All of these things are now bubbling around within you to allow you to make certain decisions about how you wish to act in life and how you wish to interact with others in life. Keep an open mind, keep an open heart, and you will discover the ways to use this scenario to your advantage. That is our first and foremost advice.

But you have not necessarily served him yet.

Complete the cycle that you both attracted yourself to. But you can do it in a loving way. What you might call your legal system may not necessarily be the most loving representation, but at least it will allow the individual to begin to assess the notion of responsibility.

However, it is very critical, very critical to reinforce this idea so that he does not only focus on what your system creates to be a punishment aspect.

It is very important that you find some way to communicate to this individual that the reason that this happen is because he fears he is not powerful enough to create abundance in his life without having to take it from someone else. Then you will have served him by reminding him of a principle that in time can work its way into his consciousness and truly change him. Then you will have completed the cycle.

So yes, identify him, but also identify to him who you really are and the love that you have that in sharing the concept of his power with him will really allow him to see eventually how blessed he was in attracting you into the situation.