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Q&A Session 9

Questioner 9: since I was a little girl, I always wanted to be a designer. And all through my entire life, I’ve gone to design school.

Bashar: Yes. A designer of what?

Questioner 9: Clothes.

Bashar: All right. And are you doing that?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: All right. So you are living one of your dreams.

Questioner 9: Yes. Yes.

Bashar: All right. Thank you. Okay. And then, um, and I started my own business. And years ago, when I started it, it just went through the roof. I had so much business, it was scary.

Bashar: Why was it scary?

Questioner 9: Because we… we could hardly handle the amount of business that we had.

Bashar: All right. And so what did you do?

Questioner 9: Well, we tried…

Bashar: Did you scale back?

Questioner 9: No. We didn’t try to. We kept trying to grow with it.

Bashar: But now, why did you try to grow with it instead of simply growing?

Questioner 9: Well, I think we… we were… I mean, to the best of my ability that at that time… yes. At that time.

Bashar: All right. And now?

Questioner 9: And now it’s like I try and I try… stop.

Bashar: Trying. Nothing is ever accomplished by trying. It is only accomplished by doing. Something by being a particular frequency, by living a particular way. Right? Do you have a picture in your head of your ideal scenario with you in it?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: How different is it from your scenario now?

Questioner 9: Pretty different.

Bashar: All right. Imagine for a moment—whether your eyes are open or closed is up to you—imagine for a moment that scenario where you see yourself in that scenario. Do you see it? Mhm. All right. Now pay attention to that version of you closely. Do you see her doing things?

Questioner 9: Well, it’s just a moment, but yes. Just a moment.

Bashar: Yes. All right. Well, stretch it out. See her going about her day in this ideal scenario. Okay. Whether it be actually at work, or at play, or at home. See her the way she would be behaving in that reality. Do you see her?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: Is she behaving differently than you behave on a day-to-day basis?

Questioner 9: Yes. But the situations are different. Like in my vision…

Bashar: Don’t get ahead of the game. Okay. Do you see her behaving differently?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: Regardless of the circumstances, you need to behave as she does in all ways she would behave in any circumstance that occurred. You’re not being her. Her. She would behave as she chooses to behave regardless of how things look around her. Because what does she know that you don’t?

She knows that circumstances don’t matter. Only state of being does. Why? Because circumstances are an illusion. They’re neutral. They’re props. They don’t mean anything. They’re empty. Devoid of meaning. So no matter what happens to her, she’s still going to behave like the she she wants to be. She’s not going to take her behavioral cue from the circumstances around her. She’s going to allow the circumstances around her to take their cue from her. You follow along here? Uhhuh. Uh-huh.

So the reason you have the ability to visualize the ideal situation is so that you can use it like a mirror. So that you can mimic it. So that you can behave like her in all situations, regardless of what the circumstances are that surround you. When you start doing that, you will be the vibration of that being. And when you’re the vibration of that being, you will then be capable of seeing opportunities you can’t see because you’re not the vibration of those opportunities like she is. Anytime you are not the vibration of something, it’s invisible to you. So you will not see the doorways and the opportunities you could walk through or you could attract to yourself if you are not the vibration that she is being. Because she can see them, but you can’t, because you’re not being her. Make sense? Mhm. Do you think you can do that?

Questioner 9: I’m afraid that when I walk away, you know, just… I’m just afraid that like when I get home and I try to do it, I’m going to have… it’s like I hear all this stuff and I know it, but you don’t believe it.

Questioner 9: No, I do believe it. But it’s like I can’t… it’s like I can’t change into… I don’t know.

Bashar: Yes, you do. You said it yourself. You’re afraid. What are you afraid of?

Questioner 9: I don’t know.

Bashar: Yes, you do. What are you afraid of? Let’s paint the scenario. Imagine it didn’t… you hear us before say, if you have a fear, let’s magnify it, let’s amplify it. What’s the worst thing that might happen if you, as you say, try—which I’m not recommending—but if you attempt to be like her, what’s the worst thing you fear might happen? Come. Come. Come.

Questioner 9: I don’t… I don’t know. I… yes, you do. Well, the only thing I can think of is what happened the first time that I got so busy that I couldn’t handle it, and it scared me. Maybe. But I don’t know if that’s the answer. I don’t know if that’s right.

Bashar: All right. Let’s, for the moment, assume that it is. So let’s say you started to get busy again. Yes. Yes. All right. Let’s say so busy that you needed assistance. Yes. Yes. Yes. Is there some reason you couldn’t attract assistance?

Questioner 9: No. I… no. I had them then.

Bashar: Why were you scared?

Questioner 9: Well, no, I wasn’t. But um, like, okay. So when did you get scared? Obviously, at some point in this entire scenario, you became scared. Yeah. When was that?

Questioner 9: Well, I um… don’t tell me you don’t know. No, I mean, I remember moments when we were so busy and I wouldn’t sleep through the night because I didn’t think we were going to ship product, and people were going to cancel these huge orders. And if they canceled… some of them were so big, if they canceled one order, it’d put me out of business.

Bashar: And you were afraid of that? Yeah. I believe you need to know and learn the sacred mantra. You want it?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: Yes. It’s two words. Are you ready?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: Repeat after me. Are you ready?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: Repeat after me: So what?

Questioner 9: So what? Big deal. So I lose a deal. Big deal. I’ll get another. I’ll learn from it and rearrange things and attract what I need and get another. It’s not permanent. All right. I made a little mistake, but I learned. Isn’t that the point of mistakes? To go down roads to discover what doesn’t work so that you can discover what does.

The difficulty that you’ve created for yourself is in your negative reaction to certain scenarios. Right? Well, you have to not react negatively to those scenarios to get them to work for you. Because if you don’t put a positive meaning into even that kind of circumstance, you’re never going to get the positive effect from that circumstance. You’re only going to get the negative one based on the negative meaning you put into that thing happening. Make sense? Mhm.

So what you are now going to be practicing, I assume… tell me please… is the idea that no matter what happens, as you build your business, as you follow your excitement, no matter what happens, you are going to know—not guess, not wonder, not even believe—you’re going to know that what just happened, whatever it is, is going to serve you like never before. Okay. You have to know that. And thus, when you know that, you will behave like you know it. Okay. It won’t be, “Ooh, that happened. Ooh.” Look at the body language. “Oh no. Oh no.” Okay. You think this is the right vibration to find a solution? No. Do you understand? Yes. You need to be her. Okay. In all circumstances. No matter what.

Questioner 9: Are you her? Is that who you prefer to be?

Questioner 9: Yes.

Bashar: Then that’s who you must behave like. No matter what. Because that’s what she would do. You understand? That’s what she would do. No matter what. Because that’s the kind of life she lives. Because that’s the kind of life she prefers to live. No matter what. And she knows the sacred mantra: “So what?” This happened. So what. All right. I’ve learned something. Let’s pick ourselves up and move forward. Okay. That’s the behavior. That’s the stance. That’s the body language. That’s the energy. Make sense? Mhm. Are you sure?

Questioner 9: Yeah. All right. Okay. And I have another question. Yes. The glyphs. Those… the sacred circuits. Yeah. Yes. Okay. I’ve been staring at him, and it’s like, because I maybe because I’ve been so negative, I’m trying to get something to work. Is there… you sure? Try a lot. I know I do. I know I do.

Bashar: Do you not see how the very definition of what you’re saying includes the formula for defeat? No. Yes. I try. Which means you don’t really believe it’s going to work. You’re just trying it. Okay. You’re not gravitating to it. You’re not attracting yourself to it, knowing that it’s just a reflection. You’re trying to get that to work. It’s just a permission slip. All tools are permission slips. The tool only triggers the ability for you to give yourself permission to be who you are. The tool doesn’t do it for you. You have to attract yourself to whatever tool—if you need a tool at all—that is simply aligned with your belief system so that the tool will trigger you to allow yourself to give yourself permission to let it be. All right. To be who you know you would prefer to be. Okay. You can’t try to get the circuit to work for you. You just have to find that you work for it. You gravitate. It’s a relationship. You work together. You work with it. You understand? Mhm. But if you don’t find that, in that sense, you are attracted to it, then attract what does reflect permission to you. You have to use your imagination and open up to the possibility that something else may work for you. But the bottom line is, you’re the one who’s changing. You’re the one who’s working. These are just reflections. They’re just reflections. Do you understand this? You’re trying too hard. You need to relax. Relax. What’s your rush? You’re an eternal infinite being. What’s your hurry? Where are you going? The only place you’re ever going to wind up is right here and right now. Anytime you look around, what time is it?

Questioner 9: Now.

Bashar: What’s your hurry? Where have you got to go in such a rush? Rush? Well, slow down. Enjoy. Be here. Enjoy whatever you’re doing.

Q&A Session 10

Questioner 10: Hello Bashar. Any of you? Good day. How are you?

Bashar: Perfect. And you? Doing pretty well. Now, one moment. When I say perfect, I mean that at this moment, I am the perfect version of whatever I am at this moment. I will change. You will change. But whatever you are any given moment, whatever that definition is, is a perfect representation of that definition. It doesn’t mean you won’t grow. It doesn’t mean you won’t change. Perfect does not mean an end.

Questioner 10: I see. I want to thank you for, first of all, for um, especially for the people of Essassani. All right. For being participants and co-creators during this time. And it is our pleasure. And having your ships placed so strategically, I appreciate that. All right. Um, it seems to be quite an effort.

Bashar: So an effort? No effort at all. Remember, we don’t do anything that doesn’t excite us.

Questioner 10: I see. Do you? I’m seeing. Thank you. Um, so the thing that’s most on my mind is the idea of being torn between two possibilities, two possible paths. Sounds painful. Yeah. Being torn. Yes. A little bit. Why are you torn? Um, are they both equally exciting?

Questioner 10: They seem to be.

Bashar: Do you have the same degree of ability to take action on both of them?

Questioner 10: Yes.

Bashar: Then it doesn’t matter which way you go. Because if one, in that sense, needs to end or divert, you then it will automatically contain the synchronicity that will turn you toward the other one when it needs to.

Questioner 10: I’ve been looking for all the hints, all the clues of synchronicity, and I’m getting signals in both directions.

Bashar: Yeah. And I have… there you are. Making two definitions where only one needs to exist. Remember that sometimes what appear to be two different things that excite you are just two different expressions of the same overall umbrella excitement.

Questioner 10: Oh, I see. So maybe this is all just drama that’s exciting to me.

Bashar: Maybe. You don’t have to make it seem like it’s a tug of war and you’re torn. It could just be that both things are representative of your excitement as expressions of your excitement. And therefore, it doesn’t really much matter which one you do at any given moment, since all excitement is connected to all other excitement.

Questioner 10: Yes. Um, so does this help you, or is this only causing more tears?

Questioner 10: No, it’s… it’s definitely going in the right direction. Right. Whichever one that is.

Bashar: All right. Um, can you, in your imagination, come up with an overall umbrella excitement that these two things you talking about could be expressions of?

Questioner 10: I’m still working on it.

Bashar: All right. Well, why don’t you define what appears to you to be two different exciting things? What are they?

Questioner 10: One would be to move to a different location, such as Japan.

Bashar: All right.

Questioner 10: And the second would be to stay here.

Bashar: Yes. And stay. And you can’t go back and forth?

Questioner 10: Well, it involves a relationship as well.

Bashar: Oh, all right. And you can’t go back and forth because your so-called explanation that it involves a relationship doesn’t mean anything to me in terms of your ability to go back and forth.

Questioner 10: Yes. Okay. So it would involve living in a different location than my partner wants to live in. So my girlfriend wants to be here forever and never move and never go anywhere.

Bashar: No, not forever. All right. Is she willing to go back and forth?

Questioner 10: Uh, no. I don’t think so.

Bashar: Oh, all right. Are your differences compatible? Because that’s the secret to a working relationship. The similarities take care of themselves. The issue is: are your differences compatible?

Questioner 10: Um, for the time being.

Bashar: Compatible. Um, for the time being. All right. But if they become non-compatible, then things change. Yeah. There you go. Does that provide a solution for you, or does that cause more tearing?

Questioner 10: It raises the question for me: in which direction do they change?

Bashar: In which direction? Always the direction of your preference. Exactly.

Questioner 10: So I have to decide my preference.

Bashar: Exactly. So once you decide your preference, then you will know what to do. And the idea may be that you need a bigger definition to include something larger. I see. Because maybe your definition of a relationship is limited in such a manner as to make this seem like a problem when it may not actually be. Okay.

Um, with regard to the chakra centers of the earth, did that help you?

Questioner 10: It did. This is on the same… I’m not getting derailed. I’m going to bring it back together. Um, the experience will be different depending on what region you’re in. Surely. Yes. If you make a difference of it. Yes. Um, I mean, thematically, with regard to the chakra centers. Yes. So, um, what are… what could I expect? Nothing. In okay. If I want to align myself with the one that’s closest to my vibration, yes. Which should I choose? How? What signs do I look for? How do I intrinsically know?

Bashar: Um, which direction are you taking action every moment that you can, to the best of your ability, on whatever does excite you, taking it as far as you can?

Questioner 10: That means no. I’d take it pretty far. Pretty far. I don’t… I haven’t thought of that. Maybe I’m not… maybe I’m like 99%.

Bashar: Let me ask you another question. What do you get out of this tug of war?

Questioner 10: Oh, yes. I get the comfort of knowing that I made the correct decision so I don’t have to go and backtrack and think about…

Bashar: No, no, no. That’s not what I’m asking you. In the situation in which you perceive yourself to be torn in two directions, what are you getting out of creating that scenario for yourself?

Questioner 10: I’m not certain yet.

Bashar: All right. Is there anything in this situation you’re using as a lever or a permission slip of some kind? What we are simply suggesting is: are you using one to leverage the other?

Questioner 10: I’ve considered that. Yes. All right. And are you doing that?

Questioner 10: I haven’t decided to do that yet. I think I’m going to do that. But it’s… they definitely are related to one another.

Bashar: Yes. But we’re also talking about the idea whether you do that in a positive or a negative way. Sure.

Questioner 10: So I want to make it the best for others who are involved as well. Obviously respecting… you just found the secret. Did you hear it?

Bashar: I can you give me a hint here?

Bashar: There is a balancing act here. Yes. The primary thing is to act on your highest joy, to be true to yourself. Yes. Your conundrum is: what is yourself? The idea also, then, to answer that question, is: in being true to yourself, are you also being of service to others? Right?

Questioner 10: That’s what I want to maintain. That’s what I want to do. That’s my goal.

Bashar: So the idea, thus then, of the relationship is: having this relationship in this form representative of A) being true to yourself and her being true to herself, and B) if you decide on whatever you decide, is that decision also based on not only being true to yourself but being of service to her? I see.

Questioner 10: So if I’m not being honest with myself 100%, then it’s not being of service to her anyway. So I have to consider… yes.

Bashar: And therefore, what you are dealing with here is an issue of clarity and being honest with yourself about what is really most important to you, vibrationally speaking, that represents your highest joy. And knowing that you can contain many things within that, but you may be setting up a contradiction for yourself to give yourself the opportunity to really decide what you actually truly desire.

Questioner 10: Yeah. I want to be a responsible decision and not just an impulse.

Bashar: So all right. Now, do you meditate?

Questioner 10: Not currently. Well, not… that’s not entirely true. Um, very little. Very little currently.

Bashar: All right. Over the next three nights, we would suggest that you simply get into a relaxed posture, a state of repose, of meditation if you wish. And over the next three nights, ask for assistance for clarification of who you truly are, vibrationally. And over the next three nights, you can receive assistance to help clarify the situation for you. Do not be afraid of what you see. Okay. All right. Thank you very much. Just go with it. Let it sink in. Don’t have to make a hasty decision. Just allow it to sink in in a manner until you are certain you have absolute clarity about your relationship to the circumstance and everyone in it. Clarity about your relationship to everyone in the situation and the situation itself as to why you believe you find it exciting. Because sometimes clarity can show you that something you may actually be labeling as excitement may not be, and something you’re not labeling as excitement might be. You need absolute precise clarity as to what is truly exciting and what may simply be being disguised as excitement because it’s something you may wish to avoid.