Pain After Breakup

Now you can always decide you can always decide to not incarnate again. You could allow this life right now to be in a sense linearly speaking the last life you will have. You do not necessarily have to be what you might call the most spiritually awakened being on earth in order to allow yourself to realize that you wish to explore and grow and learn in other dimensions non-physically as well.

You do not ever have to incarnate. Never. It is your choice many times to do so because physical reality is so accelerated, so focused that many times what you wish to learn can happen very quickly in physical reality. Whereas it may seem like it might take a little bit longer in non-physical reality because things are not quite so well defined.

However, you have always had the choice to choose to learn anything at all you wish to learn in a non-physical reality or even in some other dimension altogether which doesn’t even have the concept of physical or non-physical in it. You can always end the idea of the cycle.

The only reason many of you have not is because you might have lived lives that were so limited, so focused that you did not even recognize that you actually had the choice. However, more often than not, most often, I would say at least 90% of the time, you have always known when you die that you had the choice as to whether to incarnate again or not.

And since you are here, I will assume that you chose to do so for your own reasons. But if you decide now that you don’t wish to again, then when you finish with this life, you can decide that you don’t have to incarnate again.

Again, a person can choose what to experience in any one of those levels in which they ensconce themselves in physical materiality.

What you might call your astrological symbolism or your numerological symbolism, your date of birth and so forth, in a sense is an indication of a frozen slice of your energy. At the time you decided to freeze yourself as a physical being, then you might have been able to freeze certain patterns of energy within you that might be generally representative of the experience you have had, where you are now, and the directions that you are headed in.

And this might be loosely connected to the pantheon of the zodiac or many other systems that exist upon your planet, but it is not always absolutely cut and dried.

If you’re here, then this means that because you are a very complex, multi-dimensional being, you must take into account many different factors to come to a full appreciation of what one particular person is all about.

Mostly the Arcturus energy is still being utilized for the same utilization.

Primarily those entities of your planet who have died and choose to be reborn are processed through the energy of the Arcturus gate for them to have more conscious remembrance of them being alive before. This allows them to assist more effectively in the creation of peace on your planet between all of the different nations.

This is how indirectly Arcturus is connected to peace on your planet between the different nations.

Of course, there will be different individuals who for various reasons will align their energy towards other types of energy for the purposes that they have to accomplish upon your planet at this time.

Sometimes because of their experience and simply their tastes as it were, they will feel that a certain dimension of energy can be more of assistance than another dimension of energy. So they will make associations to that particular frequency that they feel more at home with, more aligned with because of the experiences they have created in their lives and therefore can tap with that energy, use that energy, channel through that energy in a variety of ways to assist in helping create your planet to be the type of world that you truly desire it to be.

So of course you make different connections and different lives. And different lives that you have can actually have different connections to different levels of dimensionality and vibrations. They don’t always have to be the same from life to life.

All right. Do you understand even in what you might call an intellectual fashion the concept that whatever it is you feel must be based upon a belief. You cannot have a feeling without believing something to be true first.

Therefore, when I refer to the concept of your definition that something is a loss, it is your belief, your definition that something has been lost that creates the feeling of loss within you.

Therefore, that is why it is important to get involved in the definitions that you have within you and find out why you have those definitions and help to redefine them so that the feelings that you have no longer come from the old definitions but the definitions that you prefer to have. Now, what are the definitions specifically about the experiences that you have had that allow you to choose to define them as a loss? When something happens in your life, when these incidents you are referring to happened, what definition existed within you that allowed you to believe they represented a loss?

Let’s explore that right now. Take the strongest idea. You refer to the concept of lost love. In what form do you believe the love was lost? How did you, I will put it simply colloquially, lose the love? What physically happened to make you believe that the love had been lost?

You don’t have to really work too hard. You can just be consistent about it. That is really all it takes. Willingness and consistency. You do not necessarily have to struggle with the idea.

Now, first of all, you really are, shall we say, a fine person. You really are all right in general. Yes, nice sigh. You don’t have to feel badly about yourself in that sense just because all of these issues may have come up. You have not lost anything in that sense.

You have utilized the relationship in exactly the way you intended to so that you could in fact allow yourself to become more integrated by discovering all of these fragments that you had created within your consciousness. And in that sense therefore that other person in doing what they did in co-creating the separation with you actually did the most loving thing they could have at that moment in the situation.

Then allow yourself as you have just done to breathe the idea that the timing is perfect. Now this is why it is important in terms of the healing of yourself in terms of the integration of yourself that you focus at the same time that you are investigating all of these fragmentary ideas that at the same time you also focus on the idea of doing something that really gives you joy that really gives you excitement.

So that you can be aimed toward your highest aspiration. And that energy, that direction, that momentum, that inertia will help with all of the integration of all of the fragments much more quickly rather than simply isolating yourself in some form of free floating limbo in which you feel foundationless and at a loss and yet still feel that you must in fact handle all of these different ideas that have now come bubbling up in your consciousness.

The idea is that you’ll be able to handle it more easily if you can gain a focus on doing something at any given moment that really is the most enjoyable thing you could be doing at that moment.

Even if it doesn’t seem to be connected to anything else, as long as it is the most exciting thing that you’re capable of doing at that moment with integrity, I would suggest that you begin to do those things.

Just being kind to yourself and treating yourself nicely in that way may make all the difference in the world towards your self-healing.

There can be no pointless or worthless creations in existence. It cannot happen. If you exist, you must belong. You must have a purpose. You must fit. You must be representative of All-That-Is manifesting itself in one very valuable format.

Just because therefore you exist should tell you that you have a basic deservability, a basic worthiness. Trying is not doing is not being.

Now All-That-Is loves you unconditionally because All-That-Is knows that everything you go through positive or negative is a growth experience for the spirit for the soul the consciousness that you are.

Give yourself the benefit of the doubt. If you’re going to doubt at all give yourself the benefit of the doubt. Allow yourself to simply for a few moments just relax into the energy of infinite All-That-Is unconditional love because it’s yours to feel. It’s yours for the taking. Just float in that love.

The fact that you exist is a sign that you deserve to exist. Creation has not created any superfluous things. Everything that exists belongs and deserves to know that it deserves to belong. You are no exception. You deserve everything that you can imagine and desire.

You must, however, of course, be in touch with the belief systems that you have because you are the creator of your experiential reality in physical terms and even on some levels of non-physical terminology.

Yes. But this is directly connected to the idea of doing what excites you the most. If you have no notion of what it is that excites you and therefore are not acting on what excites you the most, it is absolutely no wonder that you are not creating the idea of abundance because they are absolutely connected. They are one in the same thing.

Doing what excites you the most is being aligned with your highest self. Being aligned with your highest self therefore automatically attracts whatever situations and abundance are necessary to allow you to stay aligned with your highest self. If you’re not doing what excites you the most, you will always have difficulty attracting abundance.

Then relax into that meditative state when you are alone and have an opportunity to do so and discover what it is whether at any given moment or even as a lifespaning career would be something that would excite you more than anything else. And when you discover what that is either at any given moment or as a lifespaning career or both, do it.

And I guarantee you will start the ball rolling in the direction of unlimited abundance, self-love and then the attraction of the appropriate equally sharing partners and friends and people in your life.

Keep it simple. Explore what you must explore that you have uncovered about yourself. But in the exploration, love yourself. You certainly deserve to.

Do what excites you the most. You can do it. It will work for you and it will help you uncover more about yourself that you need to know.