Part 1

On Our Own

Bashar Bashar
50 min read
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MAYAN CALENDAR & 2012

Audience: The one of the Mayan calendars runs out in 2012. What is the significance of that?

Bashar: All right, thank you. There are many levels to this idea. First of all, it was a recognition on the part of that civilization that it was the end of an old cycle and the beginning of a new one in terms of human experience, human consciousness. But there are many things that happen that are represented by that particular date and time in your reality.

Number one, you will find that it is a representation of the crossing of a threshold in terms of your collective consciousness. The idea is that for many years, many thousands of years, your species has experienced many different kinds of things on your planet of Earth, and you have experienced many different kinds of negative realities. Now you are almost at the end of the cycle of negative experience and beginning to shift into the exploration of awakening and positive reality, and how to create the reality you prefer in your life.

So that date represents the culmination point, shall we say, the leading edge of your collective consciousness when it will have achieved critical mass, tipped the scales, and crossed the threshold so that after that date, the general overall collective energy of your world will begin to be slightly more positive than negative, and it will begin to accelerate from there.

The idea is that this tipping of the scales only requires that a certain number of individuals begin to view life in a positive way, because remember that positive energy is collective and integrative and exponentially expansive. So it doesn’t take as many positive individuals working together in harmony to outweigh the collective energy of millions of negative individuals who are discordant. You understand?

Yes. So the tipping of the scales comes from the fact that you will have reached the critical mass number of positively oriented individuals so that from that point forward, your world will begin to accelerate more and more in a positive way, or more opportunities will exist on your planet for people to connect into reality from an aware and awake point of view.

Now, the other thing that that particular moment represents is that for many, many years, many of the different what you call extraterrestrial societies that have been observing your world and in some sense assisting you, but assisting you in a hands-off way so they do not intervene or interfere with your choices and your evolution, will now recognize that after that date, the so-called hands-off policy will be removed. It is the end of what you might call or refer to as a quarantine of your world.

It doesn’t mean that the very next moment there will be landings of thousands of ships, but what it does mean is that if and when you decide as a civilization that you are ready for true open communication with other civilizations, there will be nothing holding us back from that point forward, other than whatever rate or degree of comfort you say you wish to experience with regard to those connections. No longer will we be holding ourselves back. We will simply take all of our cues from all of you.

Does that make sense to you? That is primarily what that date represents.

And there will also be a representation of consciousness in the form of different kinds of energy. Some of you may feel an acceleration after that point. The leading edge of your consciousness has been referred to as many different kinds of things: an electronic wave, a photon belt, and so on and so forth. These are all euphemisms of physical reality manifestations of the leading edge of your collective consciousness wave crossing a threshold.

Does this make sense to you all? Does this answer your question sufficiently? Is there something else you wish to explore about this, or do you wish to go on to another subject?


ACCELERATION & SOCIAL/ECONOMIC CHANGE

Audience: Well, Bashar, this is a good day. We are moving faster than we’ve ever moved in our history as a species, accelerating. How is that going to affect us here in this country? I know that there’s going to be like a financial pinch point, yes, for all of us.

Bashar: There will be pinch points in every area of your reality because the time has come for all of you to decide what kind of reality you actually wish to create. And there will still be many polarities and many dichotomies and many differences of opinions. But the point is not to change those that don’t see things your way. The point is to establish the systems that are representative of the kind of reality you prefer, and in establishing them, let them replace the systems that no longer work that will simply fall away.

Does that make sense to you?

Yes. So the idea with regard to your social, political, economic structure is to create new ideas, new ways of relating to those concepts, and establishing new ways of working those things on your planet, so that when it comes time for the old systems to crumble under their weight, when they can no longer support themselves, there will already be new systems to take their place. So you will not necessarily have to suffer through the transition.

Does that make sense to you?

Yes, it does.

Does that answer your question?

Yes, it does. Thank you.

Bashar: This is the decision point in your reality, this age now—the age of awakening—is when you are seeing a lot more experience of negativity and polarity because you are getting all of this up out on the table, as you say, out of your system, out in front of your face, so that you can make a conscious decision about what kind of world you actually want to experience.

And again, it really isn’t about changing the world you’re in. It’s about changing yourself to be more harmoniously aligned with the vibrational reality or the state of being you prefer, and in so doing, shifting yourself to another parallel reality Earth that is already vibrationally representative of the reality you have shifted yourself to.

You will never change anyone. You will never change the world you may be in right now. You will simply shift to a world that is more representative of the one that you prefer. And all those who wish to maintain the same vibration as the old world that you used to exist in will still go on their merry way experiencing whatever it is they have chosen to experience. But you will not.

Does that make sense?

Total sense. Thank you.


SHIFTING VIBRATION / FOLLOWING YOUR PASSION

Bashar: Does anyone need further explanation of this idea, or do you wish to shift to another subject?

Audience: Could you say a little something about shifting one’s vibration?

Bashar: Yes. Shifting one’s vibration is similar to the notion of the device that exists on your planet called the television or radio. You know that in any given moment, there are any number of different kinds of programs that you could perceive in your television set. You understand they’re all there at once, but you understand that you only get one at a time because that’s the vibrational frequency you happen to be tuned to at that moment. You follow along?

If you wish to tune to another program, you change the channel, which actually means you’re changing the frequency so that then your receiver will be tuned to that particular program’s frequency, and that’s the program you will get. Well, physical reality is actually structured this way. Whatever it is you wish to experience in your reality, all you have to do is change your frequency of energy of your being to match and be more harmonious with the idea that you prefer, and thus then you will begin to experience that reality.

The idea really is why we have always said, since we have been communicating with all of you, that it is so important to act on your joy, to act on your passion. And we know that many of you in your new age have heard the idea many, many times: follow your bliss, act on your joy, act on your passion. But many of you, while you understand it’s a good idea, don’t really understand exactly why it’s so important. Allow us to explain.

The idea is that what your physical body calls the sensation of passion, love, excitement, and creativity is actually your body’s translation of the vibratory energy that represents your true natural signature frequency. It’s how you were made. It’s your core true self. That’s what the feeling of passion is—the vibration of your core true being.

So anytime you are willing to set aside your beliefs and assumptions about what you think you should do, and are willing to actually act boldly, fully as you can, as best as you can, on anything that contains the highest excitement or passion at any given moment, you are making a commitment to be your true natural self. And when you do that, you are more harmoniously aligned with creation, and it can more easily support you in the direction of your preference.

Does that make sense? This is just physics. That’s all it is. Like vibration to like vibration. What you put out is what you get back. That’s all it is.

So the easiest and most enjoyable way to change your frequency in a direction that benefits you is to, every single moment that you can, act on whatever opportunity presents itself to you in your life at that moment that contains the highest degree of excitement, the highest degree of passion that you have the greatest degree of ability to act on.

And when you do that, because your passion represents your true whole being, you can also know it is a complete kit, a holistic idea, wherein if you act on it, it will contain all the things that are necessary to support you in physical reality on every level, to allow you to be able to continue to move in the direction of your excitement.

But anytime you stop yourself from doing that, you short-circuit the universe’s ability to support you in that direction, and it can only support you in whatever direction you have said you believe in most strongly.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

So it’s always about what you define, what you believe to be most true at any given moment, and whether you are willing to believe that your passion is representative of your true self and can in fact support you in life on all levels as it was designed to do. But it can only do that if you allow it to, because you have free will and can decide to actually circumvent your true self. And in so doing, you will still be supported by the universe, but you will be supported by acts that help you circumvent your true self, because the universe can only support you in what you insist is the truest thing for you.

So if you want to experience the idea of abundance in any form, for example, you have to understand that you’re already infinitely abundant. It’s not about having to learn to be abundant or learn to be more abundant. You can’t be more abundant than you are. But if you have a definition in your belief system that says you believe in lack, then the universe can only support you by giving you an abundance of lack. That’s how it works. But you are abundant in that thing.

So it’s not an issue of learning to be abundant. It’s an issue of understanding where your abundance is focused, where the definition of abundance is within your personality makeup, so that you can shift it from a definition you don’t prefer to a definition you do prefer, so that the universe can then stop supporting you in the definition you don’t prefer and start supporting you in the definition that you do prefer.

Does this make sense?

Yes, yes. Thank you.


PERSONAL GUIDANCE: FOLLOWING PASSION & PROCESS

Audience: Hi Bashar, good day. I don’t know if it’s appropriate to ask you…

Bashar: Of course it is.

Audience: My question really is: what is it that I need to know today?

Bashar: What I have just told you. That, of course.

Audience: And as far as my personal life…

Bashar: If I may be so bold as to ask you the question: are you acting as best as you possibly can every moment on your highest joy and passion?

Audience: Hesitation

Bashar: Hesitation means no.

Audience: I’m moving in a good direction with it.

Bashar: All right. That’s fine. So what you are saying is you believe that a process is necessary for you to then become comfortable living your joy as often as you prefer to. As long as you believe that a process is necessary to do that, you will go through a process that will move you in that direction. But then when you finally decide that’s what you want, you will then instantaneously be there. But you have to decide that that’s really more true than any other kind of an experience you could create.

There may be reasons that you’re giving yourself for why you don’t necessarily accelerate in that direction more quickly, and that’s all right, because if that’s your process, that’s what you have decided works for you. I am simply here to remind you that the only reason that that’s occurring is because you may have attached belief systems or definitions to your motivational mechanism that makes it seem like you should put the brakes on. And you have to decide what kind of belief systems you would buy into that would make you actually slow the process down of going toward your highest joy.

Does this help?

Yes, yes it does.


HEALTH, FAMILY & PAST LIFE CONNECTIONS

Audience: I was curious about my health, as well as the possibility of having a family.

Bashar: All right. How exciting is that idea to you?

Audience: Very.

Bashar: Why? I believe it’s something I’ve always wanted. Something you’ve wanted, or something you simply know is part of your joy?

Audience: Yeah, definitely I know it.

Bashar: All right, thank you. There is a difference, you know. The idea being that we would suggest for most people on your planet that because you have created a reality that is full of toxicity, one of the things that will allow your body consciousness to respond in the way that it needs to to anything that is representative of your joy would be to do thorough detoxification. You follow me?

Yes.

Are you willing to do that?

Yes.

All right, then go right ahead. And when you do, you will begin a process that will lighten you up in energy and will allow you to be more concretely in touch with what is going on within your consciousness, your energy, and also put you in touch more strongly with whatever agreements you may have made with any other consciousness that would have made an agreement to be born to you. Because you understand those agreements are made on another level.

Yes.

And so we perceive that there are entities that have agreed, but you are not yet the person with whom they have made the agreement. You follow me?

Yes.

So the more you can become the person with whom they have made the agreement by acting on your highest joy, cleaning yourself out in all ways that allow you to operate on a higher level of energy, then you will become more rapidly the person with whom they have made the agreement, and then all the agreements can be fulfilled.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

Does that answer your question sufficiently?

Yes, thank you.

Bashar: One moment. Does the name Samuel have some special meaning for you?

Audience: No, not at all.

Bashar: Are you sure?

Audience: Well, my grandfather was Sam, but his name wasn’t Samuel.

Bashar: All right. Sam will do. Since it is a derivative, yes, there is a connection then between that Sam and the entity with whom you have made an agreement to birth. You follow?

Yes.


INDIGO & CRYSTAL CHILDREN

Audience: I’d like for you to define and talk about indigo children and crystal children.

Bashar: All right. The idea is a simple one because again, the energy of your collective consciousness is changing. The children that are now being born and have been being born on your planet for a little while are much less forgetful of who they are as spirits. You understand?

Yes.

They come in with a strengthened core identity that repulses the telepathic onslaught of negative beliefs that exist in your world. So they are not as strongly affected by them, not as strongly colored by them. They retain more understanding and more memory of what they are and who they are as aspects of creation, and will then thus exhibit more of that awareness as they grow and mature into adults in reality.

The children being born on your planet now are not just a new generation; they are literally a different species. Do you understand?

Yes.

The idea of the crystal nomenclature is that also people on your planet, those already alive and those being born, are developing more and more silicon in their bodies, which makes them better receivers for higher energy. You follow me?

So the children being born will be better antennas for higher frequencies. Indigo, of course, is simply another way of saying higher frequency aligned, because indigo the color is a very high frequency that has to do with awareness and psychic functioning and telepathic function. You follow me?

Yes.

That’s where those nomenclatures come from. Does that answer your question sufficiently? Is there something else about this you wish to explore in more detail?

That answers it. Thank you.


ENERGY & BEING YOURSELF

Audience: Bashar, this is Luellen. I’m just wondering about my energy level. My daughter tried to tell me I was hyper the other day. I said I’m not hyper, I just have a lot of energy. Is there anything coming through about that?

Bashar: Are you applying that energy in ways that are representative of your joy?

Audience: I believe so.

Bashar: All right, then that’s all you need to do. The idea, of course, is any time you experience the idea of increased energy, when you become more aligned within yourself—because you are physical beings—the idea is to bring that energy down to earth and apply it physically in the direction, however you can, that represents your highest joy at any given moment. And if you’re doing that, you’re doing fine.

All you are ever expected to do—and that’s not even really an expectation on creation’s part, but just using your colloquial language—all you’re ever ever all of you expected to do is just be yourself as best as you can. That’s it. That’s it. That is your mission. That is your purpose. That is it.

All of you have the same mission. All of you have the same purpose. You may not express it in the same way, but those things are not your missions. They are not your purposes. They are the expression of your mission, the expression of your purpose, which is simply to be yourself as best you can, because you are unique. There is no one else like you. Never has been, never will be.

So the idea is that for this life, this you, the uniqueness of it, to be experienced as fully as it can be experienced, is the point of why you exist. So as long as you are doing your best to be you, you are fulfilling the purpose and mission of your life, and that’s all you need to do.

Audience: Doesn’t that take a lot of weight off?

Bashar: Yes, it does.

Audience: Thank you.


PAST LIFE MEMORIES & HEALING

Audience: In the past six months I’ve been having past life memories and have also been channeling some Indian energy. Can you tell me why is that important for me right now in my life, and how is this moving me forward into my work?

Bashar: What is your work?

Audience: I do polarity therapy.

Bashar: All right, thank you. The idea is that you are gathering more of yourself together. You are integrating more aspects of yourself together. You are reaching beyond the immediate space-time reality you call your present life and are reconnecting with aspects of your consciousness that you may need to connect to and draw upon from their experience to aid and assist you in your work.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

You must also remember that when you say past life, future life, these things are just colloquialisms. There is no real past, there is no real future. Everything exists now. You understand that?

Yes.

Therefore, when you say past life, understand that what you actually mean is simultaneously coexisting concurrent reality. So that’s why you can actually cross-connect to any other life, because they all exist now. Again, just like the television analogy where you know all the programs are there at the same time but you only get the one at any given moment you’re tuned to. Doesn’t mean the other ones aren’t there. All your lives are going on right now. So you can cross-connect anything you wish, draw upon the experience that that version of your soul is having in that life, and make it your own. Apply it here if you wish, and the other lives will do the same perhaps drawing upon you.

There is an ongoing cross-connection communication between all your lives to varying degrees, depending upon to what degree you need information and experience from those other lives that your soul is having.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

So you’re becoming more holistic. You’re operating on higher dimensional levels so that you can be of better assistance to others, because a healer—no matter what type of healing you use—is simply generating an energy field that is of a particular frequency, of a particular vibration. When the person that requires the healing is thus then immersed in that field, what they are then encouraged to do by the healer is take their energy and match the frequency of the healer’s energy, and when they do that, they will heal themselves.

Because a healer never heals anyone directly. A healer suggests to the other person what energy is required for them to be in a healed state. So you are drawing upon more and more energy to provide a more holistic and well-rounded state of being, so that those that come to you can experience more of themselves as well and become more fully integrated, should they choose to.

You follow me?

Yes.

And it’s always a matter of choice, of course.

Does that help you?

Yes. I’ll think on that for a little bit.


DEPARTED HUSBAND & COMMUNICATION FROM SPIRIT

Audience: I would like to ask about my departed husband.

Bashar: Name?

Audience: Kale.

Bashar: Physical location on your planet at the time of death?

Audience: In a hospital in Los Angeles.

Bashar: In your terms, cause of death?

Audience: Pancreatic cancer.

Bashar: Once again, the full name?

Audience: Kale.

Bashar: And what do you wish to ask about?

Audience: If he’s returned to this earth.

Bashar: Well, yes and no. Understand that always, always, always there is a portion of the soul that remains in spirit. You follow?

Yes.

Always you will always be able to access what you recognized as the person you knew in spirit. That will always be there because again, all things coexist simultaneously at the same time, and especially from the spirit point of view, that being may have decided also to have an incarnation that would represent the continuation of his learning. But that doesn’t mean he’s still not accessible in spirit.

Is this making sense to you?

Yes, it is.

Is there some more detail you wish to go into about this?

Audience: He was trying to tell me something before he died and he wasn’t able to.

Bashar: One moment. Is it in any way, shape or form—because these things do not always come clear from one level to another—any way, shape or form that involves what you would call the color violet or purple?

Audience: Not that I can think of.

Bashar: One moment. Was there no specific favorite flower between you?

Audience: Roses. Roses always red.

Bashar: All right. One moment.

Pause

Have you had since the departure any dream communication with this being?

Audience: Many.

Bashar: What were you told in the dreams?

Audience: They were dreams really of our past together and represented the joyful moments.

Bashar: Does one stand out more than any other?

Audience: Not really. There wasn’t a favorite joyful moment in the dreams. There were many.

Bashar: Pick one and describe it, at least in general.

Audience: Our daughter’s wedding. It was just 600 people. It was huge. It was his wedding more than his daughter’s.

Bashar: Your daughter’s name?

Audience: Kimberly.

Bashar: One moment. For how long has he been departed?

Audience: 11 years.

Bashar: All right. Are you involved with anyone else?

Audience: No.

Bashar: Are you open to being—starting to be?

Audience: All right.

Bashar: Then what we would simply perceive most strongly as information from that source would be: let that be all right. And when another comes fully into your life, it will also be like him—someone you have known in other lives that will be part of a larger family. Does that make sense to you?

Yes, it does.

Does this help you?

Yes, it does.

Then we bid you continued pleasant dreams.

Thank you.

Bashar: Marriage is something that exists forever, regardless of the state of being. But a marriage has many definitions and can contain many people, whether at once or in sequence—doesn’t matter. The permission is there to allow you to continue to expand in love, and that would be the greatest blessing for him as well.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

Does that help you?

Yes.

All right. One moment. The purple or violet may make sense to you with the new person that comes in. All right. So look for that vibration, look for that color. That may help you recognize the family member to be, and the family member that has been. In fact, you may have already met. Does that make sense to you?

No. Was there anyone at the wedding that you might feel would be a possible candidate?

No. When this person comes in, you may be surprised to find that there is already some kind of familial connection in this way. They may have already been somewhere you have been. You may have even seen them physically but simply not known yet who they would become to you. Do you follow me?

Yes.

Just relax and enjoy. And remember that any time you send your feeling of love to your husband, he will always receive it, and he is always there for you, whether he chooses to experience a reincarnation or not, because spirit is always there too. That’s how the soul operates.

Does that make sense?

Yes, it does.

Do you have a favorite garden?

Not really.

Is there a place that is a garden that you could go to and walk through?

I can’t think of one. Maybe you will have help from your friends with that, or maybe you have just forgotten. It might be advantageous to take a walk in that garden, perhaps even one that has an abundance of roses in it. In that space, you may actually receive a much stronger message from your husband than you’ve ever had in dreams, because very often spirits will use the synchronicity in your own physical reality to send you a very strong message, because sometimes it’s easier for them to get through to you by simply using the props and the surroundings that are in your physical life.

So I am being given the information that it would be wise to suggest to you that you find a rose garden and take a walk in it. Thank you. And then at a certain moment—don’t look for it, don’t think about it, just enjoy the garden—but at a certain moment something may occur to you that you will recognize as a very strong communication from your husband, and it may connect into what you need to understand to allow you to be willing to be more observant about what the new person is that will be coming into your life.

All right. Thank you.


THE TORNADO ANALOGY & FOLLOWING PASSION

Audience: My name is Francis. I’m in a tornado.

Bashar: I see. Shall we call you Dorothy?

Audience: Yeah, that’s good. I don’t know where this tornado is going to stop and where I’m going to land—possibly in Oz on the other side of the rainbow. That’s my favorite song.

Bashar: What a coincidence. And what do you wish to discuss today, Dorothy?

Audience: Where I’m going to end up and how.

Bashar: End up—what do you mean? At the end of your life?

Audience: Maybe the next few months. Where do you prefer to end up?

Audience: Well, I prefer to end up successful and independent by myself.

Bashar: Define successful.

Audience: Be able to live comfortably and support my son’s college education.

Bashar: All right. Well, you know the question I’m going to ask you. Are you acting to the best of your ability on your highest passion every moment?

Audience: No.

Bashar: Because you see, if you were, you would immediately say yes. Any hesitation means no. Not really, because those that are truly always acting on their passion are always in the moment with it and always know that they are. If you have to think about it, it means you’re not.

Could you be?

Yes.

Do you want to be?

Yeah, of course.

Do you believe that your passion can support you?

Right now I think I’m confused what my passion is.

Bashar: All right. Well, let me give you a simple explanation of the concept of following your passion, because when we say following your passion, we understand that because of how many of you have been trained to think in your reality, you think we have to mean a career, a job, a project, a hobby, something long-lasting that spans years. No.

When we say act on your passion, we mean at any given moment, you are aware that you have certain options available to you of things that you could choose to do. Yes. At any given moment, I could do this, I could go there, I could talk with that person, I could read a book, I could take a walk on the beach. All these things, whatever they may be at any given moment that you have the capacity to do—out of everything that is available to you at that moment—act to the best of your ability on the one that contains the highest amount of excitement and passion.

Whatever it is, even if you think it’s not connected to anything else you think it should be connected to. It isn’t the surface appearance that tells you it’s connected to the thing that will support you. It’s the amount of excitement and passion it evokes within you that tells you it’s connected.

So if you’re willing at every moment to simply follow that thread by acting on whatever opportunity at that moment contains the highest passion, it will lead you to the next moment and the next and the next and the next. And all you have to do anytime you reach what you perceive to be a crossroads of any kind is again take a moment, take an assessment: what are all the options available to me of things I could do at this moment? Pick the one that’s most passionate, even if it seems unconnected to the last thing you did, and move in that direction.

That will allow you to allow your synchronicity to unfold in an automatic and effortless way that will take you to exactly the right place, the right time, to interact with exactly whom you need to interact with, hear exactly what you need to hear, be exactly where you need to be to receive exactly what you need to receive at that moment.

Do you believe you can do this?

Yes.

Would it be fun?

I hope so.

Bashar: “I hope so” means what?

Audience: I’m not sure.

Bashar: True. All right, so the question once again is: if you are willing to do this, do you believe it will actually be capable of supporting you?

Audience: Yes.

Bashar: Why do you believe that?

Audience: Because I know whatever I do, I put my heart and soul into it, yes, and I can do it.

Bashar: All right. But why should that support you?

Audience: Because I’m going to work to make it support me.

Bashar: Work? Why would you have to work to make it support you? Why would it support you?

Audience: Because it’s what I want.

Bashar: Because it’s who you are. There’s a difference. Remember, if you are acting on your passion, you are telling the universe “this is me.” You are declaring, you are committing to being the true you. The universe’s only response will be: “Okay, I will now support that you, because I’ve always supported you as whatever you told me you were. So if you’re now telling me this is who you are, I will support that too.”

That’s why it will support you. Because it’s automatic, and you’re always supported.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

Are you willing to do this?

Yes.

And if you come across at any given moment doubt, what will you do?

Audience: Won’t succeed.

Bashar: Why?

Audience: Because I’m not believing in myself and who I am.

Bashar: All right. So what will you do with the doubt? How will you act with the doubt? What will you use the doubt for?

Audience: Turn it into a positive and go forward.

Bashar: How?

Audience: Just go forward with what I believe.

Bashar: Are you worried that by erasing it and just going forward, you may actually simply be glossing it over and ignoring something you believe in more strongly?

Audience: No. I think I’ve just gotten kind of in a rut.

Bashar: Do you like it there?

Audience: No.

Bashar: All right, then why not climb out? Are you afraid something will happen if you do follow your passion?

Audience: No. I’m looking forward to that. I think I’ve just been controlled a long time.

Bashar: Controlled by whom?

Audience: My ex-husband.

Bashar: I see. Well, you never really have been, you know. All you’ve done is agree to act as if you are being controlled. So you’ve always been in control. What you’re simply saying is now you no longer prefer to agree to act like you’re being controlled.

Right?

So does that help?

Yes.


RELATIONSHIPS, SELF-WORTH & POSITIVE MEANING

Audience: I’ve been separated for many years.

Bashar: Separated from what?

Audience: My husband.

Bashar: Are you feeling emotional about this?

Audience: Different emotions about it. But I was very content raising my daughter. She was 18 before I went on a date for the first time.

Bashar: Do you want to? Are you sure you really want to? That’s the question.

Audience: Yes it is. Sometimes I really think that’s what I want, but yet I always have my husband like…

Bashar: So you are afraid the same thing might happen again?

Audience: No. What I can’t imagine is my life without him.

Bashar: All right. Well, obviously that’s not completely true, because here you are. You have a life, don’t you?

Audience: I think so.

Bashar: You think so? Who’s the one saying “I think so”?

Audience: I never met her.

Bashar: I see. All right. What I’m simply saying is here you are living a life, so obviously you have a life of your own with which you can do whatever you wish. Now circumstances being what you have created them to be, or co-created them to be, the idea is to recognize that you can still, no matter what has happened, put positive meaning into it, and thus by doing so, get a positive effect from it.

Remember, no situation has built-in meaning. Things don’t automatically mean anything. The greatest gift creation has given to all of you is that life is meaningless—and I don’t mean that in a negative way. Life is meaningless. There is no meaning to anything that happens. You have been given free will so that you have the power to assign whatever meaning you prefer to any situation.

So if you assign a negative meaning to a situation, the only effect you can possibly get out of it is a negative one. But if you assign a positive meaning to the same situation, the only effect you can get out of it is a positive one. The issue is: are you in touch with what kind of meaning you are assigning to the circumstances in your life that then determine how you feel about them?

You see, emotion—how you feel—is a secondary response to a belief or a definition or an assignment of meaning. You cannot physically—you are not physically capable of actually experiencing any emotion at all if you don’t already have a definition first of your relationship to a situation.

So whatever you feel tells you what kind of belief you have about your relationship to the situation. So if you’re feeling bad, uncertain, scared, fearful about a situation, it’s because you have definitions that are causing your energy to be experienced that way. You are assigning negative, fearful definitions to your relationship to that circumstance.

But I guarantee you, as soon as you start assigning positive meaning to the same circumstance, you will only experience positive energy, because the circumstance itself has no power, has no meaning. It’s a neutral prop there for you to assign whatever meaning you desire to it and extract whatever effect you want from it. It has no power of its own.

So if you decide that you are tired of experiencing circumstances in a negative and fearful way, or a non-enjoyable way, you can just as easily decide that the same circumstance is actually in your life to serve you in a positive way. You can start exploring: “Oh, what kind of positive meaning can I give to this same circumstance that would allow me to extract a positive effect from it in my life?”

And you can start getting excited looking for positive meanings to apply to the very same circumstance and turn your life around. And thus then, when you do that, you attract to you those other individuals who will reflect the positive energy you have now decided to give off.

But remember, you cannot attract what you are not the vibration of. It’s not possible. In fact, you can’t even be aware of any opportunity that might lead you to something like that if you’re not on the same wavelength first.

That’s why we say: circumstances do not matter, only your state of being matters. Circumstances do not determine your state of being. Your state of being determines your circumstances. This is simple physics.

So the idea is to allow yourself to understand: be in the state of being you prefer to be in, not because of what is or isn’t happening around you. You are a reality unto yourself, and you can decide: “I’m happy. Why? I don’t need a reason. I’m happy because I enjoy it. This is who I am.”

And by being that state of being, you will then call to you anything else reflective of that state. And if, because we understand you live in a world of polarity, you are still able to interact with other people that may not have exactly the same frequency that you do, should you attract yourself to someone like that, the idea is that if you are in the state of being you prefer to be in, it will make it easier for you to discern whether or not someone else is a harmonious matching state of being or not. It’ll be easier to tell who’s on your wavelength and who’s not if you remain in the state of being of your preference.

But if you allow yourself to create a state of being that is one of confusion, one of self-doubt, one of lack of self-worth, then you will only create the kind of reality that will attract those kinds of reflections, and you will remain confused about what to do.

Is this making some sense?

Yes.

Is this helping you?

I will guarantee you 100% that you certainly deserve to attract someone that you can fall in love with and be giddy, head over heels, joyfully in love with. You deserve that. Do you doubt that?

Then why don’t you?

All right. The thing of it is, no belief is more powerful than another belief. They’re all equal in power. So whatever you say you prefer to believe in, that’s what the universe reinforces. No other belief has the ability to come in and contradict you when you say: “This is what I prefer to believe. This is what I prefer to be true about myself.” No other belief, no other power in the universe can contradict that. That’s what it means when your texts say you are made in the image of God. You are a co-creator. What you say in your reality goes.

So why not believe what you prefer to believe, because every belief is valid. It’s up to you to decide which ones you prefer.

Does that make sense?

Oh, thank you.

Enjoy yourself, so others can also enjoy you.

Thank you.


HEALTH OF DAUGHTER & CREATIVE EXPRESSION

Audience: I thought of one more thing. Health of my middle daughter. Is there anything that she can do? She’s experiencing severe migraine headaches and sinus infections. She’s taking care of her family; her husband’s a severe hemophiliac. She’s under a lot of stress.

Bashar: Absolutely. Is there something she can do that she enjoys that would help reduce the stress in terms of creative expression that she is not giving herself time to do?

Audience: She has no time.

Bashar: She has all the time in the world. She’s in and out of the hospital continually. Understand, she still has time. You know why she has time? Because she creates time, as all of you do. She’s just got to make the time for herself, or take the time for herself, create the time.

The way to create more time, paradoxically, is to live more in the now. Living in the timeless actually creates more time to experience what you prefer. In some senses, thus then, having less time can actually be done in a positive way rather than a negative way. Creating timelessness will actually allow her to experience an eternal moment in which she can get a lot of things for herself done.

Nevertheless, she must give herself an opportunity to do something creative that gives her joy—as a beginning, as a seed. At the same time, as we have already suggested, it might be worthwhile for her to explore the idea herself of using natural, potent, organic herbal formulations and detoxification programs to make sure her system is as clear as it possibly can be, so that the stress will not aggravate whatever toxicity might already be in the body and thus compound it.

Do you follow me?

Yes, I do.

Does that help?

That does help.

One moment. Is there something that she used to do as a child that she loved to do that she hasn’t done for a long time?

Audience: I can’t think of anything.

Bashar: Why don’t you ask her? If there’s something she misses doing as a child, something she did and in the doing of it allowed her to feel carefree. That’s important. Carefree. She needs to revert to that carefree moment now. It doesn’t mean she has to stop caring for others, which she won’t do. But just don’t let her get confused about that idea. Going to a carefree energy doesn’t mean she doesn’t care. You follow me?

Yes.

Allow her to recreate a memory of a carefree moment in her childhood. That state of being is where she wants to come from to reduce and eliminate the stress.

Got it.


DEPARTED FRIEND

Audience: Do you have any information on Flynn? That was a friend of the family and of my sons and daughters, and he took his own life last year.

Bashar: In what way?

Audience: He hung himself.

Bashar: In what area of your planet?

Audience: California, Frasier Park.

Bashar: One moment. Oddly, we are detecting an awful lot of humor.

Audience: Really? That’s funny.

Bashar: Regardless of what this person may have decided to do in taking their own life, were they capable of actually invoking laughter in others?

Audience: Yes.

Bashar: Could they have gone so far as to actually be what you call a comic on your planet if they had wanted to?

Audience: I don’t know. I wasn’t around him that much. Maybe when he was around my son.

Bashar: The individual has learned in that sense that perhaps—not in a judgmental way—they made a mistake. But the ideas that they have now recognized from the spirit point of view is that certainly wasn’t a path they had to take, and they actually had more options than they thought. But the appearance of lack of options drove him into that particular area.

Nevertheless, it is now recognized that the spirit can learn from that, and the spirit may choose to experience a life where in some of the same scenarios are presented, so it gives that spirit an opportunity to make other choices and actually have a happier life.

All right. One moment. The phrase “in like Flynn” is being sent.

Audience: Okay. That is all. Does that help?

It does. Thank you.

Have you had a dream communication with this person?

No, I haven’t. I have no dreams.

You want one?

No, thanks.

Are you sure?

I’m sure. He can send a dream to my son maybe.

Bashar: Your son’s name?

Audience: Rick.

Bashar: Why to your son and not to you?

Audience: Well, Rick and Flynn were best friends. They hung out together. Flynn’s the guy that had my motorcycle for a year and he was supposed to be fixing it and he was just riding it all over town. So I missed my motorcycle. I still hold that against him.

Bashar: Well, you don’t need to. One moment. I am not allowed to interpret this any farther than what will come out, but you will understand when the time comes. Flynn says: “Merry Christmas.”

Okay. See what happens.

All right. Thank you very much.


BASHAR’S CIVILIZATION

Audience: Would you tell me about your existence, your world, so to speak, in general?

Bashar: Yes. Our world in our ancient language—we no longer use—is called Sani, place of living light. We are of average about five feet of your height. White, whitish-gray skin coloration. Relatively thin. Very enlarged eyes. The males have no hair; the females have hair, it tends to be white. Our planet is mostly park-like. There are no major cities or built-up structures, although there are a few used for specific purposes. Our spacecraft are our cities for the most part.

We operate totally synchronistically. We are telepathically connected to everyone. We live in one marriage with every being on our planet, even though we are also individuals. We perform acts of creativity and art and constant joy every day, every moment of our lives, and explore the galaxy and the universe with that attitude.

I personally form first contact connection scenarios with various civilizations similar to what I am doing with Earth at this time, in opening up doorways for future contact between our respective civilizations.

We are a hybrid species, and that means that we are actually made up of genetic material from many of you on Earth, and in that sense are thus your children, your ancestors living in another realm, another dimension, who are coming back to speak to our shall we say fathers, mothers. We are your descendants. You follow that?

Yes.

You are our ancestors. You are in our ancient language the Anani—those who are before the ancient ones, the ancestors, those who gave us life along with another race of beings that you would call the Grays.

Does this make sense to you?

Yes.

Is there something else specific you wish to know about our civilization?

Audience: Do you procreate?

Bashar: We do, but it is no longer a physiological act. We are evolving toward more and more energy, even though retaining some degree of physicality. Now we simply create an energy field that is dense enough for a soul to take form in if it wishes to belong to our society. It does not happen any longer within the body.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

We no longer sleep. We no longer eat. We take energy directly—but we used to.

Audience: Do you blend your energy with another like a male and a female?

Bashar: We can, or any combination thereof, depending upon what themes of exploration those beings have chosen to experience with each other.

Audience: And so there’s no marriage anymore?

Bashar: We are all in one marriage. There has never been a ritual on our planet for that anyway. We have always been telepathically connected. How can you not be in a marriage if you know what everyone is thinking?

Audience: I knew that I’d be a millionaire. So is marriage unique to this planet?

Bashar: No, we just don’t do it the way you do it. It seems to be going out of style on this planet in a sense. Yes, you are also beginning to learn that you really are one family, and thus then any kind of ritualization is really a personal expression and not something that is necessary to create the condition. The condition is simply created in your energy, in your spirit, in your heart, in your soul. It’s a state of being, and you can honor it, formalize it, ritualize it any way you want, but the ritual doesn’t create the state. The state creates the ritual.

Does that make sense?

Yes.

It’s up to you. As long as you are in agreement with any other being in any kind of relationship you have, and it is a mutually consenting situation, then do whatever you want. That’s a marriage.

The marriage, like any relationship, serves this purpose: any relationship is for the purpose of each individual—no matter how many in the relationship—to support and allow the other beings in the relationship to become more and more of who they are. That’s what any relationship is for—to help the other being in the relationship become more and more of who they are, as they do the same for you. That’s a true reflection.

It works because that’s how the universe works, because it’s the same idea that the universe is giving to all of us, all of you. It supports you in every way you say you need to be supported to become more and more of who you are.

Awakening to the fact that you are an aspect of creation—becoming more and more of who you are doesn’t actually mean you’re not that you now. It means you remember more and more of who you are. You awaken to more and more of who you already are, not that you’re not that you now on some level.

Make sense?

Yes.

Is this answering your question about our civilization?

Yes.

Is there anything else you wish to know about our world?

Lots, but I’m passing.


FATHER’S PASSING

Audience: I wanted to ask you about my father who has crossed over. His name was Richard. I want to know why I was his chosen child to help him cross over the veil. I’m one of seven.

Bashar: Why did you get out of it? What did you learn about yourself in doing that?

Audience: I learned not to be afraid of death, and that death was a beautiful experience.

Bashar: There you go. You made a pact and an agreement to be in that position to learn things that would help you, even as you helped him.

Okay. That makes sense. It’s really obvious if you just let it be. I didn’t know.

All you have to ask yourself in any given situation that you’re in is: “What am I learning about myself in this situation?” And you’ll know exactly why you chose to be there.

Fair enough.

Audience: I’d like to know if you could get a perception of him from the other side or make contact with him for me today.

Bashar: Bicycles or motorcycles. Take a ride on a bike. That’s the message.

Audience: Where will you go if you take a ride on a bike?

Audience: Probably the Strand on the beach.

Bashar: Do so. You may see something in the water that will actually be unusual, and that actually will be a message.

All right. Have fun. Thank you.


SON’S STRUGGLES & RELATIONSHIP ADVICE

Audience: I have a 19-year-old son who’s going through a difficult time, and I’m very concerned about him.

Bashar: Define difficult.

Audience: With our divorce and him himself, he’s had poor health. He’s had weird incidences of health, almost dying twice.

Bashar: What is his passion?

Audience: He doesn’t know. Right now he’s in the same tornado that I’m in.

Bashar: Why don’t you both settle down?

Audience: He won’t let me help him. He won’t talk. He’s afraid of losing his father. He’s just running.

Bashar: Have you asked him specifically what it is he thinks he is going to lose?

Audience: He won’t discuss it with me. He holds everything inside.

Bashar: Who did he learn to do that from?

Audience: His father.

Bashar: I see. So he is in that sense obviously retaining a lot of qualities of his father. You could—whether he answers you or not—ask him if he’s willing to hold on to the qualities of his father that don’t serve him. He doesn’t have to answer you.

One moment. Have you noticed any kind of creative expression from this child in his life?

Audience: He’s very creative. He likes art, design, decorating. He does this well. He likes to do it as a hobby, not as a career. But he doesn’t know what direction he wants to go.

Bashar: Those things are not passionate for him. He doesn’t stay with anything.

Audience: That doesn’t matter. I didn’t ask you that. Just because someone doesn’t stay with something doesn’t mean they’re not passionate about it when they’re doing it.

No, he’s passionate about something when he is doing it.

All right. Do you think you can begin to impart to him—again, whether he answers you or not—the idea that the things he is in fact most passionate about, no matter how little time it may be that he is passionate about it at any given moment, are the things that actually are his truest self, that can support him in life?

Can you share that idea with him in creative ways, without necessarily having to have it take place in a typical conversational manner? Can you be as creative in delivering the information?

Yes.

Give me an example of how you might creatively get that idea across.

Audience: He just did a party at our house and he painted my walls. He took tape and made martinis on them and beer things. I said, “God, Johnny, that’s unbelievable. I didn’t know you could paint so well.” He said, “Yeah, maybe I’ll become an interior decorator.” I said, “That’s a great idea.” And that was as far as we went.

Bashar: That’s all right. Just planted a seed. That’s all right. Sometimes that’s all you can do for the moment—plant the seed. But what I would suggest is that you water the seed any chance you get. Anything that you have noticed is representative of that seed, water it. You might give him a magazine that represents the idea of something that represents his passion, with pictures in it that inspire him. You might just drop him a note that reminds him of how much you enjoyed what he did that day, reinforcing always the seed in a positive way.

Just water the seed a little bit every day. Doesn’t have to be much. You don’t have to hang around for a response. He doesn’t have to say a thing. Just water the seed a little bit every day in some creative way that doesn’t require that you have some kind of big meaningful interaction. See what happens.

Does that help you?

That helps me.

Audience: What do I do with my ex-husband who is trying to really sabotage our relationship?

Bashar: Do you understand what we mean when we said circumstances don’t matter, only your state of being does?

I understand it.

Well, that’s all you need to do. That’s all you need to do. You cannot be responsible for him. You can only be responsible to him by being the best you you can be. Water the seed. That is what will rub off.

You sure? I don’t see it lately.

You don’t see it because you’re not doing it, because you’re not in the state of being yet.

No, I’m actually a very good role model for him, but it’s like he’s an abused child, he’s running.

Water the seed. If you want a direct answer—yes. I’m sure.

Okay. Do you have any degree of belief that he is capable of realizing on his own what’s truly important in his life?

Energetically yes.

I think—don’t say anything more than yes. Then water that seed and do not give power to the other energies that are not the energies of your preference, because only by giving them power would you be in a position to wonder what effect is that going to have, because it will have no effect if you stay in the proper state and water the seed.

Make sense?

You just said a good question. Should I stay in the state? I didn’t want to run away from a situation.

It isn’t necessarily running away if you recognize that there is another location that is actually truly more representative of your preferred vibration. As long as you know you’re not doing it to run away from something you really need to look at, then it’s quite all right to remove yourself from circumstances that are not vibrationally compatible. You just have to make sure why you’re doing it. If you are running from, that’s never a reason to do it, and there will not be a positive result. If you are moving toward, then do it.

You follow me?

I don’t run away from my problems. I walk through the storm.

Yeah, but that doesn’t mean you have to hold yourself in a circumstance or even a physical location if you recognize that another location is actually truly more harmoniously aligned with your vibratory state of preference.

Do you see a state where I belong?

You tell me. I don’t know. I don’t want to go back again.

Yes you do. Yes you do. You see what you are exhibiting right now is exactly where your son learned to not believe in himself.

But I like it here.

I know you do. But you have just said you don’t.

I don’t know if I can afford to live here anymore, but I’m gonna make millions. Girls, watch.

When we say state, it can actually be the physical location, or it can be the changing of the frequency, because when you change your frequency sufficiently, you’re not actually in the same location anyway. You’re actually in a parallel reality.

Make sense?

All right. So you decide whether it’s just the state of being or actually literally the physical state. If you find yourself passionate about being somewhere else, I would suggest you go there without any expectation for how long you should be there. Sometimes your excitement will attract you in a certain direction not because what it’s attracting you to needs to come to fruition, but only because your excitement needs to get you to move to change your state of being.

You follow me?

All right. So you decide what kind of state you actually want to create and live in.

All right. Very good. Thank you.


FINAL REMARKS

Bashar: There will be but a few moments remaining for this transmission. Is there anything else you wish to discuss in the brief time remaining?

Audience: I’d like to ask one quick question. Will I be moving again, and if so, how soon?

Bashar: Do you understand that there is no such thing as a prediction of the future? There is no such thing as a prediction of the future. Anytime someone makes a prediction, they are not predicting the future. They are sensing the energy that exists at the present, and if that energy doesn’t change, then it will come to pass. But if it does change, something else will happen, because there are an infinite number of probable futures.

And when someone asks “will I do this, will I do that,” I will always take you back to: what is your passion? Because you are the determiner of what future you will experience. When you are willing to act in the direction of your joy and passion every moment, you will know exactly where you want to be, where you want to go, what you want to do, and you won’t need to ask someone else as if it’s some sort of mysterious idea, because it isn’t. It will be clear to you when you are clear.

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