Part 2 of Intuition and Intellect

Relationship Patterns and Judgment

Bashar Bashar
48 min read
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Audience Member: I am still creating patterns of relationships in which I feel unsatisfied and in which I have conflict.

Bashar: Are you assigning the same old meanings to things that may simply on the surface appear to be the same old patterns? Just because it looks the same doesn’t mean it means the same. If you know you are a new person every moment of time, have you given yourself the opportunity to assign a new meaning to what may appear to be an old pattern, but doesn’t have to create the effect of an old pattern if you give a new meaning to it?

Audience Member: Thank you. I see that I have grown through my patterns. It’s not the same pattern. What’s the same to me? What disturbs me and what I wish to move forward from is having conflict and having dissatisfaction as if I’m always searching for something different than what I have.

Bashar: Do you create a particular expectation about the idea of what a relationship ought to be?

Audience Member: Yes.

Bashar: Why?

Audience Member: What do you know it can be? And if you know it can be, why create a specific expectation on how it should be? Why not assume that you will simply attract even though the manifestation may come in expected ways what it can be and that it will serve you in a positive way rather than necessarily narrowing down the specific definitions of what you think it should be? Only allowing those specific definitions to represent to you the things you want rather than allowing unexpected spontaneous things to also represent what you want.

Audience Member: In many ways my current relationship I have done that in order to be in this relationship. I have totally different what I’m getting out of it is different than what I thought I was looking for. A relationship as me about it is different. All right and yet the sense of and yet I am again in conflict.

Bashar: All right. But again, also, if I may interrupt you for a moment, remember if you always at the same time are recognizing that a circumstance and a situation is really not representative of what you prefer in the overall sense. The idea is to realize that it all begins with the relationship to yourself and that when you allow that to be complete on every level that you can imagine exists within your consciousness then it isn’t that you need a relationship to feel complete and if what you have as a relationship is not reflective of your preference you don’t have to be physically in it.

Audience Member: Yes. Could you suggest to me what it is that I have not completed in myself?

Bashar: Well, can you answer the following question? Do you need to have a relationship?

Audience Member: No. All right. Why? Well, I’m self-sufficient the way I am. I don’t need it, but I certainly want to have a relationship.

Bashar: Why?

Audience Member: I want to be close, to be intimate, to share, to have that depth that you can have in a one-on-one seemingly more depth than in having a one-on-one many. I said seemingly I know it’s all right. And yet that’s the way it seems. And I want to have a family.

Bashar: May I ask you another question? Be as honest as you care to be. Okay. Do you really express yourself in life as boldly as you really want to in all things?

Audience Member: Yes. All things. Very bold. Very bold. All right. Very bold.

Bashar: Is that expression something that is within integrity or are there times when it is invalidational or judgmental?

Audience Member: Yes, I’m judgmental. Definitely judgmental. Definitely the thing that I think I need to work on the most about myself that I think is the most obstructive.

Bashar: Why are you choosing to be judgmental? How does it serve you to be judgmental?

Audience Member: I have the sense that it’s a way I have of protecting myself. Protecting from what I’m not sure that’s why I’m asking but I see that I use the judgmentalness. It causes distance. I seek tremendous depth and as I get close to it I seem to be seeking distance. I’m being judgmental. All right I could also say well I learned it from my parents I could say all those things but I really would like to move away from being so judgmental.

Bashar: So if you know or if you believe that the idea of being judgmental is what supplies the difference and perhaps what supplies what you have called the repetition of patterns of relationships. Then if you simply continue to assimilate the reasons for why you would choose to be judgmental, you will then integrate yourself completely and will attract relationships accordingly. Until you cease to be judgmental in that way, probably you will still attract relationships that will give you a sparkling opportunity to continue to be judgmental. Right?

So remember also that when you say well a part of me wishes depth, it is either all of you or it is not at any given moment. Remember that you are not a collection of parts. And if you stop thinking of yourself that way, maybe you will stop thinking of other people that way.

Hemisync Tapes and Integrating Experiences

Audience Member: I have been using the Robert Monroe Hemisync tapes to explore other dimensions and to communicate and to explore more of my total self. And while I’m using these tapes, I have had these experiences where I feel a lot of joy and understanding and later on. Yes. I feel that I forget what it was and that I don’t understand anymore.

Bashar: No, no, no. You have assimilated. You are using it.

You don’t have to maintain analytical awareness of all the memories to simply know that it has sunk in and that you are using it. The idea is to be spontaneous with it, not to in a sense cram your memory full of facts.

Audience Member: I think it’s more the feeling that I miss. Sort of like the feeling of

Bashar: Oh, but one moment. One moment. Your definition of what is happening is the only thing creating a sense of loss. Remember once again that because your society is used to recognizing things by their differences that when you match the frequency of something and you don’t feel the difference between you and that as strongly, your first assumption is that it has gone away rather than understanding that you have simply matched its frequency.

So you don’t notice as much of a difference anymore because you have become that vibration. Understand? It hasn’t gone anywhere. You’ve become it. That’s why you don’t notice the difference as strongly as you used to. You have elevated yourself to another level where then something else can come in.

To sit there and assume that you have lost it or it has diminished is to simply take the old definitional point of view that once you don’t feel a difference, it must be because it’s gone somewhere rather than you having assimilated to that level. So there isn’t any difference between you anymore. It’s simply because your society is used to measuring things or recognizing the existence of energy by the differences between you rather than the similarities.

Audience Member: I don’t feel that that’s it. All right because some of these understandings what I do remember of them you know one of the things is that I’m this understanding is that there is no negativity.

Bashar: Oh one moment. There is positive and negative energy.

There always will be as a polarity expression. It is simply that you do not have to choose negative manifestation in your experiential life. But the more you become aware of more of yourself, the more you’re going to become aware that there will always be positive and negative. Understand? Yes. Negativity in that sense exists. It’s a part of creation. You don’t have to choose it. But becoming more aware of yourself means you will be more aware of more ways you could choose to be negative because you are becoming more aware of everything. So, you’re going to become more aware of that, too. Doesn’t mean you have to choose it, but you’re going to become more aware that you could choose it.

Bashar: if there is a particular feeling you sometimes think you may have lost and wish to recapture, well then feel it. Invent it again. Create it right now. Remember that anytime you quote unquote remember what it was like as you are remembering it, you’re creating it in the present. Right? Then only your assumption that it is a memory of something that’s not happening now causes the separation that doesn’t allow you to feel it now because all you’re saying is I remember what it used to feel like then. But in having the memory, you’re actually creating that vibration in the present. If you recognize that your memory is being created in the present, you will feel the same way now while you’re having the memory.

Audience Member: I’m wondering because I don’t want to just keep on repeating myself. Seems like you never can. I don’t have conscious control over these experiences. It seems like they just happen.

Bashar: Many things you may wish to happen automatically, seemingly, spontaneously, seemingly outside of yourself in order for you to have a spontaneous occurrence. The idea is not always to be analytically aware of the fact that you are choosing it because then you don’t necessarily have physical spontaneous occurrences and events in your life. Understand? You’re not going to have analytical awareness of everything you choose in physical reality because then if you quote unquote knew every single step you would ever take, you wouldn’t have to take them and you wouldn’t get anything out of them by going through them spontaneously.

Audience Member: Yeah. So like my goal is to be able to use this perspective all the time and to integrate it into my physical life instead of having. It’s not integrating because I don’t seem to

Bashar: What makes you think it’s not? Why are you defining that it’s not integrating? Why are you choosing to believe it’s not?

Audience Member: Because I feel very elated when I’m using these tapes and the rest of the time I’m usually depressed.

Bashar: Why would you choose that? What is the belief system within you that makes you think there’s a difference between those two times?

Audience Member: Well, that’s what I’m exploring because it seems like when I’m in that elated state, I’m just delighted with everything that’s going on in my life. Yes. Yes. And the rest of the time I don’t like it.

Bashar: But remember, as we have discussed, a feeling is a reaction to a belief. So if you feel the idea is that you are not elated, then you believe for some reason that there’s enough of a difference between those two times that you can feel that differently.

Also do remember that we have discussed the idea of depression as only being meditation that you judge to be negative. So many times all you may be doing is be in a meditated state and assimilate what you have learned in the tapes but you’re judging it to be depression. Understand? It may only be meditation, the assimilation of the information in a calm and balanced state. But because you do not feel the elation in the way you’re used to feeling it or in the way you think you ought to, all of a sudden you automatically apply a negative label to the idea of what you’re going through rather than assuming it’s a part of the natural positive process as well.

Just because you don’t feel the same doesn’t mean it can’t be positive. Many times you will feel a certain energy in a certain way and then you won’t feel it that way anymore because it’s now up to you to apply it in your life and generate the feeling through your actions.

Bashar: Listen to the tape now. The tape in your consciousness. The tape you are right now. Remember, you are the tape. You are the information. And if even it will or can work as a suggestion for you, as a technique for you, as a process, as a ritual for you, if you pretend you’re listening to the tape now, do you feel excited?

Then pretend you’re listening to the tape anytime. Just because you’re not physically doing it doesn’t mean you can’t do it. And that’s what it’s all about anyway is allowing you to start relying more on yourself and less on the external tools. In many of the interactions that we are having now with individuals on your planet in what you would call private sessions, and many of you will attest to this, your tape recorders don’t function because it allows you to focus on the information as you. It allows you to start relying on yourself, not on the external tool.

So if that’s the feeling you want to generate when you are walking down your street, generate it because you want to, not because you need the tape to do it. Because the tape may represent your ability to do it. If the tape simply represents your ability to generate that feeling, remember the tape isn’t giving you that feeling. You are. So if you can give yourself that feeling when you’re listening to a tape, why can’t you give yourself that feeling when you’re doing anything else? You don’t need the tape to generate the feeling. The tape has shown you you can generate the feeling. So generate it anytime you want to.

Bashar: So I’m wondering why can’t I remember though? I still have to be able to remember some of these experiences.

Audience Member: How do you know you had them if you can’t remember them?

Bashar: Because I remember a little bit of it.

Audience Member: Oh, a little bit. Then use that little bit as all you need to know. Again, you are creating an expectation on what you think you should retain analytically. Whatever you retain, that’s what you need. Does it not give you joy to have the perspective that if all you need to remember to have ecstasy is just a little bit, then doesn’t that mean you’re a lot farther along than you thought?

Bashar: Well, I don’t know. I sort of think of it as going to Japan and then coming back and having forgotten half of Japan.

Audience Member: You never forget anything in the way you need to remember it again. Trust in the way you are. The way you remember it is the way you need to use it. When you use it, you will then know anything else you need to know. The only reason you seem to be blocking the idea is because you’re not using what you are being shown you can use. You are insisting on the whole picture before you will use what you are getting. Calling what you’re getting a part of the picture rather than recognizing that what you’re getting is in and of itself a whole picture. Understand? Stop calling what you’re remembering a part. It is a whole idea. Function that way. Use it as a whole and you will understand that it is all you need. You will remember everything else you need to remember when you need to.

This is your opportunity and your ability to learn to label things in a different way to understand that every single component is in and of itself a whole idea. This is your way of discovering the holographic structure of creation. Every part contains the information of the whole.

Here’s an analogy for all of you. Imagine what you call a grid laid out to infinity. Lines go this way, lines go this way, creating what you call little squares and blocks laid out flat two-dimensionally as you say. Got the picture? Place anywhere on that grid a mirrored reflective ball bearing. And notice in the surface of that ball bearing even though it is warped into a sphere is the picture of the entire grid. All the information of the grid is in that one spot. You don’t have to walk to infinity to the end of the grid in order to see it all in order to know you have it all. It’s all in that one spot. All the information you need. Understand? Yes. So anything you get that you think is a piece is actually in and of itself the whole idea. Use it that way and you will get all the information you need to out of it.

Writer’s Block and Following Excitement

Audience Member: What I can do to discipline myself to accomplish what I came here to do.

Bashar: What did you come here?

Audience Member: I’m a writer and I feel like there’s all this time slipping me by and I’m not accomplishing. There it goes. Here it comes again. There it goes. Right between your fingers.

Bashar: Now, are you a writer? Yes. Does it excite you? Yes. Are you writing? Not as much as I want to. Why not?

Audience Member: My energies are focused in other areas right now.

Bashar: Are they as exciting as being a writer?

Audience Member: No.

Bashar: Why are you doing them?

Audience Member: Because I need to make money right now.

Bashar: Why can you not make money as a writer?

Audience Member: I feel I can. It’s just that

Bashar: You feel you can when I

Audience Member: When is it that time again? Is it that time? Time for the threshold of believability. Do you wish to play?

Audience Member: Yes. No. Maybe. Do I wish to play? Do you wish to play?

Bashar: Yes.

Audience Member: All right. Here we go. Have you taken the threshold of believability meter before? Yes. Do you want to take it again? Yes. Are you sure? Yes. All right. Get centered. Take a deep breath. All of you can play along with your own idea. Focus on the thing that excites you the most. For you, the writer. Got it? Yes. Now, be very honest. Very honest. It’s all right. Don’t worry about it. Be very honest. Beyond a shadow of a doubt, with absolutely no hesitation, do you believe that it will be absolutely no problem, absolutely possible for you to be a successful writer in 20 of your years? Will you be a successful writer by then?

Bashar: Yes. No problem. No problem.

Audience Member: 10 years. Yes. Absolutely. Absolutely. You can see yourself doing it. Yes. Absolutely.

Bashar: 10 years. More than enough time to become the writer I prefer to be. Yes. Yes.

Audience Member: Five years. It’s very possible. Very possible. Okay. Okay. Not absolute, not certain, but all very possible. I know that it is. I just still have these doubts.

Bashar: All right. That’s all right. This is the first step in getting in touch with the doubts so you can transform the doubts. This is how you do it. Being honest with yourself about how long you really believe right now with all the doubts you think it will take to be what you want. That at least will put you squarely in touch with what your belief system is, what your doubts are. Now you have something to deal with. Now you know, all right, I have beliefs within me that make it only just very possible that I will be a writer in five years. Why would I believe? What would I have to believe in order for it to take 5 years? Examine your beliefs. Examine your doubts. Get in touch with the definition of them. Discover which ones you prefer to keep. Discover which ones you prefer to change. Change the ones you prefer. Rewrite them. Find out what the old definition is. Rewrite it. Create a new definition. Then take the threshold meter again and see if it is now less time. Now that you have changed some of the definitions, see if it will take less time. Understand? Yes. Now you can do this as soon as you really believe you can be that idea. Nothing will stop it. Nothing will stop the opportunities from coming into your life to allow you to be the idea it excites you the most to be. But it is up to you in your definitions. If you don’t believe that it will support you, if you don’t believe it will be effortless, if you really don’t believe you can be that person now, you won’t be. It’s as simple as that.

Audience Member: I know that.

Bashar: All right. So get in touch with your definitions, get in touch with your belief systems and treat that as a part of the idea you are excited about being. Do not see it as a block, as an interruption. It isn’t. It is a part of who you are. Own it so you can change it. Don’t deny it as being in your way, as taking a long time, as wasting time. If you invalidate it, you make it take longer to be what you prefer to be. Use the process as it occurs. And that’s how you accelerate the idea more quickly because what you are doing, whatever you’re going through, is a part of the idea. It excites you to be the things that come up are coming up for the purpose of giving you an opportunity to deal with what you have to deal with in order to be the idea that it excites you to be. They are not things you have to get out of the way in order to be that thing. They are a part of the being of that thing. Use them. Don’t deny them.

Who knows? All the things you are experiencing now may make a wonderful book. May give you the material you can write about. We’ll give you the different perspectives and points of view I would assume you would need to be the writer you want to be. Life for a writer is all material. Understand? Yes. Is this assisting you very much?

And always remember that your imagination is the key. If you have a way you prefer to be that you believe you’re not, envision the you you prefer to be. Watch what that you does, how it acts because if it isn’t who you are, it will act differently. Watch its attitudes, its actions. Watch how it handles the situations and circumstances in its life. Hand it the circumstances in your life and watch how it handles them. Handle them the same way, you’ll get the same effect. That’s what your imagination is for. That’s the tool that it is. It’s that simple. It’s the template, the blueprint. Feel what it would be like to be that person and you will be that person. Put all your senses into it. See the writer. See whatever you wish to be. See how the writer acts. See how the writer thinks. Feel how the writer feels. Have the tastes, the sights, the smells, the touches. Hear what the writer hears. And you will be the writer. And have the lifestyle of the writer in your imagination. Get into it with all your senses. Be excited. Because if you really believe that that writer in your imagination is you, you’d be excited about it. Be excited. The vibration of excitement will elevate you into that reality, will attract that reality, that lifestyle to you. Understand? Yes. Thank you. Is this exciting you? Yes. Thank you. Believe that you can function as a writer. Attract opportunities into your life. Let yourself attract opportunities that you can act upon that will show you that you can make a living as a writer. Trust yourself. You can do it. You are a writer. If you really believe that, act like one. Understand? Yes. Thank you. It’s all a matter of your attitude. Thank you very much. You’re welcome.


Question 9: Reconnecting with Someone from the Past

Audience Member: Hello, Bashar. And to you, good day. This is my first time here. I’m getting a lot out of it. My friends brought me. It’s wonderful.

Bashar: All right. Remember that every time is the first time. So it’s the first time for me too. Thank you for sharing with me.

Audience Member: My first time. My first time.

Bashar: This goes for all of you. Do proceed and share with all.

Audience Member: There was someone in my life a long time ago. A man I was very close to. All right. I’d like to know. I am trying to find this person now after many years. What I find I have a connection with him over many years.

Bashar: Yes, you still do. Yes.

Audience Member: Why are you in this sense trying to find him?

Bashar: I have a need to know what happened to him.

Audience Member: Why?

Bashar: I have to tell him how important he was in my life.

Audience Member: Do you not think you have already done so? Yes. And I need I want to confirm. I have hired people to find out what happened. All right. And what I am told is that he was killed in Vietnam. All right. And then I am told he was a soldier missing in action. All right. I feel he was killed. I’d like to know what happened. He is not his name is not on the Vietnam memorial.

Bashar: Name?

Audience Member: Gilbert. Full name Gilbert Rantana.

Bashar: Age in your terminology?

Audience Member: 20.

Bashar: Whether this may be valid in your time track or not, our strongest perception is that this individual is what you would call a little boy of approximately seven or eight in your terms reincarnated. In dream reality, you always interact with this individual and have done so many times. Deliver your message there. Send your unconditional love. The child will get out of it what they need to. They may remember you in their dreams and may apply you in whatever way they need to, the memory of your love in their new life. But you always have the capacity of interacting in your dream reality. And you have already many times. But he cannot be as focused upon you at this time because of the new life that is being lived. At least according to our perception of this energy. Understand?

Audience Member: Yes. Is this a child I know?

Bashar: It is not our perception that you do. At least not yet.

Audience Member: Is the spirit that was Gil still with me? Even though the physical plane he’s a child?

Bashar: In one sense as the oversoul. Yes. But not in the direct sense you would mean it.

Audience Member: I understand.

Bashar: One moment. One moment. The time flow on this at this point for us is what you would call relatively foggy. You may know of the child. It is our stronger perception that you do not. It seems at least for now in the way we perceive your energy that you may have a stronger opportunity to know the child when the child in your terms is 15 to 17 years of age.

Audience Member: May I ask you a question? Mhm. Are you a teacher?

Bashar: I’m a writer.

Audience Member: Our strongest perception is that the most likely, at least for now, this can change, most likely circumstance in which you may re-encounter this being at approximately the age of 15 to 17 will be in what you would call a class situation where you will be lecturing or teaching something to them.

Bashar: And that’s how I would recognize him.

Audience Member: You will recognize the energy. This is all we are allowed to share at this time. Okay. Thank you very much.

Bashar: We thank you and simply always remind you these are the perceptions of my consciousness through my time track. There may be variances as they apply to your time track. We have given you what is the strongest perception we can receive at this time. Remember that all things are fluid, but we have given you the strongest momentum we can perceive at this moment. Remember that you always have the stronger access to things that happen on your world because you are of your world. Use your dream reality and be in contact with this individual. Be aware of the communication you can have and are having and have had.

Audience Member: I will. Thank you very much.


Question 10: Past Life Connection and a Child

Audience Member: Hi, Bashar. And to you, good day. And I’m excited to talk to you.

Bashar: Why? Because makes me excited. All right.

Audience Member: I’m very ecstatic to talk to you. Thank you. Oh, you’re welcome. I want to briefly tell you about four years ago, I had a real startling experience. Oh. All right. I was at an amusement park and I was sitting drinking a cup of coffee and somebody came by and they were pushing a baby stroller and in it was a little baby and I hardly know what the little baby looked like other than it was a female child but the child’s eyes locked on me. I’m totally riveted to my eyes and I just know that I knew those eyes from somewhere. The experience just almost demolished me for that day. I spent the whole rest of the day looking for that child and I couldn’t find it. Can you give me some insight in that?

Bashar: A strong past life connection to some degree a counterpart of the same soul you are, the oversoul that you are. A reflection, a brief encounter as a timing device, as a signpost to awaken within you certain ideas. A very strong teacher for you in the past and only needed to touch you briefly to remind you of many agreements you have made in this life to kick off, I shall say, your momentum in certain ways. It was a fulfillment of one agreement you made within timing with others you have known that have been very close to you.

Audience Member: I’m a little confused. Are you saying it was a part of me or are you saying it was another separate soul that I didn’t?

Bashar: It is another individual that you have interacted with in many different lifetimes that to some degree is also an aspect of the oversoul you are also an extension of. Mhm. Yeah, I understand that. Do you have any way of knowing who it might be if I told you a person’s name? Could you tell me yes or no?

Audience Member: Maybe. Maybe. Okay. Okay. Try the name Adele Stfield.

Bashar: No. No. Okay. Thank you. Thank you.

Bashar: More often than not, you knew that individual as a male in other lives. Some attachment of what you would call Tibetan, some attachment of what you would call Atlantean. There are others, many others, but those are some of the strongest ties between you.


Question 11: Synchronicity - Desert Dolphins

Audience Member: Good afternoon, Bashar. Good day to you. Speak up. Speak up so that all may share. Be bold. I have run across some things that are so exciting, I had to come up and share them with everybody.

Bashar: All right, by all means.

Audience Member: I wanted to go and find where the dolphins are, and my husband wanted to go and live in Arizona. All right. And yesterday, listen, listen. A friend of mine sent me a folder in the mail and lo and behold, it says desert dolphins. Yes.

Bashar: What has happened is that this lady called Mary Carolyn Meadows has designed what she’s calling the Carefree rejuvenation product which she is going to put in an area that is north of Phoenix. And it is going to be a big dolphin center as well as a big healing center. And she has been having visions through some of the rebirthing sessions she’s been having and the dolphins have been giving her the visions of how this should be constructed. All right. Part of it is going to be underground. It’s going to be just a fantastic project. They’re connecting up with some other group that is going to help them provide the seawater. The things that they’re going to do at the center is people swimming with the dolphins after being prepared through various ways. They’re going to work with handicapped children. Yes. They’re going to be couples working with them for conscious conception, pregnancy, and birth, water birth. Yes, dolphins are very good at both of those.

And it says the desert dolphins will be a major focus of the health and rejuvenation center which will offer a first-of-its-kind series of programs. It will be a synthesis of the latest and most ancient healing methodologies. In addition, they will have a Desert Dolphin Academy, which is a creative learning from preschool to university level, and an interglobal interspecies think tank. Nice. Isn’t that exciting? Yes.

Bashar: Their first international press conference is going to be on November 25th and at the present time they have the preliminary write up called the business plan done on it but now they’re looking for seed money in order to actually begin putting it together. But I called Arizona and talked to this lady today. I had to talk to her personally. And she said that they were planning on putting their first baby dolphins from a Florida dolphin center in their first tank beginning in April. That’s what their time schedule is.

Bashar: Many many of the interactions you will be having will also be the product of the creation of what you would call centers on your sea coast to allow the dolphins to come and go. However, a few dolphins for the purpose of these interactions will be willing for a time to be within what you call some of your tanks for the purpose of those interactions. Do not worry about the idea of some of those that will volunteer for this in terms of what you would call captivity. Some of them in that sense are willing to do that and they know what they are doing. You are simply providing an environment for them to come and visit you in that sense as what you call specialists.

Audience Member: So anyway, next week I’m going out to Arizona and see this wonderful lady. And I told her that I would bring along some of the tapes that Daryl has done in Channeling the Dolphins and she is ecstatic about that. All right.

Bashar: Thank you for creating the excitement in your life. Thank you for recognizing that wherever you go, you are always in touch with all levels of consciousness and you can manifest and materialize in the most unexpected ways. Thank you. Thank you. We leap for joy.

Audience Member: Me too.


Question 12: Dilemma - Moving to Canada

Audience Member: Hi Bashar. Good day to you too. Well, I have a dilemma. A what? A dilemma. A dilemma. Oh, yeah. Exciting. Exciting dilemma. Right. All right. Okay. A little background. I’ll be as brief as I can be. Background. Background. Okay. In the since I’ve come back to Los Angeles in the last 5 months, I’ve had some really great things happen and spiritualistic growth and everything. Oh, everything. All right. Yeah. And I’ve had incredible amount of disasters. I mean life-threatening situations. Oh my. Very exciting. Very exciting. Yes. I have been trapped in elevators after earthquakes. I’ve been saved a man’s life who got attacked. I’ve had my little kitty fly out the window and fall five floors. And one thing keeps happening after another. The greatest thing that’s coming out of all this is that unlike anything before I’ve come to see you especially these disasters right in the face of it all I always feel a connection with you and a thought stream comes through my head that has three words to it and it just goes not this time guys and at that point the disaster entirely resolves.

Bashar: Yes.

Audience Member: So now I’m getting some good positive things out of all this. Right. Then they’re not disastrous, are they?

Bashar: Well, no. They get averted, right? Yes. Well, now do you remember what the nomenclature what the definition what the ancient meaning of your word disaster is?

Audience Member: No.

Bashar: Disaster: separated from the stars. Wow, that’s really interesting. Always you are connected and when you know you’re connected, you’re never separated and it isn’t a disaster. It’s always transformable.

Audience Member: It does. It just turns right around. Yes. Okay. So now, yes, my husband after all these seeming disasters, after all these exciting events, Yes. He wants to leave Los Angeles and go back to Canada. Oh, I’d be going back to Canada. He’d be going to Canada. And he’s very insistent on it. And I’m not all too sure that I want to leave.

Bashar: Why the insistence?

Audience Member: He believes he can have a new beginning there. He’s from El Salvador and has been persecuted.

Bashar: Is the decision in that sense therefore made because it is representative of what the individual really desires to do or is it representative of the individual running from something?

Audience Member: What he really wants to do, he really wants that and he wanted to do that before he met me. All right. And so here I am going well, I don’t know do I want to leave Los Angeles now or what. I’m faced with this decision. Do you?

Bashar: Well, I’d like to leave Los Angeles, but I didn’t want to leave right now.

Audience Member: Oh, all right. When will you leave?

Bashar: Well, there was some things I wanted to prepare first, such as more money.

Audience Member: More money? Why?

Bashar: To live on when I first get back to Toronto.

Audience Member: Why not simply attract what you need when you get there?

Bashar: Yeah, I thought of that. Yes. Well, okay, that sounds good. It is up to you if you’re willing to trust it.

Audience Member: Yes, I do. I could trust that because if that’s one of the reasons in that sense, then that doesn’t necessarily say you don’t want to move. It simply says that you are hesitant about it because of your belief system. Mhm. I see. Understand?

Bashar: Yes, I do. Anything else?

Audience Member: Well, one other thing that’s kind of keeping me here, and that is I was talking to you before, I was telling you about the band I had gotten together. Well, now it’s really going well. Oh, all right. And I’d have to separate myself out from that. I see. Uh-huh. Why do you have to? Well, because if I go to Canada, they’re staying here. Oh, all right. Uh-huh. So, I feel like Which excites you more?

Bashar: Heavy side. Yeah.

Audience Member: Well, I guess it’s just because I know what I have here already. Well, all right. You know, but which excites you more?

Bashar: Does it excite you to go to Canada?

Audience Member: Yeah. Why? I really like it there. You really like it there? Yeah. I like the seasons. I like everything about it. All right. What is it that excites you about your band?

Bashar: Music. Music. Yes. The creation of it. The possibilities of.

Audience Member: All right. Does it have to be that music or can it be just as exciting with other expressions, other connections?

Bashar: You mean another band? Yes. Yeah. I know some real good musicians in Canada. Oh, really? Yeah. Yeah. It could be that exciting there. All right. If you really believed that you could bring it all together in your Canada as easily as you have it now, would that make a difference in your decision? Yes. Would it be easier for you to go? Yes. Well, then okay. If that’s the only thing standing in your way, then allow yourself to trust that you can bring it together just as easily. In other words, it may not be specifically that you do not want to leave this band because you think it can’t happen anywhere else. If you really believe it can happen in the place that it excites you most to be, then you won’t necessarily have to hold on to something that you don’t necessarily need to hold on to.

I see you understand. Yes, I do. Well, that does it. I’m going all right. I’m going to get to see you. Remember remember remember. Okay. You are always connected to everything. And many times, as we have perceived on your planet, when you make a move that quote unquote physiologically separates you from something you have been with for a long time, sometimes in certain cases, you actually wind up interacting with those things more often than when you were physically together. Yes. Just different ways. And again, it is an understanding, an opportunity for you to realize that physical distance isn’t all that critical that you will be able to be connected to whatever you really need to connect to no matter where and when you are. If you are where it really excites you most to be, understand. Yes. You’ll be able to connect to anything anywhere anytime in the way you really need to. Even you. Why not? I understand. I am not in your Los Angeles area anyway. I know. I know. But remember true remember remember. The idea is not to need me. The idea is you have you.

Audience Member: Yeah. Well, I don’t need you. It’s just I love the exchange.

Bashar: I love you as well. You know, but the idea of having a real equal exchange with us is going and doing what it excites you the most to do. Understand? That’s how you speak to us as an equal. Okay. So, thank you. Thank you. And I’d like to thank you also for the connection I had when these things did occur. I definitely felt the connection and the assistance.

Bashar: Our total vibration and the vibration of all within the association is always being beamed to your planet. Simply remember that when you tap into it, you are tapping into your version of that energy. Okay? You may recognize the flavor of our consciousness because you are familiar with the idea of placing that energy within our power rather than within yours. It will come with a flavor simply to remind you that what’s going on is that you are now operating for yourself on the same level you perceive we operate on.

Audience Member: Yes, I did feel a blending there that it was. Thank you very much. Thank you, Bashar. Bye-bye.

Bashar: Enjoy your new elevator ride.


Question 13: Integrity - What Is It?

Audience Member: Yeah. Good day, Bashar. Good day to you. You might be interested in knowing that quite a few of us who come to visit you are called Basharites.

Bashar: Why? God knows. Because your name is Bashar and we’re right. I guess you’re coming here. I just made that up. Anyways, my name is not Bashar, but thank you. That’s true. That’s true. Anyway, I’d like to ask you my question after I ask you a question. Many moons ago, there was a lady who was standing here asking you about her mother who had cancer. I believe it was her mother. And without going into everything, you mentioned something that I could never get an answer from most people is you said get a disease that’s a good disease. And the closest thing I can think of and said a cancer is maybe a 24-hour flu, but a number of people I asked just couldn’t get the concept of what a good disease would be. That is not a direct quote. Well, it’s close enough for government work, isn’t it? No. No. Okay.

Bashar: The idea that we are in that sense expressing is that sometimes individuals will create disease for a positive reason. And the idea is that they can sometimes also create a disease that in your nomenclature is not as negatively severe in order to serve the same purpose. Those are the ideas that were being expressed.

Audience Member: Okay, that’s I like that much better. Anyway, what I wanted to ask you was this question of integrity. Now, if I go to the grocery store and I stick my hand in the peanut jar and I take some and eat them and then I go eat a couple of grapes before I buy them, does this mean I ain’t got no integrity?

Bashar: If you let the people know that you did that, then you have Well, one day there was a sign there and it says, “Do not sample.” And the guy came over me, says, “You’re not supposed to sample.” I said, “I’m not sampling. I’m stealing.” So, he looks at me, says, “Okay.” And walked away. All right. An opportunity to discuss definitions. Yeah. Okay. But the thing I guess I really do not have a good understanding of the word integrity. Could you just give a synopsis on this?

Bashar: And basically the idea follows suit into what you generally think of as being honest and open and communicative and in that sense respecting other points of view and basic agreements that have been set up between you. And before you change those agreements, allowing all individuals that would be involved in that change to understand what’s going on. That is basically one foundational expression or explanation or definition of integrity. Functioning as a whole, the whole event that you are in being interconnected with everyone else. And the idea of trusting that whatever it is you really need, you will be supplied with one way or another. In other words, you don’t have to quote unquote bend or break what you have already agreed with someone else is a particular agreement or rule.

In order to allow that idea to transform, you can simply attract to yourself an opportunity to get what you need in a way that quote unquote naturally circumvents what may have been previous agreements without necessarily doing it in lie of their knowledge of it, in opposition to their knowledge of the change. To put it on very simple terms, in order for something to change as an agreement you have made, you don’t have to be sneaky. You can be out in the open and allow something you really need to be changed automatically with the agreement of all connected in the event.

Now, to some degree, what you did to some degree is representative of one way to do it. Since if you were very blatant about it and attracted an individual that noticed what you were doing and had a very open discussion about what was going on and they allowed it truly allowed it to be something that was representative of a fulfillment of their integrity and their definitions and their agreements, then that’s one thing. But if there was the attraction of the idea that you were doing something that you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt other individuals were presenting to you as in the consensus reality a lack of integrity then that can be representative of a lack of integrity. The idea is simply that it can be approached from many different ways. It depends on what the overall interaction is, what the agreements are that are arranged or rearranged between all the individuals that must be involved in creating that interaction and whether it serves the best for all concerned in a positive way.

Understand?

Audience Member: I believe it sounds like you’re saying it’s the greatest good for the greatest number basically.

Bashar: Okay. Now not to mean that an individual cannot receive specific benefit of the idea as well but also it invokes clarity of communication and honesty about why what is happening is happening. Now in other words let us examine briefly what were your reasons for doing what you did?

Audience Member: Me personally, I’m a games player and I like to play games. All right. But what were your reasons? Specifically entertainment.

Bashar: Did you have within you the recognition or the agreement of a recognition that what you call stealing usually represents a lack of integrity? In other words, were you aware that many of the other individuals that might have encountered what you were doing would see it as a lack of integrity?

Audience Member: Sometimes yes and sometimes no. It depends on what the case is. Yes, as we have said, it always depends on what the circumstances are and what the interaction is. Simply put, it can be recognized this way. It is not so much the idea that what you call the end justifies the means or the means justifies the end. They are inseparable. The means is the end. The end is the means. They are one idea. One idea. So the way you act, the way you present yourself will determine the outflow, the basic interaction that is the result of your particular participation in it.

Now, sometimes things can be done that would seem to go against what you call society’s rules that can be used to shake things up a little bit and doesn’t really cause the idea of what you call harm and isn’t really necessarily a representation of lack of integrity. But it will depend upon the level. It will depend upon the approach. It will depend upon the attitudes, the circumstances, the agreements, and basically your primary intention as well.

Audience Member: Well, I’m sure glad I didn’t tell you. It excites me to steal those peanuts. I’ve said I’m glad I didn’t tell you this. All right. But thank you for telling me what you did about it. Thank you. Okay. Does that serve you? Yes, it does. Thank you very much. Thank you again.

Bashar: Do remember that whether you think it can happen this way or not, sometimes an individual who simply walks up and says, “Do you mind if I take a few of those peanuts without paying for them?” will very often find that an individual may say, “Sure, go ahead.”

Geometry - The Tetrahedron

Audience Member: I have recently not developed, but increased my interest in geometry. Oh, all right. And specifically, I’m drawn to the shape called a tetrahedron or a three-sided pyramid.

Bashar: It is the primary geometric foundation building block of all physical reality. It is the smallest what you call regular solid shape and therefore represents the basic template equation in geometric terms that can be used to define and describe any equation, any perception, any variation, any description of physiological reality at all. It is the key shape, the key format that can explain all ideas of any event or physiological action in your dimension of experience.

Audience Member: Yes. I would like to ask you two things about it. First of all, speak up. Speak up so that all may share. First of all, in looking around on our earth, I find four-sided pyramids every place. Yes. And I don’t see as many tetrahedral shapes.

Bashar: They serve a particular function in a certain way.

Audience Member: Well, what I’m asking you is the function that the tetrahedron serves as opposed to the four-sided pyramid.

Bashar: It will be more specifically a type of electromagnetic focus that has to do with prime mentality rather than the idea of a step removed from that. The focusing of the electromagnetic field as the four-sided pyramids do. Ah it will be the literal gate, three-sided gate between physicality and non-physicality. The four-sided ones do this as well, but in a different way that aligns more with the different layers of electromagnetic energy that you have defined are representative immediately of different layers and levels of physical awareness. Whereas the three-sided one will actually bring you back to the center of the void itself out of which all energy and physical manifestation of energy comes from to begin with. It is more of a primal key. Whereas the four-sided type uses the energy that is already manifested as physical energy. Understand?

Audience Member: I see. Yes, that makes a lot of sense to me. Do you have anything to share with me about why it is that I’m drawn specifically to that shape?

Bashar: Well, many of you now will simply begin to recognize through the melding of what you call your metaphysics and physics the idea of exactly how the building blocks of your reality are formed, how they connect together, and it can allow you more conscious recognition of how to create the realities you prefer. It can simply be a focus, a crystallizing tool for you to reflect to your ability to manifest the idea of physical reality from what you call the void itself. You are to some degree similar in vibrational wavelength to some of our society. And therefore the three-sided idea attracts you even as it attracts us.

Question 15: Teaching Inner City Kids

Audience Member: I’m a school teacher. I’ve just moved here. And just started teaching at what we call quote unquote inner city schools. All right. This is a new experience. I’ve never taught at a school like this before.

Audience Member: Yes, it is. But it poses some really unusual challenges. Wonder if you had any information or advice that you could give me about how to motivate or reach kids that don’t really understand.

Bashar: Maybe as to some degree it is a matter of retraining as you say. Remember that by this time in your society they have already been fed many definitions that they are now quote unquote locked into holding on to because they do not know there is any other way to be. The primary fundamental idea that you can begin to retrain anyone with is sharing with them this idea. The opposite of what you have all been taught up to this point is that everyone, everyone, everyone is already in control of their reality. The control does not come externally. It comes internally. Everyone is as powerful as they need to be to create any reality they desire without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to create it.

You can begin to teach them that what they are experiencing in life is the product of how they define life. Get them to explore different definitions. Approach it from a different point of view, a different angle. A point of view changes the reality. Teach them about the idea that point of view is what they are. That the personality they consider themselves to be is only a set of definitions. They can change those definitions. In changing the definitions, they will change the people that they are literally, not figuratively. Remind them you are not talking philosophy. You are talking physics, mechanics. Any change in your beliefs, any change in your thoughts, any change in your emotions changes the person you are. Allow them to learn to act out the different people they desire to be, the way they prefer to be. Get them to use that imagination. Remind them their imagination is not something nebulous. It’s not something intangible. It is who they are. It is what they can be. It is real. It is a vibration. If they can feel it, if they can get excited about it, it is who they are. And they will manifest that life.

Remind them of these things. Give them back their power. Let them know they’re in control. Let them know they are co-creating the reality with you. I think that would be very helpful to know. I was felt drawn to this particular school and I don’t exactly know why but I feel like there’s some specific messages I can bring to them.

Aging and Radiation

Audience Member: At the whole life expo, I come across a friend at one of the booths. They were doing some diagnostics With infrared. So, I did it and I was amazed at the accuracy of their diagnosis. But the premise of this was they use an infrared scanner to get spots on the face. I think it corresponds to acupressure points that goes to organs in the body.

Bashar: Some of it. Yes.

Audience Member: Well, this goes into a computer that prints out a set of numbers. But the whole premise of this is that the fact that they say the aging process is based on they call it the normal body on our planet has a 25,000 sun day lifespan.

it has to do with radiation how much radiation each organ, the thymus gland being the first one that’s most affected by radiation gets a number one.

Bashar: To some degree this is so but only at the frequency that you exist at now or have existed at. The more you elevate your frequency by living in the moment, the more you match the vibration of what you call that stellar radiation and the less it affects you in a negative way.

The idea that is why living in the moment, doing what excites you makes you ageless, timeless because you are living more in the now and you create less time.

When you accelerate your energy on that level, you match the frequency of that stellar radiation. You become more of a light being, a light body.

Then the idea of the so-called difference between the old you and the stellar radiation isn’t so dramatic. You are on the same level and the idea is that aging in that sense is suspended.

The things that are affected in that way by the radiation only become affected because you are operating on a much lower frequency than the stellar radiation. And so the difference is created to cause what you call a friction, a wearing down because of the interaction of a higher energy and a slower energy. The more you match the frequency, the less friction there is, the less wearing down there is. Understand?

Audience Member: I see that comes from living in the moment and doing what excites you. Elevating and accelerating your energy level, becoming a stellar body yourself. Understand? I understand that. Does that serve you? It does. One of the things that they on the diagnosis, they said that I had never thought of this that it could affect the body, but their diagnosis showed up. I had moved around the country a lot. They say like living in different parts of the country changing position in the space in which it doesn’t affect the body because you are a different vibration in a different local.

Bashar: A different local is a different vibration. Different magnetic flux and gravitational flux takes place and you are constantly redefining the gravitational and energetic matrix that you are by moving around in different loces. That’s what moving around is: redefining the gravitational and electromagnetic flux that you are.

Closing Remarks

Bashar: We remind each and every one of you that on what you call the interaction we will be having with you on your 29th day of your present month, in honor of your Halloween, we will share with you our version of a ghost story. On the 22nd day of your month, we will share with you another story which will be labeled the sound.

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