The Other Side

First of all, many of you when you have a UFO dream is because you’re actually having an experience in another dimension on another level and you might only remember some of that experience as a dream.

That isn’t always the case but many times it is so. And if you have had that kind of contact in the past, it is very likely you will have more contact in the future.

We are bit by bit, day by day, slowly creating more opportunity for contact between your world and other worlds. So many of you in the years to come will experience more contact, more sighting. In fact, there may be opportunity for many individuals to have very strong UFO sighting as you say sometime in the spring of your next year of 2007. It will be connected to the very large UFO sighting that occurred 10 of your years ago in your area of Arizona that is known as the Phoenix Lights.

10 years ago, very large sighting seen by many thousands of people in your state of Arizona and that sighting has been called The Phoenix Lights. It was a sighting of a large spaceship about one mile long. You can if you wish research it on your internet by just looking up Phoenix Lights.

The beings that occupied that spaceship 10 years ago are the beings that belong to the civilization that will be the first civilization to openly contact humans on Earth and they are planning now, 10 years later, to allow humans to have another sighting of one of their large ships. So sometime most likely between your January and March or April month or May, you will find somewhere in your winter and spring most likely to be the time for another large sighting. And creating these sightings, allowing your people to see their ships, is their way of getting you used to them. And eventually humans will have open physical contact with these beings on this ship sometime most likely within what you would call the next 10 of your years.

you asked how you can get in more touch with the universe and the most important way that you can do this is by always being in the proper vibration, the proper energy frequency to be open to more information from the universe. And the way best to be in the proper frequency of energy is to always act as best as you can on your highest joy, your highest excitement every moment of your life. Many people on your planet have talked about the idea of acting on your passion, following your bliss, following your joy. People understand this is important but not many people understand exactly why it is so important. It is important because when you act on your excitement, when you follow your passion, you stay in the proper energy state, the proper frequency that allows you to be most open to what the universe can give you, to what you need to be the most fullest version of the person that you are. So that feeling of joy and love and creativity and passion, that feeling is the vibration of energy that is the appropriate vibration to be most open to the universe. And that is because that frequency is the fundamental frequency of existence. It is the fundamental creative frequency. So when you are in that state, then you are in heart harmony with the fundamental creative frequency of existence.

Addressing Personal Challenges

Bashar: Are you stuck? So to be in harmony with the creative frequency of the universe, the universe and when you are in harmony with that frequency then everything you do works with that frequency, works with that energy, it flows. You flow with it. If you are not in that frequency then things can be a little bit more difficult. You do not flow with it. You encounter it in different ways, a little bit more harshly.

Asker: I like to, I have something I really like to do and I’d like to pursue that but sometimes to, I have this condition, I have this back pain and this back pain has something to do with my ego or something and that would make things not smoothly as I wish as well.

Bashar: This is why we say it is important to understand why you might not be in the appropriate frequency. It is important to understand why you might not be in the appropriate frequency. The only thing that keeps most of you from being in the appropriate frequency are belief systems and definitions that you have in your unconscious that might be out of phase with the proper frequency you need to be in. So it’s very important to find out what definitions of yourself and life that you may have that would make it so that you are out of phase with the fundamental frequency. So anytime you are attracted to do a particular thing, anytime there is something that excites you, it will also always give you an opportunity to find out where you might have doubt or fear within the idea of doing that thing. And it is that doubt and fear that will reveal to you if you explore it what kind of definitions you may have that are out of phase. Does this make sense so far?

Questioner: So let’s say when I have this back thing, does that mean that I have some doubts or fear about the things that I am about to do?

Bashar: It might. You need to explore that to find out whether it is in that sense emotionally caused or physically caused. I mean not all physical pain is necessarily a big mystery. Sometimes you may simply have a physical condition that is causing you pain and you need to do something to alleviate that. But if you can find no physical cause for it, then yes it is likely that it is caused by an emotional attachment to a negative belief system.

So let me ask you a question if I may. What is it that you say excites you and is there anything about doing the thing that excites you that causes you doubt or hesitation or fear?

Questioner: When I have stress, yes I have stress.

Bashar: So what are you stressed about?

Questioner: When I try to do something good or better, why does that stress you if it is representative of your joy? Why would you be stressed in doing it? What beliefs come into play when you attempt to do something you enjoy? Do you not believe that you deserve to have joy? Have you been taught to believe that having joy is a struggle? It’s those kinds of questions that you need to begin to ask yourself when you discover that pursuing your joy gives you pain because there would be no reason to have pain or stress in following your joy if you didn’t have a negative belief about following your joy. So you have to find out what that belief is and deal with it so you can let it go.

So can you be more specific about why you are stressed when you are doing something you say is your joy? What is it you are stressing about? Can you be specific?

Questioner: Well I’m a photographer and I love what I do and I enjoy doing the photo shoot. But I guess I like to especially when this goes to my job or my future assignment, then I’d like to make myself good and just this might be called ego and maybe that’s why it has become a stress.

Bashar: Does that mean you believe you’re not good enough? Are you constantly comparing yourself or measuring yourself against some better idea of yourself in a negative way? Maybe so. It is all well and good to want to be good, that’s fine, but if you compare yourself all the time and always think that you’re not good enough, then always thinking you’re not good enough will cause you stress. Do you think you can allow yourself to relax a bit and just enjoy doing what you say you enjoy doing? Can you allow yourself to believe that even though you will always get better, that right now you are good as you need to be for this moment?

Now I will tell you a secret. Here is a paradox, you understand paradox? The only way you are going to get better is if you understand that right now you’re perfect as you are. If you understand that what you are right now is perfect for what it is, then you can relax in a manner that will actually allow you to get better. The paradox is that if you always spend time worrying that you’re not good enough, you actually get worse. Because you see then if you stress because you think you’re not good enough and you give yourself pain, the next time the pain is going to impede your ability to be good. You will create a self-fulfilling prophecy. You will say I am not good enough so your reality will give you situations that will make you not good enough. But if you say I know I am good right now and I know I will get better but I know I am good right now, your reality will allow you to feel good right now and give you opportunities to get better.

Marriage, Fulfillment, and Following Excitement

Questioner: I’m married, I have a husband who is nice, who works, makes money, brings the money home. And I guess in the general way when people look at us, people think that I’ll be happy. Is there also a but here?

Bashar: Yes, there is a but here.

Questioner: However I feel that I don’t feel somehow satisfied or not completely full with what I have. And when I share that with my husband, he would say to me, “Oh well you must be happy because you have this and that and those things.”

But I don’t feel that’s true and I sometimes have to fight with him about that and I feel like the peace is missing from me. And when I try to search something that I enjoy doing, maybe for me I enjoy cooking, maybe something to eat, has something to do with the food. But I still not found that yet. And what I’m doing right now is to thank what I have, to appreciate what I have, to be grateful.

Bashar: it is very important to have gratitude for what you have. It is very important and again by having gratitude for what you have, it makes it easier to open up for more to come in. That’s important for you. So you feel that you are most excited about the idea of cooking, food preparation, serving, that idea having to do with food. This is what excites you? Is that what you are saying?

Questioner: Yes, no, maybe. Maybe it is because I’m not confident with myself and maybe I’m thinking that the cooking is something for myself, for my hobby, not nothing to share with other people or maybe cooking itself is not my joy.

Bashar: if it is something you enjoy, it might be a hobby or it might be something that you can share with other people, but you’re not going to know that unless you take some action and see what happens. And also it’s not written anywhere, it’s not a law that says you can only do one thing that excites you. You may do more than one thing that excites you. You may discover many things that excite you. But again, here is the secret: you will not find out whether this is just a hobby or something you can share with other people, and you will not find out if there is something else that might also excite you, if you don’t take some action on what you already know might excite you.

the universe does not give you information, the universe does not present you with opportunities that you are not putting yourself in a position to receive. So if you say well something is somewhat exciting to me but you actually take no steps to move in that direction, well then the universe says, well then you’re not really wanting more help with that, you’re not really wanting to be shown where that could go because you’re not willing to take any steps at all in that direction.

But if you say, all right this excites me enough for me to take some action, so I will do something that allows me to express this part of myself, then the universe will see that and will respond to that by giving you more opportunity to express yourself or by showing you more clearly what direction your excitement may actually be in.

It’s the physical action that makes the difference, not just the desire, because you exist in a physical reality. So if you’re not willing to let the desire and the feeling and the pictures and the thoughts, if you’re not willing to turn them into some kind of physical expression, you haven’t completed the circuit, you haven’t completed the picture, and you’re not giving the universe anything to physically respond to.

Bashar: So if you say all right, I’m excited by the idea of cooking, so I will decide that I am going to either cook a special meal once a week for my family and friends, or I will take a cooking class and see how far it goes, or I will enter a cooking contest and see how close I come to winning, or something that is a physical action representative of acting on your excitement. Then the universe can show you, all right you’ve taken that much of a step, now here’s the next step, now here’s the next step, now here’s the next step, and it will show you. But if you just sit in wonder, it can’t show you anything because you’re not doing anything. You can start small. You don’t have to run out and buy a restaurant, but anytime something excites you, it is important to take some action, otherwise you will never know where it could lead.

And I will guarantee this for you and guarantee this for your husband: if you follow your excitement, if you take some action on your excitement, the things that will happen, if you continue to follow your excitement, will always be supportive to you and any relationship that you are in. Always. The only time following your excitement would interfere with a relationship or any aspect of your life is when the people are not actually being in their proper frequency when they do it. If someone brings fear and doubt into the idea, then that will cause interference, that will cause disharmony. But if everyone understands that if you truly are acting on what you feel is true for you, then it can only enhance everything else in your life. That’s the way it’s designed.

Everything that is natural, everything that is true to itself, is automatically in harmony with everything else that is natural and true to itself. That’s the way creation is designed. And here is the true reason for all relationships. The true reason why relationships exist is for each person in the relationship to help the other person become their full true natural self. So you help him become his full natural self to follow his joy. He helps you become your full natural self to follow your joy. And by doing that for each other, the relationship is always growing in joy. But if there is fear and doubt from one to the other or fear and doubt within the self, then that will interfere with the ability of the relationship to continue and grow in a joyful way.

So yes, by all means be grateful for what you have, but also be grateful for who you are. And being grateful for who you are means you follow your truth, you follow your joy, you act on your excitement, or you’re not being who you are. And if you cannot be who you are, then you cannot be grateful for who you are. And if you cannot be grateful for who you are, you cannot be grateful for what you have. And if you are not allowed to be who you actually are, then the real you is not in a relationship anyway.

Bashar: Is what we said in any way scary? Or do you think you can find a way to express what you need to in a loving and creative way and be who you are? Can she express what we have said in her relationship in a loving way and allow herself to be who she is and allow her husband to understand how important that is for the relationship?

Questioner: I don’t think I am expressing myself in the way that you described, but can I?

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: I now understand why I was not feeling full because I was trying to adjust to the other party, not to express myself in a full way.

Bashar: the paradox is that when you are your actual true self and when the other person in the relationship is also being allowed to be their full true self, then you actually are more capable of supporting each other and supporting the whole relationship.

Questioner: I think being true to myself in the past I thought that’s being selfish and now I know it is not to be selfish to be true self.

Bashar: Correct. There are ways of course of being selfish, but this isn’t one of them. So thank you for your understanding and thank you for being willing to feed your true self.

Intuition and Following Your Excitement

Questioner: We hear about the intuition, we hear that it’s very important to follow your intuition. Yes. And would you tell us the way to know the good way to catch the intuition in our daily life?

Bashar: Yes, it still connects to the idea of acting on your highest excitement. You see, you are all like little antennas. And when you act on your excitement, you put yourself in the proper frequency to be more sensitive to other information that has to do with you. Let me ask you a question and give you an example.

Do you have a favorite television program? when you want to watch that program, what channel is it on? Just pick a number.

Questioner: Channel seven.

Bashar: All right. So if you want to watch your favorite program on channel 7, will you change your TV to channel 10? No. What will you do? You will turn it to channel 7. Yes. And you know that if you tune to channel 7 at the certain time, you will get your program. Yes. Well, intuition works the same way. When you stay in the frequency of your truth, your self as best as you can by following your excitement, then all of the information, all the programs, all your favorite things, you will suddenly key into them. You will know them. They will come to you. You will be inspired at the right place at the right time when you need to because you’re on the right channel.

So when you follow your excitement more and more, when you get used to it, then it becomes like an automatic search mechanism that’s always looking for exactly the right frequency of information that will serve you best. And it becomes more and more automatic, more and more natural, the more practice you get being in the right frequency, the true frequency for you, the easier it is for you to recognize what vibration is you and what vibration is not you. And then your intuition becomes like a compass needle and it will always point correctly in the direction of the information and situations and circumstances that are more true for you, and point away from the information and circumstances and situations that are not true for you. You understand this example? Does that help answer your question?

You see, this is all really just physics. That’s all it is, just energy physics. The vibration you give off is the reality you get back. Now when you’re not getting the reality experience you prefer, it’s because you’re giving off a vibration that is not aligned harmoniously with your true self. And if you’re not giving off a vibration that is in that sense, if you’re giving off something that’s not true for you, it’s because you have a definition or a belief or an idea that’s out of alignment with your truth, and you have to find out what that is and change it. Just as we had the example earlier of someone saying, well I’m following my excitement but I’m not really sure I’m good enough. Those two things are contradictory, and being in that contradictory energy will also prevent your intuition from working very well. Does that make sense? Does that help you?

Conversation 4: Meditation vs. Action

Questioner: Yes, but I have a question. So what you’re saying that not just doing meditation but do the actual action?

Bashar: Yes. The meditation can help get you in the practice of understanding the proper state of being, being the proper feeling you wish to have. But if you don’t actually put it into action, you’re not really going to allow physical reality to respond to you as strongly as it could. This is easy to prove. Do you have a coin in your pocket or some object in your pocket?

Questioner: No, I don’t have anything.

Bashar: All right, well can you borrow a coin? Let me know when you have a coin in your hand. Do you have a coin? All right. Now put the coin on the floor next to you. Have you done this?

Questioner: Yes, I did.

Bashar: All right. Now get comfortable in a relaxed position. Sit there, go into a kind of meditative state and meditate on picking up the coin. Don’t pick it up, just meditate on picking up the coin. Now look in your hand. Is the coin in your hand?

Questioner: No.

Bashar: Now reach over and physically pick up the coin. Is the coin in your hand?

Questioner: Yes.

Bashar: Well now you have your answer.

Questioner: Yes, I think I understood that. Thank you.

Bashar: It’s that simple. Yes. Keep it simple. Meditation, desire, feeling, imagination. These are all very good things to help get you in the proper state to pick up the coin with your hand. You understand?

Questioner: All right, thank you.

Bashar: Now we are not saying that you cannot be in a place that you cannot arrive at a state of being where you could just magically make the coin appear in your hand. But also the idea is, do it the simplest way possible that you have the ability to do. Just pick it up. That’s the simplest thing to do. Until finally one day maybe you might be able to just think it into your hand. But until that day, just pick the coin up. It’s easier.

Questioner: Thank you.

Bashar: You are welcome.

Conversation 5: The Creator and Spirit Guides

Questioner: About a year and a half ago I read your books and today, a year later, I’m actually being able to meet with you and I thank you for this opportunity.

Bashar: And we thank you as well for the co-creation of this communication, although you haven’t actually met me face to face yet. This is more like we are talking on your telephone.

Questioner: I have a question. I believe there is a Creator who created the universe and the Earth. Who is that person?

Bashar: It is not a person. It is all that is. And all that is created everything out of itself. There is no outside. It is not separate from the creation. All that is, is creation. Does that make sense to you? Does that concept translate into your language?

Questioner: Let me share some personal story with you. I don’t have any memory from when I was zero to four years old. But then after four years old, then I remember that I have this body.

Bashar: That is not uncommon.

Questioner: And also today I’m in the US. I’m from Japan and I’ve been here on vacation for 40 days and I didn’t have any plans or anything that I planned in advance. However, when I’m here in the states, everything goes on the flow and everything goes smooth and I even feel that I found a mission that I like to share.

Bashar: Thank you. We never plan anything either, ever at any time ever, but everything does exactly what it needs to do. So very good. Congratulations. Through this experience in this time in the US, I was able to feel or to channel the not the person but this existence that I call Grandpa. And I’m glad and he’s glad that we are able to communicate in this manner.

Bashar: May I ask you a question? Are you an artist?

Questioner: I’m not an artist but I enjoy painting.

Bashar: But you do paint?

Questioner: Yes, when I feel like it, yes I do.

Bashar: Well then, can I let you in on a little secret? That makes you an artist. You understand? Yes. The idea also of making a connection to that entity, if you wish to call it, will also help you express your creativity through your art if you wish to use the connection that way. It’s up to you.

Questioner: This entity that I call Grandpa, I think I could ask him what he is, but I’d like to know your or other people’s opinion about how or who he is.

Bashar: Well, it’s a consciousness that you’ve known in other lives. Someone who has been alive on your planet in other lifetimes. You understand, someone you have met in other lives in other bodies and is now in spirit acting as a guide. And this person in their lifetimes has been an artist many times. It’s not the only guide you have, but it’s one of the strongest guides you have that has to do with expressing yourself through art and in helping you to refine the idea of expressing yourself through art. The guide will also help you find more of yourself, discover more of your own true being. You understand?

Questioner: Yes, I understand. But also I have a question, why did you call me or did you ask me if I’m an artist?

Bashar: Because we received information that you are probably from Grandpa. We were shown an image of you drawing and painting. So we understood that that image of you drawing and painting was a communication from the spirit realm that you are an artist, that that’s the focus of the energy of your true self at least for the moment.

Questioner: The entity that I call Grandpa, is this somebody that I share with other people or only I am the only person?

Bashar: Only you. The entity in the way that it expresses itself to you as Grandpa, that’s unique for you. Even though the entity may also help other people, that entity doesn’t help other people in the same way and with the same kind of personality that you perceive. That’s unique for you. You see, all beings have many different aspects to themselves and on the spirit level in a sense, it’s like you are bigger and different aspects are in themselves like different people that you can have go do different things at the same time, even though they all come back to the same big spirit.

Questioner: So you’re saying the spirit is bigger than the consciousness?

Bashar: Yes, and it can create many different personalities to interact with many different people at the same time. You can have individual personalities with individual souls, but you can also have a collection of souls that sometimes on your planet is called an oversoul. Does that make sense to you?

Questioner: Yes.

Bashar: And then to go back to your original question, you could also then say that what you call the Creator is the combination, is the oversoul of all souls in creation.