Part 1

Intention, Action Lack of Expectations

Bashar Bashar
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Introduction: The Triad of Manifestation

We would like to reinforce the concept of intention as it must be aligned with action and married to lack of expectation. Again very briefly, this is the triad, the mechanism for remaining in balance, for remaining in your center, for remaining in the present, for living in the now, while at the same time making yourself literally most magnetically attractive to the manifestation of physical reality that will be most highly reflective of your joy.

Intention that you have an idea of who and what ideally you know yourself to be. Action that you will take your intention and actualize it through physiological action to show through that action that you are willing to be open to the attraction. It grounds the intention. It grounds the idea. Locks it in your physiological reality. Your actions are the underscoring of your intention. You can intend something all day long. If you’re not willing to show by your actions that you are aligned with that idea, it will remain in the realm of the aeric.

And then as we have outlined from time to time, you must go forward in these actions with the full intention that what you imagine to be true for you is true. But you must have absolutely zero expectation that it has to manifest exactly as you originally thought. This balancing act is what allows you to remain open to the unexpected surprises and expansiveness of the infinite. For in most cases, as we have said, when you insist that the manifestation must occur exactly as you have imagined it, you are actually shortchanging yourself and not allowing the manifestation to come about in a way that might even be far more expanded than you were capable of imagining. So allow yourself to have a healthy dose of the unexpected. Let the unknown be your friend. So that in having full intention and acting in accordance with that intention, being your true self, acting on your excitement, by having no expectation that it must come out that way, you will paradoxically be allowing it the best opportunity to come out perhaps not only the way you did originally imagine it in its best possible format, but you will be allowing it to come out perhaps even better than you imagined it by removing those structures of expectation and insistence that you have been taught by your society to utilize.

So keep it simple for the reality is complex but the mechanism of its creation is simple. Intention action no expectation will keep you firmly in the now in the present which is where you need to be to receive anything that you could possibly receive anyway. If you’re not in the now, if no one is home, when opportunity knocks, you can’t be there until you see it. You will not see it. It’ll be invisible to you.

Contact with Extraterrestrial Consciousness

Questioner: Hi. Um I have reason to believe that there’s a part of my life that exists as a hybrid Syrian human perhaps a spaceship.

Bashar: You have reason to believe. All right.

Questioner: Yeah. I think you told me that one time. Yeah. And uh I assume that they’re interested in me somewhat. And uh yeah, I’m interested in all of you. Is there a percentage of possibility? What percentage is the possibility they’ll come make contact with me uh here on Earth and perhaps uh be me up to pick me up there with them?

Bashar: At this particular timing, you will find it is about 24%.

Questioner: Uhhuh. Is there any way I can increase that?

Bashar: Live your life. Continue to live your life in the fullest possible way. And you will play out all the things that you decided you would play out. Thus altering your energy and evolving and expanding toward any such moment you may have agreed to have in your life wherein such a contact would be at 100%. And don’t make it your goal for it’s not your goal. Your goal is to be you. That’s it. And that goes for all of you. It’s the only career. It’s the only goal. It’s the only purpose any of you have. When you are allowing yourself to fulfill the goal of being yourself, everything else that is reflective of that goal will automatically occur as a natural side effect. You follow?

Questioner: Yeah. It’s just a process of living my life fully.

Bashar: And when you do so, then your frequency will match the reality frequency in which such an interaction with a higher frequency consciousness can naturally occur.

Questioner: Do you have a process you could give me on how to contact them?

Bashar: I just told you. Use your imagination for that is what is key to your frequency. Let your imagination be your guide. It will always deliver to you the best methodology at any given moment that will work best for you at that moment. When your frequency changes, the picture in your imagination as to what would work best for you at that moment will also change accordingly.

Questioner: You follow like spontaneity kind of like. Yeah.

Bashar: Does that help you?

Questioner: Yes, it does. And thank you very much.

Bashar: We thank you. Rashan, you thank you. Thank you. Good day.

Questioner: Good day. It’s a joy to be with you today and as well with you.

Bashar: And as well with you. Thank you.


Conversation 2: Accessing Information Directly

Questioner: Uh can you please give me some uh tips as to how I might uh how I can uh access information directly myself? I would like to do that. Tips. Well, uh methods, procedures.

Bashar: Yes, I understood the con. We were just commenting on whether or not you thought perhaps it was a gamble. I’d prefer to knock it down. Again, much of what we have already just said can be applied in your particular case as well. Again, the idea really is to know that you are in connection to all the information you need at any given moment. You have to be discerning about why it is you want to know what you think you want to know. Because sometimes you can tell yourself that there may be a good reason, an appropriate reason for why you want to know a particular thing. And that reason may really have nothing at all to do with what you really need to know at the particular moment. You follow me?

So first comes honesty, clarity, internal dialogue with why it is you want to know what you think you want to know. Again, remember synchronicity is the natural unfoldment of life as you live it. So the idea really is is that the more you stay in the moment living your life to the fullest, the natural synchronicity that results from that attitude and that action of living in the now will bring you all the information you need to live that now at that moment that you are living in. And anything else you need will come in the next moment if you match the frequency of that moment by expanding into it by living fully in it. Does this make any sense to you as a mechanism?

Questioner: It does.

Bashar: There are any number of procedures and processes and methodologies that can be described. But what it all comes down to is recognizing first and foremost the recognition itself being the ultimate process that once you know you are connected to all the information you need at any given moment that certainty opens you up to receive whatever other information you may need according to how you change in the next given now moment. So it’s a dynamic process.

Questioner: So it’s a dynamic process. Yes. And uh and and we can just flow within it. Absolutely. It’s not really fundamentally as a mechanism something that you need to do in order to get from some assumed here to some assumed there. That’s our traditional process.

Bashar: Yes. But the idea is now that you are learning to live more in the moment, you can recognize that everything is here and now. And that the recognition in and of itself of that fact will make a difference in your frequency which will make a difference in your experience of reality. Does that help?

Questioner: Does that help? It helps a great deal.

Bashar: Why thank you. I thank you. The shark. You and then you are you good day?

Questioner: Um number two. Do you know who you are?

Bashar: Yes. Thank you. A very exciting channeling experience.


Conversation 3: Ouija Board, Mars, and Past Lives

Questioner: All right. Um, my friend Nan and I were playing with the Ouija board.

Bashar: Friend man. Yes. Yes. He’s here.

Questioner: And we we seem to contact somebody from this body or something. Yes. Um, that was seemed to be giving me energy flowing through my body. It happened twice. The first time was very intense. Second time was extremely extremely intense. Oh, all right. I will thank you very much for being so old. And um it was great. It was incredible. Incredible experience. We attempted to talk to him about what was happening etc etc and who it was. Exactly. And the information that we got a lot of it was we didn’t really make any sense out of it.

Bashar: Congratulations sometimes at its best so that you do not fixate on too much structure in the process as it unfolds.

Questioner: So, it did say that it was from Mars, so to speak, right? But not really.

Bashar: But not really.

Questioner: That’s what I was thinking. It wasn’t really. And that’s why I was wondering if…

Bashar: Why do you imagine it might have chosen to present itself to you in that way? Maybe because you get me. Okay. There was extraterrestrial consciousness connected to it, but that’s not the whole story. Why do you imagine it would have found it necessary to present that symbol to you?

Questioner: Well, what does that symbol mean for you?

Bashar: What does that symbol mean for you?

Questioner: Well, on this planet means, you know, it’s sort of a stereotypical idea of where aliens come from.

Bashar: All right. And therefore, it is a fundamental archetypal symbol. Which lets you know that you are at the very beginning of an actual contact. You follow? There is more to it than that. Certainly. In fact, it weaves very strongly for you in terms of many of your alternate reality, what you would call past lives that have to do with the idea of Martian incarnations when life was possible on that planet and ancient Egyptian ones as well. Okay. Um, which means that you are in that act, in that connection, helping yourself to get in touch with a lot of those frequencies that represent those particular lives so that you can figure out a way to incorporate that energy in your present life to apply it as you wish.

Questioner: Yeah. Well, I’d absolutely of course the planet Mars symbolically is not unlike your big red button, right? Something we have talked about before for those who are coming in late. So it it it also kept going back back and forth from the letters A and Z when we asked what it name was. Yeah. And it or ZA and um was that a name or was it just sort of…

Bashar: The idea more likely than not when individuals often make first contact with some fragment of consciousness through the channeling procedure is that you will find many of them will connect to a conceptual name that begins with the letter Z. This is usually an indication that what you are first and foremost dealing with even if you are connecting to another entity is aspects of your own internal personality structure first. So it’s giving you an opportunity to get in touch with all those fragments of your consciousness so that you can integrate them and become more holistic which as a process will allow you to actually get more directly in touch with whatever other entity may be assisting you in doing this. Right. Does this make some sense to you?

Questioner: Does this make some sense to you? Yes.

Bashar: All right. Anything else?

Questioner: Um um so there was actually um a being with assisting me by sending me energy. Was that what we have?

Bashar: Yes. But more the spirit guide type of being awakening within you a clearer recognition of some of the energy that is truly your own extraterrestrial and otherwise. Does that help you? In other words, that being was showing you, that spirit guide was showing you that you have a different flavor than you might have thought. Does this help you?

Questioner: Yes. Is that sufficient unto the question asked?

Bashar: Yes. Thank you. Number two.

Questioner: Thank you. Number two. Good day. There seems to be a theme here tonight. A theme. Can you describe it? A theme? All right. And that’s why I’m here. Oh, all right. And I do know who I am. Oh, all right. I am Who are you? I’m having a wonderful time.

Bashar: That is who you are.


Conversation 4: Intention, Symbols, and Arcturus Energy

Questioner: Um about intention. Intention. I know what excites me and these visitations that I have seem to have different personalities.

Bashar: Yes. Um again you will find this is a typical procedure for getting in touch with the collective fragmentation of your own consciousness as a first major step toward the reintegration of your whole being. It is not that you are not in contact with other entities and spirit levels as well. But the first normal average step will be to be put in touch with all the different fragmentations you have made of your consciousness and allow you the opportunity to reintegrate those by relating to them archetypally. Do remember that each fragment of your consciousness is truly autonomous. Doesn’t mean that they are not real and aware of themselves just because they are fragments of your consciousness. That is what consciousness is. Consciousness is self-aware automatically. But it is simply an extension of the overall idea of your identity that you are first dealing with and being given an opportunity by your guides as well to reintegrate as a first major step towards being capable of interacting with higher levels of consciousness. Does this make sense to you?

Questioner: Yes. So these um symbols that I’m seeing geometric shapes yes you are in a sense playing the spectrum of all different levels of energy etheric planes causal planes mental planes physical planes astral planes so on and so forth deriving from your mentality different symbols that are utilized to represent the different bandwidths that you are getting in touch with you are oriented toward the concept of music. So this is like another way for you to learn a different kind of scale. The different symbols are representative of different notes on a different kind of spiritual scale if you will. Does this help work for you as an analogy to make sure?

Questioner: Yes, it does. What was the triangle with the the threedimensional triangle with a a hole in it that went somewhere? It’s very intriguing.

Bashar: The tetrahedral structure with the hole is representative of the basic foundational structure of all physiological reality. The whole represents the spiral principle, the activation principle that goes from the intention of the infinite to the activation of the infinite to cause physical materialization. You understand it? It is the energy point at the center of the three-sided pyramid that represents both the structural underlying of physical reality and the activation energy principle that allows that underlying building block of the tetrahedrin to be combined and recombined in an infinite number of ways to create an infinite number of physiological universal realities. The whole is where all of them are connected. It is the same hole in all of them. It’s similar to the concept that we have described of the prime radiant. The one singular concept of a particle that is the same particle for everything everywhere everyone. Does this make any sense to you?

Questioner: Yes. Does this help illuminate the idea that you were discussing sufficiently or is there some other avenue down which you wish to walk?

Questioner: Well, I’ve been exploring um light and sound in these interactions. Yes. Oh, I’m seeing the image of of one entity in particular with very bright golden light and very thin angelic feeling.

Bashar: This is Arcturus energy. You are connecting to the gate of Arcturus which has to do with rebirthing yourself, realigning yourself, redefining and reorienting yourself so that you will remember more of who you really are. Many of the children being born on your planet now are passing through this Arcturus vibration to also be assisted in remembering more of who they are so that they regardless of what you teach them will not forget who they are.

Questioner: Do I have any agreement to channel in a number of ways?

Bashar: Yes. Although remember the channeling is any fully creative expressive self. Music is channeling. But in terms of the idea of vocal channeling, do you mean?

Questioner: Yes. That’s a secret.

Bashar: That’s a secret. I knew you were going to say that. Well, you see how psychic you are. You’re channeling already. All the way from San Diego. Oh, and sometimes I come all the way from Ethasanic. Thank you. Thank you. But it’s all here and now. Does that help you?

Questioner: It does help.

Bashar: Allow yourself more opportunity to remember what that golden vibrational entity feels like and you will know very quickly in what manner your strongest desire of channeling can be expressed. And remember it might change and that’s all right if it does. Remember this is music of a different sort.

Questioner: I kind of I’m getting that. Yeah, thank you. Y hi and good day to you.


Conversation 5: A Pivotal Event and Family Dynamics

Questioner: Um, when I was here last time with my parents, at the end of our interaction, you spoke about something shocking that was going to happen. You don’t think I’m going to spill the beans now, do you? No. Let me hang it. Cliff hanger. Cliff hanger. So, so have to wait.

Bashar: No, you do not have to wait. You can get on with your life. Yes. Um, Yes. Um, the only reason that we were allowed to tell you what we told you was so that all the things you’re doing now in your mind will in fact give you an opportunity to look at the thing from a different perspective when it occurs. We follow as with everything I guess.

Bashar: Yes. But this is a pivotal energy point. Any time frame that did not translate exactly any time frame we can use on shopping. Remember that there are many ways to define the word shopping. Exactly. One moment we will see what we are allowed by you to tell you. for one moment. All we can tell is that it is most likely to occur within the span of one year, although it could happen much sooner. But as we read your energy now, it appears unlikely it would happen much later. One moment. 7 months seems about right or something that has to do with the vibration of seven which actually reoccurs in a number of ways in different dynamics within your family, friends and relations quite often. So look for the seven more than the concept of the time frame. The seven will be more of an indication of synchronistic meaning for you and timing rather than the concept of time which is relative. No pun intended.

Questioner: No pun intended. All right. Thanks. Does that help you? I mean, well, I guess I’m just going to keep going and it kind of put a sense of doom in me.

Bashar: I see. And why did it push that particular button when I said that?

Questioner: Because I felt like my one of my parents was going to die when you said that.

Bashar: Why did you feel that?

Questioner: Cuz that’s one of the things I guess I’m afraid of. Yeah.

Bashar: What are you afraid of that?

Questioner: What are you afraid of that? Yes, you do. I guess the idea of what I think losing them, although they won’t be lost, they’ll still be vibrating. They just won’t be in your body anymore. And they were here and they’re getting older. And so I thought, you know, Yes. And so, and so is this an opportunity for you to learn how to celebrate that transition in a different way?

Questioner: Exactly. And that’s something I thought of as I’ve done the work on myself that I’ve done through the years because, you know, it’s something you think, oh, when your parents go then it’s a big thing but I realized well I’m not saying that it is not a profoundly impactful event yeah but it can also be you know a chance to contact them which I’ve done with friends who have died it is also a chance to get in touch with the reflections within yourself that they symbolize and represent about your own fears about certain dynamics within your own personality structure is there any place you would like to take that at this particular…

Questioner: Well, I’ll tell you it was a very intense visit with my mother.

Bashar: How so?

Questioner: She um needs a lot of attention and she’s being quite unhappy when she’s not the center of attention. Oh, I see. And very difficult to be around that type of intensity. It was stressful for me and I was um working on being more understanding about it and unconditional with my love for her. So it’s got, you know, you can recognize a vibration that is not your preference without judging it and judging yourself in a manner that allows someone else’s energy to have an impact on you in a way that you don’t prefer. Right? I would love to be able to understand how she got to where she is.

Bashar: Why don’t you ask?

Questioner: I have. And she just, you know, she roses, her child, you know, we talked about this before and she doesn’t have any. And she may ask if she knows.

Bashar: You can understand the general dynamic without necessarily understanding the specifics of the path that she took and that can be enough. Yeah. If you cannot find out any more specific information then certainly you can understand that there is fear involved then it is most likely simply because that’s what she was taught to feel less than to feel less worthy non-deserving so on and so forth. Most of you know this rather, right? Well, that’s really all it takes to understand sufficiently enough to have compassion.

Questioner: Yeah. I mean, it’s the compassion comes much easier when she’s not right in my house.

Bashar: No, I see. I have to work on that one. Definitely. And having All right. Anything else?

Questioner: I’d like to talk to you about some couple other things if I may. I know I may. Thank you. Thank you. Um the the cats cats my new cat’s health is great now. They are from the picture of health. Why? And they can’t but they still can’t go outside because of you know the possibility of them contacting something from another cat or infecting another cat with a surprise virus that they both carry. I see. I see. But they’re both in great shape and I would love to let them outside. They’re just wondering if there’s any way of you senting because the vet can’t do a cat. You said the test would always show positive.

Bashar: You can, if they are willing to ingest it for a while, give them a little of what you would call the kombucha.

Questioner: How much should I give them?

Bashar: Not more than what you would call a shot glass each a day.

Questioner: How long should I do it for?

Bashar: No less than three of your weeks. Then see what you pick up.

Questioner: Okay. Great. Um, I wanted to ask you, you know, you talked, we talked about the concurrent life we may have that you do have. That we do have. Yes. Like you talked about me being in a lifetime in Chicago and in Spain simultaneously. Yes. Do I have another lifetime going on right now?

Bashar: Yes.

Questioner: Where is it?

Bashar: Where is it?

Questioner: Is it in Morocco or southern Spain or Why did you pick that?

Bashar: Because I’m so drawn to that right now. Really? Yeah. And I thought I’d go there for Christmas and it didn’t happen this year. And so I want to go there soon. I see. But I’ve just really drawn to that Moish idea. That’s good, isn’t it?

Bashar: That’s good, isn’t it? Yes. It’s one you have more more. Many of you have many counterparts in the same contemporary time frame. Split-offs from the same oversoul that you are a projection of are walking around on your planet appearing to be other people, but they are still part of the same soul that you are a projection of as well. This goes for all of you, right? Okay. So, do we often meet?

Bashar: Sometimes, yes, sometimes. No. Sometimes you love each other, sometimes you hate each other. You never know. You can know. But more often than not, there is not a reason to know because each is autonomous for a purpose, right? And many times the purpose does not contain a need to see the reflection of the other counterpart. At least not in a way that you know that that’s what it is. Although in this transitional age sometimes you will find more often than not the idea is that many of you will use your own counterparts to throw the reflection back at yourself as to what it is you can become more truly.

Questioner: Have I met any of these counterparts in this lecture?

Bashar: Yes. Can we talk about human medicine? Your mother is one.

Questioner: What a shock. Wow. Wow. How does your body temperature feel right now? Very hot.

Bashar: Then you have been appropriately shocked. You see that year went by quickly. We’ll let you sleep. That’s a good idea. Thank you very much.

Questioner: That’s a good idea. Thank you very much. We are two. Thank you. Um, Thank you. Um, good day.


Conversation 6: Healing Energy and Community

Bashar: How are you?

Questioner: Perfect. And you? Um, working on it.

Bashar: Working on it. I’m very glad to be here.

Questioner: Oh, all right. We are very happy you are there and uh thank you for the healing energy that you’ve been sending my sister. Her doctors can’t explain it and he’s going to write an article on her for the medical journal. Oh, all right. I told my mother it’s really you and it is really you, all of you.

Bashar: But you are keying to the vibrational cue we are radiating. But if you don’t accept the Q and use your own energy to match the frequency, no effect would be possible. So in that sense, yes, we are sending, but it is all of you that are matching with your willingness to do so that causes the effect you are observing.

Questioner: My how modest you are. Thank you.

Bashar: It has nothing to do with modesty. It has to do with physics.

Questioner: I understand. Thank you. Okay. Um my high point of excitement right now. guy is a little white kitten that has um ice blue eyes and a club foot and the Flurkey family are taking care of her right now. And if I I have been working with a coyote energy in this community up in the mountain out of the trunk of my mother’s te-ird and um Thunderbird. Yes. Yes. Coyote.

Bashar: All right. Native American symbology is rampant in your life.

Questioner: Yes. I mean the the raccoon energy has come in the owl energy and um so at any rate I am now physically in the blue and white house. Oh with my horse and I would like to stay there even though the the the energy setup is a little primitive. All right.

Bashar: But again, the idea is that if that is really the natural reflection of the joy of staying in the moment, then it’s not something you have to think about how to do. You just stay being yourself and it’ll be a natural side effect. You don’t have to make these kinds of things any of you your goal. I would like to stay there. That’s just another way of saying if I am myself where I am will be the appropriate place. And if that is the place most highly reflective of the vibration of who I am, then I can be nowhere else but there. But if I do find myself somewhere else, I know it will be reflective of who I am at that moment. And so that will be perfect. And that is how you allow yourself to attract the appropriate place in the appropriate time. Simple as that. You don’t have to work on the idea of wanting to be there, wanting to stay there. Okay? These are superfluous details there. There’s been upset with some people in the community regarding stop. Okay. Yeah. I don’t want to engage that.

Bashar: Okay. Yeah. I don’t want to engage that. Thank you. Okay. Stay with the energy of your joy. When you kept it on that level, then is when the vibration of everything works harmoniously. As soon as you start going into their territory and playing by their rules, you are leaving your home ground. I know. All right. How could you say something about this little kitten? She is. She’s just amazing. She’s She is inspiring you to stay where you live. F in your heart. That’s where you live.

Questioner: Okay. And then very quickly, my horse was in a tremendous exciting accident in August and um 40 people rescued him and got the paper and all that his shoes um his yes yes his rear feet seem to be sore don’t focus on that you are focusing on the peripheral details the event that the horse brought about is a direct symbol for you of how the community can support you when you allow yourself to be naturally who you are that’s the focal point of the event, not the horse’s hawks. That you focus on that gives you a better understanding of how often you will choose to look at the edges instead of the heart of the matter. The horse has a huge heart in more ways than one. The horse has a huge heart in more ways than one. Oh, I know. That’s the lesson. Stay there.

Questioner: Thank you very much. Thank you. You and then you two. Do you know who you are?

Bashar: Perfect. Yeah, I guess. Oh, all right. Maybe I’m in a laughing mood.

Questioner: I’m in a laughing mood.

Bashar: Oh, all right. Go right ahead and laugh.

Questioner: Well, um I don’t hear any laugh, but it’s it’s just not coming out. Oh, all right. You know, vocally or whatever audibly. Anyway, um I had an interesting meeting a little while back.

Bashar: Oh, all right. Do share. Do define.

Questioner: I’ll try to go through this pretty quickly. Don’t try. Do so.

Bashar: Don’t try. Do so. Okay. Um, driving around, I see this old mansion that’s for rent and it’s run down. The side of it in good and good condition. Yes. Yes. I go in to see it and it’s similar to a museum where they’ve kind of stacked and kept a lot of furniture in there and relics. Yes. Yes. And so, and so I wanted rent it and I kind of asked about how where I could put my stuff and that was the wrong thing to say to the lady. And she said, “You’re going to need I I started to leave and she said, “You’re going to need 5becauseyourcarsgoingtobreakdown."Oh,what?AndIwaslike,"5 because your car's going to break down." Oh, what? And I was like, " 5.” And I looked at it and I knew what I I knew that I It was like telepathy that I knew that she was connecting with.

Bashar: That phrase is a loose translation of the idea that you’re going to have to rely on your humanity and your senses because the mode of your vehicle is going to change.

Questioner: My vehicle as my body.

Bashar: Your vehicle as your way of doing things. Okay. So, that’s Okay. So, then it jumps to it’s kind of a mansion on the sea and there’s this little house, this little playhouse. Yeah. Yeah. And I go next door to go into it and I have to crawl in because I can’t fit through the doors. So, the ceilings get higher. And I thought, well, this must be where the second door slid. All right. Dreams are funny. Anyway, so the thing starts to turn down into dive into the ocean. And I thought, what thing? The house, the round sil the seven dwarf house. Yeah. Yeah. Turns into dive into the ocean. And I thought, oh, I have to hurry up and take a deep breath because so I don’t drown. And so then I was trying I I got through the door and I was swimming and swimming and they were chasing me. Someone was chasing me.

Bashar: You understand that you are now mixing your experiences in one dream. This is an overlay of an actual interaction with another species. You were in a ship. Those beings are small. You experience being immersed in liquid for the transition to their dimension for it acts as a buffering mechanism. In this dream, you are simply recalling bits and pieces of different kinds of experiences and different kinds of integrational psychological ideas and you incorporated them all into one dream. Okay? But that means you are waking up in a different way that you remember these things and put them all together. Because as you recognize that the mansion no longer serves you in this sense that it is old and dilapidated. As you change the structure of your being and recognize that you fit in a different structure, as you change your modality, your vehicle, your way of doing things, you are waking up and remembering more of the different kinds of interactions that have actually gone on and other dimensions of reality with you. That is primarily and fundamentally what this quote unquote dream was about.

Questioner: Okay. Interaction. Interaction. Yes. Um making your own mosaic, right? Reality. Yay. Once again. Yeah. So as your future self does. Yes. uh which was kind of I um also just at the very end of that dream um I was very very scared that someone jumped to someone and stabbed me with a knife and I was running and someone got to that person instead and they stabbed him in his mouth. Yes. And so, um, I flew up, but it was really thin, thick, thick, thick red goo that was like continuously pouring out of me. And then all of a sudden, they were as if they were clapping like, “That’s right. That’s a good job.” Like they

Bashar: Again, the idea is to recognize that this is an induced scenario, right? To allow you to go through an experience that would allow them to see how you would do with all the concepts going on in that scenario, how you would handle it and process it. emotionally, intellectually, symbolically, so on and so forth to see if the adjustments that are being made in your frequency are in a sense sticking.

Questioner: Okay. Well, that was pretty gross, isn’t it?

Bashar: If you say so.

Questioner: If you say so. Yep. For me, it was where I was. Okay. Lastly, I just wanted…

Bashar: It is only a releasing of old ideas that would now be toxic to your system.

Questioner: Oh, great. Oh, great. Good. you are replacing your life’s blood, so to speak. Well, I wanted to ask myself and ask you and ask to um you can teach me all you want as far as um the class and anything else, but I’m giving you permission to Are you sure about that?

Bashar: Absolutely positively. And I asked myself that. Oh, all right. Would you just do us a favor and remember whenever you feel it is appropriate to remember, will you?

Questioner: Yeah, you asked for it. Oh, okay. All right. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. You’re welcome. Number two. Oh, good. good. Oh, good day. How are you?

Bashar: Perfect. And you?

Questioner: No, I’m transition.

Bashar: So, what’s wrong with that? Transition is in and of itself a perfect state unto its own definition. Is it not in your reality define that way? It doesn’t uh hh you know better than that. Remember that feelings are secondary reactions to something you have already defined as true. So if it doesn’t feel that way you’re not defining it that way and that’s why it doesn’t feel that way. Remember are you back in kindergarten all of a sudden?

Questioner: Are you back in kindergarten all of a sudden? It seems like it is all right. That’s all right. If there are different issues you have not yet applied these processes to as you have in other areas, you may experience what will appear to you to be starting from scratch as you say in your language. But that’s all right. The same mechanisms that work for you in other arenas of your life will work here if you give yourself a moment of pause to remember that you’re supplying the meaning to a neutral circumstance. All right. Okay. Work with that. Work with that. Work with that. We’ll get back to you later. You know, know, good day. Good day.


Conversation 7: The Akashic Records and Parallel Realities

Questioner: Oh, you as well. All right. I was wondering if it’s similar to a computer.

Bashar: It will work for you perhaps as an analogy.

Questioner: And is it a physical an actual physical place?

Bashar: Not really, but you can experience it that way. And when you choose to experience it that way, then in that moment it is a real physical thing. Remember that reality is only what you concocted to be anywhere. To ask if the Aashic records is a real physical place is simply to wonder whether or not you can impose that framework on it, which of course you can. And it is no less real than whatever it might be when you’re not imposing it. It is a state like anything like any reality. It’s a state of awareness. It’s a state of consciousness. The definition of which is that it simply contains all the information you could possibly need in any given moment. It is that state of being in connection with all that is or whatever quote unquote portion or perspective of all that is that serves the particular portion or perspective you are being at that moment. You can experience it in any way, shape or form that you want to remember that when we gave you the exercise of walking through the Aashic records as if it were a city made out of crystal. that is real, but it is also only an analogy. It is only a creation in your consciousness. But that’s what reality is. Do you understand?

Questioner: Yes. Does this help clarify the concept to some degree?

Bashar: Uh, yes. Does it help clarify why the question you asked really can be both yes and no?

Questioner: Uh, yes it does. Oh, why? Anything else? Yeah, I was wondering at the time that you are in your um in parallel what is exactly happening on Earth at the time. Twy live side by side.

Bashar: Earth is a member of the association of worlds. There are the comingings and goings of many different kinds of extraterrestrial species on your planet. There are many different interactions between your beings and spirit realities. There are very few structures except some that have been preserved for the sake of interest and curiosity. There are many other things happening. Is there some specific avenue you wish to go down? This is an approximation of what you would recognize as about 300 years in your future. But people are living in a much lighter in a much lighter relationship. It is full fourth density reality.

Questioner: Yes. Thank you. Then I do have a dream. I’d like to ask you that. I was um as if in a group to make a choice about what?

Bashar: Well, I couldn’t remember what the choice was about, but what I showed it was three serpents and something similar to a frog. Three serpents and a frog. And one of the frogs kind of fell to the side and they looked very much like regular regular frogs. But two of the shepherds turned into black diamond. One was white with black and diamonds. The other one was pink and they wrapped themselves around me. Yeah. And their heads kind of like came on either side of my head. My heart was like in amazing posture. And I I got the information that I must remain very very still. Yeah. Yeah. And that uh all in on all accounts I must not be afraid and I should adjustments were being made in your DNA structure.

Bashar: This is how you symbolically interpreted that particular experience on that level. Okay. Very confident. Yes. You understand the symbology of the snakes in that way with the DNA spiral?

Questioner: Yes. Uh yes. greeting. Yes. Male and female. One and then two. How about three? And then three. I’ll be four. Three for now. One, two, three. Okay. Good day. Good day. Good day. Good day. Good day.


Conversation 8: Remembering and Protection

Questioner: Um, now that that’s now that that’s I would like Yes. First and foremost, I tell you myself that yes, whatever it takes for me to return to self, I want you to push my button as well. Whatever it takes.

Bashar: All right, we will get our finger ready. Um, as far as we believe we heard that word before.

Questioner: What words?

Bashar: It’s translated. Well, I guess I knew that. But but I want to ask you about that. What is it in me that is in the way of me remembering? I asked to remember the suggestions that you are given. Many times have purpose in that you don’t remember. You are given suggestions not to remember. And there are many reasons that you yourself would actually agree with for forgetting. They’re possibly thankful. Not so much that some of it is simply that in being made to ostensibly on one level forget then you are allowed to simply be your natural self as your life unfolds and that other concept another experience doesn’t inhibit or impede your ability to naturally move ahead spontaneously. Another reason is that there are individuals on your planet that would have the ability to access information that would not be to the best benefit of your world for them to access. And so you are made to forget so that those individuals on your planet cannot access the experience you have had for they would use it in a detrimental and negative way to me to your people in general.

Questioner: Who are those people?

Bashar: They are autonomous factions of your world that are recognized often by what you would call clandestine activities. That didn’t translate. That didn’t translate. CIA. Thank you. CI mentioning CIA people like they could they could access my memory.

Bashar: They have the technology to do so. Oh, and thus many of the experiences are cloaked with suggestions that you will not remember so that that information of that experience cannot be used in a detrimental way on your fun. Which cover? Yes. Yes. Bad boy. very looking at they can tell that there is information therein. They can also tell that it has in some sense been encrypted or encoded in a way that they cannot access. They got that technology from the grave though, right? And it was developed in other ways but yes some of it came from some of those interactions. Yes. Okay. So, anything else? Number one. Yeah. Yes. So, okay. Are are these still mostly the grays that I’m interacting with in general?

Bashar: Although there are others, you have many other different kinds of connections as well. We will go into them at some other time. The and right as we have already mentioned, but there are a few others as well. Okay. One moment. One moment. One moment. You are also one of us in our contemporary time frame.

Questioner: Thank you, Michelle. I asked you that before and you didn’t have that information. I asked you what do I do on your plan? Now is the time. M I Yeah, I I’m doing you.

Bashar: Now is the timing for you to awaken to more of that connection. Okay. Does this serve you? Does this serve you? Does this serve? This pleasant dream. Oh, I suppose you could. Um and I shall have pleasant dreams. Um and they will be interesting as well. Thank you. I will have nothing to do with it. At least not that sometimes. Well, I didn’t notice it before like almost a year ago. Not quite a year ago. Uh but I was looking at the star series and it started to dance. The stars dance. If I look at the stars, they dance. Now, maybe other people know this phenomenon. Sometimes it will simply be a matter of the idea of your eye motion creating that illusion. Okay. Okay. Okay. Sometimes it will be an aberration of the atmosphere as the light passes through it. Really?

Bashar: Yes. More often than not you will find that will simply be a nervous reaction of the eyeball. And I want to get back to few months ago you were talking about corn how both of this world and not of this world. It is a hybrid. And tell me if so it’s beneficial for us to eat it.

Bashar: There are beneficial things if you are aligned with certain frequencies. Yes. For individuals who may be going through certain processes that are not aligned with that frequency. No. It would be detrimental. But you are aligned. Thank you. Um and that is another very strong clue for another energy you can access from another angle altogether. Yes. I’m I’m um looking into eating, you know, like some corn comes deermed and be Yes. But we’re not really now talking about the corn specifically. We are talking about the energy that the corn symbolizes to you and has for many lifetimes. Yes. Any more clues in that direction? I feel I’ve got your concept. Starts with the letter K. Do you know it? Which do you prefer, Cacina or Kel? Anything else? Anything else?


Conversation 9: Telepathy and Woodstock

Questioner: Yeah. Yeah. Um, I have questions on on how you scan the energy. How how do you see it? How do you I wonder when you scan energy, I would like to scan energy. I would like to be telepathic.

Bashar: You are. All of you are. Remember, telepathy is an vibrational identification. identification. The more that you are in love with all things, the more synchronous and harmonious you will be with them and you will know them. In that sense, then understand to love them is to know them. You understand? That’s how it works. And that’s why we say it is not telepathy, it is telepathy. Mhm. Make sense to you?

Questioner: Make sense to you? Makes a lot of sense. Telempathy. Tele vibrational Tele vibrational is a vibrational identification. It makes me want to already read to you my story of my interaction.

Bashar: You may do so at some time in the future. Fine. Number two, sure. Good day.

Questioner: Good day to you. Thanks for this wonderful interaction. And you as well. I was watching uh probably a couple weeks ago and there was a a documentary on on the history of rock and roll. History of rock and roll. All right. Understood. And I saw the documentary footage of of an event called Woodstock. Woodstock. All right. Understood. It took place in 1969. Understood. Scanning scanning a human consciousness at that time. Could you sort of discuss or or or shed some some insights on what you thought that was all about?

Bashar: It was the beginning of a cycle that will have its polar opposite in your upcoming year. Of course, as you already know, 69 96. In other words, the idea is that as you began that cycle of energy back then of what you would recognize as freedom of choice will begin to play a much more important role in your realities in 1996 as you count time. There will be a further breakdown of many of the structural institutions around the world that are representative of lack of freedom of choice. Thus, 96 will be a pivotal point of acceleration of the breakdown of old paradigms and structures on your planet.

Questioner: Wonderful. One more quick question. One more quick question. As uh I’m beginning to meditate more and uh trust my intuition. Oh, thank you so very much. I’m beginning to h have visions of being a young child, right? And there was this beautiful willow tree by our house. And I can remember now, I’m not sure if I’m seeing lights. I’m not sure if they were interactions. I’m not sure if they were extraterrestrial uh meetings or something. uh meetings or something. You maybe what those they were interaction. And you are beginning to remember. This is true. We thank you. Thank you. Number three. Good day to show and good day to you.


Conversation 10: Spirit Guides, Reincarnation, and Family Patterns

Questioner: Um I’m gonna start off. You go right ahead. That’s a good place to begin. Um a couple of weeks ago Yes. during meditation I got in touch um with the energy of a male child named Samuel that I 12 years ago. Oh yeah. And still acting as a sweet guy. still acting as a sweet guy. Still acting as a spirit guide. Yes. Um I would like to know if whose energy has um come been reincarnated into a present life.

Bashar: Again, remember that the concept of spirit existence and incarnation is a simultaneous phenomenology. You will forever be capable of contacting the entity in spirit even if they have experienced the concept of quote unquote reincarnation because reincarnation is a fallacy. It is multiple simultaneous incarnations and every entity is its own discrete autonomous entity and it isn’t exactly the same entity having another life. It is a completely new projection and creation of the oversoul to which both of those physical entities belong. So to answer your question, yes and no. The entity is in fact 12 years old and still accessible in spirit simultaneously. Wisconsin is where the child is, a boy of 12, right? And um um one moment. Yes. Although you may find that there is also another name. We do not know if it is a family name associated with the first name of Samuel. We do not know if the Samuel is the last name, but there is another name associated that would be in your vernacular, Toby. Um Um and when I make um the contact with energy um stop, do you have in your culture familiarity with what you would call an art form known as comic book? Do you have a favorite one? Have you always had a favorite one?

Questioner: No, I I I know comic books, but I don’t currently I did not say currently necessarily. Did you have in your youth any particular attraction or affiliation?

Bashar: Attraction or affiliation? I have. Yes. What? Who? It’s Calvin. It’s a little kid. Calvin and Tom. Every time you thus read, you are making a strong connection to the incarnated Samuel and to the spirit as well. It is a symbol being reflected by that entity as containing the appropriate vibration to make a connection between all three. You the incarnated version and the spiritual version as well. Um, spirit will use any device that works, right? And and I I know that I can now contact if I want the connection.

Bashar: The connection is always there. If you want to be aware of it, you can be. Exactly. Um, the other thing that I would like to ask you is um my in my own growth. Yeah. Um, I had injected um certain fears onto my dog and she would get these eye infections and I had talked to you about an infection that I actually had on my eye. Nice. That my dog was reflecting a couple of months ago that went away. And um in the last 10 days, my dog has got another eye infection. Yes. And um Yes. And um this may simply be your repetitive methodology for seeing in a new way. You may simply be using the same mechanism over and over again to see new things. And the animal is reflecting for you that aspect of the energy that perhaps would manifest in you in that way were the animal not siphoning it off for you and allowing you to benefit from the more positive side of that mechanism. You understand?

Questioner: Yes. But yes, um I had Gary who meology on me tonight. um I had Gary who meology on me tonight. Gary. Yes. And uh when he said that I was holding on to a dogmatic idea. Oh, that was something of my older sister, I believe, that was something of my older sister, I believe, which would be what? I um How do you feel about your older sister? How do you relate to her? What do you define your relationship to be to her? In the past, as children, we had a we didn’t have a relationship. You had some kind of It was um even if it involved never speaking, that’s the relationship. Yeah. Um I I don’t want to go as far as saying it was painful, but we didn’t enjoy each other. You were displeased with each other, right? Well, that Yeah. intensely displeased for and now in the present. Yes. Um we love each other and I feel a lot of joy being with her. Is there any resentment? She has been resentful of me. Yeah. Are you resentful? She resents you. I mean I don’t feel I’m resentful. I might What are you then? Um, yeah. That I’m hurt by it. I I see it as in what way hurt? Rejection. The rejection. All right. Resentment, rejection. Why do you feel rejected? Do you feel rejected now? Are you saying that you feel rejected because of how she behaved toward you in the past? Yes. She no longer behaved that way toward you. Absolutely. And I don’t feel rejected. I’m saying in the past that that is what I could have. But you do not feel rejected now. No. Do you feel that she holds any resentment now? Not that I am aware of. All right. One moment. One moment. One moment. And your mother. Is that a different story?

Questioner: Yes. Part of it is is that the sister does to some degree reflect some of the attributes of your mother to you. You are clothing her lightly but still doing it in the guise of your mother in certain circumstances where you are triggered to do so. That is what you need to see. That’s the dog ma that is being when um comeology I said to Gary if I’m holding on to any belief that doesn’t serve me it would be a belief of my mother all right all right or so then when you get in touch with that you will then allow yourself more opportunity for more delightful super um um one last thing. One last thing. Uh here we are at the end of creation. One last thing. The omega of existence itself. Everyone pay attention. This is the last thing that’s ever going to happen anywhere at any time.

Questioner: Yes. Well, this is the last time you’re going to be in this moment. So, what I am saying is um y in um high school. High school. Um are you talking about the one you all attend when you dream or the one on earth? Yeah, on the one on earth. Yeah, on the one on earth. Oh, all right. Um as uh a child, I always felt I would feel Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Okay. um that I would wake up in the middle of the night and I would have a sense that there was something in the room, right? And now I know that it probably was and still is. And still is. Yes. Um Um and it that experience always stayed with me and so it stayed and still it stayed. In high school I gave myself a pen name. Pen name. Yes. That writers use. Yes, I understand. And so it was or is and I created a name uh called tomorrow e fantis and what it stood for was the knowledge that there was always a tomorrow. The e was for eternity and tomorrow was to represent tomorrow and that fantas was to represent myself as a dreamer. You mean Fanta C. And that is the name that I wrote by. And I just realized recently that I had that information at such a young age. And I felt you all do, but very often, no offense, your high school drums it out of you. Well, this is what happened. I feel like now I’m like going back to the knowledge, the real the real the real knowledge. I school when you dream and and you all attend classes often in your dreams. Um you might call it a re-education program. Um the thing is I’m not I’m I’m I’ve asked for conscious participation.

Bashar: You will eventually get it when it is appropriate to your own agenda. Okay. I have had the feeling. Yes. um that I have been impregnated and have had um hybrid children. Oh, you’ve had that feeling? Yeah. Well, tell me what does that feel like?

Questioner: Well, tell me what does that feel like? It’s very strange because I I felt as if my body was pregnant. Yes. And so, so it’s a disconcerning 230 feeling to feel that your body’s pregnant and then it’s not. Why is that disconcerting for me? I guess because um my life experience to have children and I haven’t previously all right had that but it gives you an opportunity to get in touch with the ones in fact that you have had that do not reside with you on the planet that you will meet again as many of you will. And can you tell me how many I have?

Bashar: There are variations of genetic material that have been utilized for the procreation of different hybrid beings. But in terms of the ones that contain the most approximation of your genetic material, the ones you would more or less recognize as your own. One moment. One moment. Remember, just as an aid and an assistance to you, we understand the process that you are in fact experiencing. At the same time, you can remember that everything going on in your life is a part of the orchestration that will eventually make sense to the you you are becoming. And as part of the overall orchestration, when you allow yourself to realize that, you will not become disconnected from your concert. All right. All right. Thank you. Um, good day. good day.


Conversation 11: Self-Worth and Mirrors

Questioner: Hi. How are you?

Bashar: Perfect. And you? Pretty good. Pretty good. All right. Um, well, I’ve got a couple questions. One, I’ve never asked this before, but I think it’s time, so it’s time. Oh, all right. If you insist. Oh, I insist. That’s it. Thank you. Um, I have seen for a number of years out of the corner of my eye a woman in my large mirror in my dining area. I think she was at my other apartment in the same mirror, but I don’t remember. It’s been a while. And the interesting thing is that I’ve been thinking about this mirror because I had it made a certain shape. I think it’s eight sided. One, two, or you’re saying octagonal?

Bashar: Or you’re saying octagonal?

Questioner: I think that’s what it is. It’s either that or six. Pretty sure it’s eight cuz I they did it they did it incorrectly to what I told them but it turned out that it has a lot of I guess metaphysical spiritual meaning. So I guess it’s probably the eight one. Oh all right if you guess. Well anyway I had this little extra Oh I had it specially made. It’s like um had beveled glass and smoke smoking around the edge and mirrors are very strong trigger tools for the psychic energy of most of you to help put you in touch with the spirit realm. Yes. Well, the interesting thing is me in this, you know, being in metaphysics and having challenged, you know, and all that. Oh, all that. And I find that I’ve been afraid of this figure I see. So, I have pretend like it’s not there.

Bashar: What is it that you are afraid of?

Questioner: At the moment, I thought it’s me. Yeah. So, what are you afraid of within yourself?

Questioner: Well, I don’t know if it is me, but that’s the feeling I got, so I guess it must be. So, it is you. What are you afraid of? What are you afraid to see within yourself? Oh, lots of things like that. Oh, lots of things. Oh, all right. Name one. Well, on the positive side, I’m afraid to see myself work. On the positive side, I am afraid to see myself work. We have to take a moment to make sure that we had translated that correctly. Well, self worth being a positive thing is well. Yes, I understand. Okay. Love that. Why are you afraid to see your self worth? Or if I may really turn this around in another direction, if you’re afraid to see it, how do you know you have any? That’s the whole thing. Yes, I know. That’s the whole thing. How do you know you have any to see? Is that what you’re actually afraid of? That if you look for your self worth, you might actually find out you don’t have any. Is that what you actually mean? Oh, sure. Oh, sure. Oh, what? Why don’t I have to go to therapy now?

Bashar: You are in therapy, right, M? That’s what I mean. It’s like that you just really hit the nail on the head. I find you. I am terrified. I have no value whatsoever to Well, you know what? If that were fundamentally true, you and I wouldn’t be having this conversation because you wouldn’t exist. You’ve told me that once before. Yes. Of course, you have to tell it to yourself for it to have any meaning. Right. So, this woman, so why are you motivated to believe that you are unworthy?

Questioner: I don’t know.

Bashar: Yes, you do.

Questioner: I do know.

Bashar: Yes. What motivation? What do you get out of perpetuating a belief you don’t prefer? I can’t shine. I can’t. I can’t shine. I can’t. And if you don’t shine, then what? Is it all hinged on the idea again that you are afraid to find out that if you allow yourself to be you that still you will not be validated?

Questioner: I I don’t get that. I’m sorry. If you allow yourself to shine, are you afraid no one will see you? Are you afraid you won’t really shine?

Bashar: Yeah, I think that’s more all right. Again, same mechanism. But what motivates you to think that way? What do you get out of remaining in that state? You must be getting something out of it or you wouldn’t be motivated to be in that state. Figure is comfortable. All right. More comfortable than what you think it will take to shine. Which means you have a definition that shining is difficult. who taught you that I guess all the people that I’ve looked up to, you know, and and respected and thought were these great magnificent expressions of life um look like they worked damn hard and put a lot of effort energy into it and were in a public eye all the time and judged all I mean like all this. So what attributes are you connecting to your ability to shine that are attributes you don’t prefer to have but are assuming you must have if you shine? Yeah. Never run that by me again. What attributes did you observe in them that you think go hand in hand with shining that you don’t want to have and think you have to have if you shine? Because you can define shining however you wish to. You don’t have to have attributes that you don’t prefer just because other people who shown had them. I guess it’s all this damn hard work. you know, years and years before they actually became these people that everybody respects and they’ve had a, you know, like you think of Lincoln, you know, Abraham Lincoln, I mean, he lived, you know, poor and he went through all this hard stuff, you know, he’s just like, and then finally he got respected and admired, you know, just anybody like that. Why do you care?

Bashar: Why do you care?

Questioner: Why do I care?

Bashar: Yes. Why do you care so much? That’s the difficulty. You care too much that that’s what you think you need. I care too much about those things about being recognized. About being recognized. Yes. You don’t allow yourself to recognize yourself. Right. Because you care too much about being recognized, right? That’s the paradox. That’s the paradox. It is a paradox because low selfworth is very reason why somebody would care so much about what other people think. No. It’s the other way around. Caring too much about being recognized is what generates low selfworth. Well, how do you break me? How do you break the freaking pattern of that?

Bashar: The same way you break the fracking one. It begins with selfreization. Again, you get to the heart of the definition. itself. You get to the understanding that you are motivated. It’s a choice. Once you begin to understand it’s a choice, you begin to question what the motivation is for making that choice. You begin to redefine your basic principle definitional parameters, your fundamental ones about what you have given meaning to and how you might like to change the meaning in everything that you know. So you go back to zero. You grow up all over again. You raise yourself from scratch. Start with zero blank. Nothing has any meaning. Zero. No meaning built into it at all. Everything is neutral. Neutral. Neutral. Then you decide from moment to moment. Each little thing, each big thing, each component you create, each and every detail you discover you have given meaning to. Ask yourself if the meaning you have assigned is the meaning you prefer to assign and start to recognize that only the meaning you have assigned is what creates the effect you are getting and the feedback you are feeling. So zero it out. Flatten it all out. Neutralize it. No meaning, nothing means anything in particular. They are devoid of meaning. They are shells, props, illusions, ethereal fantasms of an idea, of a concept, of a notion. Is that vague enough for you? Oh, it’s great when you do it. And huh, listen to yourself now. listen to yourself now. You can only be experiencing what I am saying if you are creating me in your reality to say it to yourself. So you are doing this. You are saying this to yourself. You are not experiencing me directly. Right? You are creating your version of me in order to give yourself permission to be powerful enough to know what you know you want to be true. You’ve said that to me once before you you said it to yourself. I’ve said it to you once. I remember what you said to myself that I feel like when I’m in your presence, I give myself permission to look at things in a different perspective than I normally. And the idea therefore is is that you’re doing it. It’s your energy you’re feeling. It’s your presence, your feeling. Whatever it is you are assigning to me is actually yourself because that’s the only way you could be perceiving it in the reality you are. Well, see that’s great because how I perceive you which is a reflection of myself we’re sitting here is that I think so much of you and I have such love and such a bond and I just then you do in fact think that way about yourself but you have created a mechanism that makes it appear to be indirect. Right? Allow it to be the direct mechanism it is. The way you say you feel about me is the way at your core you actually believe to be true about yourself. All you have to do is recognize that that’s what you’re doing. It is a definition and a definition of reality only that makes it appear to be an indirect recognition of yourself through me apparently. Now allow it to be a recognition of yourself transparently. Transparent. Not through me apparently, but of yourself directly. Transparently without needing to put it something else. Yes. Without projecting it out there to me because there’s nothing out here. This is a mirror. A mirror. Reality is a perfect mirror. Perfect. 100% perfect mirror, a perfect reflection. What that means is there’s nothing out here. Just like a glass mirror contains none of the light. It’s all reflected back. That’s why there is a reflection because the mirror holds on to none of it. It directs it all directly back at you, showing you who you are, what you are, what you look like. So that’s what this is. You are looking in a mirror. If you see me and you see that I am capable and I am loving and I am confident, you are looking in a mirror. All you have to do is wake up to that fact. And you will recognize that everything you have ever felt about me, you feel about you. And that is true. Just as true as anything else you have ever felt. It it seems for me that I only allow myself. It does not seem anything you choose. Okay, that’s that’s I have allowed myself only at certain circumstances at certain times to be able to see that. Yes. Yes. Yes. But there you are. You have solved it in that sentence. I have only allowed. Well, if that’s true, which it is, then why not allow something you prefer? Because when you recognize that it is because you have allowed it, you are in control of what you experience and therefore you can experience what you prefer by allowing that. So yes, I have I have you want to keep talking to yourself. Go ahead. That’s fine. I’ll talk to myself. I do it a lot. Um I have explored these concepts in different times, different levels. Yes. And I found I And I found I that still you are choosing choosing choosing. There is nothing nothing nothing any of you do but by choice. It is that you can create in your reality what might appear to be an unconscious choice. But once you recognize the reality, once the reality is being reflected back to you by the perfect mirror of nothingness around you, it is conscious. No longer a habit. So why does it seem so hard and scary to me? Because it’s your definition. Because it’s your definition. It’s your definition. It’s your choice of definition. Why does the sky look blue? Why does any object look the color that it does when you hold up a red glass or a blue glass or a yellow glass and look through it? Why do things look yellow? Why do things look red? Why do things look blue? So, you’re saying I’ve defined this process as something hard and scary. Exactly. And that’s all it is is a definition. But a definition is reality. Right. Therefore, it has weight. It has solidity. It has momentum. It has inertia. It has parameters that you have allowed it to have because of your definition. But that’s the only reason it has them. There is nothing inherently real about the circumstance. It is only definitionally real. But that’s what reality is. Yeah. I remember a long time ago you told me that because it was my work situation. You were saying that the only reason that it was that way is because I believe like it was carved in granite. It had to be that way. Nothing’s carved in granite. Nothing’s carved in stone. Nothing’s carved anywhere, right? Except in your consciousness. Except in your consciousness. I got that. That’s so funny because the reason I brought up the lady in the mirror is I wanted to bring up something light and not as heavy as the other thing I was going to bring up. And it turned out to be This is all made of light. Watch your definition. You have just given it right there. Wait. Right. You have just defined this as heavy. This is a very light conversation for us. Oh, and by us, I mean you and I. and by us, I mean you and I. Oh, okay. I like that. Then believe in it by believing in yourself. Thank you. Well put. Sufficient unto the you. Greetings. Greetings. Not you. Okay. You. You. Good day. And good day to you.


Conversation 12: Relationships and Wholeness

Questioner: The first time I’m communicating with you uh physically.

Bashar: Well, we thank you for allowing us to communicate with you in this way for the first time as Thank you. Um uh I’d like to know if you could give me some information about relationship with Jeff. What do you define your relationship with this Jeff individual to be?

Questioner: Um at the moment in a state of breaking up or having broken up.

Bashar: Is that one of the 50 states of your country? Perhaps the 51st.

Questioner: Perhaps the 51st. I think it’s a state of relationship.

Bashar: All right. Breaking up. What is it that you have learned about yourself in the relationship? Because that’s what the relationship is for. That’s what all relationships are for. To learn more about who you are and become more of yourself. So, what have you learned about yourself in this relationship?

Questioner: That I have been operating a great deal of not conscious time.

Bashar: All right. Is that something that you prefer to continue to do?

Questioner: No. All right. Thank you very much. Are you now saying that you have the opportunity to recognize that there are different things that you may prefer than you used to?

Questioner: Yes. Do those things that you now prefer make it seem that the relationship as it was is now more incompatible. Well, that’s where it’s confusing for me because in what sense?

Bashar: In what sense?

Questioner: Um, there are certain things about the relationship that were definitely have definitely been not comfortable, not pleasant, not enjoyable. Yes. So, there are other things that show up periodically about the relationship that are absolutely phenomenal. Do you know what the word holistic means?

Bashar: Yes. Do you not think a relationship should be holistic?

Questioner: Yes.

Bashar: The idea is that you can certainly serve each other by reflecting to each other the opportunity to become more of yourself and to change should each person in the relationship choose to change. But you can also arrive at a recognitional level in any relationship where you might in fact recognize that the vibration of one individual and the vibration of another individual is no longer synchronized. If you come to a place where you recognize that you have gone beyond your preferential level of reflectivity in helping the other individual have time to change or get in touch with what they need to get in touch with to make certain changes to become more harmonious. and you’ve gone beyond that threshold, then your duty to yourself and your duty to the other individual. And your duty to the relationship truly out of love is to be your true self and allow the consequences of that truth to allow the relationship to change in the way that it must change, which is the way it will actually serve all the individuals involved. And to recognize that an individual relationship that does not contain things that are representative of your preference and does not contain an opportunity to work with those things within the threshold of your preferential modality is not a holistic relationship. Anyway, if you are not you and that individual is not who he is in truth, you’re not in a relationship with him anyway. You follow? So, the idea is to recognize that if that individual did change to become more synchronized and harmonious with your preferences and vice versa, you wouldn’t really be the same people anyway, would you? Right? So, what difference does it make whether it’s actually physically another person that comes into your life or not? Because if another person comes into your life and they are reflective of an energy that you feel more compatible with, believe me, you won’t care that it’s not Jeff. Right? You understand? You understand? Be yourself or there is no relationship any. And if that individual does change, he is a different person.

Questioner: And that’s what’s been happening. He has been changing a great deal.

Bashar: Then what is your complaint?

Questioner: That he’s changing. He’s becoming more of who I really want him to be with, but he’s saying that he doesn’t want to be with saying that he doesn’t want to be with me.

Bashar: And do you prefer someone in your relationship who says they don’t want to be with you?

Questioner: No.

Bashar: Then that is something that is outside your preference. And it is a lesson for you to get in touch with the idea of how to unconditionally love yourself and allow your reality to reflect to you by attracting it to you an individual or individuals who would in fact want to interact with you. You follow? But obviously this is bringing up issues for you that are allowing you to get in touch with programmings and things that have been implanted within you since childhood. The reason why you have attracted an individual that you love so much who appears strongly underlying that word appears to be rejecting you is because you have an issue with rejection and that’s what that individual is unconditionally lovingly helping you to realize because that’s what you need to work with to become whole. You follow? Yes. If that individual did not point that out to you, you would be acting in a relationship in what you typically call a dysfunctional manner, having someone who was only there to reinforce all the things that don’t represent the way you actually want to be as a whole person. So, it is serving you to have someone do this to you at this time because it’s putting you squarely in touch with an issue that you need to integrate in order to become more holistic and therefore the relationship is working perfectly because that’s what relationships are for. He is actually being a friend even though he may not know it.

Questioner: Oh, I yeah, I know. And I and even though you may not know it, I I do know it.

Bashar: And again, the paradox and the point is is that as soon as you allow yourself to get in touch with the energy that is being pointed out to you in that way, it is possible that once there is no longer a reason for that energy to be sent to you that way because you’ve integrated it, you might change. But don’t expect it because again, it won’t matter whether it’s him or not. The idea is that you will become a more whole vibration. You will thus automatically attract all situations that are more reflective and more representative of the whole vibration you are being. Remember, if you believe negatively that you need someone else in order to be more complete, then you only attract individuals to reflect to you your belief in your incompleteness. It doesn’t mean that you cannot learn and grow new ways and new things in a relationship. But the paradox is is that you have to allow yourself to know you are whole fundamentally in order to attract someone who can be willing to reflect back to you the willingness to work toward the recognition of that wholeness.

Questioner: I’ve I’ve known this intellectually. I get this coming to get it experiential.

Bashar: If you have not known it intellectually and experientially both, you have not yet known it. Allow yourself to know you haven’t known it because that will remove a big burden off your shoulders thinking that just because you’ve got it intellectually you are supposed to understand it on all other levels all at once. You know it or you don’t know it. And that’s all there is to it. And if you don’t know it, let it be all right to say, you know, I don’t know this. I don’t get it yet, but I will. It’s all right to not know. Most of you will actually paradoxically find that most of your troubles would vanish overnight if you would just let yourselves be all right with saying, “I don’t know this stuff.” Then you would stop working so hard at thinking that you’re supposed to. And then you would just live. And then just by living the experiences you have when you’re in that kind of open honest state would actually allow you to know more than you know. You follow? Mhm. Is this help?

Questioner: Is this help? Yes, it is.

Bashar: To learn to love yourself unconditionally enough to allow what is going on in your life to be all right as it is. So that what is going on in your life as it is can be transformed by you into a way that is more reflective of your knowing self. You understand?

Questioner: I believe so. You don’t let what is, however it’s happening, be all right, be the thing that needs to be happening, be what it is, and learn from it in the positive way you want to by assigning a positive reality meaning to it. So that regardless of anyone else’s intention toward you, the only effect you will get out of it will be the positive impact of the meaning you have assigned to what is going on. Because you have to know fundamentally that what is going on is there to help you learn to love yourself as unconditionally as the infinite. Does this make sense?

Questioner: Yes. Remember again as was said before that everything you have just heard you have said to yourself. You follow? You follow? Mhm. It’s up to you to decide whether you believe it or not. One moment. Is there a place that you are most excited to be?

Questioner: A physical place?

Bashar: Yes. A location?

Questioner: I’m not sure. I’m I’m actually at the moment right now looking for a new place to live and um I’ve been a bit confused as to what I want.

Bashar: Perhaps because you are not looking in the place that really excites you the most. Is there a place, a position, a local on your planet that you would rather live live on the planet? Is that too big for you?

Questioner: Well, kind of cuz I’m um I’m really focusing in in a direction with my acting career and everything feel like I need to be here.

Bashar: Here is Los Angeles. The idea is that there are many different realities even in the city that you call your city of angels, right? Are you looking in the area that is reflective of your joy and your preference? Or are you, how do you say it, making do?

Questioner: I’ve been making do for Where would you prefer to be?

Bashar: Where you resonate? Where does your heart, your joy, your creativity resonate?

Questioner: On a sound stage.

Bashar: All right, then we’ll build on the theater. You know what I’m asking?

Questioner: Yes. In terms of what you might call your residence, is there any particular local that you prefer in your city of angels more than any other? And are you looking in that local?

Questioner: Well, I’m enjoying living and I’m not Is that your place of highest excitement? I don’t know where my place I don’t think I’ve fully known or experienced where I see.

Bashar: I see. Then we have a homework assignment for you. Take time and enjoy it in the taking. Sit down, moment of pause and allow yourself to discover where in the city is the most exciting place. and be open without expectation to allowing yourself to suddenly realize that the place you would find most exciting to live might not fit any of your expectations. But if it is the most exciting, moving in that direction is what will unexpectedly allow you to fulfill anything else in your life that represents your highest joy and excitement. for again without expectation. Many times circumstances and situations that excite you, you don’t have to necessarily assume that just because they excite you right now and pull you in a certain direction that it means any particular thing in terms of how it is that that must ultimately play out just by making that move in that direction. You follow me? So if you find yourself all of a sudden being excited, for example, to go look somewhere even outside the limits of your city, but that really is the most exciting thing, go and take a look. Don’t be resistant to the excitement because of your assumption that you can’t do that because you think it means that you have to go live there. The fact that you may be being pulled in that direction by your excitement may simply mean that you only have to spend a day being in that energy. And that may all of a sudden unexpectedly allow you to run into the most unusual people at the right place in the right time that you never would have met. That may in fact be the easiest path of least resistance and least effort in opening the door to the other things that excite you in life. Because it is excitement that is connected. It is excitement that is representative of your path, not the surface details of what you think are supposed to be connected. Do you follow?

Questioner: Yes. Does this help lighten you up a bit?

Bashar: Yes. Yes. I have another question. Yes. Um the vibrational frequency that’s been uh raising in my body. Yes. And uh um I I find it very difficult to assimilate in my body and I’m I’m not that’s because there is resistance to yourself, right?

Questioner: Right?

Bashar: Resistance to loving yourself. You are in that sense creating a dichotomy. You want to express more of who and what you are but you are afraid to because of how you define the idea that that’s connected to pain. Redefine. Redefine. You are an actor. Become the part you prefer to play. You are on the stage right now.

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