Part 2 of Healing the world

Bashar Bashar
96 min read

Q&A Session

Diamond Jewelry Design

Bashar
Bashar
It represents a crystallized and focused state of consciousness and will, and it’s a symbol of that.
Asker

4 years ago, I suddenly had the desire to design jewelry, and so, you know, you don’t say hello, do you?

Hello, hello, thank you for creating this dojo vibration of laughter. Hold on a second. [Laughter] We use the word sympathy, but it’s more like we’re resonating. We’re both on the same vibration, feeling the same things.

So, I used the word sympathy to mean that we’re resonating, and that’s sympathetic magic. Now, let’s move on to designing jewelry. I’m very sorry, but four years ago, I really wanted to design jewelry, and I ended up really liking all kinds of gemstones, including the ones you see lying around, and I’m really drawn to stones. So, even though I love all kinds of stones, I’m currently designing jewelry that mostly involves diamonds. So, what role does the diamond have for humanity, or rather, for the planet we live on today?

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Yes
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Why am I currently specializing in diamond jewelry design? It’s not because I love it, but do you want any other reasons? That’s fine, but why do you think you do it? How does it make you feel? It has a certain charm that can make people shine, that brings out an extra bit of charm, but how does it help you in terms of your own abundance? Do you feel rich to some extent?
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Does that mean no? Yes, honestly.
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Bashar
Bashar
Why don’t you feel rich? For example, if you’re designing in a company, you’re under a lot of pressure, like whether it will sell. Diamonds were created under pressure, and you’re also under pressure. Are you also under pressure right now, trying to become the diamond that you are? You can use diamonds as a symbol of yourself. Diamonds have the ability to absorb and receive pressure. And when they reach their final shape, a diamond, they become flat even when subjected to enormous pressure. You’ve been pushed as far as you can, and as a result, you no longer feel any pressure. If you feel that part of your core firmly and receive pressure, then you will no longer feel that pressure, and I don’t mean that in a bad way. You can reach a point where that pressure doesn’t affect you at all, even when it comes. You feel pressure and are about to give in when you’re not yet firmly centered. When you haven’t gathered at your center yet.
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So what do you think? Do you like working on jewelry?
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Bashar
Bashar
Yes, I really do.
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Don’t you want to do it for yourself, not for other people or for a company or something? I always try to think that way. So, are you doing it? Or is it just something you always think about? Now, I try to balance it out as much as possible. It seems like you’re working really hard in places where there are things like that, but like I said earlier, you don’t have to try to balance it out. You don’t have to work hard. When you do what you want to do in the way you want to do it, you’ll naturally be balanced. When I tell you to do what excites you, that includes doing it in an exciting way. When you’re doing what you want to do most but not doing it the way you want to do it, you really want to do it the way you want to do it. You’re not doing the right thing, so you’re not in balance.
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Now, how about the next session? Hello everyone, hello to you too. I think one of the things I find very creative is raising children. Yes, I think that when you interact with children, their wavelengths and vibrations are wonderful, but they often don’t match your own vibrations and you end up clashing no matter what. I tell myself that I want my child to be wonderful, but gradually they start raising their voices and hitting me.
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Bashar
Bashar
What is it about you that you haven’t gotten along with yet, that you’re not secure in yourself? What is the anger that comes out in you in touching situations? Are you simply reacting to the ideas that you were taught when you were a child? And are you trying to instill that in your child? Are you reminded of things that you don’t want to remember, and that’s why you hit them?
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I have a lot of questions today, so please answer any of the questions I just mentioned. I want to go at my own pace, but if I don’t do that today, I won’t even get to bed, and why? Or maybe I have another job to do, and then I have to deal with the laundry and I can’t just focus on the kids.
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Bashar
Bashar
So, if you apply what I said earlier, you’re trying so hard to fit into a schedule that you know you have to complete. Do you understand your life?
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Yes.
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Bashar
Bashar
So I’ll ask you another question, and that’s, are you doing the job you love the most, the thing you enjoy, or are you working to make ends meet? Because when you’re doing what you’re most excited about, everything falls into place at the perfect time. For example, is there a job that you can do from home that you can do while watching your kids, or are you able to create someone in your life who can watch your kids while you go out and do something? When you’re doing what you love the most, all of the little elements of your schedule come together in perfect timing. If your schedule isn’t flowing smoothly, it’s because you’re trying too hard to follow someone else’s schedule that’s been planted in your subconscious. It could be a schedule that society has planted in you, or a schedule you inherited from your parents. If it’s not your schedule, then no matter how hard you try, you’ll never be able to create enough time. If it’s your schedule, then everything will happen in perfect timing.
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Now that’s clear. My ears hurt a little. Why does it hurt to hear?
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Bashar
Bashar
The point to remember is that a child’s vibrational wavelength is so high from an adult’s perspective that it’s impossible to make them match it. But there’s a good way to match yourself. You have chosen to be born, so if you are your true self, your original self, your child’s deep vibrations and your deep vibrations will naturally align.
Bashar
Bashar
I hope I didn’t hurt your ears too much, but okay, let’s move on to the next person.
Asker
Hello, I am very happy to be able to communicate with you today. We are also immersed in a sense of solidity, and including myself, there are many evidences that say that we may not be able to get married or that we may not get married at all, because we are unable to meet the person who is right for us, between men and women.
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Bashar
Bashar
Yes, then, and what kind of evidence is that?
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For example, there is a fear within us that if we get married, it won’t work out. There are many people who get married but then get divorced soon after, so perhaps it would be better to have a different definition of marriage.
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Bashar
Bashar
In reality, it is necessary to have such a human relationship. We do feel that need and get together, but it is also common to attach it to it as if it requires a ritual. Yes, one person is married to everyone. No matter where you meet someone, it’s the same as being married in the overall sense. Some people stay together their whole lives, and others may be involved with a few people in a single lifetime. But that doesn’t make it right or wrong. That doesn’t mean we should just apply our society’s methods to your society. But from our perspective, your society seems to be moving in that direction. I think that’s the result of an evaluation of what human relationships are for. And when you and I are having this conversation, when we’re communicating, during this time, during this conversation, you and I are married. As you and I can say, “All of you and us will always be married, even though the definition of the relationship may change.” We can say that we, and each and every one of you, are married. I’ve said this a few times, but if that relationship, the relationship between the two of you, changes, it’s important that that change and that transformation occur with love. In our society, we don’t make such judgments in any kind of human relationship. We are grateful to each other, pleased, and awakened in boundless unconditional love when we all have something to live up to. Strangely enough, it becomes paradoxical. But strangely enough, when you start a relationship with no expectations and with unconditional love, how can those relationships last? But even before you start dating, if you’re already worried about what will happen if you break up, and you’re thinking about divorce before you get married, it won’t work that way. So in a sense, you’re already divorced, because you’re worried about divorce. So in a sense, you’re already divorced before you get married. It’s interesting to loosen up this way of thinking a little and think about it. It’s not that marriage comes first and divorce comes later, but rather that each person is 100% true to their true selves. We exist to support each other in becoming who we are, so if we understand that clearly, no matter what changes occur, we can welcome them with love and watch over them, and no change can become negative.
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What do I say? In Japan, in churches, we say “do” at weddings, but please say “I do.” I will say here that I am married to myself. In either case, you must marry yourself before marrying anyone else. You cannot marry others unless you marry yourself. You must love yourself, and you will be able to attract people and attract people who are related to you. At the same time, I would like to say that you are now married to everyone in this society. Whether you marry one person or several times, please do it from a natural part of yourself. Society has decided that you should do this or that. Either way, you don’t want a normal marriage, right? A natural marriage is better, right?
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Thank you very much, my lovely bride. I’m marrying Bal, and I’m very happy. I want to attract the sphere. Of course, if you want that, it’s possible, but as I said before, first you have to love yourself unconditionally.
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Next person: Bashar. Hello, hello to you too. Well, today we’re doing healing, so I wanted to ask you a question. In terms of balancing, I think it’s very important to embrace the masculine and feminine parts of yourself. So, in my own experience, last year I was dating a woman, and I felt a great sense of sympathy and we became really close. But do you mean in the sense of a dojo? No, it was really strange. [Laughter] But then I went to America for three months for work, and when I came back, we were completely out of sync, and I became a completely different person. So, I was a little confused, wondering why I had become a different person, and I was a little panicked, and there’s no need to fight just because you’ve become a different person. Otherwise, everyone around you will think you’re different. So I had to fight with everyone, and that’s how it is. So, we haven’t been in contact for a while now, but through that, I somehow became a woman at one point, and she became a man. I’m not talking about past lives or anything, but this time, during our relationship. When I felt a sense of strength towards her, I thought, “Yes, so after that, I tried to think about it positively.” So I was wondering what she had taught me, and this is what happened after we broke up. Well, basically, she taught me the true good in me, that I’m a really strong person. That’s one way of looking at it. And at the same time, she also showed me the part of you that’s good at receiving.
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Bashar
Bashar
In the midst of her showing me that power, the question is whether you felt that her will, or the part of her will, was positive. Being strong within yourself is positive, but trying to control or dominate others is negative.
Bashar
Bashar
I think there was an element of wanting to control.
Asker
Yes, that’s right, and you understand that you’re good at receiving things, but conversely, I find myself being too sensitive and getting carried away.
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Bashar
Bashar
I mentioned the masculine side earlier, but now I’d like to talk about the feminine side of being highly sensitive, or being sensitive is a positive thing, but it’s definitive, so it seems like you want to learn to balance those two sets of things, as I just mentioned, and it seems like you want to learn to balance those two sets of things. And if that’s what you want, that’s fine, of course, but if you don’t want that, then attract something new. How about that? Is it better to have a balance? If so, are you happy?
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Thank you very much. Yes, thank you very much. Baba, you’re welcome. Next, hello, this is Baba. I’ve been wanting to ask you a question for a while now, so I’m very happy. Oh, I guess I should wrap it up for today. Has this made you unhappy? So don’t be unhappy just because you can’t ask me a question. Have all the answers to your life. But I love talking to you, so let’s go ahead and continue.
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Bashar
Bashar
Yes, thank you. Thank you for teasing me a little. I mean, I want to ask you about the ego. What I just said, you said you were happy to talk to me, and I said, sorry, I don’t have time. If that makes you unhappy, then that’s an ego issue. You no longer take the position that everything is within you. Left and broken, the context before had the audacity to ask question. It was an opportunity for you to understand the symbolism. If I stand and then disappear, then it’s simply a reflection of your own notions of timing. Understand? Let’s try to make it a little easier to understand. Let’s use your story to explain it a little more clearly. Let’s go and see what it’s like.
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You want to express a certain amount of yourself, but there is no part of you that gets in the way. Either the whole of you wants to express, or the whole of you doesn’t want to express. You are either doing it or not. You are not made up of parts. The very idea that you are doing or thinking the wrong thing creates a lot of fatigue within you and creates a lot of difficulties. What is it that you are not doing, that you are not doing now, and that you want to do? After all, your true self does not have any parts that you are holding back. That is the state you want to be in. So why do you think that something is getting in the way? Like anxiety or embarrassment? What do you mean by feeling ashamed about what you want to do or anxious about what you want to do? It means believing in yourself 100%. You should always trust yourself 100%. It’s impossible not to trust yourself 100%. The difference is either you have 100% trust in the reality you want, or you trust in the reality you don’t want. But learning how to trust yourself is pointless, because you already know how. If you didn’t trust yourself 100%, you wouldn’t be able to create the reality you’re experiencing right now. So you trust yourself 100%. You might trust in something you don’t want, but you trust yourself 100%. That’s why I’ve been saying you can’t be hindered. There has to be something else at work to hinder you, and there’s only one way: 100% trust.
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So if you feel like you’re being hindered from doing what you want, if you feel like you can’t do what you want, then know that you don’t trust yourself 100% in what you really want. You’re relying 100% on what you don’t want.
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Bashar
Bashar
Knowing the reality you want, first trust the reality you want, and then 100% reality can’t happen. You know the difference between the definition you’re using and the definition I’m giving, but it seems like you’re not very sure.
Bashar
Bashar
But what are you doing? You’re confused. So let’s simplify it a bit. So what do you want to do? If you do something you haven’t done before, you’ll be excited. There’s no need to analyze whether you can do it or not. Just tell me what you want to do most. Keep it simple. The answer is simple too. Yes, what would excite you the most? What would you like to do? Right now, what do you think would be the most exciting thing to do?
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Living a happy life with this person and that person? Does anyone matter? Or is there someone in your mind? The person in that place? The person next to you? I mean the person you live with, the person you live with.
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Bashar
Bashar
You said you were short at work, but what did you mean? What did you mean? By close, you mean someone you have more of a relationship with. So by close, you’re measuring it by the level of your relationship. For example, do you mean seeing each other often? Or by the degree of interaction? By close, I mean the number of times you meet. Do you mean someone who is close to you?
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What do you mean by close? Do you want to be close to someone who is close to you? For example, family, or that relationship?
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Bashar
Bashar
You’ve said what kind of person you want to be, but you haven’t told me what you want to be. Is this what you’re saying? Do you want to know or feel that they really like you and love you? Or do you want to convey that you like them?
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Well, it’s mutual.
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Bashar
Bashar
In terms of mutual trust, the question is: do you trust yourself? Do you love yourself unconditionally? It’s probably true. It may be that it takes time to love someone or to fall in love. Which is better? Do they also want to love you in the future? Do you like being in the middle of trying to love you, or do you just want to be someone who likes you and trusts you? So what about you? Would you rather be on the path now, almost trusting yourself and almost loving yourself? Or would you rather just love and trust yourself? When do you start loving yourself? When do you start trusting yourself?
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Was that a question, or am I talking about myself?
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Bashar
Bashar
No, that’s not a question. Do you think there’s something really getting in the way of loving and trusting yourself from this moment on? I mentioned shame earlier, but shame comes into play when it comes to loving and trusting yourself.
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Tell me honestly. If you feel any shame, what are you feeling that shame about?
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Bashar
Bashar
I don’t mean shame, but I think there’s a strong fear. What are you afraid of?
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Is it the fear of not being loved? When you’re criticized, who can criticize you? Who can criticize you other than yourself? Even if someone criticizes you, you can feel the impact when you receive it yourself, or when you create their criticism in your own mind.
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Bashar
Bashar

Let me give you an example now. Did you believe what I just said? Did you have to think about it? You don’t believe it. You’re not a rotten person. That’s what I’m saying. How do you know? Because you think you are, and you’re not a rotten person. So you didn’t take my criticism. That’s right.

So why do you take other people’s criticism? I think you hurt me a lot. What a terrible person you are, not only not taking my criticism, but only taking other people’s criticism. Now I’m very convinced. I think you’re not just a rotten person, but a human being. I know you’re just playing around. But I think you understand the important point now.

You don’t need to accept criticism from anyone. Believe it or not. If you feel something about the criticism someone said or said to you, it’s because you’ve already convinced yourself that you should be criticized, and you’re blaming yourself.

What you should do is with pure, unconditional love in your heart, try the following: When someone chooses to criticize you, please know that they are only criticizing themselves. They are only directing their own criticism at you out of their own fear.

And if you say sorry, please be kind to those who criticize you. People who criticize others have fears within themselves and direct them at others. They need your love, so please love them.

With love, first look at why they chose to criticize and what they are afraid of. And once you understand that, it will turn into self-love. This will turn into self-love, and if they can love themselves, that love will naturally be directed towards you.

There is no need to judge yourself for being your true self. Remember that no one else can criticize you. I hope this was helpful.

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