Clarity in Relationships
Frankie: They talk about how you teach best what you most need to learn and and all of that. So I I feel that perhaps relationships is the area that I’ve come in to have as an area of expertise. The thing in my entire life that’s excited me the most is a relationship that I’m in right now. It still seems to be some dichotomy in that it is the relationship that I want to have and would like to have for what I can see to be an eternity or through this lifetime.
Bashar: A wall, right?
Frankie: Different different feedback from what he says it is to what I say it is yet not really different in the manifestation of the relationship. So I want to understand why there seems to be the dichotomy. Um I guess I want to know that the relationship is all that I have seen it to be and believe it to be.
Bashar: The relationship is anything you create it to be.
Frankie: in some ways I must feel that I don’t have all of the skills to be able to do that.
Bashar: Maybe. But what skills do you think you need other than the living of your life to the fullest?
Frankie: Well, I guess I feel like I want to have the clearest communication skills.
Bashar: All right. And can you imagine what those might be?
Frankie: Um, I’m starting to think about it in terms of energies and uh kind of a knowing acceptance.
Bashar: All right. You mean a trust? A knowing acceptance doesn’t necessarily mean, however, that you settle for something you do not prefer.
And that also means that you are willing to allow whatever changes do occur to happen.
The first again first relationship is with you to yourself.
Sometimes a single individual you may have a man in agreement with to reflect the idea back to you for the duration of what you call your lifespan. Sometimes not. Sometimes many individuals. Sometimes both. Mhm. It will depend.**
I’m most interested in this particular one for now. Yeah. And it may be the idea that can manifest for the duration of the lifespan. Uhhuh. But first and foremost, if you know that is so, then allow whatever is happening within it to be representative of what needs to be in the relationship, but only to the point where it is not in that sense an absolute polarization of what you prefer to experience in your own reality.**
it’s somewhere in between right now. So, I’m… Well, are you still learning? I am still learning. Then continue to do so because that’s what any relationship is for. Right. Plain and simple. And if you are going to be with this individual, as you say, for a long time in your terms of time, then there are simply going to be the opportunities to learn many and varied subtle things. Yes. Enjoy the path. You are getting out of it at any given moment. Obviously, what you need to get out of it if that’s where you prefer to be. Okay. Well, one of the aspects that I’m curious about is how I can take action according to what excites me. Yes. And um still be respectful of whatever space that he might want to have in his life. Do you trust the relationship? Still here. All right. Then in that sense, take whatever action represents what really excites you. Mhm. But also at the same time recognize that if another individual is not ready or willing to receive a particular communication from you in the way that you are ready to give it then trust that that is also a part of the timing.
Asker: Are there keys that I might have in terms of some of the aspects that I’ve been working with energetically to—um—be able to understand better how to communicate in the moment, uh, more lovingly, more respectfully—um—how to make communication over a distance even though the distance seems to exist—um—and I don’t have access to talking to him or seeing him every day or being with him all the time in that way—but you are always connected, right? So are there keys—keys to knowing that and utilizing the space to actually expand upon my energies or my ways of communicating?
One way would be to express yourself in many different ways as well. Uh-huh.
Is there any other service that excites you to be doing it? Outside of the relationship or within, as you mean it, outside the relationship.
Frankie: Um, it will all be a part of the relationship, but as you typically mean it, yes, outside the relationship.
Okay. Um, yeah, I—I would like to take all that I’ve assimilated and be able to communicate it to people. And I feel—um—then as you do so, and as you form an outlet for communication in that way, you will continue to learn the things you need to learn to recognize the timing within the relationship more precisely.
It must be expressed in both directions. It must be expressed in both directions. Then it will be a full circle.
Asker: So that’s where I should put my attention. I’m not going to tell you you should. That would be a good place to—if I—I would suggest that it will allow you to be more well-rounded. Uh-huh. And therefore give yourself more capability of recognizing the timing on either side. Okay. Understand?
Frankie: I feel a little time pressured with the holidays ‘cause my sense—or my excitement—tells me that I would like to be with him during the holidays.
We understand that. But also pay close attention to the idea that sometimes there’s a very fine line between the energy that you actually are honestly labeling excitement and when it becomes anxiety and desperation. Uh-huh. Because that’s not really excitement and you’re being dishonest with yourself if you call it that. Mhm. Understand?
So if I can get clear that it’s excitement, then maybe I can have it.
Asker: I came here to experience your wisdom. I’ve never been here before. Don’t forget that you are experiencing your own. Thank you. But we are only a reflection of what you all already know. And every time to us is the first time as well. I did not put my name in to be selected. And yet my name was called. All right. And the only thing the only thing that I can explain this to is that you had some communication that you wish to deliver to me. So that is my question. What is the communication you wish to deliver to me? Nope. It will be the communication you wish to deliver to yourself.
Bashar: Are you doing in your life what excites you the most?
I’m searching for what excites me the most.
Then you are in that sense on the threshold of creating what we would call in ship technology a flashover where you can simply understand that any definition you believe yourself to be most strongly will be the reality you experience plain and simple. But that as you have already understood the first relationship is with yourself to yourself to the infinite.
Then the idea of the relationship of yourself to all other beings equally by allowing the relationship you are to all other beings to be equal.
That is how you are able to consciously clearly choose any particular individual that represents a reflection you desire to share. Many times when you place more importance on one particular thing than it deserves to have above and beyond anything else in terms of devaluing everything else, then you do not create any quality that makes it easy for you to pick and choose because not everything’s now on the same level. When the thing you really desire, even though the desire may make it seem to be more important, and even though that thing may be more representative of who you are, that doesn’t mean that that desire and that representation makes that particular idea or object or person, place or thing literally more important in a value sense to any other thing that could happen in your life. When you equalize everything, that’s what gives you the greatest ability to choose anything you want because everything’s on the same level. You don’t have to reach very far to get it. It’s all right here, right now, right with you, right within. You simply once again radiate an idea and that’s what you attract. But many times if an individual thinks they really need it, then they are placing an undue importance upon it. They are creating it to be a desperation and that vibration is what keeps it at bay.
Break
Bashar: By the way, some mother ships have the ability to disassemble portions of themselves to create whole planetary colonies if necessary.
The idea in and of itself of what you colloquially call—and I do not mean to in any way, shape or form tie in what many of you have been brought up to think of as religious connotations. This is completely aside from the main thrust of this idea that we are about to share.
It is quite possible to have what you typically call an immaculate conception. An energy conception.
That would be a tall order. If you say so. But that might be to some degree the position she has placed herself in, knowing she can create it on some level. That she is energy, that matter is energy, and that the typical routes within the body that usually are what need to be followed to create any particular physiological manifestation that you call a birth do not necessarily completely apply anymore.
We would suggest some inspiration for this individual. There are available—and again, not that they have to play out the way this literature would indicate—but there is literature available on your planet to indicate the idea of what might be called energy births, manifestations even sometimes that come and go. Totally, absolutely, in your terminology, medically checked, medically reinforced, and yet the birth can come and go. One moment there is a child, the next moment there isn’t. Then the child is back again and then it isn’t. And then it is and then it isn’t.
You mean physically? Physically. That’s a little hard for me to believe. That’s all right. You’re not having the baby. That’s true. You don’t have to.
Now, if this—and I’m sure this child already exists in a sense, yes, as a consciousness, and again, remember, it isn’t a child right now. All right. This being, yes, could it appear through an adopted child? Yes, it could. And that might be one of the ways that the manifestation can occur. Mhm.
Just assume once again that no matter what the circumstance is that has come about, that does not have to be looked at as a preventative. It can be looked at as the way that determines the route that will actually serve the best of all concerns one way or another. And it can be done in an adoptive fashion. It can be done in an energy fashion.
But the idea is to be in touch with the child and allow all that are involved to participate in the recognition of what is going on and why. When it is truly allowed to be in touch, when the information and idea for why the birth is occurring is actually played out, when the full understanding is there for the reasons for the agreements, then it will be and can be more obvious as to exactly how those agreements can be fulfilled.
The expectation that they must be fulfilled in a certain way is usually the only thing that causes in your society any type of what you label to be a block—an expectation. So sometimes if you focus so strongly on that particular expectation and that’s not really the way that’s indicative of the agreement that’s been made, you will create circumstances in your life to show you in no uncertain terms that the route is different than you thought. Hence, as you say, perhaps the cutting of the tubes.
Well, now I know it’s not going to be that way. So, what other way could it be? Now, perhaps I am pointing myself in a direction that shows me there are other ways it could manifest. Because if I really feel the vibration and strongly know it is representative of who I am, then the manifestation must be there. The agreement must be there. And all I’m doing is showing myself that it is probably most likely, most quickly, and most easily available to occur in another way other than the way I have been taught it must occur.
So what do you think about petri dishes? You know, put—if you wish—the idea again, whatever attracts you the strongest. But the idea is to get in touch with the consciousness first. First. And do not necessarily have to, as you say, stumble around blindly.
Allow her in a meditative state to know she can be in communication with that consciousness. Relax. Send love and receive the love within what you call a maximum of 3 days of your time. It is All-That-Is necessary to receive in either a dream communication or in some sort of physiological synchronistic symbol—a sign and a signal and a communication from that being to let her know beyond a shadow of a doubt what the route is that the being can most easily take. Understand? Yes. Thank you.
A coincidental signal will pop into her life within 3 days’ time after she centers within herself, sends unconditional love to the being that can be the child, and then just opens up to receive that love and receive the information. Whether she immediately recognizes what it is or not is not the point. Let it come out. Know she has received it and let it come to the surface within the 3-day span from the point that she does that. Understand? Okay.
The unconditional love is what is most important. So that isn’t using human will to create something. That in a sense it is. Uh-huh. But the idea of going with the flow is when you’re in control. The struggle to try and control the surface idea is actually a resistance to your flow, not a control. True control is going with the flow because everything in life is already under your control.
Well, she always thought that, but then this doesn’t seem to be under her control. But it is. It is only that the definition of it has a particular meaning to her and in that sense has allowed her to believe she is thrown off track because she is simply sidetracked by the original meaning that has been handed down from generation to generation about the way she thinks it has to happen.
Again, remember, no circumstance has built-in meaning. You supply the meaning. No matter how it looks on the surface, it doesn’t mean anything when it happens in your life until you assign a meaning to it. The meaning you assign to the circumstance is what determines what effect you get out of it.
So just because it looks on the surface to be a certain way, you don’t have to automatically assume that that’s negative or difficult. Assign a positive meaning to it. Well, there must be a positive reason for it happening this way, and then you’ll get the positive effect of it.
Asker: I’m asking for Adrienne. She’s been trying very hard for the last year to make a job transition. She wants to become a TV news writer. Does have some limited experience but wants to get a more permanent job in that industry.
Is that what is most exciting to her?
Yes. Is that being acting like a TV news writer or is she still acting like someone who is trying to become a TV news writer?
There is a vast difference in those attitudes. Well, she’s going to hear this. I’m afraid she’s going to kill me for saying this, but it’s the truth. Yeah, she’s uh I won’t tell her there’s a videotape of this.
I believe she’s still acting like she’s trying to be news. This in no way, shape, or form is a condemnation nor a blame. The idea simply is a matter once again of the fact that your society has created so many definitions that sometimes they seem to be what you are doing when in fact the definition you are doing is not anything like what you say you prefer. You think it is because you think it’s attached but it is its own definition that really has very little to do with the thing you actually want to be. All the trying in the world is not the doing of the thing. When you finally do something, it’s because you finally did it, not because you tried to do it. All the trying usually is simply the time you think or believe is necessary to allow yourself to really believe you can finally do it. The idea therefore to put it on very simple terms is that your friend may simply not be paying attention to the fact that there may be many opportunities she is not allowing herself to take advantage of because she does not necessarily think herself capable of acting on those opportunities because she is not yet the person she wants to be. But the only way she’ll be that person is by starting to act like that person now by doing the things that person would do. By being that person as we have shared many times and again this will be brief. The idea is to use the imagination as a tool in the following way. If there is something you want to be that you believe you’re not, now create the visualization of that person. See the you you want to be and see that you acting in the way you want to act, doing the things you prefer to do. Then connect and junction with it with all your senses. Feel what it would be like to be that person. Taste, smell, hear, touch, everything. and have the attitude of what it would be like to be that person. Have the style of that person. Do things in the way that person would do, not in the way you’re doing it now. Then all you have to do is if there’s any circumstance or situation in your life that you don’t know how to handle as the you are now, give that circumstance and situation to the you in your imagination, in your visualization, in your picture, give that situation, hand it over to the person you prefer to be that you have created yourself to be in your image of yourself. Then watch what that person does with it. See how their attitude is different from yours. See how they handle it successfully. See their boldness and their conviction. See the excitement and the gusto as you say with which they do that idea. See them successfully transform it. Then do what they did. And you’ll get the same result. That’s what your imagination is for. to create a mirror image of the you you prefer to be and then have the boldness and the conviction to act like that you and you will create the same vibration. You’ll get the same lifestyle. You’ll get the same result. That’s how to use your imagination as a blueprint as a template in that way. But it takes a boldness and a conviction and a willingness to understand that as soon as you conceive of that image, that is who you are. All you have to do is act like it to get the same results. If there is anything, any habit pattern, any attitudinal approach that you would be doing differently if you already were that person, differently than way you are doing it now, do it the way you would do it if you already were that person and you will be that person. What you put out is what you’ll get back.
Individuals always, always, always are a 100% energy. No more, no less. If you are doing something that you really want to do, 50% and something you do not prefer, 50%, you cannot expect any further manifestation of the thing you really want to do more than 50%. It’s simple mathematics. If you are hanging on to something just to play it safe to have something to fall back on just in case, then you are not really trusting the you say you prefer to be. You are not really putting 100% of the idea in the direction of the flow you want. I guarantee as soon as anyone does, you will get it. If you believe you’re ready for it, that’s another idea. All it takes is an examination. As we have already said to some degree, but now I will put it in its original linear form. What is the clear intention? What is the clear definition of what you want? What is the clear desire? Do you really want it? What is the clear deservability? Do you believe you deserve to get it? If all of those are clear, then act with clear action upon whatever opportunities present themselves that excite you the most at any given moment. Whether they appear connected to what you want or not, the excitement tells you they are, and they will get you where you need to go. That’s it. Thank you. Thank you. And yours. Okay. Mine is uh I’m in the process of producing a film. All right. Um the script all by itself seems to be drawing all the needed personnel to uh to make it. All right. The only thing I can’t seem to be able to get my hands on is the funding. Most mostly because I don’t know where to go for it. All right. Once again, there are many forms of communication and contact in literature and outlets that you may simply not be aware of and may not in your terms be taking advantage of because they may appear to be too obvious. But there are other individuals that have already done what you want to do, are there not? Quite a few. Yeah. Why don’t you go and talk to them? Most of them have gone the studio route and I’m trying to go the independent route. Are there individuals that have ever gone your route before? Yes. Go and talk to them. Let them rub off on you. Literally. If anyone has done something that you want to do, associate with them. Watch their vibration. Watch how they act. Listen to how they think. Look at their approach to life. Copy it. Be the vibration. You will still do it your way, but you can match their vibration. And if you do, you’ll get the same result. You will act upon the things they have acted upon because they were willing to see things that you simply are not allowing yourself to see because you’re not thinking like they do. Go and learn how they think and you will see the same things they saw.
It is not something to do as an isolated being. Be involved with all those that can and you may be surprised to discover are more than willing to assist you in letting some of that vibration rub off. Do you have any particular direction to go? I mean there’s so there are so many people out there who you will know the ones. do your research and also remember that by having shared this idea now there may be a few individuals within the group this evening of your time that can also recommend either individuals or literature that can be of assistance to you. All it takes is putting it out there letting individuals know how they can be of assistance and then they will give you their recommendations. Take whichever advice feels most correct to you. And if that is your desire, put the desire out there and then let the synchronicity in your life attract to you whatever it is you need in terms of a source of information. If you have that desire, just put it out there. Then go about your life acting upon the circumstances that excite you the most. One of those circumstances will attract you into the appropriate circumstances to give you what you need one way or another. Understand? In other words, if you have done everything you can do that you can imagine you could do, every opportunity you are aware of has been acted upon and you are still not getting the result, then simply maintain the fact that this is your desire. This is what you desire. This particular idea, put the vibration out. Then act upon whatever you can act upon that excites you the most even though it seems unconnected. Let’s say, well, all right, I’ve done that. What is the most exciting thing I could now do? Go for a walk. Well, that doesn’t seem to have anything to do with All right, that’s the most exciting thing. I’ll do it. Off you go. And all of a sudden, as you’re walking and just daydreaming and looking around, you come across, oh, let’s say what you call one of your bookstores and you wander in and you’re not thinking about anything in particular and you overhear a conversation. Oh, this book was most helpful for this, this, and this. What? Where is that book? All right, over there. All right, thank you. All by 12. And there is the information you need which you discovered by doing the thing it excited you the most to do. Taking a walk. Understand? Yes. One always flows into the next. Excitement is the thread. It leads to all other things that excite you.
Lisa: You said your civilization um that you were free of illness. Yes. And that we would take us 50 to 100 years to get to that point on the average. That doesn’t mean that an individual can’t do it right now. Right. Um and that can change by the way. Of course, it doesn’t have to take that long. Um well my question is I’m a nurse and I find it difficult to understand why people choose to be ill. Well, they do not always do it consciously. Many times because of the way you have created your society to be, they simply are not taught that there is any other way to process what they have to process. So they choose whatever will be the quickest way even if they think the only way will be through suffering because they may not know there is another way to do it through peace and joy. They don’t have to be sick, but because your society fundamentally teaches you from, as you say, day one, you’re not in control of your life. What else can you do? Sometimes I see understand it is not that it is always a specific conscious choice. Sometimes it can be, but more often than not, these things are the result of the fears that you buy into. That is the choices we are saying you make by buying into certain fears by being diseases you create disease. Understand? Yes, I do. Um I have a question in particular in coma patients. Yes. Um I’ve experienced them as not actually being in their bodies and sometimes they are and sometimes in a sense they are not. Well, where do they go when they’re not? Well, they can travel astrally. I see. It is again akin to what you might call an outofbody experience. But perhaps this will be of assistance to you as well. All of these things are in your terminology very typical ways to phrase the idea of your spirit and your body and the relationship between the two. Your spirit does not actually exist inside your body. Neither does your consciousness. Your body is your spirit in physical terminology. Your consciousness in that sense has created your body. Your body exists within your consciousness. What appears to you to be out of body travel is actually simply the expansion of your consciousness perspective. So that all of a sudden your perspective is quote unquote out here and all of a sudden your body is at the center of your consciousness rather than your consciousness being simply so tightly focused that it appears that the only place it exists is within your body but your body actually exists within your consciousness. I see. So is there a purpose for us to be sick? I mean we’ve decided that we we’ve chosen this or again the purpose can simply be that individuals can learn certain things from it if they wish to do it that way. Anything can serve a purpose if you use it in a positive way. But the idea is that you do not have to be ill. And one of the primary purposes to some degree on one level is to get so sick and tired of being sick that you finally decide you don’t want to do it anymore. [Music] When you are truly sick of sickness, you won’t be sick anymore. Now, you have done it in almost all the ways you can possibly do it. And any escalation of disease you may now be experiencing on your planet, in a sense, to some degree, is the last vestiges of these ideas coming out and accelerating because there really isn’t very much time left for your civilization to experience things that way. Understand? Yes. Thank You can always reflect to an individual the following idea. For this is the thing that has not yet been taught for thousands of years on your planet. Every individual is as powerful as he or she needs to be to create anything they desire with integrity without having to harm anyone else or themselves in order to create it. That is what you are not taught.
Kachinas
Yes and no. Kachina energy is a very raw state of universal power. It manifests in an archetypal way that appears to be the way they appear to you.
That is not their absolute appearance. They do not have an absolute appearance.
But since they are such a raw state of power then the entire fundamental structure of the universe what you put out is what you get back is amplified a thousandfold in their presence.
It is not that they are in that sense actually performing a hostile act. It is that if you do tap into their energy and then you create a negative vibration you can cause vast negative vibrational manifestations upon yourself.
If I wanted to just be in contact, I just have to have the desire and the intent. Yes. And simply understand that your intention is one of integrity and joy. And you will always feel the amplification of the energy in a positive way.
It is simply that they are such a raw state of power that any positivity or negativity that is in that sense thrown at them or toward them will be automatically bounced back again a thousandfold, perhaps even more. That is a loose terminology.
Because in that state, when you are involved in their vibration, you are right at the fundamental crossroads of all universal realities, because they are those consciousnesses that quote unquote inhabit the planes in between the universes. Therefore they are responsible for sustaining the very fabric of the structure of all the different universes themselves in a sense. Understand?
They are, as we have called them many times, an extraterrestrials’ extraterrestrial. They are outside all the experiences that we both—you and I—would typify as normal universal realities. They are interwoven into the very fabric of the structure that sustains everything you and I call a universal reality.
So I wouldn’t be getting to more than I was asking for because—no—my intentions are good and you will only receive in that sense whatever you can handle.
It is simply that that individual made a choice to operate on a particular level, as told in the story, but then on the same level chose to reverse the polarity while in midstream. Think what that would do to many of your electronic devices. It will do the same to all of you if you’re standing in the flow. Understand? Yes.
That is all there is to it. So simply have the intention of going in the same direction you started out in, and you will find that it will be—in your terminology—quite safe and quite enjoyable.
Past Lives
We are usually hesitant to label many of these ideas because we do not want to draw you out of the present where all of your power is.
The idea therefore will always be for us to ask you first, what areas are you most drawn to? Because each and every one of you have the strongest ability to tap into anything you have ever been. So open the doors for us first and we will see what we are allowed to share with you.
Because they start identifying with their vibration and start mirroring it, because they in that sense identify with them. They wish to reflect to them certain ideas. They wish to join a particular miniature consensus reality and flow in the same direction. So they can, in a sense, work together as one even though they are individuals.
That is why individuals in love will very often exhibit similar traits to each other and know each other’s thoughts, because they are identifying with each other so strongly that they are mirroring each other’s vibration.
It is not that anyone in that sense is literally reading each other’s minds directly. It is that when you identify very strongly with an individual and you exist on the same frequency, then you translate your thoughts in the same way—or a similar way—to the way they do, and you become very much alike even though you still have differences.
But I mean, just like when you go up and you first meet someone, just the way they speak, you start speaking like them even though you’ve never met them before, or you start acting like them or doing whatever.
Because as a form of communication, it allows you both to express to each other that you are willing to see in the other their validity. It makes communication easier because you are reflecting back to them an aspect of themselves that you discover within you as well.
It is simply, to put it on a very simple level, called mirroring. And when you mirror someone—not in a mocking way, but in a truly identifying way—it allows a flow of communication to go more easily, because you are once again creating a similar vibration, a similar wavelength, by literally copying each other’s format.
And it allows communication to flow more easily because you’re on the same wavelength. Literally, you can create the same wavelength by physically mimicking someone else. Again, not in a mocking way, but your body language, if you identify it strongly with another individual’s body language, will automatically create a flow of communication—not only on a physical, but a non-physical level—and will make communication between you easier. That’s why it’s an automatic thing.
They already knew it. They were reflecting and you were sensing as your desire for them in a sense you were actually picking up from them.
Although it was a two-way idea but they already understand the parameters of their environment to that degree. Yes. It would be analogous let us say to someone tossing you what you would call a tennis ball.
Do you think you could swallow that very easily? Now I see your point. It would have to be a ping pong ball. Yes. And even then you have what you call your gag reflex. That’s true. Why is it then that the dolphins occasionally do swallow foreign objects and some sometimes uh it will depend upon the symbology. Remember that they are still individuals as well and they have in many ways certain ideas that they are willing to play out within their own lives in different ways. certain symbols that are reflected to them in certain ways and society patterns that to some degree they also are reflecting in their individual motives.
Orcas
They are the expression of polarity consciousness itself. And as you have already suggested, as we have said, they are the samurai and the sorcerer. They are the warriors of the sea. Not meant in what you would call a negative way, but they have that spirit of conviction. They tunnel through different dimensions.
And if you ride with them, you must expect to go on that ride with your eyes open, and be prepared for all the changes that occur, for they are very strongly transformational beings. And any structure that you may have built up that doesn’t fit in their world will come apart very quickly. They will allow you to face anything you might call a fear and process it now.
Implants
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