Princess Diana

Monarchy, Conspiracy, and Cat Max

Asker: What does your civilization feel about Princess Diana’s death?

Bashar: Which reaction are you speaking of? There are many reactions and responses.

Asker: The outpouring of love and coming together.

Bashar: All right. So, we have to some degree already addressed that, have we not?

Asker: Right. But I mean my question was in what way do you specifically mean it? Um are they surprised or are they

Bashar: No, not at all. Okay. We know that you are on a path of integration. Mhm. If not so we would not be having these conversations. Right. Therefore, while we may be surprised in a sense by the specific way your planet might choose to go about doing something on the larger scale, we are not surprised by the kinds of things in general that you do. Mhm.

Because we know you are very clever. Right. And we know that one way or another, through darkness or through light, you will arrive at the light in the center. one way or another, however it is you need to do it, however it is you choose to do it will be the way that works best for all of you. Of that we have absolutely no doubt.

Leadership and Equality

Asker: Um also do you have people in your civilization who are uh personalities have had have had these strong personalities that lead you like we do or all of you so evolved that no one is more

Bashar: Um in every single individual is at this point in our evolution absolutely equal in their impact and yet at the same time every single individual knocks every one of us out. Do you understand how both can be true simultaneously?

Asker: Yes, but I but that usually means no.

Bashar: Well, no. What I mean is do you have you have leaders like we like these women women were every single individual is a leader and a follower and a doer and a beer. every single individual. There can be patterns that will occur in the collective when for one reason or another the outward appearance of someone being more focused on than the others might occur for some reason.

But in no way, shape or form at any time does that outward focus take the same meaning that it does on your planet in the sense that no one else in any way, shape or form and not for a second would believe that that outward focus or that apparent focus of that single individual means that they are somehow better than or more capable than anyone else of being in that position.

It’s simply seen as the synchronicity that serves us all. That someone is perhaps standing out from the crowd at any given moment. But we never lose sight of the whole crowd holographically. Nor do we ever lose sight that every single individual contains exactly the same energy and the same impact and the same ability to be the focal point for everyone.

The Monarchy and Kingship

Asker: Um, also I wanted to ask you regarding the monarchy, at what point will we see that um, take a shift?

Bashar: At the point where every single one of you acknowledges your kinghood and queenhood within your own self. Do you understand?

Asker: Yes. You are all royalty and you are all commoner. And when everyone understands that energetically, there will be no real reason except for the kind of synchronous play acting that we have already described. There will be no real reason to actually physically differentiate that on your planet. Yeah. Because everyone will be a king and a queen in their own right. Everyone will be equal to everyone else.

Bashar: But in that equality, we are not talking about homogeneousness. Mhm. Unity is the product of the strengthening of the infinite diversity of each individual. It is like unto the analogy we have used many times, what you call the puzzle picture game.

You have puzzles on your planet that when you put all the pieces together form a large picture. The only reason you get the large picture is because each and every puzzle piece has a unique shape. If you try to conform the puzzle pieces, you won’t get the same picture. You will not create the whole unity. The unity comes from each puzzle piece being granted validity as the unique shape in which it was created and allowed to be what it needs to be and fit where it needs to fit. That’s the only way you get the whole picture that then supports all of the validity of all the pieces.

Conspiracy Question

Asker: May I ask you um there have been some people who have said that perhaps it was not an accident.

Bashar: If you are talking about the idea of conspiracy, this is false. It is timing and purely timing. Yes. And it is not in that sense what falls into the typical idea on your planet of conspiratorial action.

Asker: I’ve talked with you before about my cat Max. Yes. Who returned after 3 years of being away. Yes. And this happened uh about October of last year. I’ve gone through a a stay at away the maximum amount of time. Right. He came back one, you know, hair or breath away from death. He was in an awful shape. All right. Okay. So, must have been exciting.

Bashar: It was indeed.

Asker: So I have gone through almost a year of trying to help him readjust. Of helping. Not trying, of helping. Of helping. Yeah. And what has this done for you? What has it put you through that the animal brought itself back in this condition? What reflections were you taken through? What journeys and adventures were you in a sense forced to go on because of your love for that animal?

Bashar: Well, a lot.

Asker: Well, that’s the whole point of the journey. But when is this this thing of him marking in my house going to end? And when is this thing of him crying at me? He he sits and meows at me and I don’t know what he wants or what he

Bashar: Well, you have to learn to talk the language.

Asker: I’m try I do sit and talk to him. Do you?

Bashar: Oh, indeed I do. You mean in English?

Asker: Well, that’s the only language I speak. Uh other than other than telepathic.

Bashar: Well, that’s the fundamental language. I do that as well. All right. But you might try your imagination. Mhm. You might be a little bit more playful with this. Yeah. In some ways, most of you use the idea of telepathy in the same manner that you use your language. You simply repeat words in your head and think that’s telepathy. Uh-huh. That’s not telepathy. Right? Do you understand?

Asker: Yes.

Bashar: Telepathy is feeling. It’s telempathy. It’s feeling. It’s heart to heart. That’s telempathy. Yeah. It’s feeling. It’s experiencing together.

Asker: Let me ask you a question if I may. May I?

Bashar: Oh, certainly. Why, thank you.

Asker: How willing would you be to go through what your cat went through?

Bashar: Well, you know, we talked about that because you told me that he took on a part of my illness. Yes. and to keep me from having to go so low. Yes. And so in knowing this Yes. This is one thing that keeps me so connected and so you know tolerant of everything.

Asker: Your animal has been back for how long?

Bashar: Almost a year in October and was gone for how long?

Asker: Three. Then how many remain? Two more. Simple mathematics.

Bashar: Now, yes, it can be accelerated, but in general, the things that the cat experienced over the three-year period is the duration for the reconnection for it to be complete. Mhm. The things you will learn in the next 2 years will be the things the cat has brought back to you that it experienced on its adventure that you need to go through. Do not be impatient with it.

So if you will allow yourself to relax into the understanding that though you could accelerate it at the normal pace that would represent the pace you’re going at now, it will probably take two more of your orbits for this to come to some kind of completion and fruition and true understanding on your part as to what’s going on and exactly how long it will take for all the kinds of changes the cat needs to make to happen.

Asker: Okay. Now yes you can accelerate it and the way to do that as we have already said is to really understand what telempathy is all about and really feel the communication with the cat which very often would actually mean that you may actually have to act like a cat in order to really identify and know what the cat is actually transmitting to you as information.

One of the things that I need to do is be more playful. Oh, well, then I mean, I know. How do you think you’re going to reach the cat except then by reflecting back to the cat those qualities you wish to see the cat recover? Mhm. Where do you think it’s going to get the example if it doesn’t see it in you?

Bashar: So, be like the cat and the cat will have something to vibrate to.

The Wave of Sincerity

Asker: Um I’m one thing that that um pleased me very much this week in the midst of everybody’s sorrow is how many people are writing just this this wave this huge momentum of of sincerity.

Bashar: Yes. And the need to connect. Yes. That that is what will connect you all. Yeah. It’s very when a vacuum is created, you all are made to fill it and and also the debate over uh the first amendment. Understood. We will not get into the details of this except to say that it has to do with integrity and where in that sense the borders and barriers to that idea really do exist.

Asker: Yeah, I have very deep spiritual feelings about the Constitution and its writers and sometime I would like to ask you about their spiritual background. Um I’ve I’ve done some um on a personal note I have done some very easy work with the buffalo the white buffalo energy this this week and um it’s very exciting. Thank you. He’s the center point. If I can share this with some people, he is the center point for a momentum of energy around him. He is the leader. He is

Bashar: Keep this personal for yourself.

The Horse

Asker: Before I left my horse this evening, this is another reason I wanted to follow this lady. We have an animal thread here tonight. Um, my horse very strongly told me that he wished me to speak big tonight to you about him. Um, and he kept eye contact with him. Um, and he kept eye contact with me. He wears a fly mask, so he kind of looks like Joe Cool. Snoopy is Joe Cool.

Bashar: One moment. Translating. Understood. Okay.

Asker: And he he held this this contact with me um I believe to convey his current energy state which is very willing very excited. All right. Willing to move forward. Yeah. And excited about willing to be more upfront. Yes. And I believe very willing um to take this short trip with me into the Santa Fe Baldi possibly. though coming up not yet but soon.

Bashar: Oh, I didn’t think it was that soon.

Asker: Okay. Not yet but soon.

Bashar: Okay. I want to ask you specific questions about my nursing hymn which has been an extraordinary experience for me and if I something that I would turn around and publish on the the horse windows on the internet for people. Um I am told by a couple other sources including the source that hot castor oil wraps will actually break down the calcification.

Asker: Yes. So how often?

Bashar: Not every night. At least three times a week. At least it can be more often but we will leave that up to your sensibilities and your ability to sense what is going on with the animal. Okay. but at least three times a week and and according to a healthy flow for my lifestyle on that particular day.

Asker: Okay. As always often I enjoy doing it. Um um I’m holding my hand over the open wound on his hip and practicing forgiveness. All right. This energy is going back to yourself as well.

Bashar: Yes, I understand that. All right. Um, I I’m wondering about the angle of the orthopedic shoeing we’ve done on his two front feet of feet.

Asker: No comments at this time. Continue to explore. Boy, be sensitive. You’re feeding you. You’re feeding me with carrots, aren’t you? Yes. Yeah. Um, uh, I’m wondering if there’s anything nutritionally I can give them. Ellie gave me some tea. I would have to get more. A little bit of cardamom.

Bashar: Cardamom? Yes. How much? A little bit. What is it? A spice. proceed to okay and explore, research, investigate, okay, you will find that it leads you to other things. Many times some of the things we suggest to you may not in and of themselves be the things you need, but they will put you in proximity of the things that you do. Yeah. It’s like Alice going down the tunnel.

Asker: Um, yes. Okay. Are you likening us to the white rabbit? No, myself. All right. But both are true. Yeah. Oh, I see. Okay. Yeah, you could do the white rabbit.

Is there is there anything else that I can do for him? He’s he doesn’t he is older, but um you can simply continue with all the unconditional love you can muster for the horse and yourself. There will be more that you will be inspired to understand. And if you understand it in the same context of this conversation with the same degree of sensibility and being upfront then you will understand what you need to understand at the time.

The Dragonfly

Asker: I had an interaction with a dragonfly. Yeah. But this one is uh was green body. This one was green as opposed to orange. The other one. Then it went into a blue uh the tail went into blue and then it had a little bit of black.

Bashar: Spectral. A shift in color.

Asker: And I couldn’t find any uh information on the internet about that particular color. They had one on the emerald green, but not I couldn’t see anything with those particular colors. And so um I I don’t know if that one I felt like it

Asker: How did you feel?

Bashar: I I felt like it was very very um exotic and and very different for our area. But did it make you feel more exotic then?

Asker: Yes. The thing What happened? What happened? He fell into the pool. Yes. And I fell into a sea of emotional energy.

Bashar: All right. And I picked him up with the the net. Yes. And um the internet. No, the pool. The interactive net. The No, the pool. The interactive net. The interactive net. Oh, all right. I picked him up. Passed your net out into the sea of emotional tranquility. And what pretel did thy find in there? But the dragon of the sea. The dragon of the sea. The dragon of emotionality. That particular color. The multicolored emotional spectrum that allows you to know how exotic you are a creature.

Asker: Yes. Cuz you already said that before. You want, aren’t you? Well, the orange one was about emotion purely. Purely. Yes. Purely symbolically, but now you have the the spectrum. The spectrum of it moving into different layers and levels of emotionality and energy. Yes. And the heart energy, the green. Yes. Yes. And the blue, the energy. Yes. Yes. And then the went into the black. Yes. Um into the unknown. going. Oh, very good. Yeah, you can figure this out.

Bashar: Well, that’s not what I was going to talk to you about, but I know, but you can figure this out. Oh, yeah. All right. All right. Yeah, I know.

Asker: What is it now after spending time talking about what you were not going to talk about? Is it that you wish to talk about after I got him out of the pool? And she, by the way. Oh, it’s a she. Yes. Oh, all right. Not it’s a she. She’s a she. She’s a she. The feminine energy.

Bashar: Oh, yes. I felt all right. Clear things up. Clear things up. Yes. What?

Asker: Um, so I had her at the end of the pole and it kept she kept falling off of and um I I felt I mean it was on the ground and and she kept uh uh on her back and she kept trying to get around and then I I uh put the pole down for her and she would clasp onto it. So, we sat there about 15 20 minutes cuz I figured she was drying out and then maybe she would uh have tea with the dragon of the sea. We we didn’t have tea, but we uh talked a little bit. T for talk. All right. Ta for talk.

And um I was sending her healing energy and I noticed that I felt that she came into the water. She It was very dramatic about the water and then her not being able to get back up and sitting there fluttering and everything. And uh like a tempest. Yeah. And then and then she got back in the water again. And then I had to go get her out of the water again. I do go back in. Yeah. And so this went on for about 20 minutes or so.

And then Fred came out in to the yard and uh I said at first, you know, don’t disturb me because now I had her on a um um a round plastic lid so I could hold her close more closely and really look at her. All right. Um then I mean like I said she kept falling off all the time and I was trying to get her away from the water but then Fred came out and um I sort of jumped out of the way because she kept this fluttering all the time and he picked her up in his hands. Nice. and and I noticed that I um didn’t seem to be willing, at least I’m looking at this, that I wasn’t connecting with picking her up myself. I had her close to me, but not in contact, but not totally picking her up in contact.

And I noticed how he did it. So, and he said, “Well, she’s well, he she said it it’s dying.” Yes. And I just felt in such oh in such touch with it dying and I took it he took it over to the said let’s put it on I said I want it away from the water. So we put it on one of the plants and she just kept falling off. Then he went away and I I stayed there with her and I did reach out and touch her. All right. But I didn’t pick her up. All right. And start. Yeah. But I just I’m really looking at what reluctance to touch portions of your own power.

Bashar: Yeah, that’s what I was think. And the healing it was like she was reaching out to you to reach out to her. Yes. Yes. To reach into yourself more deeply, more committedly, more interactively within yourself and all aspects of yourself.

Asker: And when I was talking with her, um, because I said, “Oh, you know, when I really saw her up close, um, it seemed so, like I said, exotic, and it reminded me more of, um, um, not ET, well, sort of like ET energy in a way.”

Bashar: Well, in a sense, yes. Uh, the body and and everything. And remember all the different reflections that appear in a dragonflyy’s eye. All the different perspectives of what the dragonfly sees that represent all the different facets of the multi-dimensional crystal that you are all of you. Yeah. Claim your power which is the symbol of the dragon. But the dragonfly is the level on which you are ready to accept it. Reach out and make contact with it.

Asker: Yeah. I just like I said, I did touch it, but for some reason I did. We’re getting it. You’re learning. You have help obviously. Yes. They won’t leave you alone. No, it was it was a very She’s been with me. I don’t know if she died or not.

Bashar: Well, in a sense. Yes. Yes. And uh she’s been with me all week. That energy and everything. I keep thinking of her. Now it is there in you. And again when it translates as we said from physical to spirit it leaves a vacuum that you must fill. Oh that you are invited to fill and now you must take responsibility for that energy within yourself. Yes. Be like unto the dragon of the sea.

Daughter’s Interactions, Hybrid Children, Joy, and Communion

Asker: I have four areas I wanted to discuss with you kind of.

Bashar: All right. One, two, three, and four. Yes. Areas of discussion. Yes. Proceed.

Asker: One is my daughter woke up uh the other morning and her night clothes have been taken off and in a corner in the bedroom.

Bashar: Yes. This was I assume an interaction. Yes. This is common. Um sometimes they will simply not bother to redress those that they interact with. So this interaction obviously is is quite physical. You you said from time to time it is they are they often occur within the room.

Asker: Yes. In fact actually more often than not now when they are physical they will not even bother taking anyone to the ship. They will do what they need to do in the proximity of the room.

Bashar: when I’m curious as to whether this is common. When she was before age four, she Yes, it is common. Before age four, she spoke very openly about her interactions and at about that age, she started saying, “No, I think I must have been dreaming. I think I was wrong.” So, it’s it’s just sort of a transition.

Asker: This is an absorption of the collective consciousness’s perspectives and beliefs about the possibility of such things. In that sense, there is now some bit of climatization to the collective consensus point of view on whether such things can happen or not. Although she will still retain some understanding that it actually is happening. Yes. So it’s not an input that she’s gotten from us. It’s just part of the collective that they begin to take on at a certain age.

Hybrid Children

Asker: Yes. Um and you had mentioned to me once when I asked that I had at least five hybrid children.

Bashar: Yes. Get them. And again, when we answer that kind of a question, we are usually referring to those that contain at least 50% of your genetic material. Right. Would you be able to give me a more specific number? Seven. Thank you. Uh, also I wanted to ask you, I though we perceive that at the time five was a specific number.

Asker: Well, we do not know if seven is a more we do not know if seven is a more specific number than five. All right. All right. But it is now more representative of the amount of hybrids that contain at least 50% of your genetic material.

Asker: Uh, I’ve been working Well, is this now number two? This is now number two. Oh, all right. Moving right along. Yes. Um, I need to word this carefully. I I

Bashar: Oh, let’s all word this carefully. We do not want big bad bashar to jump down your throat. That’s about it. Yeah. Be very careful. I might snap your head off. Yeah. Okay. Uh I have But of course with unconditional love. Always. Always. Will I snap your head off? Yeah. Uh yes. It’s number two. Yes.

Asker: I’ve been I had spoken to you about quote unquote moving toward my joy and you corrected me in the sense that this was not something you obviously have to move toward. Yes. It is something that you are something that you be become.

Bashar: Yeah. Not really moving toward but that puts it out there in the outside. You are all the joy you need to be. You contain every one of you as a complete kit all of the ideas and all the opportunities and all the synchronicities that will then be reflected to the degree of joy you allow yourself to know you are. So joy is not something you have to move toward. But we understand the context in which most of the humans on your planet mean that phrase. But sometimes those phrases can be misleading and that is why we simply offer the alternative phrasing.

Asker: Okay. What I have found recently is that in wanting to make some structural changes in my day and my life, I find that I am preventing myself by becoming ill constantly.

Bashar: Yes, many of you will use this technique. Yeah, this is what this is happening. Obviously, I have nothing wrong physically. I’m I’m just using wrong physically. I’m I’m just using this as a I’m as a scare tactic. Yes. Sabotaging myself from moving. that essentially you are maintaining the inertia of your status quo in that you contain still to some degree more than not a belief that the unknown will contain things too unsettling for you to face instead of knowing that the unknown contains only more joy.

That is why you keep the idea of the sabotage up because you can’t quite bring yourself to believe. can’t quite bring yourself to believe. can’t quite bring yourself to believe that you will actually discover more joy in discovering more of your power and yourself.

With the idea of discovering that with most of you as most of you have been ingrained comes more comes more responsibility in the negative context that most of you have been taught to think of that term. So many times you will give yourself sick leave. Oh, can’t do it. I’m sick. Can’t handle it. Now I have a reason not to take it on. I’m too sick. I’m too sick. Can’t handle it. I have an excuse. I have a reason. It’s okay now. It’s okay. I don’t have to do it. Because now everyone says, “Oh, that’s all right. She’s too sick. She can’t do it.” It’s all right. We understand.

Asker: That’s exactly what’s been happening. Yes, I know. Yeah. But it’s a fun game, isn’t it?

Bashar: No. Oh, all right. If you say so. No. Then I suppose you will stop playing soon. Uhhuh. Yeah. Oh, all right. It’s up to you.

Communion and Higher Self

Asker: Uh, number three. Number three. Uh, ever since I read the book Conversations with God, yes. When I go to sleep at night, there’s this really wonderful thing that happens. And what would that be? Pray tell. I ask these questions. Yes. And these amazing It’s It’s not Oh, just say it. Well, they’re not answers. What are they, but they’re Well, they’re answers. Yes, they are, but they’re not they’re not verbal the way I would expect them. They’re they’re very the way you would expect them. They’re impressions there. It’s like I really

Bashar: You mean it’s a heartto-heart conversation? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I Yes. I just sort of wanted to know if that was my higher self talking. Is that

Asker: It is you. It is your higher self. It is the infinite. It is all. It’s all. When you are in that state, you know it is you and the infinite. Yeah. in communion. That’s what you’re feeling. You understand? That’s the original intent behind what has become the ritualization of the idea called communion as a sacrament. That’s the communion. That’s the communion. What you experience, that’s the communion. And requires no religion. Do you understand?

Bashar: What what’s surprising about it to me is it’s so it seems so accessible. It’s not It wasn’t. You know why? Why? Because it’s here and now. That’s why. Because you don’t have to go anywhere to get it. Because what you call on your planet God is not up there, out there, over there, beyond. It is All-That-Is. And it is the only place it can be. Here in the only time that exists now.

That’s why it’s so accessible cuz you don’t have to go anywhere to access it. You just have to be in the state of communion with it and you will see that it has always been here and now and forever will be because there is no other place to be. Yeah. But this now has become your realization and so you experience it.

Trees, Resistance, and Pain

Asker: Trees have always been very sacred and very special to me and I have a sense that it goes back to Druid times.

Asker: Well, it goes back further than that. Ever since the first tree because everything is sacred. Okay. Uh I have uh actively um what planted trees at my work site at school. Oh, right. And uh at my house. Uh lately there’s been some resistance uh at the workplace uh to the trees.

Bashar: To trees and uh of what nature?

Asker: Not allowing uh ones to be planted. All right. And so would you like to find a place that you believe would be more conducive to the planting of the trees? Well, I’d like to understand that. And also at my home where there are You would like to understand what? Why? What the resistance is? Yes. Have you asked? Well, it seems that there’s a personality conflict concerning me by one of the district persons in charge of grounds.

Bashar: In charge of grounds, right? He has Oh, all right. So, he has grounds to resist you apparently. So, Oh, all right. And he has uh come in and removed plants that uh my class and I have planted over the years. Oh, all right. I see. And therefore, is this environment then overall representative of where it is you would prefer to be in life?

Asker: At this time, yes.

Bashar: Why did you say at this time? Why did you qualify it?

Asker: Because I don’t think it will be forever, but at this time, uh there are other reasons that I enjoy being there, such as my classroom is on a hill and I love looking out when the lawn is green, the grass is green, which right now it’s not. It’s they’ve allowed it to die.

Bashar: May I ask you a question? Yes. Why, thank you so very, very much. You feel that you are adept at communicating with trees? Yes. Yes. No. Maybe. I don’t know about communicating, caring about them. Yes. What’s the difference? Okay. Thank you. You see my point? Yes. How adept do you feel at your relationship with humans?

Asker: Mostly very good.

Bashar: Mostly very good. And the qualification mostly means what?

Asker: I’m not open and accessible to communicating at all times with all people. Sometimes by choice and sometimes.

Bashar: We’re not saying that you have to necessarily communicate with those that are of a vibration that is not the preference of your reality. But since you love to use that word so much, you humans. But if you are choosing to remain in a scenario wherein there is an individual with whom you find cross-conlicted vibrational communication going on. Maybe this is an opportunity for you to learn a different modality of communication and see if that can amount to something and see if there can be a meeting of the mind and see if the resistance can be transformed into agreement and fluidity. How about that idea?

Asker: Sounds good. Sounds good.

Finding Common Ground

Bashar: How do you imagine, if I may be so bold as to continue to ask another question, how do you imagine you might be able to change your mode of communication with this individual and allow the individual, not make, allow the individual to respond differently than they are responding to you now? How do you suppose you could go about it? Can you give us an example or an it? Can you give us an example or an idea?

Asker: I could probably make an appointment with him. And an appointment to do what? To communicate. Yes. But I’m asking you in what way specifically will you communicate that will make a difference? What will you say? Can you give us an example of the kind of approach you will take? Go Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. My I’m not coming up with anything right now.

Bashar: Bashar, you’re not? No. You know why? Oh, all right. I’ll answer that one for you. Thank you. Because you are not allowing yourself to be in love with the person.

Asker: This is true. This is true.

Bashar: If you allow yourself to be in love with the person, you will know exactly what to say. And the thing you will say will be to find out who they are, what they are all about, why they say the things they do, and to help them find a way to meet their needs. In doing that from a place of power, not a place of acquiescence, but a place of power, you will find that as you help them meet their needs in the situation, yours will be met automatically. Do you follow this?

Asker: It’s not real clear yet.

Bashar: But to be pragmatic about it, one example would be to ask them specifically why what is it about the idea of the trees being there that bothers them? Or perhaps even more specifically, what is it about the trees not being there that gives them joy? What is it about what they do that makes what they do their preference? Find out how to help them increase and expand their preference.

When you get to the bottom of why they are doing what they are doing, what their fundamental basic wish is, you will usually discover that their fundamental basic wish can be fulfilled in many other ways other than the specific way they may be going about it because they may not know any other way to go about it because they have not been taught to go about it any other way.

But there is a basic underlying wish that they feel is being unfulfilled. They’re going about fulfilling that wish in the best way they know how. It is your ability and your love and to your advantage to find out what wish is being fulfilled by their actions and creatively and collectively find a more creative way that it can serve the best of all concerns. They will be willing to do that if you show an interest in helping them find a way to fulfill their unfulfilled wish by helping them to get in touch with what it actually is because they do not know.

Asker: Look, our custodian has suggested that uh he really just has a personality conflict with me.

Bashar: But what’s the difference between that and what I said? Okay. You represent a particular vibration that triggers him and reminds him that he has a basic unfulfilled wish in his life. Therefore, yes, of course, it’s going to appear to be a personality conflict because your vibration triggers in him his sense of incompleteness. And so, he’ll take it out on you because what he’s actually saying is, “Help me figure out what this is.”

Because the only way I can communicate that I feel like I’m missing something is to bring your attention to it by engaging you in this conflict. Please be loving enough and please be smart enough and please have the higher perspective to help me where I feel I cannot help myself. That is what is being said by that individual. That’s the telepathic communications that you’re not picking up on.

Unfulfilled Wishes

Bashar: Many of you because of the way you have been brought up on your planet have unfulfilled basic fundamental unfulfilled wishes. I feel unloved. I want to be loved. I want to feel loved. Many of you have that as an unfulfilled wish. The thing of it is that many of you have been taught to go about attempting to fulfill that in very specific ways that may in fact actually be self-contradictory.

The point is is that if you get creative enough and find out what a person is really attempting to fulfill within themselves as this basic wish, you can then come up with a number of different ways to fulfill that wish that may have nothing at all to do with the way they have been going about it.

And once they see that click, you’ll start working together because they understand you have their best interests at heart. And they will automatically either start having your best interests at heart or it will become very clear to you very quickly that where you are is not where you want to be and you will move in the direction of your preferential vibration.

Another aspect of the tree question is that at my where I live at my home, several of the trees are uh the roots are now impinging on integrity of either the pool or the house or other structures. Yes. And I’ve recently uh this is all the same idea. It is the unrevealed underground fundamental idea of where do I fit, where do I belong, how can all of this work together instead of coming into conflict with the things that you create in your environment that seem on the surface to be at odds with the deep underlying unfulfilled and unrecognized patterns that have been growing for so long without any understanding or conscious communication.

Get to the root. Do you feel bold enough and creative enough to be able to have this kind of a conversation with this individual?

Asker: I will do some preliminary work with higher self of myself and his and fundamentally simple. No.

Bashar: Again, a there is some unfulfilled wish in any individual who creates any kind of conflictive resistance in what you call the personality structure. There is some basic unfulfilled wish because all anger comes from that. You feel incomplete, unfulfilled. But the unfulfilled wish is usually very basic. I don’t feel loved. I want to be loved or something of that nature. I don’t feel valid. I don’t feel creative. I don’t feel I belong. Something of that nature.

When you get to the bottom of it, when you get to the root of it, you will understand the kind of water that is necessary and you will understand there may be many ways the root can then go to acquire the water it needs without disrupting the other things that also would like to be there. Do you follow?

Asker: Yes. So, thank you. That’s helpful. So, thank you. That’s helpful.

Bashar: We must move on. All right. But ask for help in your dreams. You always have it. All of you do. Open up to it. And remember, the way to ask is to know that help is already given. So, in the asking, there is gratitude for the help already given. And that is what allows you to stay in the present. And that is what allows you to receive it because you know it’s already here.

If you ask for help as if it’s got to come from somewhere, you distance yourself from it by taking yourself out of the present because you have already received it.

Pain and Spiritual Experience

Asker: Um I wanted to close a little bit the idea of feeling. All right. But this will be as you say a little bit. Um just this idea of contraction and my natural instinct was to pursue it naturally. Yeah. And it started taking control of my body. All right. We understand the context and so I went on cortisone. Yes. Which immediately started to transform me.

Bashar: Yes. As we have said many times, sometimes the path of least resistance may be simply one of the things that your society has provided already. And you don’t necessarily need to struggle to be more spiritual other than to use what is right in front of you and what automatically works within your belief system already.

Asker: There’s so many different belief systems about what’s happening in your body, what’s going on. It was very confusing to me.

Bashar: Understand what Oh, all right. And are you clearer now?

Asker: I think that’s why I’m talking about it. I still don’t really understand. Okay. Um first of all that I had a lot of pain which put me in touch with that sense of that spiritually there was an impotence almost that impotence in that sense that on a spiritual level I couldn’t really be helped but this was something that

Bashar: But you see one of the reasons why you experienced it that way is because of your definition of pain. Now we understand and this is probably going to seem very contradictory to you and that’s all right. If you feel like being confused by what we’re about to say you go right ahead and we have talked about the idea that yes pain comes from resistance to the natural self. At the same time we have reminded all of you over and over again that it’s never this or that. It’s this and that. Therefore, on many occasions, pain is in and of itself an extremely spiritual experience.

Asker: Right? Which brings up the idea of distrust, a spiritual experience because of this what appears to be sacrifice or pain that may be involved in pursuing that path.

Bashar: And again, before you go on, please remember once again the axiom that you humans have created. Sometimes what a thing is is exactly simply what it appears to be. A lesson in learning the idea of the difference between different plants and which ones not to jump into. In other words, know your environment and respect it. Do you follow? Sometimes it can be that simple. No mysterious spiritual metaphysical law involved or lesson to learn other than the idea that any lesson is spiritual metaphysical. Learn your environment.

Asker: Well, know your surroundings. Understand your relationship with all these things, what they are, what they represent, and respect it.

Bashar: Yeah, it just seemed like it brought up so many other issues about the whole feeling of feeling safe.

Asker: Well, again, of course, that’s probably the primary reason why you did it. is to bring up all those issues. Bring them to the surface so they can all scratch and nag and itch at you and so that you could deal with them. Bring them to the surface. But again, do remember that by doing that, it shows that you’re strong enough to deal with it. Strong enough to get it out of your system. Strong enough to bring it to the surface and face all these issues. Deal with them and let them transform and let them heal.

Bashar: Yeah, it did seem that I might All these things are true. All these things are true. It’s not just this. It’s not just that. What about this? What about that? All these things are true. That is what we mean by it’s this and that, not this or that. Which one of these things is the real reason? They’re all the real reason because they’re all part of your experience of it. Therefore, they’re all true because all truths are true.

Asker: I forgot what I was going to say.

Bashar: Good. Perhaps now you will simply be in the moment with it.

Asker: Well, it was interesting the way my thoughts would activate my skin. That was really intense.

Bashar: Well, yes, because it was almost like I had to have thought control. Yes. And it shows you the idea that you create your reality in a sense with your thoughts. Yes. Yeah. And your beliefs of course. But your thoughts are the outlay, the circuitry, the building material that builds the house of your physical reality.

Asker: So this direction that I went in is not necessarily a suppressive one because that would be one of the natural ideas is that no it could be a very revealing one.

Bashar: depends on how you want to work with it, how you want to take it, how you want to experience it, what meaning you want to put into the neutral situation.

Asker: It’s just my universe seems to be expanding moment by moment.

Bashar: Yes, that’s the idea, isn’t it? Uhhuh. Yes, that’s the idea, isn’t it? Uhhuh. Well, and I’ve also Then does that not give you joy?

Asker: Oh, sometimes. Not so much lately.

Bashar: Happy birthday again.

Asker: Thank you. It was such a peak experience that it has and there’s so much change right now with there’s only going to be more.

Bashar: Yeah. And I I think it’s a little unsettling. Well, that’s the idea to unsettle all of you out of your patterns and habits. That’s the idea. Change is the only constant. And now you’re beginning to get an understanding of what that law means.

Asker: Well, I still get a little queasy.

Bashar: Yes, that’s all right. You’ll get used to the ride. You’ll catch up.

Asker: Well, I you know, I’ve been spending a lot of time in the gate.

Bashar: Yeah, it’s all right. And it’s very exciting and it’s I never know what’s going to happen and I don’t even know what’s happening. I just seem to drift off and have different experiences. It’s all right. You will play with it for now. It will bring you more concrete, coherent, cohesiveness in time.