Integrity

Integrity is that which:

• unifies, which moves as a whole rather than that which segregates, separates
• understands the control is from within
• does not see the idea as control as an external idea and therefore leads to domination.

Everyone is as powerful as he or she needs to be to create whatever they desire in life without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to create it. That’s one by integrity. It is called trust.

Infinite trust that whatever you can conceive of, you have the ability to attract into your life in an effortless and abundant way without having to force your ideas on anyone else in order to get it to work. You are self-sufficient. That’s what it means by integrity, integral, integrated.

Anyone who forces the idea of themselves, their point of view, their reality on someone else as you say against their preference is acting out of integrity.

Then that is your assumption that it is not moving as it needs to. The idea can be an invalidation and a lack of integrity. The perspective that it is not flowing as it should in a sense is a judgment. If you allow yourself to truly trust that what is in your life is what needs to be there and are not afraid to face whatever that moment brings you, then you will not assume that what is in your life has no business being there. Everything is a part of your life. There are no interruptions in it.

Functioning outside of integrity creates the illusion that your life can be interrupted by things that have no business being there when in fact it can’t.

So if you see something that is in your terms not flowing as you think it should, then allow yourself to retract your expectations.

Find out why you have the beginning expectations you did. Allow yourself to discover what beliefs exist within you and allow yourself to explore those beliefs. redefine them because whatever situation came to you is giving you an opportunity to discover how much different you might be than the reality you say you prefer to create.

For if you are not a being that is in synchronous harmony with the reality you say you prefer, you will not get that reality. So when circumstances occur that in your estimation do not seem to match the picture of the integrity you had, it is showing you on some level that there may be another facet of yourself you still have not yet looked at and defined to allow it to blend and harmonize within the overall idea. And that’s an opportunity to allow the thing you prefer to occur that much more quickly.

But when something occurs and you don’t believe it’s a part of the process and you deny it and run from it, then in that sense you allow it to take that much longer because you’re not willing to face the thing you need to face to integrate that within you to move on to the next step. The things that come as they come are a part of the path.

So if you embrace them as your creation, acknowledge them as what you need to look at at that moment to be a part of the path you prefer to be and not run from them as if they are not a part of that path, you will be acting within integrity.

It is in that sense willingness to discover all that you can about what you have created yourself to be in absolute trust that it can all be applied to you in a positive way if you choose to believe that and your willingness to discover these things and interact in that way is a sign of integrity.

Go like this. Brush it off. Are you standing up very straight?

All right. Take three deep breaths. Give yourself three pats on the top of your chest and say, “Ah, life.”

Now do it and mean it. Do you feel a little less of a burden on your shoulders when you stand up straight?

Why?

In what sense?

Are you happy?

Why do you have guilt? Are you responsible for them?

Well, then so it’s all right then. You’re saying to release them?

No matter what you are going through, no matter what reason you have attracted whoever you have attracted, if that is what you feel represents the ideas you need to experience in your life at this time, then there may be created polarity expressions, vibrational polarities with other individuals and you will simply go on your separate ways.

If you do not care in that sense to maintain the understanding that whatever anyone goes through I’m speaking from their point of view is what they need to go through at that moment.

Now the idea in that sense is you can let them go and that paradoxically is the quickest way to get them back.

If you simply make a statement that you know, you believe, you trust that you are doing what you need to be doing, you will radiate as an example for them to understand that you are happy.

Whether or not that changes in terms of the situation you have now doesn’t make a difference because if it does change, it will only change into another form, another way, another method of the happiness you are now willing to create.

So there are no I told you so. There are no regrets. There are no guilts. The only reason you are feeling guilt or creating guilt in your reality is because you are attempting to be responsible for what they are choosing to feel about you. Do you wish to live your life according to what other people think you should do?

Do you believe you are acting with an integrity?

Love them unconditionally for that is the only way to give them the opportunity to love you just as unconditionally in return. Okay. If you are not willing to love them, then you do not provide for them a gateway through which their love can manifest if they decide to share that with you. Remember that once again, guilt is the true opposite of love, not hate. Guilt.

So, love them unconditionally and remember also that by the strictest definition, anyone you relate to at any given moment is your soulmate.

We know what you mean by the definition you have given to this new individual. Mhm. When you choose to be blended and harmonized within yourself and balanced, you will generally attract the individual you have made an agreement with in life to reflect that harmonization and balance back to you.

But by the strictest definition, anyone you’re in a relationship with at that moment is your soulmate. Because by being in that relationship, you are getting out of that relationship the things you need to at that moment.

You will always be connected to that family in that sense. No matter what physiological transformations take place.

Being who you know you are will create the best opportunity for all the others involved in the relationship to allow themselves to transform in positive ways as well.

But you cannot take responsibility for them. You can only be responsible to them by being as fully as you can who you know you are with love and integrity.

Simply carry your head high, stand straight, and it will do wonders for your guilt.

but does it really matter? No. Now is now. Remember that all memory and all past is created in the present anyway. Understand?

There is a very strong clue in that for your channeling. Say that again. There is a very strong clue in that for your channeling.

All memory and all past is created in the present. When you remember, you are creating that memory now. Right now. There’s nowhere else to create it.

It isn’t in the past. It is of the idea you call the past, but it is created now. Yes. Okay. Well, that brings up one other point.

I have already given you your clue. Okay. Now is the only time in which you exist. Where else could it be?

It is a convenient linguistic symbol in your old way of talking. When you create the notion of a past and a future, it is a convenient way of describing a concept to you to allow you to understand the basic principle. And then we can change the symbols that are used, the language that is used to allow you to truly understand the real mechanics of what is going on. Okay? So, as soon as you, as you say, get a handle on the fact that there really isn’t any future and there really isn’t any past, you will have your answer. Okay? Experiment and explore with that in your meditations. Bring the future into the present where it belongs.

Sharing.

Are you afraid a crash might be coming up?

But why are you giving the old meaning just because the symbols may appear the same? Why not give them a new meaning and understand that they do not have to represent the idea of a crash except perhaps in a positive manner crashing through a barrier? Can you give the symbols you are apparently seeing another meaning other than the old meaning that seems to indicate a crash in a negative sense? Can you use your imagination and reassign a new value to the external symbols?

May I ask you a question?

In your estimation, as we have discussed with many of you before, in your threshold of believability, how long will it take you to become the person you prefer to be?

All right, I know you know that. But do not fear. We are talking about a practical tool for you which when you acknowledge what it is, can allow it to shorten. But only when you acknowledge what it is right now.

Yes.

Not very likely. Maybe. So, you know beyond a shadow of a doubt. Yes. That you will be who you prefer to be. Not that you will not change. Not that you will not grow, but that you will be who you prefer to be definitely within 40 years. Yes. 40 days. 40 days. Do you absolutely believe it? Yes. Now, I’ll tell you something. I perceive you do have the energy to do that. So, it is up to you. If you really believe it, you can do it.

All right. 30 days. Or do you want to stick to 40?

All right. 10 days will not matter that much.

All right, then. Create for yourself the broad expanse of one of your deserts and wander 40 days and 40 nights. and allow yourself to recognize that in the broad expanse of what you call the desert, there isn’t anything to crash into. It is limitless. A limitless horizon for you. Understand?