Friend’s Job Loss and Emotional Reaction
Asker: Hello, Bashar. Hello. I have a question. It’s in two parts. The first part is about a situation that a friend of mine is in. That is the friend part. The second part is my reaction to the friend. Um my friend Ellen has in the past year and a half or so um gotten a job, held it for six months and then lost it. Went through the same situation. Lost it. Yes. Got another job. We liked it very much. That’s about the way she looks at it too. Nice. And lost it.
Bashar: Um you do know that you lose nothing. There is nowhere to lose anything to. Things may change their appearance, but they are never out of your reality. The energy is the same. It is there. It has changed into another aspect. Nothing is ever lost ever. That is an assumption from a belief. But nothing is ever lost. It changes in the way it needs to change to represent the life you believe you are. And the idea once again is to realize that no situation has builtin meaning. Therefore, when situations occur in your life, just because you have been taught to think that it’s a negative situation doesn’t mean that it is. If you give it that meaning, then that’s the effect you will continue to get out of it. But at the same time, if you recognize it as a neutral set of props, if you give it a positive meaning, then you will get a positive effect out of it. Okay?
Asker: That’s good. And I’m glad you reminded me of that. Thank you. I can see her doing that though. Taking the very scene of this very negative situation. Yes. I’ll ask her why she chooses to believe that it must be. Okay. Can you give me any insight as to what’s going on with her as to why she keeps turning over jobs?
Bashar: First of all, she is learning what we have been discussing. idea that she does not necessarily have to look at it as a negative situation and that one thing changing makes room for another thing and that all things are equal. She doesn’t have to worry about the idea of whether she will be supported in life. It is also an opportunity to examine her opportunity, her ability to do what excites her the most and trust that she will be supported in that and she doesn’t have to struggle and suffer to make a living. She can live in ecstasy and she will generate the support she requires. You follow?
Asker: Yes, I do. Okay. The second part is in being around her, she sometimes goes on and on and on and on about the situation. I find myself getting depressed one and angry too.
Bashar: That’s your choice. She has nothing to do with it. It is your choice.
Asker: Okay. How can I um by loving her as she is by knowing that she is learning what she needs to learn. Anger is only you aligning with what you know to be true as compared to what you are seeing in her. But it does not have to last any longer than your knowledge of that being what it is. Anger is only alignment. You see something, you align. This is what is true for me as compared to what I am seeing. All right, no big deal. You don’t have to invalidate someone else just because you are now in touch with what’s true for you. That’s what allows anger to turn into frustration, guilt, rage, and hatred. Invalidation, judgment of others. You follow me?
Asker: Yeah. And the only way you will feel the idea of depression is to believe that her reality does have something to do with yours. You follow me? If you simply find that what she is doing is not the vibration you are, then why accept to share that belief? You follow?
Asker: Yes. Shine for that individual as an example of what a reality can be in harmony and you will be being of best service to them. If important if once again if they decide to choose to share the reality you are showing them which they do not have to do. Everything is equal. Everything is valid. What anyone is learning is what they need to learn at the rate they are learning it in the way they are learning it. Again, everyone is eternal. What’s your rush?
Asker: Okay. Thank you. Thank you very much. Sharing.
Conversation 12: Childhood Patterns and Cause/Effect
Asker: Hi. Hi. Um for almost a year now, I’ve been trying to make sense of my childhood. Trying.
Bashar: Yes. I haven’t succeeded.
Asker: Oh yes, you have in many ways. But that is because you do not have to try so hard. When you stop trying so hard, the things you need to understand will make sense to you. Now, may I ask you a question first of all? Sure. Are you sure I may ask you a question? Yes. Oh, thank you very much. Do you think it is absolutely necessary for you to have that understanding before you will be able to function as the person you are now?
Asker: Yes.
Bashar: Why?
Asker: Because um because that is what you have been taught to think. Well, I think I’m there are too many patterns that are in my life that if I’m trying to figure out why these patterns have happened, I can trace it way back. So, I figured I would start there. No, because I don’t I want to break these little patterns.
Bashar: All right, but if you are paying close attention to what you just said, you will realize you did not answer my question at all. Now, I asked you if you believed that understanding these patterns of the past had something to do with you being who you are now. You said yes. And I said, why do you believe that they are connected? Why do you believe there is a continuity between what you did and what you are? This may seem like an absurd question in your society but it is not. For you have been taught to think in linear terms in continuity. This leads to that. If you are experiencing this now, that must mean that somewhere back here there was a cause. Effect, there must have been a cause. Cause there must be an effect. No, it is an illusion. Utterly an illusion. Cause and effect are the same event. Now many individuals will always assume that a cause must come first and that if there is an effect a cause must have come first. No, you can create an effect and then create the cause after in this analogy that we have used many times. Use this as an example. Many individuals and to some degree this is relevant for you believe that if only they could find a reason a cause to be happy then they could be happy. They could have the effect of being happy in their life. But first they have to find the cause for happiness. But if you stop and think about it from the opposite point of view, even for a moment, you can come to the realization that there really is no reason why you cannot simply be happy. And if you are willing to know that you can create happiness in your life now, then nature not allowing there to be a vacuum in creation will automatically supply you with all of the cause and the reasons for the happiness you have created as an effect. You can work it backwards as you are used to thinking it. You do not have to find the cause in order to have the effect. You can create the effect and then create and quote unquote discover the cause. Now in any way, shape or form that you care to relate to it doesn’t matter. In other words, you can create the effect and then it may seem as if aha now I have discovered the cause and that cause can now be seen to be this that occurred in my past. Now that I understand my past, now I know why I can be happy now. But being happy now is what created the cause. And in many ways, when you decided to be happy now, that is when you created the cause, even if the cause for the happiness appears in the past. Because time is an illusion. Linear time. There is no real before and after. It is all simultaneous, all parallel. Many causes for what you are going through in life now that you even have a memory of experiencing in the past were not there necessarily until you in this present time created an effect that gave rise to the need for a cause in the past that would have made linear sense out of why you’re experiencing the effect you’re experiencing now. Is this making sense?
Asker: Yes.
Bashar: Therefore, anything you need to know about any patterns in your life are all coming from you. Now, let me remind you of something that we have reminded a few individuals recently of. You are constantly creating your entire universe every single moment of time over and over and over again. All change, all movement that you experience in your reality is the product of a series of slightly differently positioned whole universal creations. Much like the process you refer to as the single cells of a film or an animated sequence, motion is an illusion created by the rapidity with which the different scenes are changing. You follow me? At any given moment, each frame of the film of your life is absolutely complete and not necessarily connected to any other frame. At any given moment, you know, by analogy in a film, even though you may have a sequence of images, any one of those frames, you can at any time remove and replace with an image that has nothing at all to do with any of the other images in the sequence. You follow me? Mhm. Life also is structured that way. At any given moment, you can replace a frame in the so-called sequence of frames you have been generating. And that one frame will change everything. Everything. Any idea of you as a being that contains habitual patterns from the past. That is the whole idea you are being now. idea of a person who has habitual patterns from the past. And now you are training yourself to be the idea of a person that has habitual patterns from the past. And now the same thing over and over and over again. You do not have to have that definition of yourself. And when you are willing to know you can change that definition and changing that definition will change the physical reality in the way you experience it. Then you will understand that your past has nothing at all to do in a controlling way with what you are experiencing now. The present is not a result of the past. The present is the result of what you think it is the result of now. If you think your present is the result of your past, that’s the effect you are creating, but you’re creating that effect now in the present. So, you create all the apparent linear continuity manifestations that seem to fall into place to make sense out of the theory you have of who you think you are at this moment. Change that theory and you will no longer experience anything that has to do in supporting the old theory. You will now only experience the manifestations in your life, the feelings in your life and the belief systems in your life that go towards supporting the new theory you are being at this moment. Is any of this making some sense to you?
Asker: It is very much so. It is sinking in on many different levels.
Bashar: We realize that some of these concepts in your terms may be new to you. But also allow us to remind you of one very important thing. Never is it possible for you to hear something you are not ready to hear. So if you are now in this conversation with us, that is an indication that on whatever level you need to, it’s sinking in and making sense. And bit by bit at whatever rate you are comfortable in changing those frames your outer reality will also change. But simply understand you create the past from the present not the other way around. Because the present is the only experiential time in which you ever exist. Anytime you look at yourself, it is always now and it always will be now. It may be a different manifestation of now, but it will always be now. Therefore, any idea of the so-called past you are creating from now. Any idea of the so-called future you are creating from now. It can be anything you desire it to be. When you change the you you are now, you will then focus now, you will then focus on the particular ideas of the past that will represent the you you are being now because the so-called idea of the past has many probable ways of manifesting just as many as there are the future. So whatever idea you are being now will determine the way you relate and what it is you perceive to be real about your past and about your future and
Asker: I understand that. But what about the idea that you choose your parents to learn certain lessons? Yes. I think that’s what trips me up. I mean all right but do remember that even though you have made that choice the idea in no way shape or form means that you are incapable of expressing what it is you are learning in a positive way right you always have the opportunity to recognize also that fundamentally many of the reasons for why you choose those scenarios is to realize what you are realizing now that at any given moment you are absolutely self-contained and quite is capable of determining what your reality is going to be like. Regardless of what agreements you have made, many of those agreements you have made are for the purpose of getting you to the point of realizing that you can create your reality the way you wish it to be. You follow me.
Asker: Uhhuh. Thank you. So relax and lighten up on yourself.
Bashar: Thank you. You are an empowered being. You are at this moment a reflection, your unique chosen reflection of the infinite creation. Act like it.
Asker: Thank you. Thank you very much. Sharing.
Conversation 13: Mucus Problem and Holistic Health
Asker: Thank you so much for coming, Bashar. And you? Um, my question was going to be um I’ve had this mucus problem for six, seven years. after hearing what you just said if I change my belief system um I don’t have to worry about disciplining and not eating this food just changing my whole thinking that it doesn’t have to be
Bashar: now you may find that when you change the idea of yourself you may actually lose if food has anything at all to do with your belief system lose the urge to eat certain foods that may be reflections of the belief system that causes what you are experiencing you follow me yes But the idea is to begin to think of yourself as a homogeneous whole idea, not a collection of parts. If you think of yourself as a collection of parts, then there can be the idea, well, this part doing just smashing, this part doing okay, this part needs a little work, this part I don’t want to think about. When you allow yourself to realize that those are not actually representative of different parts within you, but are representative of different whole ways you can be totally then you can choose the one you prefer to be and you will act like that whole idea. Okay. You follow it?
Asker: Yes. Yes. So think of yourself as a clear open individual. Think of yourself as connected to all that you need. So that all will come through you. So that everything will move, flow, and release as it needs. Because that’s the whole idea that you are not a collection of parts. energy to you, electromagnetic blue white energy. Allow yourself to imagine that you are a whole energy idea. Breathe deeply and heartfeltly. Breath is the energizer. It will energize and crystallize every cell in your body. Breathe more openly knowing that you generate the atmosphere around you that will sustain you and you do not have to consider that the atmosphere in which you exist is foreign to you and will create an allergic reaction. You follow me?
Asker: Yes. You follow me? Yes. You are not truly a stranger in a strange land. You are quite at home.
Bashar: Thank you. Thank you so much. Sharon.
Conversation 14: Channeling Music and Film Projects
Asker: Hello, Bashar. Hello. Last week, you greatly assisted me in some questions that I had on my channeling.
Bashar: Thank you for greatly assisting yourself.
Asker: Thank you. Um, I’m going to need some insight, I think, this week on something that’s been happening. Um, well, then you’d better go and pick some up down at the corner store. [Music] Some months back when I agreed to start to work um and to use the energies that were coming through, right? I totally gave away my my job, my profession. And I was told that this was okay, that this would be right now what would be happening. Now that um I have worked on this and understand and feel comfortable with my my channeling um and I’m starting to work with people and looking forward to networking with other channels. Two major film projects are offered to me. Yay. And needless to say, I’m rather confused. Why? Because I’m afraid that it would take Do they excite you or not?
Asker: One part does and the other part doesn’t.
Bashar: All right. But do you not understand that when you allow changes to occur in your life, then what comes into your life that is exciting to you is a part of the change, not an interruption in it. You follow me many times. When you think you want something, it’s when you let go that it comes to you. And when it comes to you, it comes to you in perfect timing to represent a part of the idea you have now been willing to be. This is not an interruption. It is simply that you needed to do certain things so that if you do decide that one of these things excite you, you will have now gained in what you have been doing insights that you require to now truly do that thing to the fullest. Everything interfits, intermeshes. Everything is interconnected. Things do not interrupt each other. They are all part of a whole. It is all one whole idea. Follow your excitement. It is the thread that lets you know it is all one whole idea. You follow me?
Asker: Yes. Thank you very much. Enjoy. Thank you. Um, I wanted to say that I do understand that because of my profession, why I’m a casting director, that I guess it would sort of help me in in working with the individuals more closely and more humanely. Um cuz that’s what I wanted to do was is that um well do you not know that what you have been experiencing for yourself in getting in touch with all of the different ideas and aspects personality fragments within you will now allow you to identify that much more easily the same type of energy in someone else.
Asker: Yes I understand. All right. Thank you. I also wanted to ask you, you had been speaking a little bit earlier about predictions, right? And um there have been others that I have heard predict or or I don’t like to use the word predict but say that during the August 16th and 17th of our year of 87 yes it is brought the exact idea we have already shared apply to that as well. I think again what is being perceived is that there is a strong energy gate through which you will step because that’s where your momentum is taking you. But how you step through that gate and how you wind up on the other side of that gate is up to you. Right? What you wind up with on the other side of that gate depends upon what you carry through the gate with you. Is it follow me?
Asker: Yes, I do. Is it if a spirit is of the light and is giving these fears out to individuals would that be I mean my I I certainly would never channel something like that because I don’t feel that to some degree what you are saying is contradictory but recognize this all consciousness in forming connection with your world will still need to come through the belief systems of the individuals they are connected with and cannot necessarily always override the fears that are ingrained within the channel. So the information will come through but it may be colored by the channel’s unconscious belief.
Asker: I see. Thank you. I understand that very well. Thank you. Thank you. Shouting Bashar.
Conversation 15: Tailbone Injury and Visualization Healing
Asker: Yes. How are you? Perfect. And you? I’m fine. Uh this last week I was uh in the new home that I’ve moved to uh rushing around while the cleaning lady was there and I slipped in the bathroom freshly waxed and really came down on my tailbone. All right. And what a jolt.
Bashar: Yes, it was a jolt. And um how is your head?
Asker: My head seems to feel all right. I more suffering in the bottom chakra terribly.
Bashar: All right. Will you now do me a favor? Yes. Will you allow yourself to close your eyes and take three deep breaths with your eyes remaining closed at this point? Simply define in a very simple way how you feel. How do you feel right now?
Asker: A little bit lightheaded.
Bashar: All right. Very good. Now, just breathe easily. Allow yourself now in your mind’s eyes to imagine the brain in your head. Mhm. You have a picture. Yeah. All right. What is the point of view where I am? Is it from the top? Is it from the side? Is it from the back? Is it from within? What is the point of view from the back? Very good. All right. Is it that you are seeing the brain at a downward angle? Flatten. Very good. Then continue now to observe from that point of view that downward angle your brain. Now see in your imagination. See where the spinal cord connects into the base of the brain. Can you see that? Mhm. All right. Now, very, very, very slowly, softly, and gently, allow yourself to see the brain and the spinal cord glowing with a blue light. Can you do this? Mhm. All right. Now track your vision down slowly down the spinal cord. See the blue light everywhere you look. Look at the entire spinal cord. All the way down to the base. Do you see a different color at the base?
Asker: Yes, I do. Just about an inch up from the base, I see what looks like a black egg laying sideways.
Bashar: Very good. Now, the blue energy. See the blue energy flowing like water over the egg, around the egg, and dripping off and forming a pool down at the very bottom of your spine. A blue P. See the A starting to shrink, starting to melt, starting to drip into that pool, mixing with the blue. See the blue dissolveing the air, letting it shrink. Letting it shrink. letting it feel a cool and a tingling and then an alternate warmth in that area as it is now waking up much in the same way that when you say your foot falls asleep you feel the pinch sensation of the returning blood of the returning life force and you feel this in your imagination let The egg dissolve at whatever rate is appropriate. At whatever rate represents to you the absolute certainty that it is in your mind’s eye dissolve. Now dissolve. Now see that blue light filling the area where the egg used to be. If there is a gap, see it filled now with blue transparent light. See that blue transparent light connecting the bottom and the upper portion of the spinal column. See the blue light coalescing into a continuation of the spinal column turning into an extension of it and connecting the two sides. See that blue light. Then as you see that blue light, see within the blue light the spinal column crystallizing, regenerating, forming and solidifying, now bridging the gap once occupied by the black age until you see a healthy and vibrant spinal column once again all the way down. Now look at the pool at the bottom. See it swirling and you recognize that there may still be some remnants, some smears of the blackness in there that once was the egg swirling around. Now see with your mind’s eye your finger, an energy finger come down. Dip your forefinger up to the mid knuckle into the pool. Swirl it pool. Swirl it around until the blackness becomes utterly dissolved in the blue and is lost in the blue until it is all smooth. It may not be exactly the same type of blue it used to be, but you will notice it is a deeper and a richer blue. richer for the experience. And now that you allow that experience to have added depth to the pool, it can once again sparkle brilliantly with its former translucent blue light, electric blue light. It sparkles with potential. It sparkles with promise. And now you allow the very tip, the very tail of your spine to uncurl and relax and dip into that to relax and sigh. Let the whole spine sigh. Let it now drink deeply of that energy and let it rise like liquid in a straw all the way up your spine, all the way up between your shoulder blades. And as it does so, it spreads its warmth like the branches of a tree throughout your entire body through every organ. Let it rise to the base of your brain and create a tingling sensation. Let it seep throughout your brain. Much in the same way that a sponge would absorb blue liquid, blue ink that will write a new idea, a new definition, and completely rewire the entire idea of your brain and your awareness of self. Feel the blue fluid refreshing refreshing lubricating, invigorating you in a cool and crystal and clear way. Breathe deeply and feel the vapors from this fluid going in and out through your sinuses. Feel the cool vapors enveloping your eyes and leaking into your ear canal and imbuing every cell in your body with a vibrant tingling sensation. Much like the idea you would call eucalyptus, eucalyptus, feel the breath, the atmosphere around you to be cool and vibrant and pink. Feel yourself standing straight and smooth, whole and pure, and at once and the same time soft and supple. firm but supple. Flexible, Flexible, pliable, malleable, bending to and fro like a sapling in the wind. So that any idea in your reality from this point forward that you perhaps in the past might have treated as a shock to the system will now be absorbed gently. You will send not break. How break. How wonderful. We thank you for cocreating alignment. Allow yourself to breathe and energize yourself into whatever crystallized form you wish to be out of the primal liquid from which you create your reality.
Asker: Thank you very much. We thank you. Sherry.
Conversation 16: Vibe Sponge and Disillusionment
Asker: Hi Rash. Hi. Um well I wanted to ask you um why is there a fear in things that are new?
Bashar: Because you have an ingrained in general in your society belief system that anything that occurs in your life can be something that will overwhelm you. that if it is an unknown factor, it can overwhelm you in this way that you are not in control of it. You think that familiarity is the only thing that breeds control. That is not so. And again recognize that nothing can occur in your life that you are truly unfamiliar with. You follow me? Yes. The fear is simply a reaction to the belief that what comes into your life perhaps can be believed to not have anything to do with what you think your life should contain. It is a fear reaction in being out of control. Oh, how did that get there? That’s new. I don’t understand it. How does this fit in my life? What’s this doing here? What purpose does this serve? How can this possibly fit into my life if I don’t understand it? Why is this here now? I was having such a good time doing this. Why did this come now? I must have lost it. I must be out of control. Things are not going according to plan. Not as I expected it to be. What’s wrong with me? Why can I get a handle on my life? Why do these things keep occurring in my life? I’m out of control. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. That’s what the fear reaction usually is saying. all of these different beliefs about the idea that something can occur in your life that for some reason you think has no business being there. That can’t happen. Can’t happen. You have a belief that you think there is something that you will discover within that unknown that could do you harm because you’re not in control. Only your belief will create the illusion of harm. You follow me?
Asker: Yes. Does this assist you?
Bashar: Mhm. Anything else?
Asker: No, thank you. Thank you very much. Oh, one moment. One moment. One moment. Something just came up. Something very important. Something that will change your whole life in a way you did not imagine it would even be possible. You want to know what it is?
Asker: Yeah.
Bashar: Are you sure you want to know what it is?
Asker: Yes. Are you in the least bit apprehensive to know what it might be? Well, yes. Tell me, please. Lee. All right. I love you.
Asker: Thank you. Will you love yourself?
Bashar: Yes, I will. Thank you. Thank you, Shanny.
Conversation 17: Painting and Relationship Dynamics
Asker: Hello. Um, I’ve become uh aware that my painting has been a tool for me for transformation and I’m beginning to share that with other people. Oh, I uh is there um anything that um perhaps I’m I’m not being in touch with with that experience that would be helpful if I were to say
Bashar: no, would you believe me?
Asker: Yes.
Bashar: Why? Did you just want to hear from me what you already knew?
Asker: Sure. You know you are being of service. You know you are enjoying doing it. Are you simply creating one of the syndromes we have discovered in your society that if there’s nothing to worry about you worry about not having anything to worry about?
Asker: Perhaps.
Bashar: Perhaps. Is there another way in which you would find pleasure in expanding the expressiveness of your creativity?
Asker: Um, maybe. Not now.
Bashar: No. Why not?
Asker: Um, because I’m doing everything the way that I want to do it right now.
Bashar: Well, then our original answer sticks. No, there is nothing I could possibly tell you that you are not already doing just perfectly.
Yes. But you are in a sense working together. But you are working together to also lighten your load.
In many ways at this time much of what you say you desire will be the result of when you remove some of the dead weight from the idea you are sharing. Then you will be able to move rapidly together.
Yeah. When you no longer have to carry the idea of things that you think of as burdens. Perhaps this is your opportunity to empty your suitcase a little bit.
No no no you do not need patience. Patience is what creates impatience. If you are living in the moment and enjoying the life as it is then you are too busy having fun to be waiting for anything better to come along. Therefore, you don’t need to be patient.
Okay, this is not about patience. Patience may be one of those chairs that you no longer need to sit in and wait. You follow me?
And you don’t need to take it with you. Now, you said you were an artist. Then only paint in the picture of your reality the things that will move most easily with you. Do not fill your picture with things that weigh the canvas down to the point where you alone cannot move it.
This is an opportunity to recognize that many of the physical objects in your life are symbols of ideas that weigh you down and do not allow you to proceed in a light and creative and expressive and spontaneous big word spontaneous manner. Spontaneity.
That the idea that you are not allowing spontaneity, that you are not allowing yourself to live in an environment which engenders spontaneity is what keeps the appearance of separation existing in your relationship. You follow it abstractly?
All right, then let it sink in. Okay? And you may take it more literally if you wish. Perhaps you do not think I mean it literally. May I ask you a question in a literal way? Yeah. What would happen if that chair no longer existed in your house?
Correct. You would be doing the moving. And when you move, all things that you need move with you. If when you move something doesn’t move with you, it is a sign that you may not need it. So why attempt to drag it along?
Many times individuals will actually create a physicalized scenario to very literally represent this idea. If you are desiring to work together, then allow yourself to recognize that the generation of flexibility and spontaneity is what will allow you to intermix and intertwine more often on many different levels than you do now. You follow it?
We thank you. Thank you.
There will also be someone who has been close to you many times who will explain some of this to you in another way in symbols you are more familiar with. Sweet dreams. Thank you.
At this timing allow us once again to express to you our unconditional love and remind you your physical reality always is and can ever only be the product of what you most strongly believe to be true.
Let your physical reality and the situations that occur in it reflect to you not the idea that you are stuck. Not the idea that you are a failure, but the idea that if something appears in your physical reality that you don’t prefer, it is an indication of a belief that you have that you can change the definition of.
Do not fight yourself. Flow with yourself. If something seems stubborn as a situation in your reality, then it is a reflection of your own stubbornness. In many ways, there is no need for insistence. When there is spontaneity, all things intermesh and interplay perfectly. Interplay perfectly. Enjoy.
To all of you exciting dream life and life dreams. We thank you for this opportunity to experience once again the crystalline gift of your consciousness. We are always eager to unwrap that gift and experience and explore the more that you always are. Besides a bond and loving good.
Let everything go.
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