Depression, Marriage Problem

And what did you see?

Oh, yes. Do you not feel their love even as you are releasing right now?

How exciting. Brought you right into the moment, didn’t it?

Did you laugh at all during that time?

Still centering — that is still centering.

Yes. Many individuals, as we have observed upon your planet, will not allow themselves to begin to truly love themselves until they reach, as you say, the bottom of the barrel — when they have no other direction to go in but up.

Yes. Because you did not want to be with you.

Yes, very clever of you.

Congratulations.

That is why we say congratulations.

Nice.

Thank you for recognizing your patterns. Now you can use them.

Allow:

• a lightening of the diet
• more of the fluids within you
• deep and even breathing and cool, purified water into your system to allow your bodily cellular structure to take advantage of all of its natural healing capacity.

Let yourself know that you are in a meditative state at electromagnetic center, electromagnetic zero. Realign the entire blueprint idea of yourself within your imagination and see a new crystalline form appearing where the old body used to be. In a sense, this is a re-birth, is it not?

We thank you for your boldness and your decision to do all of that processing so rapidly. It shows how strong you really know you are.

it is a marriage right now, no matter how you choose to define the idea — spiritual union, that is the same thing. The ritual in that sense does not make it any more of a marriage.

I see. And what about this family here?

We do not mean to make light of your situation in a negative sense.

But we do suggest that you lighten up a little bit about what you think is difficult or not difficult on the Earth’s plane.

Nothing is set in steel — nothing.

Any difficulty that you observe is only the habit of believing that things must be difficult where these types of ideas are concerned.

There is nothing that has to be difficult about this. One suggestion we have for you is to recognize first and foremost that you already are together, right and very much committed to the same thing. The entire planet is your home.

The entire planet is your family. You are learning that distance means nothing — that distance is an illusion. It is in learning these things that will cancel the illusion of distance and allow you the physical proximity you desire. But as long as you choose to believe there are barriers — social, political, religious, what have you — between you, you will create and continue to create those barriers.

By doing your part where you are right now and recognizing that he is with you, that you are with him, and that you are doing what you need to be doing in the areas you need to be doing it, functioning as the active poles so that the distance between you can be lessened. You are bringing yourselves together by bringing the world together. You are shrinking the distance between you by shrinking the world so there are no longer any barriers.

By removing the barriers within yourself, you remove the barriers within your reality of the world. There is no simply one Earth and that’s the way it is on that Earth.

Each and every individual — yes, we recognize in a sense there is a collective idea of Earth, but even within that idea, each and every individual lives on a different Earth. Literally. I am not speaking figuratively. I am not speaking philosophically. So what you determine your Earth shall be shall be the Earth you experience, regardless of what you think the Earth has in store for you.

Who says? Who says — government? Listen to yourself.

You are creating a dogma for yourself, and you are religiously following it.

You are basing your present experience and your future experience on your past. You are saying: just because this is the way it has been, then this is the way it must be.

Why? Why? Because they can’t cut through it as — yes, you can.

You have not been doing it.

If you find that there is a raging forest fire in front of you and it blocks your path to where you wish to go, do you fight it by throwing sticks at it?

Do you actually fight fire with fire and make a bigger fire, or do you soothe it with water?

When you say, “Well, these obstacles exist and we have been trying to get rid of them,” you are not transforming them by using them for what they are.

You do not have to believe that just because those barriers have existed in the past, they must exist now.

I would in your terms perceive that many of the methods you have used to transform them have been only reflections of the barriers themselves in the methodologies they are used to using in remaining in existence.

You are using their own tactics, which only create stronger barriers.

Let them dissolve by inviting them in and passing them through you.

The idea is not to break a barrier — the idea is to dissolve a barrier.

But the way you do that is by accepting, to begin with, that you are doing your part in the creation of that barrier. Accept your part in the creation of that barrier.

Accept your part in the sustaining of that barrier through the beliefs you have been taught by your society — by buying into those beliefs. “Yes, it must be a struggle. Yes, it must be difficult.”

By buying into those beliefs, you sustain the barrier and create it to be difficult and create it to be a struggle.

Don’t buy into them. Recognize within yourself that the barrier, if you have sustained it up to this point, can best be dissolved by acknowledging your part in creating it.

Then you take it within yourself and say, “Why would I choose to believe there are barriers? How does it serve me to believe these barriers exist?” When you redefine your belief system about why you believe these barriers have existed, why you find you have believed that they must exist, and why you believe that they must restrain you from this point forward, then you will have the definitions themselves that create the barriers to remain.

All you have to do is redefine the definitions. Redefine the definitions as you prefer to believe: “I prefer to recognize I have created the barrier because I believed this.

I prefer to believe this. Once I believe this, no barrier will remain.” You will be able to walk through those barriers as if they didn’t exist, even if they exist for everyone else on your planet. Just because other individuals — just because the majority of your society says that’s the way it is — you don’t have to pay attention to that. You don’t have to. It is only your belief that the collective has more power than the individual that allows you to sustain those barriers in front of you. The collective does not have more power than you.

Yes. But many of the reasons as to why you want the things you want — because some of the things you want may be able to be manifested in different ways than you expect they should be.

Many of your expectations may also be belief systems that have been put upon you by your society as to how you think it should come about in order to represent the idea.

Non-physical 4D, yes. There is a physical fourth density as well, that which you will be experiencing as the physical lives you live in the transformational age upon your planet. But bit by bit, towards what you may call colloquially in linear sense the end of your fourth density existence, the non-physical fourth density and the physical fourth density will be almost completely indistinguishable. And that is when you will be 5D.

Yes. The idea, as we have stated, of going from level to level, transition to transition, plane to plane, is the recognition that you are the dimension of experience that you thought you previously existed within. So you thought you used to exist in physical reality. Now you are understanding that you are physical reality. When you understand that you are non-physical reality as well, you will then move into the fifth dimensional plane, and you will become — or recognize that you already are — the actual dimension of non-physical awareness, what you call the astral plane, that perhaps for a while you thought you existed within. And on and on and on, always recognizing that you actually are the dimension of experience that previously you thought you inhabited.