Part 3 of Past and Future History

How To Know To Help People or Not

Bashar Bashar
581 min read

Helping People

Lisan
I’m from the Netherlands. How do I know when to help people and when not to. And this refers to you talked a lot about compassion
Lisan
Bashar
Bashar

Well, it’s very simple. You go up to a person and say, “May I help you?” If they say yes, help them. If they say no, go away.

You help people by simply being an example. It’s not about them needing to change. It’s not about you needing to help them. It’s about being willing to. And if they open up an opportunity acting on it, but when they say that’s enough, no more or no thank you. Being all right with the fact that they are free to make a choice that may be different than yours is actually how you help them best. Because if you don’t allow them the unconditional opportunity to choose a vibration that they want to choose, no matter what it is, then you are not being unconditional in vibration. And if you are not being unconditional in vibration, then an unconditional vibration is not available to you either. Mhm. So you can’t then choose what you prefer.

Compassion

Lisan

Oh, that’s what the confusion is all about.

So, and the other thing was um you talked about compassion. Yes. Uh is there a difference between what we call compassion? Sorry if my English is not the way uh everybody else is.

Lisan
Bashar
Bashar
Well, that’s all right. We’re not speaking English either.
Lisan
Yeah. what the rest of the room seems to be. Um, what I meant to say was
Lisan
Bashar
Bashar

Compassion is unconditional allowance. It is the recognition, from a state—if you wish—of attached detachment, that everyone is free to make their choices, and you support them wholly in the doing of that thing.

Because only by supporting their ability to make whatever choices they want unconditionally do you actually give them the best ability to choose something that might actually be to their benefit. That’s compassion.

Also, when it means that you need to say—I feel sometimes the need to say to people that they should do something else, and not “should”—good. You can always offer an alternative without any need they must listen. That’s compassion. Yes, that’s helping. That’s helping.

Be there by example, as we said. They can see in you that there might be another way. You can talk to them about the possibility that there might be another way.

In much the same way we are talking to all of you, telling you that there are other ways in which you could be doing things, we have absolutely no need whatsoever that any of you should ever pay attention to us.

If you wish to choose something other than what we’re telling you, go right ahead.

We love you unconditionally enough to let you do that. Otherwise, if we don’t let you do what you choose, we’re not unconditionally loving, because we’re not loving you. You see? I see.

We love you as you are. We love you based on the choices you decide are important for you to make.

We are happy to help in sharing other ways of looking at things that give us joy, that we know could give you joy. But if you do not want to do that, we still love you.

Because we know—we know from our perspective that ultimately in that sense it doesn’t really matter that much, because nothing is going to change the fact that you are an eternal spirit, indestructible eternal spirit. Eternal spirit.

One way or another, you’ll explore just about everything. So, we’re in no rush. We know that you will discover different things at different times.

However, we also recognize that if there is a conversation going on between us, there’s probably a reason why there’s a conversation going on between us right now.

And usually—not always, but usually—the reason the conversation between us goes on is because you’re probably ready to hear some new ideas and incorporate them. And most of you do, or at least you wish to.

So the idea is that we recognize that we are being of help in perfect timing to what most of you wish to know or hear.

But at no time are you expected to incorporate that information within you if you don’t prefer to.

Leonard
Will I get my house in order? When?
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
How about now? How about now? I know. No time like the president. In fact, literally there is no time.
Leonard
Okay. But what I meant by house is not just the house I live in.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
I understood that.
Leonard
But the house of
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
We knew how to translate the term
Leonard
and the house that I work in which is
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Yes, we knew how to translate the term. Mhm. We understood what you meant by house in the broadest sense.
Leonard
Okay. So, I’m still wondering.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
So, how about now?
Leonard
Yes. I I know it’s now, but
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Well, but but but but what? Why not now? What prevents it from being now?
Leonard
Um, communication.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Communication. The lack of it.
Leonard
Lack of it. All right. Um,
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
and why is there a lack of communication?
Leonard
I wish I knew. I wish I knew.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, you do. I know you do. What is it you’re afraid to look at within your house? What room won’t you go into? What door remains locked in your house?
Leonard
Okay, so it’s coming back to fear.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. Fear of what? Fear in the attic. What’s in the attic? Or is it the basement?
Leonard
I don’t know.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Well, which do you feel? Imagine yourself going up to the attic and opening and unlocking the door. Is the fear greater there, or is the fear greater if you imagine yourself going down to the basement and unlocking that door?
Leonard
Well, right now I’m not feeling any fear with either of those choices.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Would you like us to pull our energy back so you can feel your fear?
Leonard
If it’s helpful.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Think back to a time when you did feel the fear. Do you remember?
Leonard
Yes. But that had to do with my own phobia that I have since felt in
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Doesn’t matter. We’re simply getting you to tap into the vibrational feeling. So you remember what that felt like?
Leonard
I definitely remember. Yes.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Then hold on to that vibration and there you are. You’re in fear. Now, from that vibration, does the fear amplify when you go up to the attic or down to the basement?
Leonard
It amplifies in the attic.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
All right. What’s in the attic that you’re so afraid of?
Leonard
Well, in actuality, it was a bird.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
A bird? What kind of a bird?
Leonard
A pigeon?
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
A pigeon? Are you afraid that you’re everybody’s pigeon?
Leonard
I don’t think so.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, all right then. What are you afraid of? What does the bird symbolize to you?
Leonard
Someone that ate me in a previous life.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
There is no previous a former incarnation. There is no former. Then then part of the now. Why would you choose to crossconnect to a life that allows you to experience that limitation? What do you get out of doing that?
Leonard
Well, it it alleviated my phobia.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
So, to a degree. All right. Well, can you cross connect to something else to alleviate the idea of anything that’s holding you back from getting your house in order?
Leonard
I guess that’s what I need to do then.
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
Well, you did it once. It’s still in your imagination. You know how to do it. Why not do it again? You trusted it it worked. Yes. Yes. Then why won’t it work now?
Leonard
Okay. Does that make sense?
Leonard
Bashar
Bashar
It makes sense. It’s telling me I can do it. Well, of course you can. Well, of course you can. So, I think you just need to stop overthinking it. Correct. Thank you. Thank you. Fly away now.
Lily
Uh, hi.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, hi.
Lily
I’m Lily. Thank you so much for being here and sharing. We thank you for your co-creation.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Um, well, yes, I’m well.
Lily
I probably know. Okay, so that’s what this is about. I I probably know all the answers. You’ve already given them, but I need some help here with
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, all right. Help with what?
Lily
Uh, food cravings for all the in quotes wrong foods since I have a serious health challenge.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. Yes. Yes.
Lily
And
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
stop right there for a moment, please. Yeah. More often than not, individuals on your planet will do that to fill a hole that is not being filled by something else they would rather be doing. What are you not doing that creates the hole you need to fill in other ways?
Lily
Almost everything.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Thank you. What are you waiting to do?
Lily
Well, I’ve jumped into my healing work. I’m starting to do mediumship groups, which is part of my passion. But the fear of as I sit there and are not getting a 1 plus 1 equals 2 answer feels like
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
congratulations.
Lily
Yeah,
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
you’re going in a new direction then.
Lily
Feels like a comedian, you know.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Drop your expectations.
Lily
Jokes are fun.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Drop drop drop drop your expectations. You are entering the realm of the trickster and you need to know how to navigate in a realm of uncertainty. You need to make a friend of the unknown. You let it to be all right. You need to let it be all right that you don’t know how it’s going to go. You’re holding on too rigidly to something that is free flowing. You understand?
Lily
Yes. Cuz the shame that comes up of getting it wrong is almost
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, the shame of getting it wrong. Well, oh, watch this. 3 + 3 is 29. Oh, I’m so ashamed. I have a special permission slip mantra for you. Would you like to know it?
Lily
Yes, please.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Are you willing to use it?
Lily
Absolutely.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Do you promise?
Lily
Yes.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Why would you promise that? You don’t even know what it is.
Lily
Because you said you said be okay with the unknown.
Lily

No. I see. Fear of the unknown

Bashar
Bashar
So now you’re jumping into the unknown. Oh, good girl. You want the mantra?
Lily
Yes.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Are you ready to repeat it after me?
Lily
Yes.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Here we go. You ready?
Lily
Yes. Sure. Yes.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
All right.
Lily
I might get something wrong.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
I might get something wrong.
Lily
So what?
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
So what? Now, I know that different humans have a preference for different kinds of expressions. So, if you wish to substitute so what for big deal, that’s all right. But the point is so what? Have you ever taken a musical instrument?
Lily
I tried.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
I tried and you were afraid to get that wrong, too.
Lily
Yeah. I I didn’t have the patience to prove
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
patience. Why do you need patience? You don’t need patience. None of you need patience. Why do you think humans think they need patience? I’ll tell you why. The only reason humans become impatient is because they think they need to be patient. You don’t need to be patient. Let me ask you a question. May I? Thank you. I will. If you’re doing something you absolutely love to do all the time, what do you need patience for? You don’t need patience if you’re not waiting to do something you love to do. The only reason you are impatient is because you’re not doing what you love to do. And so you are patiently waiting to do it. And the patience wears thin. So if you stop waiting to do it and you simply do it, you won’t need patience. You’ll be so busy having fun, you won’t need patience. And you’ll be so busy not caring exactly how it comes out, in what form, right or wrong, accurate or not accurate at first, that you will simply keep doing it. And as you keep doing it, you’ll get more practice and you’ll get better and you’ll fine-tune it and you’ll have better discernment. And it just comes with the territory. Like that. Thank you for your synchronicity. Thank you. Is this making sense to you?
Lily
It is. And so and and I realize that this health challenge which part of me, you know, I’ve got I’m afraid to say anything. The gap that is between the knowing of what the truth is like you speak and live and the the doubt that or the way that I live it, it’s it’s big. So the bottom line is I want freedom from the rules the rules that I’ve
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
have imposed on yourself
Lily
exactly of what the correct food
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
well if you have imposed them on yourself why don’t you let them go
Lily
because well so the food cravings are
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
perhaps you didn’t hear me
Lily
no I did
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
if you have imposed them on yourself why don’t you let them go the answer is
Lily
because I don’t believe I impose them on myself I believe they’re coming from somewhere else. That’s right. I’m believing there’s an authority out there that knows that what’s going on in my body cannot be fixed unless I eat a certain way.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
May I tell you a secret, please? We’ve been exploring the universe for quite some time now. We have found no such authority.
Lily
But as long as I believe that there’s
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
As long as you believe there is. But since you’re imposing that belief on yourself and you don’t enjoy it, why would you continue to buy into it?
Lily
I don’t know. That’s the
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
I do know.
Lily
It’s because you’re getting something out of it.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Well, yeah. What? You tell me.
Lily
Well, that
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
What are you getting out of it? Remember what we said about motivation?
Lily
Well, that I can’t be right. That it’s not okay for my life to work and that I’m, you know, if if everything’s going well physically. So, I have no excuses tonight. Jump in.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
No excuses.
Lily
Then I’m going to I don’t then I won’t have discernment balance. I’m going to knock people over. I’m going to be too powerful.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Why? Why? Why would you have a definition of your excitement? That would be such an outofbalance definition. How can an outofbalance definition be a definition of your joy?
Lily
Well, because
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
does that not seem contradictory?
Lily
It does. Well, then why not invent a definition of your joy that seems more in keeping with the idea that you prefer cuz you don’t believe that that can be true. Well, I think I Yeah, I think I have a belief that my joy will cause somebody else’s harm.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
I see.
Lily
I think but who cares? I mean, that’s way years ago.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, that’s another good two words. Who cares? Well, I do care, but it it’s like, but now you see you’re getting into semantic territory because when we talk about the idea of who cares and so what, we don’t mean that you become a non-caring person, right? We understand that sometimes the translations of the words in your language that frame these concepts can be a little confusing because you have words that may mean many different things. So when we talk about the idea of who cares, we don’t mean you become an uncaring, unfeilling, get out of my way. I don’t care if I harm you person. We mean who cares in the sense of it’s nobody’s business what your belief system for yourself and your passion for yourself is.
Lily
I guess I mean who cares about the history and who to blame for what I set up. It’s just
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
But why play that game if you don’t enjoy it?
Lily
Unless you’re getting something out of it. I don’t. It just feels like I’m stuck and it’s
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Well, you’re not.
Lily
I’m not.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
You’re not. You’re not stuck at all. You got up and spoke with us. Yes. Yes. That proved you’re not stuck, right? So, why don’t you just apply that to the rest of your life? Why don’t you just pretend in every situation where you feel stuck that you’re getting up and speaking with us?
Lily
Oh, good.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
And see if that inner dialogue that you have unsticks you.
Lily
That’s very good.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Does that help you? Yes. Yes. Guess who you’ll be talking to.
Lily
I my higher.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. But you can pretend you’re talking to us. We’ll play along.
Lily
But I like your shirt better than mine. So that would be good.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
But the point is is that when you finally get used to the idea of our shirt, as you say, you will suddenly realize it’s your shirt, too. Right. Aha. Okay. Okay. So, just to be very specific when Oh. All right. When a piece of food is facing me that I would love to eat. Yes. And the the marquee says when a piece of food is facing you that you feel anxiety about. Thank you. Yes. You see, here’s where you really need to be discerning about what you’re actually saying about that. Because you can gloss it over by saying, “Oh, yes. I would love to eat it.” And make it sound like it’s part of your excitement. when in fact what you’re actually saying is I feel so anxious and so empty I have to put this in my body in order to feel better temporarily. You need more honesty and discernment about what you’re actually saying in those circumstances. Now yes we understand that sometimes in your society there may be things that people label as good and bad and for some people they may not necessarily be bad. We understand that there can be differences of opinion on this and differences of effect in people’s lives. Whereas some people can do certain things and they seem to be fine and other people can do the littlest thing and fall to pieces. So you have to have the discernment about what really works for you. But the point is is you also have to have the discernment about what you’re actually saying in relationship to that food. And is it really I would love to put it in my body or is it I’m just so anxious and so empty I can’t think of anything else to do but plug the hole with this piece of food. You have to be able to tell the difference before you can really start understanding why you’re doing what you’re doing. You have to hear yourself deeply hear why you are saying what you’re saying. Does that help?
Lily
Yes. So, I’m going to assume that I will be able to hear
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
well the difference.
Lily
You can. It’s not that difficult. You know, it really isn’t. All you have to have is a willingness to want to hear it and not be afraid to hear it.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Now, if you’re afraid to hear it, then deal with the fact that you’re afraid to hear it and find out what that belief is. Really, from our perspective, most of you, we understand why you chose to explore the themes that you’ve chosen. And that’s all well and good and we would never take them away from you and we would never remove your processes from you. At the same time, these conversations, the reason that you are actually attracted to coming and having these dialogues with us is that you know you know that you are all this close to really just getting it and letting it all go. when it doesn’t serve you. So, we are happy to punt you over the edge. All right. Thank you. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You’re not as far away as you think. It’s just that the belief system you have makes it seem as if you are farther away from that than you think. But you’re not. You’re not. You’re not.
Lily
And when I use the physical as an indication, which of course you say the physical is just a circumstance based on a belief. Yes. So when the physical distracts me, Yes. I find it more challenging to remember.
Lily
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. But the physical doesn’t distract you. You distract yourself by focusing on the physical. So any fast tool to get me to turn my attention in that moment, there’s the paradox because the more you are willing to actually dive full full force, full speed ahead into the thing you really love to do, believe me, food will be one of the last things you will think about. And the physical things in my body will also physical things will bring themselves back into balance. Because when pay attention, pay attention, pay attention. When you are doing what you love to do, when you are living your passion, you are on a frequency level that makes it possible for you to know what really needs to be done to sustain you and what does not. The only reason you’re confused about what really needs to be done is because you’re not actually on the level where you can perceive the information about what you actually need and don’t need. Wow. So when you are in your highest vibrational excitement, the highest vibrational excitement is always a complete kit. It’s the organizing principle. It’s the driving engine of your life. It will give you the ability to perceive exactly what is needed and what is not part of your frequency. But you will not know that until you’re actually in that frequency. So in that place, yes, that’s when the synchronicities happen. That synchronicities happen all the time. synchronicities happen all the time. Remember, there are negative and positive synchronicities. But I’m saying more the the the ones that are more in the flow of that higher vibration can come in the door. It cannot happen in a lower vibration. But what does happen in the lower vibration are synchronicities that are indicative of that vibration. Right? So if you are having this as you say struggle with the idea of whether or not to put food in your mouth, the synchronicities you are creating is a constant barrage of food you have to decide whether or not to put in your mouth. Yes, that’s correct. You will always find yourself in front of that situation because that’s the synchronicity you’re creating with your particular frequency. Now, if you wish to create another one, the universe will not contradict you. It will support you in the creation of any frequency synchronicity just as it obviously has supported you in the creation of the synchronicity frequency level you’re already on. Yes. Remember, the universe supports you no matter what. Right? It’s unconditionally supportive. So, if it supports you on the negative side, what reason would there be for it not to support you on the positive side? Oh, oh, oh. You don’t deserve it. You’re not worth it. I guarantee you, if you weren’t worth it, you wouldn’t exist. Good. Because creation doesn’t make mistakes. Very good. So, if you exist, you belong and you deserve whatever it is you imagine that you deserve. Otherwise, you wouldn’t exist. Okay. All right. Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you.
Asker
Hello Bashar.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
How are you? Good day.
Asker
Uh thanks to the synchronicity that I had in the last question, I didn’t know what I was going to ask, but then uh what popped into my mind was the one thing that I never wanted to ask.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. You want to ask it now?
Asker
Yes. I’m I’m feeling uh a lot of a lot of fear.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
A lot of fear. All right. Go ahead. Ask your question.
Asker
Um All right. I’m just going to go straight out with it.
Asker
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Bashar
Oh, please.
Asker
I um have a lot of shame regarding sexuality.
Asker
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Bashar
Yes. Yes. And um Where did you learn that?
Asker
There are a lot of things that I’m afraid of in life.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Where did you learn that?
Asker
This one I don’t know I it just seems so so deep like so core that
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
were there any examples given to you by your parents that it’s shameful?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
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Bashar
And do not recall
Asker
it it doesn’t seem uh my my parents were really great. They didn’t uh instill uh any real uh shame any really deep shame.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Then why do you feel the need to exhibit it? What are you ashamed about? And thank you for being so bold as to share. What are you ashamed about?
Asker
I don’t know. I feel kind of blocked. I was wondering if you could help me discover uh why I why why there’s so much shame regarded to sexuality throughout the centuries. Why? Why?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, not in every culture.
Asker
That’s true.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, thank you. Are you aware of some cultures that do not experience the idea of shame regarding sex?
Asker
I’ I’ve seen. Yeah, I’ I can imagine that.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right, here’s a suggestion. Go and explore that culture and find out why they have no shame surrounding that and see if that serves you. Become part of that culture and explore and compare the culture that you have come from with the culture you’re going into that does not exhibit the same shame. See what that does for you. Are you willing?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Will that be interesting?
Asker
That would be pretty cool. Yeah.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. It can be whatever temperature you want, but that would be the strongest suggestion for you right now from us is actually take the time to go and explore a culture that does not have that expression of shame regarding sexuality or whatever else you decide to attach the concept of shame to. And you may find that when you do this, you will suddenly become aware of why you may have chosen to explore this theme in this life. And it may actually lead to a very strong position of teaching for you. And I don’t just mean something you will learn, something that you can actually teach others. Mhm. All right.
Asker
I um also have
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. All right. Are you willing?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Now, you don’t have to, but are you willing?
Asker
You know, it’s very important for me.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Thank you.
Asker
May I ask another question other than that question I just asked?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes.
Asker
All right. Um I’m uh noticing I guess we’re all noticing a sort of breakdown of uh our financial system the way that that it was doing based on uh yes um dishonesty and non integrity.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, as we have said, the idea is you are at the end of the cycle of limitation and so all the things that are built upon those limitations will begin to crumble and fall apart around you. So the idea is not to change those systems. The idea is to invent new systems to replace them when they crumble, right?
Asker
And um it seems that the more that they try to put it off with each uh
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
they who is they? I guess I’m referring to the administration.
Asker
You are your governments. You decide who is and is not in those leadership roles. You cannot distance yourself from them. You must all take responsibility if you wish to exhibit the ideas that you say you prefer. Do not call them they because they are you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
However, if you do not prefer what has been done, then by all means create the new systems. Show others what can be done so that there will be something to replace the old systems when they do crumble and they will crumble. Does that make sense? Does that help you?
Asker
Definitely.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Bomb voyage. I have uh one last question. Where is it?
Asker
I’ll uh show you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Thank you.
Asker
All right. Um I have a a young son. He uh doesn’t live with me. Yes. And I uh really do want the best for him. Yes. And um I’m uh really happy of the mother that he has. I stop.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Do this for the moment. When you go to sleep tonight, open up to your guides. Ask them for guidance and assistance on this issue. do this for the next three nights. They will help you. All right. All right. Pleasant dreams.
Asker
You too. Thank you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Always. I’m having one right now. Thank you, Bishar. Thank you. Hi, Bashar. And to you. Good day. Uh I have four questions uh each somewhat related. Um how well we’ll see ask the first one. We’ll see how far we get.
Asker
How close is your planet from the planet Earth?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
It is in a different dimension. But if we were to overlap our parallel reality with yours, our world of Ethani would be 500 lighty years approximately in the direction of the Orion constellation.
Asker
Okay. And what is the closest life forms to the planet the Earth?
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Bashar
Bashar
They are in what you call the Sirius star system.
Asker
Okay. And um how fast does your spaceship travel
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Bashar
Bashar
instantaneously? We do not have the concept of travel as you understand it. We simply use the idea of relocational vibration. We understand that an object does not exist in a location. From our perspective, the concept of location is one of the variables of an object. And if we change that variable, then the object must by definition simply cease to exist in the first location and take up residence in the location that we have imposed upon it in frequency. So we instantaneously go from one spot to another.
Asker
Okay. Now then does do wormholes exist?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes, wormholes do exist, but we don’t use them in the classic sense that your science fiction writers use them.
Asker
Okay. And um
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, that’s four.
Asker
Oh, that’s right. Can I get one more?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, all right.
Asker
Have you received any of our uh television or radio signals?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, yes. We look at them from time to time. Remember that my ship is actually over your planet.
Asker
Okay. But I mean, your planet itself, has it have they they traveled that far?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
No, because understand first of all, you haven’t been sending signals that long, but we would have to also be in your dimensional reality in a sense to have received them. We are not in your dimensional reality. We are in a parallel reality. So even if they had reached our planet in terms of distance, they would not have reached our planet in terms of vibratory frequency. Okay. Make sense?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Thank you.
Asker
Okay. Thank you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Uh good day.
Asker
Uh this is kind of an odd experience.
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Bashar
Bashar
Oh, for us too. But we like odd experiences and sometimes we like even ones.
Asker
All right. I uh Yeah, I I I uh found your content recently and uh the night after had a dream that I was asking you a question and a few weeks later here I am.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Thank you for your synchronous creation.
Asker
Odd. But um I guess uh what I was interested is in in the first half you were um sharing about a 13th step to a 12 12step program.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. The 13th step. Yes.
Asker
Uh I would uh as being a member of a of a 12step program uh I was wondering if you could actually u elaborate a little more into that. I thought it was pretty interesting.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well again the idea is first and foremost to understand fully understand not half a concept but really understand that every change is a total change not a partial change a total change. We use the following example to illustrate the point. Imagine right now in your mind’s eye a blue cube. Have you got it?
Asker
Yeah.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
It has six blue sides. Yes. Yes. All right. Now, in your imagination, change one side to red. Just one. Have you got it?
Asker
Yeah.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Now you have a cube with one red side and five blue ones. Yes. Mhm. Here’s the question. Is it the same cube?
Asker
No.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
No. The idea is to fully understand that there are two ways to look at this. You can say, as most humans in history have done, that it’s the same cube with one small change. Or you can also choose to understand that a sixsided blue cube is not literally not at all the same cube, the same cube as a cube with five blue sides and one red one. And if you fully understand that it’s totally different, a totally different cube, you can apply this concept to the idea that every single thought you have, every single nanocond you exist, you are never ever ever actually the same person literally from one moment to the next. Understand that any experience, any sensation of continuity is a complete and utterly self-created illusion for the sake of convenience based on beliefs that that continuity has to be there. The moment you fully understand that in the very next second you are really a completely different person. And if you allow yourself to create enough difference, a significant amount of difference between this new person and the last person that was there a moment ago, which is not you, then the new person can simply be free to exhibit whatever traits you have defined the new person to have. And there will be absolutely no connection to whatever traits existed in the other person because that other person still exists as another person, not you. Not even who you used to be. It’s just another person that you have nothing to do with and that has nothing to do with you. So focusing on the idea, practicing the idea of really getting a visceral sensation that you are really a truly different person no matter how you look in the mirror from moment to moment will begin to allow you to truly unlock from any reality that you do not define as have anything to do with you. Make sense?
Asker
Uh yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Does that answer your question?
Asker
Uh it does. It does. All right. All right. Well, thank you. Thank you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Hi. How are you?
Asker
Perfect. And you? Great. Thank you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Thank you.
Asker
Um I’m kind of shy to talk about it. I have very
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
a little too late. You’re up in front of a whole crowd.
Asker
And I’m actually happy and excited to be here.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. And I will not believe that you are shy anymore.
Asker
Liar. Liar. Fire. Um, since I was a little girl, I remember I had very very weird and scary dreams.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, you and the rest of humanity.
Asker
Yes. And this time I cannot sleep in the dark. I always have a lights on and I’m I don’t know why is it like that. Is it my imagination that I feel something?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
No, you’re being visited.
Asker
Oh, no. You serious?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
No, I am Ethani.
Asker
Sirius is another star system. Um, wow. It’s It’s funny because I’m not scared even if you tell me that. Um, so
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
are you afraid of us?
Asker
Am I afraid of you?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. Are you afraid of us? All right, I’ll make it personal. Are you afraid of me?
Asker
No, I feel good. I don’t know. I feel good being here. I’m not afraid.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
The only reason you are afraid of the others is because you don’t know them like you know us.
Asker
Exactly. That’s the point.
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Bashar
Bashar
Take my word for it. There’s nothing to be afraid of.
Asker
So, it’s not my imagination. No.
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Bashar
Bashar
No.
Asker
So because I I always thought when I was a little girl I always like feel some people in a room.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. Yes.
Asker
And it’s not my imagination.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
No.
Asker
And what about the dreams that I used to have a lot of different
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Many of them are symbolic representations of actual experiences you have in other dimensions of reality with those beings and others.
Asker
Okay. And I also when I was a little girl I felt like someone was talking to me. Yes. They were they were really talking to me.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes. But telepathically. Yes, exactly. Yes. Oh, wow. Okay. Now, are you afraid?
Asker
Um, no. But what should I do not to be afraid of darkness?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
I thought you said you were not afraid.
Asker
Now I’m not. But I
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Well, then why are you afraid of the darkness energies right now? Why are you afraid of the darkness?
Asker
Cuz I don’t I just feel that there is someone like
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
But I thought you weren’t afraid of that someone anymore.
Asker
I’ll try not to be, I guess.
Asker

You don’t have to try. You are either afraid of them or you’re not.

Bashar
Bashar
It’s all right if you are, but you said you weren’t.
Asker
But should I should I start talking to them? Should I come?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Why not? Why not invite them in on your own terms? Why not say, “Look, I’ll meet you halfway.” Why not say, “Look, I understand that I may be scared, but I understand that’s my own fears. I still know that this is all right. I know that on some level I agreed to this. I know it will all work out. I know I did this for a reason. I’ll work with you consciously. Let me be more conscious of what’s going on. Let me participate. Let me have a voice. Let me have a say. I’ll work with you.
Asker
And why is it me?
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Why not you?
Asker
I don’t know. I just don’t feel special that someone else could come.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
There are many, many, many family lines on your planet that are part of the hybridization program that created our species. You are one for which we thank you. You are in that sense one of our ancestors. So we pay you our honor and our respect for your willingness to participate in a program that brought about our birth.
Asker
So how should I open up to the experience like just just should I just be
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Would you be excited in what you call
Asker
I’m very excited right now. I’m super excited to hear what
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
would you like us to finish the sentence?
Asker
Sorry. See that’s how much excited I am.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Would you be excited in the future to meet the children, the hybrid children that you actually helped give birth to by the utilization of some of your genetic material?
Asker
Of course.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Then there is no reason to be afraid of the dark.
Asker
Okay.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Because that’s who they are.
Asker
All right. Thank you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
All right. Thank you. Does that help you?
Asker
Yes.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Sweet dreams.
Asker
Thank you. Hello Bashar.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
And you good day.
Asker
I have a question about uh heart intelligence and mind intelligence.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Yes.
Asker
Um a few months ago I just started to intuitively focus on my heart if I had a a question or something I wanted to try to resolve. Yes. And then recently I heard I was listening to one of your CDs where you had broken down the mechanism by which we translate um information from our higher self into our brain. Yes. And then I I started to get confused about how we can utilize those two intelligences.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
The hard intelligence in that sense is the blending intelligence. It allows the personality construct in a sense to be supported in an intuitive way that allows it to do its job and only its job and not the job of the higher self. The heart intelligence in that sense is like the earthly support system. But the mind has the ability to ignore it. So the idea is that the heart needs to be supportive enough, open enough, big enough to allow the physical personality to know that it can rely on the support from the heart to allow it to do what it needs to do and no more. Does that make sense? Um, the heart when it beats gives off an electromagnetic pulse that moves out from your body at the speed of light. You are all immersed in each other’s heart bubbles all the time, literally. That heart bubble expands out through the personality. It has a frequency in it. It actually carries a particular frequency. If you will allow the mental aspect, if you will allow the persona aspect to relax, it will begin to feel that frequency. And as it feels that frequency, it can start relaxing and melting into the idea of actually doing the job it was designed to do, being supported by the heart, blended with the heart, balanced with the heart, and that will allow the higher mind to also come flooding in and the physical mind will be filled with ecstasy. Does that help?
Asker
Um, no. No, it helps. I just I just I think I have to meditate on it a little bit.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Oh, all right. If you wish. Is there some other direction you wish to take this idea?
Asker
Well, I uh too like the previous gal have um have lucid dream experiences where I am being I guess I said it was common. I said she wasn’t the only one. Right. Right. So my question is there’s there’s been several and the beings that are with me and Yes. experimenting on me and doing whatever.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
not exactly experimenting on you, but we understand what you mean, right? They’re they’re different. And so I’m wondering, are they actually different or are they the same? The beings, as we have said, that many of you call the grays, that are the ones primarily focused upon the hybridization agenda, the creation of the hybrid races, the five hybrid races that now exist are not actually alien beings. They are not actually extraterrestrials except in so far as many of them actually do have bases and cities on other planets. But that’s the only definition that actually fits. The beings that you call the grays are actually from a parallel earth where they have destroyed themselves in a variety of ways in their past. They are actually mutated parallel reality humans who have taken their planet to the point of destruction that your planet has been on a course toward. in destroying themselves to a certain point and using their technology to adapt to survive. They eliminated genetically certain traits that they required for survival and they needed viable human DNA in order to perpetuate their species. The only source of viable human DNA once they had destroyed themselves in their reality would be to harvest DNA from another parallel earth reality, yours. So is the reason that they chose me in particular is because you represent family lines that are energetically and on a soul level connected to the family lines of that parallel reality. And is there a way to communicate with them? Absolutely. In fact, you actually communicate with them all the time. But because of the nature of the way the agenda has been carried out, they make you forget that you’ve had those communications. If you feel you’re ready to start recalling some of those communications without fear, then you can simply begin to recall them by lying down when you go to sleep and asking for assistance in remembering. The memories may come back sporadically and it may be a little jolting at first, but you’ll get used to it. All we can tell you is eventually it will be all right and you will remember what conversations have already transpired. And when you begin to remember what conversations have already transpired, you will be ready to have more conversations. Will they be able to provide any uh illumination into sort of life purpose? Is it I mean is that part of my That is really not their agenda. But the idea is that you will gain from the knowledge in the experience and ability to understand how to be more of who you are which fits your life’s purpose. Because as we have said, there is only one common purpose to everyone, only one common mission to everyone, and that is to simply be your fullest self as best as you can. That’s it. Sorry, it’s that simple. How you express the mission is up to you and is unique to you. But that’s only an expression of your purpose. The purpose is to just be you as fully as you can. And the best way to do that is to act on your joy every moment that you possibly can. So this experience may give you more ability to tap into how you wish to express your life’s purpose. But we have just told you the long and short of your life’s purpose. There’s no more to it than that. Right? So is there a way to make income by lucid dreaming? There is. And we’ll allow you to use your imagination to figure out how that might work. I will give you however an example. Great. Thank you. this actually exists on your planet so that you understand that if this person as a human can do this then you can do whatever you imagine you can do as well. There was a mother whose greatest joy was to tell her children’s stories, make them up as she went, but they were very vivid, very vibrant, very colorful stories. And her children really, really loved them to the point where they invited all their friends over to begin listening to these stories. And she would tell them, and they would get more and more rich and more and more vibrant to the point where these children began to invite their parents over to listen to the stories. And the parents started inviting their friends over to listen to the stories. And pretty soon they recognized that she was spending so much time telling them these wonderful stories that they began to offer her to pay her to tell these stories. And now she makes a very good living just telling stories.
Asker
Thank you.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
The point is if you do it with passion, it will support you even though you have no idea how that might be possible. And the reason you have no idea how that might be possible is because your physical mind is not designed to know how things will happen. But your higher mind is and it’s God. Everything under control. Trust it. Trust it. Trust it. Trust it. Trust it. Trust it. Imagination is the actual conduit of communication between physical and higher mind. Trust it. Go with it. Act on your joy. All right. Yes. Does that help? Yes. Thank you.
Asker
Good afternoon. Mash
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
Good afternoon. Mash and you. Good day.
Asker
Bashar. How would you respond to someone who comes before you and says, “I have a health problem.”
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
I have already responded to this earlier. The majority of what people on your planet call health problems can be alleviated by a thorough detoxification program and the ingestion of those nutrients once the toxins have been dislodged from the cells that prevent absorption of nutrients by then dislodging them and putting in the nutrients that allow the body to automatically spontaneously rapidly heal. That is the basis of all healing with respect to your planet because your planet is so toxic.
Asker
Suppose the questioner continues the question and request your help.
Asker
Bashar
Bashar
The help that we give is in the form of the recommendation only of specific regimens of detoxification that we know are produced by companies on your planet that are extremely effective. And we have given this as systems that are put out by a company, an organization on your planet called American Botanical Pharmacy in Los Angeles. It is not the only one, but we have guided the channel to find one of the most effective ones in the area in which he lives. And they are willing to ship all of their products everywhere in the world. And since that is one of the most effective ones that has been found, we will simply continue to suggest it because it is extremely effective in repairing almost anything that a human calls a disease or health problem. First, detoxification. Second, look to the specific formulations they have that may address very specific areas of the body that are having challenges. And third, putting in only the natural organic nutrients that the body requires for healing. Those three things first must be done before anything else is considered. Otherwise, you will not know what your body can do on its own and before you rely on any other methodology.

Near Death Experience

Asker
When I was about 2 or 3 years old, I fell into a river. Yes. And I recall having some ideas of what happened. Yes. Did I actually die?
Asker

Please understand that many of you have actually died more than once.

But some of you always have the choice. You always have the choice to actually continue the life.

Death is not the end. You always have a choice.

Some of you don’t choose in that sense to continue that life. But some of you do.

But even after death, for a while, you actually still have the choice to continue that life.

Some of you may simply not remember that you died. Some of you may have an experience like this person just defined, and they may wonder whether or not they died, but can’t imagine how they got out of it.

Well, many times you actually didn’t. You actually died and came back and continued the life from that point in time on.

What that means is you actually came back to a parallel reality.

Meditation

At this time, we would like to ask each and every one of you to become comfortable once again. This time allow your body to relax and close your eyes.

This time create in the present the memory of the holotope experience as it was experienced by you.

Allow yourself to simply feel. Feel the sensations. Feel the energies. Imagine the colors you saw. See them now.

And picture, picture, picture those energies, those colors, those sounds coursing along the neurological highways of your brain.

See the neurological pathway switching to and fro, clicking like train tracks in different directions that represent all paths leading to the central divine spark, and all paths leading from the central divine spark.

Energized, maximized, magnetized, vibrationally resonant.

Breathe in, breathe in, breathe in, and breathe out.

And a second time, breathe in, breathe in, breathe in, and breathe out.

And a third time, breathe in, breathe in, breathe in, and hold it. Hold it. Hold it. And blow it out.

The people that began with this interaction are no longer here.

This is a different interaction on a different day with different people on a different world, a different parallel earth that has only as much to do with any other parallel earth as you decide it has.

Melt, melt, melt into your joy. Let your heart support you. Let your physical mind do its job. Let your higher mind help you. Be a whole person, a whole being.

Half a car is not a car. Half a human is not a human.

Getting a concept intellectually means you don’t get it. You have to live it to get it. Experience it to get it.

And that is what physical reality is all about. The experience. Because once you live in physical reality, you get it. Believe me, you get it.

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