7 Sequential Steps of Manifestation

Introduction: The Seven Steps of Manifestation

We will suggest some techniques for further manifesting the reality you prefer in your life.

You create your reality and that your physical reality is a reflection of what you believe most strongly can be true. We have discussed many different ideas and perspectives of exactly how you go about creating this reality.

Because you are intelligent people, many different methodologies for getting in touch with the mechanism of your internal creativity. And there are many different processes and methodologies that have been outlined over time and that exist in your present. They’re all valid one way or another.

And the suggestions that we are about to make does not mean that we shall supersede anything that your own people have created. But we would like to take this opportunity to as you say consolidate and simplify some of the things that we have been talking about and some of the things that exist in your society for how to go about getting a little bit clearer understanding of the process involved and the energies involved in creating the reality you prefer in manifesting the reality you prefer.

The steps we will now outline again will be translations into your language as best as can be done at this time from the concepts we are sending. Please understand that even though there may be specific words that are utilized to define the concepts that will be transmitted, it does not mean that just because you may have a particular semantic understanding of a particular word as it comes through that that’s the only understanding or the only definition you can have. There are many shall we say transferable words. There are many other words or concepts that could be used instead of the ones that will translate out. But you will understand that what we are outlining are the general concepts and simply utilizing what words are convenient and exist within the channel’s vocabulary at this time.

So to give you what might be called a very simplified overview of the steps necessary for the creation of the manifestation of the day-to-day experiential reality you prefer. We would like to transmit the information in the following way. You may if you wish use your writing implements and write these down so that you have something to refer to. Those of you who have writing implements, those of you who do not perhaps can either avail yourself of making a copy later on or whatever technique will work for you. But for right now, you may find that this will act as a handy reference for we will now outline simply seven basic steps for the manifestation of any and all reality that you may desire in your life. Are you ready? Are you ready now? Are you ready now? Are you ready now? Who is not ready? Who is not ready now? Thank you.

We recognize these ideas, these basic categories to be the sequential steps necessary for the manifestation of physiological reality as you prefer it.

1. Vision

Vision simply meaning have an image, have an idea, have a dream, have a wish, have a vision, have a picture of what you say you want. Now again, many of you have heard these ideas expressed in a number of ways and it’s all right if you have heard them before and certainly we have discussed them before in a number of ways and in great detail. But for now again this is just a simplification. Any word can do as long as it is representative of the concept of having some initial concept or vision that you want.

2.Desire

This goes hand in hand with the idea of excitement. The thing that you see, that you say you want, must be accompanied by a strong energy, a strong emotion. Desire is as good a term for now as any because that energizes the vision literally pumps as you say energy into it. Emotion, energy in motion, desire, strong, intense, all-consuming desire for the manifestation of that idea, of that reality, of that thing.

3.Belief

You must know and you must explore and you must examine within yourself that you have the belief that it is possible to manifest this thing. You have the belief that you deserve this thing. Whatever it is that you get in touch with within the concepts of your definitions of life, your beliefs are what are going to allow this thing to be possible. If you don’t believe you’re capable of it, if you don’t believe you deserve it, it isn’t going to manifest. No matter how much desire you may have, no matter how much vision you may have, no matter how clear that vision may be, if you do not believe it’s possible, it cannot manifest. So get in touch with the idea of what you do believe and find out what you would prefer to believe. Find out where the beliefs you have came from. Find out why you insist on maintaining them or have insisted on maintaining them. Find out why they have worked for you or why you are motivated to believe those definitions and determine for yourself by creating in your imagination new definitions that you say are more representative of what you really want, what you really desire. And then know that those new beliefs are in effect.

4. Acceptance

Vision, desire, belief, acceptance. You must totally accept yourself and the new belief as true. Just as you accepted the old belief to be true without question, beyond a shadow of a doubt. Total acceptance of yourself that it is possible for you to manifest this idea. Total acceptance of the new definitional belief that can make it so.

The first four steps are the setup.

5. Intention

The last three are once you have the vision, once you have the desire, once you have the clear belief, once you have accepted it totally, then you need the Intention. You must intend to manifest it.

You can want something, but you may not necessarily intend with your will, with your focus to manifest it. So, you must have the intention to do so. It must be a conscious choice, focus, intention, will, not an effort, but a focus, an intention. You must intend it to be so. This is also known as your conscious commandment of your reality.

6. Action

After you thus then have intended it, Action is the sixth step.

You must act like you are already in the state of that reality you want. You must behave as if the reality already exists in the present. You must do the things you would do in the way you would do them if the reality already existed for you. You must ground all the idea of the vision and the desire and the belief and the acceptance and the intention in the actions that you do so that your behavior and your body language are different than they used to be and representative of the reality that you are now focused on rather than representative of the reality that you no longer prefer. Because body language is very telling about what you really believe to be true, what you really believe you are capable of and what you really believe exists for you at present. So action is important.

And after you have built up that intense clarity of vision, that intense emotional desire, that clear crystal clear belief of definition, after you have totally accepted that this is true for you, after you have focused your intention and have allowed your actions to reflect it, you have to totally, utterly and absolutely detach from any outcome at all.

7. Allowance

You have to let it go utterly, unconditionally. That’s the power of paradox.

You’re using the power of the paradox of the existence of creation. The dark and the light, the day and the night, both sides of the polarity you have to have, in order to manifest anything, an absolute intensity of what you want with absolutely no expectation that it has to manifest at all. That’s the balance state you need to be in in order for the manifestation to be effortless.

You have to let it go totally and know that everything is already perfect as it is. Once you accept that the way it is is perfect, then the way it is can become another way that is more in alignment, more of a reflection of what you have set yourself to be your vibration to be.

The universe remember is not out there. There is no out there. It isn’t even that the universe that physical reality reflects back to you what you believe. It’s not that it reflects to you. Physical reality is a reflection. That’s all it is. It doesn’t reflect to you. It is a reflection. There is no physiological reality apart from the concept that it is simply a reflection of your strongest belief, your strongest desire, what you believe is true about yourself or possible for you.

And as a refinement on your understanding of the ideas that you ask for, make sure that you are asking for the thing itself, not the mode, not the process to that thing. The thing itself, the essence, the idea, the specific thing itself, not “I need this to get that.” Just the thing, all the details will work themselves out automatically about how it would be the path of least resistance and the best for all concerned that that reality manifests. You do not have to worry about how it manifests. It will manifest automatically in the best possible way for all concerned if you build up that intensity of intention and then just let it go, no expectation, no structure, no insistence, just allowance. Total allowance.

And remember, and here’s the cap, as you say. Many of you ask for the things you ask for because you expect, even when you’re following your joy, that your reality is supposed to support you.

Now, we have used that phrase many times, but only because it is a phrase that makes sense to you. It is a convenient phrase for explaining things, but it is also a misleading phrase.

Your reality has no power to support you. Your reality does not support you. You support your reality. That is a profound difference.

The things you do, if you look to the things you do, again, even the things that are representative of your joy, if you look to them to support you, they will not. If you support your reality, your reality will reflect the support back to you that you are giving to it.

The power to be supported does not come from your physical reality. It never has. It doesn’t now and it never will. It comes from you supporting yourself by believing in what you know is true for you and supporting the reality that is a reflection of that knowledge. And no other reality.

Well, if I just do this a little bit, that’ll be all right. I know I’m really doing mostly what I really want to do. But if I just do a little bit of what I don’t want to do, well, that will still be all right.

Well, maybe it will be for you. And that’s all right. And it’s valid if that’s what you want to do because every reality is valid. Every choice valid. Every path is valid.

However, I am simply telling you don’t expect to get 100% of what you say you really prefer if you’re not supporting that reality as 100% possible. If you’re only supported as 70% possible, you can only get that much of it. And sometimes not even that much.

Because if you mix and match, shall we say, the idea of a vibration, if you support the belief, if you support a reality that you know is not your preference as needing to be true for you because you are afraid to let it go, all the energy you are expending in the direction of your fear will in many ways prevent you from even receiving what it may be that you do support about the thing you do prefer.

Because you will be in many ways muddying the waters of your perception of your ability to perceive even those gifts, even those reflections that may be coming to you from the direction of your excitement just because you still think you have to contain other things that are not representative of who you would prefer to be.

In the same way that we have said very often, you may be 99.99999999999% up to speed as you say, but if you are a very efficient engine that requires 100% focus in order to run smoothly, then even that small what seems to be infinite decimal percentage of doubt of fear could seize the entire engine because it needs to be perfectly clean in order to operate at all. So sometimes even one-tenth of 1% is enough to stop the entire thing from running even if the rest of it is focused in the direction of your preference. Because the cleaner your belief, the cleaner the engine needs to be, the easier it is for the smallest particle that doesn’t belong there to stop the entire process.

So this now is a time on your planet and especially now in this your year as you understand it this timing right now especially now is a time of manifestation your reality your physical reality because you are exploring this concept of consciousness because you know that you are more than just your physical body. Your physical reality is now becoming much more plastic, much more fluid, much more malleable than ever before could it have been experienced by you. So now is the time for you to see that you can manifest what you really prefer. And these seven steps can be a good reminder for you as to exactly how to go about doing that and stay in that balanced state where you know your reality will reflect what you believe most strongly to be true.

Questions

David and Atlantean Memories

David: I have a question about remembering um many of the things that I need to know now from my Atlantean work that I have done. How do I recharge these memories to make them clearer and more useful in my current experiments?

Bashar: If you don’t remember them, how do you know there is something to remember?

Well, you helped me with that earlier.

No, no, you helped yourself with that. I am only always giving you a vibration that represents your ability to know what you need to know about yourself. You had to be the one to accept the frequency and change your energy to match that frequency. You can do it anytime you wish.

The idea is again to understand that you do know what you need to know when you need to know it if you trust that you do. And if you drop the concepts of sometimes your definitional expectations about exactly how you think you’re supposed to access the information, then you can allow yourself to be open to receiving the information in the way it would actually best serve you.

Because many times information will come to you not necessarily in the way you think it needs to come, but in the way that would actually serve you best. And it may be nothing like the way you think information needs to be received. But the way that it does come that serves you best may carry with it an energy, an atmosphere, a style that has everything to do with you gaining a deeper appreciation for what the information is and some context for how the information can be best put to use, rather than receiving it in the way perhaps you thought you should receive it, which may be devoid of the appropriate enriching context that would give you a better understanding of how to put it into applicability in your reality.

Is this making any sense to make sense? In other words, sometimes if you have the expectation that you’re supposed to receive this energy as a voice in your head stating categorically and empirically a certain string of information, but in fact perhaps the information should come to you according to what you really desire by looking at a painting and all of a sudden making a contextual connection between the colors in the painting and still getting the idea.

That may be where you trip yourself up by expecting that it has to come in the analytical way as opposed to the idea of the creative way.

Bashar: Now then, if you know that there is information that you have access to from what you call Atlantean incarnation, the very fact that you know it’s there should tell you that you do actually know what you need to know.

It’s just that you’re putting it in a context that doesn’t allow you to know that you know what you need to know. In other words, if you have the ability to even ask the question, right, the information of the answer must be contained within it. Otherwise, the concept wouldn’t have even occurred to you that you have information in Atlantean connections that you need to know.

Now, do remember of course as we know you know that this concept of past is just an illusion. All of what you call your linear incarnations, past, present, future, alternate reality, parallel reality, however you wish to label them, they are all coexisting simultaneously right now.

Just like all of the different threads of a tapestry coexist simultaneously, even though one thread may have its own identity, its own sense of itself apart from all the others. Nevertheless, all the other threads coexist simultaneously in order to create the whole tapestry, the whole picture.

So the life you are living as you here now is concurrent with the life you are living as the Atlantean in another here and now. It isn’t in the past. It’s just another expression of the same now.

So if you have enough connection to the vibration of that life to even know you have that life, all you have to do is amplify the feeling that comes with the concept of that life in all the ways you can. Immerse yourself, taste it, smell it, plug all your senses into what that idea of being in Atlantis means to you. And as soon as you identify strongly enough with that frequency, you will know what that you knows.

And because you are doing it for the purpose of creating a link or a bridge between the two parallel realities, you’ll be able to transfer all that information back to this reality for whatever purpose you are focusing on in terms of applying that information.

David: Do you have the capacity to remember at least the feeling of that era?

Bashar: Yes. And what you are like there.

David: Yeah. All right. I get uh sometimes during my dream time I experience life there.

Bashar: You have the ability to access the information but just don’t put the expectation that it’s going to translate in the way you think it must. Okay. Just know that you have the information.

And then as we have indicated already in the outline that we have suggested, once you simply feel the state and have created the intention and the focus and the belief and the vision, then just let go. Let go. Drop all expectation for how it has to manifest.

And then just go on with what actions you can go on with. And you will see that the knowledge will instinctively be there even though it may not be there in the way you thought it would be.

Galactic Healers and Light Body Activation

Asker: Many years ago, I spontaneous channeled. The group was called the ASBAR and they called themselves the collective consciousness. After many years of channeling I decided to quit because I wanted to know that I could walk and talk the message that they gave. No right and be aware of what was happening.

Bashar: If that is the way that you believed it was best for you that is fine. It doesn’t mean you necessarily had to stop doing that. You could have done it in concert but if this is your choice so be it.

Asker: I have been working in in the field for for many years.

Bashar: In which field is that?

Asker: The field as a counselor. Psychic. All right. And I also in my big body am a life coder. Big body. Yes. I call it my big body.

Bashar: Oh. All right. Another dimension. Coding. Yes.

Asker: Recently about eight months ago, um I began to wake up in the middle of the night with my hands moving very swiftly and the sense of a light being placed down over my body. Okay. And um I was guided to begin doing a type of healing where I am in a trans state but not as deep as before. All right. And I have the sense that the deepening will be less as time goes on.

Bashar: My hands go as you match the frequency then you will need to be less detached from it. Yes. Right.

Asker: Anyway, I was told that these were the galactic healers that were coming to arc the light body. This is in a sense a euphemistic interpretation, but it will do as good as any, right? And that um that as time goes on, I will be given more information, of course. And um my main concern at this time is how to go about more fully being in agreement with this as well as um to get a little bit of vocabulary from you if you have any consciousness of it about what is going on on this plane with people with the vital body and the way that the light body is being activated more fully through this type of arching.

Bashar: Remember that everything is vibration. Everything is energy vibrating at certain frequencies.

Different frequencies represent different realities, different capabilities, different forms of expression of consciousness.

So as more and more and more of the segregated consciousness you have created in physical reality is reintegrated, rejoined, made more holistic, as long as more of you is present, there is more energy, more frequency.

And as that happens, you step up, you accelerate, and you become more aware of more of yourself and gain more capability to express more of yourself in all the ways that it is possible for you to do so while still remaining attached to the dimension of physical reality.

What is going on is you are all being given an opportunity to match higher frequencies wherein you know yourselves and you remember more of yourselves.

And as you take the challenge, as you accept the challenge of matching those higher frequencies, you then become far more capable of knowing and remembering that you don’t exist in physical reality. That you are physical reality. And therefore, anything you desire for physical reality to be shall be.

Childhood Extraterrestrial Experience and the Gray Agenda

Asker: I want to discuss an experience I had as a child. this was in Ireland. I did have an extraterrestrial experience.

I really want to clarify that because I really desired to know that if that was true and also I had an experience here in Las Vegas.

The first awareness I had was that there was something in the house that wasn’t my usual experience. Age, probably about eight.

My dog was growling. Ace. And I tried to get up. And you were paralyzed.

But I did finally get up. I went out. It was a two-story house. And I went out into the passageway. I saw something walking up the stairs.

it’s like a cloaked figure with a large hat.

I managed to get into my parents’ room. at that point, everything my parents seem to take over and everything was fine, but it felt very paralyzing. It felt very frightening at the time.

Bashar: This is a typical symptomology of an interaction with the grays.

Asker: So what is the purpose of it?

Bashar: We cannot give you the entire agenda.

Bashar: There is a hybridization program taking place for the creation of a species, one offshoot of which turns into my civilization.

Asker: Yes. Okay. It is one of the agendas. Another of the agendas is that your human species has attached itself psychically to their agenda because you know that what they are will force you to look at the things that you have suppressed within your consciousness. Bring them to the surface to face your fears which will allow your species to finally reintegrate itself in a holistic manner. That’s another aspect of the agenda.

Asker: That sounds good. All right. Uh in in other words, what a lot of people are experiencing increase of their vibration. Acceleration of their vibration.

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: Such as when they’re channeling and some people I’ve seen them uh almost like they’re in pain. Their body is jerked and…

Bashar: Yes. Right. Is this them experiencing the higher vibration sometimes? You must understand also what is going on is that you have what you would call a collective idea of reality. Yes. The alien species that your civilization is dealing with as with any civilization has its own idea of collective reality.

Bashar: You understand that both realities are real?

Bashar: When one reality begins to interact with a dissimilar total universal reality, the universal reality of the higher vibration tends to overwhelm, shall we say, the universal reality of a lower frequency. And in so doing, the beings that inhabit, so to speak, the universal reality of the lower frequency tend to see this as invasive and annihilative. That their reality is being forced to dissolve.

So that what kicks in is your ego structure self-defense survival mechanism because it thinks that in interacting with these beings it is being destroyed, annihilated, ceasing to exist and you go into survival fear.

Asker: But that’s why we experience pain sometimes.

Bashar: Sometimes it is also because there are manipulations that take place physiologically that actually cause the sensation of physical pain in your body. In much the same way as there are things that your species does to what you call the animal consciousness on your planet that you think you are doing for very valid means but nevertheless causes them extreme pain. And many of you don’t think that that’s what’s happening.

So you must understand that many factors, many factions of the extraterrestrial species that is dealing with you have an agenda that they think is important.

And you must understand that in many ways they do not understand how to relate to your emotionality and to the way that your humans feel and therefore what they are doing is simply being done out of expediency and in that it may cause sometimes some physiological painful reactions. It is not really their concern because they cannot relate to it.

The “Phone Number” Visualization and Manifestation**

Asker: Good day, Bashar. And do you good day? Has the sun risen there yet?

Bashar: Not where I am in my ship.

Asker: Oh, I see. You’re closer to Earth.

Bashar: No, I am over my world, but I am simply on the night side.

Asker: Oh, I see. Okay. Is that so unusual?

Bashar: No, I just wondered because the last night you said…

Asker: Yes, I understand. I saw the sunrise. Yes. I just thought it would be about this time and I didn’t think it is not sequential from your reality to mine in the same way.

Bashar: Oh, that I understand. Oh, speaking. And besides which, just simplistically, my ship would be in a different position, even if it were true.

Asker: Yes. Why thank you. Very good. Um, yeah. The last time we were here, you said to, um, one of our friends um that within 30 days he would be back in England. Um, he doubted that at the time. Oh, what? And he said he talked to you about the crop circles and you agreed yes we would probably go and uh then the word Tibet came up and he said I can’t see myself going there to make a long story short uh to the date the 15th to the 15th he flew out to England.

Bashar: Well your your probability is 100% most of the time it is simply that we sense that the event that was being created by that individual had so much momentum behind it that regardless of what his ego structure thought would happen, his higher self had piled too much inertia for the ego structure to prevent it.

Asker: I told him it’s going to be interesting to see how it works out. Yes. At any rate, he called me last night and uh he asked me an inquiry about the your phone number. Yes. And he said, “Listen,” he says, “I see the triangle. I see the blue light.”

Bashar: Yes. Uh, one moment. For the purpose of clarity, what is being referred to is that we have from time to time offered an image that you can hold in a meditative state that represents the frequency of my dimensional reality and therefore ostensibly functions colloquially as what you would call our phone number. It is how you can tap into our collective consciousness being that it is a black background with a black equilateral triangle pointing upward against that black background separated from the black background only because of the fact that the triangle is backlit by a deep blue electric light. Proceed.

Asker: Okay. So, we do not want to keep anyone in the dark about what you are referring to.

Bashar: No, it’s very good.

Asker: Um, he says, well, listen, he says the reason I’m calling you tonight is because I can’t make it work. I said, “What? What do you mean? Was our line busy work?” No, no, no. He said he was put on hold. I said, “What do you mean put on hold?” And he said, “Well, I I thought somebody was there and then all of a sudden nothing.” And I kept waiting and waiting and waiting. I said, “No, in my opinion, it doesn’t work that way. You send it, you put it on an answering machine and then you let it go and it it will come to you.”

Bashar: Yes. Although it could be instantaneous as well.

Asker: Well, the the point was that he was getting excited because it wasn’t coming right when he thought it should.

Bashar: Oh, all right. That is usually what changes the frequency enough so that a disconnection occurs. The expectation causes a disconnection.

Asker: Yeah. Okay. He sends his best wishes to you.

Bashar: Received and sent back. And by the way, he has received the information in a dream anyway.

Asker: Okay. Okay. Uh anything else?

Bashar: Well, yeah, he’s on his way to the bed. I know that. He doesn’t know it yet, but I know that. I mean, it’s it’s got it’s got to work out.

Asker: We shall see. It is not an issue of being a thing that has got to work out. It is simply his truth as best as he has set it up. There are still the opportunities for change even in that. But we shall see. That’s pretty much on his mind.

Quitting a Job, the Stock Market, and Overcoming Fear

Asker: I loved my work, but more than any job I’ve ever had.. but uh I was having problems with uh the uh management and staff.

Bashar: So, it really was not representative of the most exciting way in which you could do the thing you love to do.

Asker: That’s right.

Bashar: Then it isn’t really the thing you love to do yet. And right the idea of doing the thing that excites you the most also must include being within the environment and doing it the way that is really also the most exciting way and the most exciting environment. Otherwise, you haven’t got a whole equation. So, what do you want to do about this then?

Asker: Okay. And so, that was my first encounter with that um way of making a living with that reality. And uh Yes. Which was it was um it was um being connected with the stock market.

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: And this what I was connected with was educating people how to uh pick stocks using the system specific system.

Bashar: Yes. And why does this excite you?

Asker: Well, I’ve always loved it uh in college and throughout my life, but I’ve never acted on it. All right. Until um I had an opportunity to join this club. All right. And I was so excited about joining the club that I told him I not only want to join, but I also want to go to work for him.

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: And and I did. All right. And then and and he told me that he didn’t have time to train me.

Bashar: Uh which he didn’t.

Asker: All right. And then so I guess what I’m coming down to is there were some resistances along the way for it to just be.

Bashar: Yes. And uh I but it also may have been an opportunity for you to get in touch with exactly how it is you would like to define how you want to do this rather than assume that you must necessarily follow the structure provided for you by someone else.

Asker: No, that’s true. Yes, that’s true.

Bashar: So what do you want to do about this?

Asker: Well, I want to find a structure that I can…

Bashar: You want to what? A structure. You want to what? Find the structure. Where are you going to find it?

Asker: On a rock and a beach. Oh, well, I just uh check with different brokerage houses and and find the one that’s best for me and then and…

Bashar: What if you can’t find one that works for you? Then what?

Asker: Um well, I don’t know what I would do then.

Bashar: Sure you do.

Asker: Uh well, driving a cab comes to mind.

Bashar: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. You are missing the point that you are making. Okay. You’re missing your own point. If you find that the elements that already exist don’t work for you, what will you do?

Asker: Design one that does.

Bashar: Oh, design one that does. Thank you. Wow.

Asker: Well, and my my concern is…

Bashar: Yes. Yes. That that it’s a a new field for me.

Asker: So, it’s the field that excites you. Doesn’t that tell you something?

Bashar: Yes, that is true. What does it tell you?

Asker: I love it.

Bashar: What does it tell you that you love it?

Asker: Uh, it it speaks to me.

Bashar: What does it tell you about your capability to do what you need to do?

Asker: Um, if it is the thing that is you, the thing you love most, the thing that excites you the most, that tells you that one way or another you will discover a way.

Bashar: Oh, okay. You understand? It has to work for you in some way, shape or form. That you must have the capability of creating, of designing it in a way that works for you. Even if it’s new, it doesn’t matter. Okay? Whatever process comes up is the process that belongs to you for you to discover how you want to express yourself in the thing you say you love to do. And if it is the thing you love to do, then by definition, it must contain an ability to allow you to do what you need to do in order for you to do the thing you love to do. Okay. Otherwise, it would be pointless. And there are no pointless creations.

Asker: Right. Okay. All right. Good. That that makes me feel better.

Bashar: Just went up, didn’t it?

Asker: Yes, it sure did.

Bashar: Right. Right. And that’s always a good feeling.

Asker: Yeah. Uh yes. And my next question is um what can I do to uh like even coming up here uh two times I had situations where women around me were reminding me two different times of um my mother and I was asked with them what’s going on with that and what does the synchronicity mean to you? Bashar: Well, what I got what I got was that uh uh my mother has held a kind of a held me kind of a thumbs down on me. I haven’t been able to live the life I love.

Bashar: And what So you’re constantly testing yourself to see if you’re going to live her belief system or your own.

Asker: Yes. By constantly putting a reflection of her belief system in your face.

Bashar: Yeah. Which scares me.

Asker: Yeah. Right. Why does it scare you?

Bashar: Well, her belief system uh was forced on me uh brutally.

Asker: All right. So, physically now you know that. So, what belief system do you prefer? Yours or hers?

Bashar: Mine.

Asker: Well, then don’t continue to give her belief system power by giving away your power. All right.

Bashar: Okay. Okay. And I guess what I wanted to ask is is there any insight you can…

Asker: I just gave it to you. And you just gave it to me. Okay. It only scares you because you are still defining her belief as being more powerful, more valid than yours. Okay? When you stop doing that, she won’t frighten you. All right? Now, you must understand something else.

Bashar: What’s that?

Asker: The only reason she would have imposed a belief system upon you in that way is because she was just as scared.

Bashar: Oh, yes. Because she only gave you what she knew how to give.

Asker: Wow. That’s that’s an interesting point.

Bashar: Yes, you must understand this very profoundly. You all do what you do from absolute total love. It’s just that you haven’t always been taught what the tools are that represent that. So sometimes when an individual gives you abuse, it’s because that’s what they have been taught to think love is. Right? So what they are doing they are doing out of love but their tool is not harmonious with the idea of love. Right? So she did it because she loved you but she didn’t know how to love you.

Bashar: She gave you the fear she was given. Yes. And so on and so on down the chain. Time for you to break the chain just from the simple recognition now that you don’t have to be afraid because the fear is just a belief. That’s all. That’s all.

There is no empirical fundamental truth to what she has you believing about yourself or her. It’s just a belief.

But every belief you have will appear to be a fact of nature because that’s what beliefs are realities. But if you know that realities are only beliefs, then you will not be afraid of any particular reality because it’s only a belief. You will believe what you prefer.

But if you find the fear cropping up, then simply get in touch more concretely with why you would believe what you believe. What you would have to believe in order to be motivated to believe that her belief system is more powerful than yours, more capable of manifesting, more capable of being true than what you prefer to be true for you.

Asker: Why? I had a greater fear than what she had. Is that right?

Bashar: Well, it’s an equal fear. The idea simply is is that you are succumbing to her belief system. Your fear is your choice to believe that your reality is not as valid as her reality.

Bashar: When you get in touch with why you would believe that, you will create another belief to replace it if you prefer to if you’re motivated to.

Asker: And what I get is that of fear.

Bashar: Yes. But the fear again is just a belief. Fear of what? What do you fear might be true?

Asker: That you really are no good.

Bashar: You understand? What I see is an image of her just coming across hitting you. Yes. Which tells you what?

Asker: Believe the way she does. That you are accepting the belief that you are no good.

Bashar: You are reinforcing it. That’s what the fear is. You’re buying into it. You’re buying into the idea that if you start to discover who you are, you might in fact find out that yes, you deserve to be abused. Yes, you’re no good. Yes, you’re a piece of trash. Yes, you’re not worthy. This is what you’re afraid will actually turn out to be really, really true. And that’s why you’re afraid to explore those ideas, but they are not empirically true. They’re just beliefs. Asker: Okay. Yeah, I get I get I I’m selling out my my my person when I when I agree.

Bashar: Yes. But that’s all right. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Okay. Otherwise, all you’re doing is the same thing that she did. Okay. Do not be hard on yourself because you are afraid.

If you’re going to start to learn to love yourself, start by not judging yourself for not loving yourself. Okay. Start there.

Bashar: You are worthy of existing or believe me, you wouldn’t exist. Okay. All right. You already have the unconditional love and support of All-That-Is. Believe me, All-That-Is creates nothing extraneous. If you exist, if you exist, you have a reason for being a part of the whole picture. If there was no validity to you, you would never have been created. So start with your existence as proof of your validity.

Asker: Oh, okay. You understand? Right. Self-confidence.

Bashar: Give yourself, as you say in your language, a break. A break. Right. Give yourself the benefit of the doubt. If you’re going to doubt yourself at all, if All-That-Is felt you were worthy of existence, why argue? Why argue with God as you say in your language? You exist. God thinks you deserve to exist. What’s your beef?

Asker: Well, and what what what comes to my mind is if a a counterforce uh counter force counterforce, what counterforce might that be?

Bashar: Well, that just the karma or the well just a strike across the face or an idea that there’s something that… But what’s that got to do with your basic value?

Asker: Well, with my basic value, you see, you have allowed what she has done to you to affect your concept of your basic value.

Bashar: And that that fundamental truth, you know, is not true. You basically have value or you wouldn’t exist. You are unconditionally loved by creation or you wouldn’t exist.

Asker: Yeah, I feel like that was happened a few centuries before actually, but uh yeah.

Bashar: So, anything on top of that is less than your basic value. You may feel devalued. You may feel yourself to be unworthy, but it is not a total unworthiness. If it was, you wouldn’t exist. So, give yourself some starting place. Right. Yeah, that’s true. All right. And work from there. Okay? But primarily if you are now even considering that there is something that you love, you love the reason you are considering it is because it’s your truth. Just continue to do the best you can to create that reality, to love yourself unconditionally enough to know it’s all right to have what you want. And if you do the best you can every moment, that’s all you need to do and things will change. Okay? All right. And remember, remember, please remember, even though it is really up to you, you are never never never never ever without help. You are loved and you have help. Just open up to it and you will see that that is so.