Chronic Fatigue

Chronic Fatigue and Karma

Asker: I feel chronically fatigued. I’d very much like to have an abundance of energy.

Bashar: Are you doing in your life what you would prefer to do, what excites you the most?

Asker: No.

Bashar: When you do what you really prefer to do, you will have an unlimited Supply. If you are waiting to have that Supply, if you are waiting to have that energy before you will do what really excites you in life, you will spend a long time waiting. Do what you truly are excited about doing, and that is what will generate the Unlimited Supply of energy. Have you not heard it said upon your planet that a labor of love is no labor at all?

Recognize therefore that when you do what you truly love to do… what do you know? The energy is there.

Asker: I never had so much energy. I’ve never had so much fun. Because doing the vibratory thing that represents the path you chose to be is effortless.

So you will not be expending energy trying to do what you wish to do. “Is tiring” because all of the trying in the world is never the doing of the thing you wish to do; it is only the doing of trying.

Asker: I do pursue um, what I really want to do, but I’m just wondering if I maybe have some blocks or fears that I can’t release that I that AR not at the surface or maybe some past karma. Karma, yes. I cuz I worked… I’ve worked with this for like eight months or so and I can’t.

Bashar: Right now there are doorways and bubbles popping within you. There are Gates opening within all levels of caught… you, your Consciousness right now.

Karma is self-imposed.

If there is any karma in your life, you are holding on to it now. It is not from before. There is no before. Everything is always now. No matter paradoxically how many lives you have ever lived, you are living them all now across the board. In other dimensions simultaneously, on multiple levels, in all directions, in all times, in all spaces, you are living them all now. Who you wish to be now is completely, totally up to the discretion of your conscious mind now. Let go of the anchor that holds you to the concept of the past, whether it be the past of this life or any other life. You are only holding on to an anchor and that prevents you from moving forward because of your concept of time, because of your concept of energy. You right now are free. You are a balloon Whose Line has been cut. You are unlimited. You are not bound. You are absolutely free.

Let those ideas appear now rather than Len to be simply bubbles of thought. Let them pop. Let them pop. Feel them popping. Hear them in your imagination popping now. Let them pop away. Let them burst back into the energy. Let the fragrance, the aroma of of those bubbles surround you. Breathe it in. All of the ideas that you have thought have been holding you down, all of those ideas have only been the idea that you can be held down.

Nothing weighs anything. Let yourself float free. This life right now. You have right now, this moment, right now, all the tools necessary to do anything you want right now.

Give yourself the conscious permission right now to let yourself know that you can do what you desire to do and that therefore, because you are doing what excites you the most, you will be in alignment with the energy of the whole universe. And therefore the energy of the whole universe will support you. And therefore What You Do by going with the flow will be an effortless expression. Thank you very much. Turn around. You do not have to go Upstream. Just turn around and flow downstream. Blocks are only ideas of blocks. Blocks are only unexpected directions in the path you are that you simply do not believe will lead you where you want to go. So you stand at the crossroads refusing to move because your ego says, “No, no, no, not that way,” even though it’s obviously the way you need to go, even though the path does not move in any other direction. You stand there and treat the bend in the road as if it were a wall because you have been taught to believe you can’t go in that direction. You can’t get there from here. But you can, because you will always only be getting back to here from wherever you are anyway, which is always here to begin with. All Journeys are all from here to here. All of them. You never really go anywhere. It is all, if you wish, in your mind, but that does not invalidate it.

I do not mean to make light of it. No pun intended. The idea is that you are creating yourself to be the physical life you think you are living. This is your creation. You are in creation. You are in control. Allow yourself to Simply allow your reality not to be chiseled out of steel and therefore highly immobile. Allow your reality to be sculpted in light, made out of bubbles which at any given moment can pop back into the Rare Essence out of which they were created to begin with. Then, as you breathe that Essence in and exhale it out into new bubbles, they will be more representative of what you in your heart know to be true for you.

Express that. Express yourself. And then what comes out of you, what forms into your externalized reality, will be more representative of what you truly believe within you is what you wish to experience. When you let what is within you out, that’s the physical reality you’ll experience. Let it out. Okay? Thanks a lot.

Trust, Unemployment, and Inner Voices

Asker: The trust is what I’m struggling with. That’s the… the area of my life that I hear you saying. Give yourself permission. Okay. And somewhere inside here there is a block that doesn’t allow myself to give myself the permission.

Bashar: Where inside you?

Asker: Where it feels up in my throat and um, in my solar plexus.

Bashar: I just… that’s two blocks or is it a big block?

Asker: It’s… it’s two. It’s… I guess it’s two blocks. You guess? Well, I feel it here and I feel it here, so I guess it’s…

Bashar: Do you feel it anywhere in between?

Asker: No.

Bashar: All right, then for now we’ll call it two blocks. Two blocks. Two for the price of one. All right. What a bargain. You got a bargain in blocks. You know, I am not making fun of you yet. I know. I am creating fun with you, for that is what will allow the blocks to melt.

Asker: I’ve been finding myself um, getting progressively more depressed as I’ve been out of work longer. The longer I’m out of work, the more depressed of becoming and the less trust I have in myself and my ability to find work in something that’s going to excite me.

Bashar: I then create what excites you to be your job. That’s the whole idea. The idea is not to look around necessarily for the things that excite you that already exist. The idea is, if you do not find them, then allow what excites you to become your job. Somebody had to start the job that exist in your Society. They didn’t just always exist in the format that they exist in now. Someone had to say, “Wait a minute, look around. The thing that really excites me the most, there isn’t a job for. I guess I had better start it.” And now later on you think that’s a typical job because someone once started the idea. But if you look around and do not find something that excites you in that way, if you look around and find that your passion does not lead you into these things, then allow yourself to truly examine in all honesty what it is that really would be truly exciting and simply take it for granted that you then, if that thing really excites you and no one else at this point is doing it or you do not attract into your life an opportunity to do it where it already exists, then take it for granted that your ability to conceive of what it is that excites you the most also represents your ability to create that to be the job that will support you automatically. Again, this is simply, as you have said, a matter of truly trusting that what you come up with, that what you really know would excite you in life, you are capable of doing, whether any structure already exists for it or not. If no such structure exists, then that means that because you thought of it, you have the structure inherent within you, and all you have to do is let it out, let it unfold, and then the reality will be able to build itself on that template structure. But you’re not letting it out.

Asker: I I feel so incompetent. I feel that I… I feel so incompetent.

Bashar: I feel that means you believe you are. We have discussed with you before the idea that no feeling comes without a belief already being instilled within you. There is no such thing as simply feeling something for no reason out of the blue. Feelings are not generated out of thin air, out of a vacuum. If you feel something, it’s because you already believe something to be true. Feelings are a reaction to a belief. They are secondary to a belief. Feelings are not the primary experience of reality; belief is the primary interface. First you believe something is true, then you get the feeling, then you have the reinforcing thoughts which may re-reinforce the belief and then regenerate more of the same feelings. But the feeling that you are incompetent comes from the fact that you simply choose to believe you are incompetent. It’s your choice to believe that. But you don’t have to.

Asker: I want to let go of it, and every time I go to… I keep getting these voices that tell me, “But remember this time. Remember that time. Remember this time.”

Bashar: What does that time have to do with this time?

Asker: I know, but it… but they come up and the voices are there.

Bashar: Let come up. So what? You see, you are trying to shut portions of yourself off. You think that when you integrate, you will never hear those voices again, and that’s not true. You will always hear those voices.

As a matter of fact, the more you integrate, the more you will hear them because the more you accept everything, every way that you are, into your life. And those are some of the ways you can exist. But they come up not to show you you have failed, not to show you you are stuck. They keep coming up to give you the opportunity to realize how much you changed, because you don’t relate to them the same way you used to, unless of course you choose to do so.

So when you say, “Oh well, look, the voices are still coming up, that must mean I have failed, that must mean I’m not doing the right thing the right way,” you are choosing to maintain the same relationship with those voices. But you don’t have to. The voices are there as an opportunity to realize you can form a different relationship with them.

All right. Here comes the voice: “Well, remember when this happen that way?” Well, yes, yes, but so what? That was then. I have learned since then. And because you, oh wonderful Voice, have now reminded me of the way I did it then, then now I have a great and positive opportunity to see how differently I am going to do it now.

You are giving yourself a measure. Look, this is the way it happened then, all right. Now in your imagination you go, “Well, all right, now I know it’s going to be different. This is the way I prefer to see it happening now.” See how much difference there is?

It is the way to allow yourself to recognize you are going through an evolutionary process. If that’s what you believe you must go through, because from time to time you may find, well, the voice comes up, “Look, this is the way that happened then,” and then you may say, “All right, well, this time it happened almost the same.” But there’s the key word. If you are a positive individual, you’ll lock onto that “almost the same.” It was a little bit different.

A little bit different, and that’s good enough for me. Because if it can be a little bit different, it can be a lot different. And next time when the voice says, “Well, yeah, but remember when it happened this way,” now you recognize, “Yes, but the last time it was more different.” And therefore I know, because I choose to look at it that way, that next time it will be more, more different.

So you keep reminding me of the way it was, little voice, because when you keep reminding me of the way it was, it gives me an opportunity to see how much more different it’s becoming all the time.

Everything in your life can be used in a positive way, even the same old Little Voices. It’s up to your willingness to allow your imagination to work for you. Trust it. Have the positive attitude that will determine Everything. You Follow Me? Use it as a tool. If it’s there, use it as a tool. Don’t think that just because it’s there, it means you failed. That’s your old attitude. That’s your old belief.

Asker: I just get reinforcements from other people in my life telling me all you have to accept…

Bashar: Reinforcement? No one can give you reinforcement. Well, they’re agreeing with the… what the inner reality is, the outer reality. It is one and the same. If you have the Little Voices within you, of course you’re going to have the voices outside of you as well. But when you start using those little voices in the way we just described, then the outer voices will also change. You understand? Yeah. The inner is the outer reality. The outer reality is the inner reality. They are not two different things. It is one. So as you believe in, so you see out. As you sow, so you reap. That’s what that means. The seeds you plant within yourself are what you see growing in the garden around you. So if you do not like the flowers you see growing, then change your order of seed. Plant something different, and then something new will grow. You follow me? The inner is the outer. The inner is the outer. If the outer is not the way you prefer it to be, change the inner and the outer will follow.

Asker: I’ve worked on saying… I I’ve worked on saying things. I guess the the belief was still the old one. I didn’t get rid of the old belief.

Bashar: You cannot get rid of anything. Okay. What I did was I said, “Okay, I can… I can do this and I can hand the job,” and somewhere there was that belief that’s that still was hanging on to the other one.

Listening to the way many times you phrase things as “well,” because many times the way you phrase things is an indication of the way you really believe. Okay. Okay. “I can handle it. I can handle it.” Right there. It lets you know the way you are saying it means you think it is overwhelming to begin with, and that’s what the real belief is.

The belief therefore is not really that you can handle it, because if you knew beyond the shadow of a doubt that you could, you wouldn’t have to convince yourself. If you find yourself using phraseology that indicates that you are attempting to convince yourself, then you do not believe it naturally.

Let yourself know that you do not have to think twice about something you already own. When you phrase things in that manner, when you say, “All right, all right, I can handle it, I can handle it,” then you are indicating that you do not really believe it is handleable.

You do not have to handle things in that way. You already control everything. You already control everything. Therefore, if situations occur in your life that seem to be non-preferable manifestation, you controlled it for a reason, for a positive reason, into that format, even though I don’t see what the positive reason is.

Let the positive reason, at least the fundamental reason, that you’re giving yourself an opportunity to realize you don’t have to relate to the scenario the way you used to. And you may be checking yourself to see if you still are.

What phrases could I use that would be more beneficial to me? “How does this serve me exactly the way it is? Exactly the way it is. How does it serve me? What can I learn? How can I positively learn something from this?”

Then, when you let it be the way it is, is when it has the greatest opportunity to change into something else. But if you deny it the form in which it comes, then you are not allowing yourself to see what is inherent within it. You are not allowing itself to present itself in the way you have created it to present itself. You are denying your own creation, your own format.

Only when you acknowledge your own format of delivering messages to yourself exactly and completely the way it comes to you do you then create the conscious freedom to transform that delivery system into a way you would prefer it to come. But if you constantly treat your delivery system as if it is malfunctioning, then you are not listening to it.

You are thinking something is going wrong within you, and therefore that’s the belief you reinforce, and therefore that’s the cycle you repeat: something is wrong, something is wrong, something is wrong. And so of course your reality constantly reflects back to you: something is wrong, something is wrong, something is wrong.

Everything is just fine. In what you used to consider the most dire circumstance, let yourself realize everything is just fine. “I’m in control of this. Look, look at how much control I have to have created such an absolutely exciting scenario.”

Everything seeming to be wild and hither and thither and all over the place and seemingly wild and unconnected and out of control, but since I know I’m controlling that, look at how much power I have.

Are you beginning to get the Habit?

Asker: Yes.

Bashar: For the only thing you are experiencing is the idea that you have old habits that are difficult to break. So if that’s where you’re coming from, all right, “I have habits that I believe are difficult to change.” So if I believe in the idea of habits, then use the idea of habits in a positive way and create positive habits. “I love myself. I love myself. I am in control of everything even when it seems like it’s out of control. I’m controlling that.” Get used to thinking in a positive way. Get used to knowing and Believing that there is a positive manifestation that can occur from every scenario. No exceptions. None.

Asker: I felt like I was and then when I lost my job I just…

Bashar: But you see, you assumed that not being in that job for some reason has to be an inherently negative scenario. Why make that assumption? It is only an assumption.

How do you know what losing that job may be making room for that you would just explode with delight to receive, that you wouldn’t have room to receive if you still had the old job?

Trust that when things like that occur in your life, if you know you are doing the best you can do at that moment and those things still occur, then assume it’s for a good reason and let yourself see how it is for a good reason.

Only when you insist that those things occur not for a positive reason do you then keep the reason from coming to you that would let you see why you lost the job for a positive reason. Because you’re sitting there moping on the idea, “Oh well, the only thing I can think of that losing my job means is it must be negative. Something’s wrong.”

And when you are focused in that way, you can’t see the positive side of the coin. You can’t see it until you choose to look at it. You have to decide consciously that you will look at the positive side of the coin in every single circumstance or you will not be able to see positive manifestation.

If you are constantly insisting that circumstances are inherently negative—“losing a job must be a bad thing, has to be, everyone knows that”—if that’s the way you choose to look at it, that’s the way you’ll experience your reality.

When you insist just as strongly that losing a job must be leading to a more expanded and broader positive experience, that’s what you will get in your life. That’s it. It’s that simple.

Asker: Guess I got impatient because I stated that I have said that exactly. And I and what happened was I did get an interview for for a job that paid more.

Bashar: Yes. And then what did you bring back? The expectations? “If I don’t get this, I’m failing.”

Asker: Yeah. And then I and then blew the interview and I didn’t get the job. And you know, so then I started to to go into my old… remove the expectations.

Bashar: It doesn’t have to manifest exactly as your ego or your habits think it should. It doesn’t have to. Let it manifest along the path of least resistance. Stop fighting resistance. Stop fighting yourself. You do not have to push yourself into a mold. You fit exactly where you are. You do not have to conform to a particular idea of what success represents. You are successful exactly as you are. I have a suggestion. All right. There are several people waiting, and what works for me is to get the tape and listen to it again. You will get more and more and more out of it as you listen to it and sleep on it.

The Cat Symbol and Telepathy

Asker: B. I want to thank you for sharing with a friend of mine mine um, about a ceremony you described for a thunder dreamer, the Hyoka ceremony, and I want to thank you for that. I’ve been doing it quite often.

I have experienced in my life life the 50/50 that you’ve talked about, creating both negative and positive synchronicity. Right. I’ve realized of late that I have chosen to believe more the negative synchronicity than the positive. All right. I’m changing that. All right. And integrating Within Myself all right what I’m doing and what I’m creating. The uh, creating both of them has been a source of excitement for me.

Bashar: Yes. And to you all. Or you wouldn’t have done it. You all have good reasons for doing everything you have ever done. Yes. When you let yourself believe that and let that sink in, then you’ll realize that you can create whatever you truly prefer.

Asker: That’s what I’m doing now. Yes. Thank you. Thank you. I want to ask you about an incident that occurred at my business, which has been a lot of the business that I’m in has been a lot of source of both positive and negative synchronicity. A uh…

Bashar: You are the source. They are simply the reflections of the source you are.

Asker: Yes. Yes. A cat walked in. And this cat walked around. A black and white cat. My mind. Yes. I understand a lot of the significance. How your symbols are becoming yes. And I thought the cat wanted some food, which of course it ate a little bit of and then didn’t. And then I was standing and it basically walked around visiting every one, but kept walk coming back to me. And I was working in the front of the store and the cat just decided to sit down in the front and stare out to the door, watching uh, just watching. And it was a great experience between me and the cat. I wanted to see if you had any comment about that.

Bashar: What did you wish to do that perhaps inhibitions did not allow you to do? Talk more with the cat? All right. What do you imagine you would have learned, or do you imagine you would have left and done something with it?

Asker: Hm. Um, I would have imagined I would have learned that the cat… I felt that the cat was acknowledging the integration that I…

Bashar: If you in your imagination had been the cat, how do you imagine you would have seen the place the cat walked into? If you were looking as the cat, explore that idea and see what you come up with in your imagination.

Okay. Be the cat. Identify not only with it but as it, and see what you get. Okay.

When you identify fully as any symbol in your reality, no matter what it is, that’s when you are in complete and total telepathic communication with it. Because you are identifying as it. That’s how telepathy works.

You become your version of that idea and therefore of course you experience the same thoughts it does. That’s telepathy. It is not direct reading of mind; it is total identification as your version of that idea, of that being, of that object.

Then you know what it is like to be the cat, the table, your friend, your family, your world, and so forth. Then you can put into action what portions of it you prefer, what portions of it represent the idea you, as the being you are, can most effortlessly apply to your real reality.

Therefore, the animal and any object will function as a multi-dimensional symbol, allowing each and every individual that interacts with it to get out of it what they wish to identify as it in whatever form represents the being they are, and to apply through themselves in whatever format they are the idea they get out of it in the way that represents the way they are living their lives.

Multi-dimensional. Multifaceted Crystal.

Asker: So I can walk back in with the cat?

Bashar: You can walk back in as as the cat and then see the place as you would imagine the cat sees it. Be the cat in that way. Now, we do not mean you have to get down on all fours. You can if you wish. Depends upon your willingness and your sense of humor. But the idea is that you can still see as if you were the cat.

Humanity’s Unique Role in the Universe

While you are preparing yourselves for sharing, allow me to share something with you if I may. All right. All right. Just to show you that there are many points of view that exist within many of the civilizations we have encountered, we will simply relate that your particular civilization is, in our Viewpoint, as we have stressed to you many times in this sense, unique to some degree in the degree of the focus of limitation that you have experienced. But as we have said, to us, this can also be a positive thing in that it does make you masters of limitation, so that you have experienced all there is to experience on that particular idea of limitation, and therefore have that completely within you as a total experience to draw from that you can utilize to share and assist with other individuals, as you will be doing perhaps in your future with other planetary systems, to assist them in the limitations they have created for themselves if they need such assistance, to be reminded that they have also got the ability and the inherent power to create the realities they desire. This we perceive you will be doing in short order, even as we are doing this with you.

However, there was one time when we encountered a civilization that came into contact with the association and eventually, in sharing information back and forth—as you say—it came time to describe and Define Your Existence and what we were doing in interacting with you.

Now, do you realize that one of the closest times we have ever approached what you would call, although not exactly in the same way, no negativity, no real violent emotionality in that sense, but the closest we have ever come to what you would colloquially call an argument with anyone was that they simply could not believe that there could exist any expression of individuality within the physical universe that could not be aware of its own power, that could actually forget that it creates its own reality.

It took some convincing. [Laughter] They call you a liar. Not really. But simply it was beyond their conception in that way.

Not that they are any better than you, but simply to show you how many different ways there are to perceive reality, and that there are civilizations who have created themselves to inherently not even be able to conceive of the ability to forget that you are a part of Infinite Creation.

So in this way, recognize it was quite astonishing in that sense to them to realize that you were actually able to funnel your great power inside such a manner as to use that power to create in yourselves the ability to forget that you even had the power you were using.

They learned something new about themselves that way, learned something new about the universe that day. And you taught them, to their great amazement, that that was one way that All-That-Is can express itself. And now they have a much broader understanding of the way Infinite Creation can express itself.

You have taught them something in that way by your willingness to experience such a high degree of limitation and focus.

In that sense, they in turn began experimenting to some degree with that idea. Not that they created exactly the same degree of forgetfulness, but you see, the ID in their civilization became a source of enjoyment because they found, as you also found to some degree, that the ability to impose the illusion of forgetting upon yourself, however momentarily, allows you to experience things as if you are experiencing them for the first time.

And for them, they realized that that was an experience they had not had. And so in that way, they were able to generate for themselves a whole new understanding of creativity simply from the altering of the perspective, the altering of the point of view of creating the scenario of not remembering that you are connected to the experiences you are creating your reality to be.

Therefore, recognize that even out of all that you have considered to be such a Negative experience, other individuals in the universe have benefited greatly from your unique willingness to create such a reality that can then be shared in many different ways as a learning tool by men individuals in the universe.

You also have assisted Us in assisting other worlds because our thought patterns would also be highly alien to you and yours to us, and without the use of the idea of a model upon your planet, a life without having experience the idea of a life upon your planet as I have experienced in the form of the physical channel before you in what you would consider my past, then I would not have the model to draw from, the experiences to draw from, to be able to assist you now or even speak with you on the same terminology at all.

And so in using your high degree of focusing limitation, we have been able to know that if our model works on your world, it works marvelously on many other worlds that do not have such a high degree of limited Focus, because you are then the master lock for almost any other civilization that is experiencing limitation to any degree.

And so we thank you for the high focus you have created, because then in dipping into your well, we have almost all the tools necessary to deal with almost anyone else. We thank you for forging that type of Steel that allows us to be able to cut through the bonds of the illusion that exist in many other societies and yours as well.

The Transition of a Child

Asker: my boyfriend’s 5-year-old son died.

it was a time that we were coming very close to seeing him. He hadn’t seen him since he was an infant, and we had been meditating and and sending him a lot of love and a lot of energy. And shortly after we had decided that we were going to see him, he uh, drowned.

We have felt his presence especially around his father, um, around the house a lot lately. I was wondering if you could give us any insight as to why he decided to choose this time to leave.

Bashar: it was all the time he needed to experience in physical reality. Okay. Many Souls that choose to be of service in many different ways will realize in their estim… oh, let’s say we have one or two little things to understand about being in physical reality, but we will impose a timing limit on it so we will not live out a full life because we do not need to. We need to experience the idea of just a few ideas, just getting our feet wet in that way, to allow us to experience the idea that we can then be of greatest assistance with in assisting the entire civilization to go through the transformation it is going through. So that Soul picked up whatever ideas, whatever remnants of ideas of self-created karma it needed to, to allow itself to become balanced and aligned within its own polarity so it can Now function as a guide and be of greatest assistance in that way.

It can lead and lure many of you into the realm of light in which it now exists. In your dreams will be the strongest contacts, and in your physical reality will be very strong contacts, but generally speaking, the contacts you have between your respective consciousnesses as they express themselves in physical terms will play themselves out as synchronous events that unfold in your life rather than the idea of recognizing yourself actually having what you would call vocal or verbalized or auditory communication.

Asker: Yes. He he has been very present in my dreams for some time. Um, and wish?

Bashar: Yes. You may find that the individual May, from time to time, use in various ways as a calling card, if you will, to let you know there is communication going on specifically from that Consciousness. They will use as a calling card the symbol of water to represent transformation and fluidity. It can come and will come in various ways. Watch for it and recognize the vibratory chord that is struck within all of you when you see it. When you do see it, you will know it is a symbol of the communication going on at that moment. And simply, you do not have to wait and stop and listen. Do not stop your lives. Let your lives play out, knowing that what is going on is a guidance, a cocreation from that soul, from that guide. Not being in physical reality for a very long time in your terms of counting has allowed that soul to remain relatively unfettered, uncluttered. It did not need, in your terms, much work, much orientation upon transforming to non-physical reality. It simply went back into the idealized state of functioning as the guide that it wished to function as for many of you still experiencing physical reality. So watch for the signs of water and you will know that represents communication. Not that you have to go out of your way to look for them. Simply continue to live your lives.

Fill yourselves with the light that you are, and you will be more open and more receptive to Communications from a being that now knows itself to be composed utterly of light.

Pregnancy at 46 and Mirrors**

Asker: My friend is wondering the meaning of being pregnant at 46.

Bashar: is there something strange about having a child at that age?

Bashar: She’s already had a few children and she doesn’t really want to have another one.

But obvious she made an agreement to a certain point, right, to allow that individual to experience a certain degree of physical reality. Okay. That’s part of the question she has. All right. It may not conclude in your terms in what month?

Asker: I think she’s the going on to the third month.

Bashar: There may be changes that will occur toward the ending of the 3rd month in that way. It may not conclude. It can, but it does not have to for the being to get what it needs. The being that would be the child.

Asker: One of the questions she had was at what point is there the full connection with the fetus and that new soul body?

Bashar: Consciousness exists now. An extension of the Soul Consciousness exists now, but full connection is not until birth itself, and sometimes not even until after.

The soul can still come and go for a very long time after physical birth. Body Consciousness will maintain the body, but the connection generally is not actually until physical birth. Okay.

If she actually chose then to uh, not to continue, she’s wondering if there allow her to get in touch with the reason she made the agreement. Telepathically, she can. The agreement was made.

Allow her to get in touch in Her Imagination, in her meditations, with the reasons for the agreement. The pictures that come into her imagination May at first not make much sense because some of them represent connections to other civilizations that are a part of the overall child’s agreement and origin points.

But let her drift within the images. Let her describe and write down the images she gets in her emotionality in her meditation, and she will allow herself to begin to realize the reasons for the agreement, which can then also allow her to choose and to recognize that there may be portions of her that does wish the child to come to term. Okay.

She was feeling um, like Barren and sterile, obviously physically and emotionally previous to this. Then perhaps the child has allowed her to realize that she is always fertile on many different levels depending upon the agreements and the timings that she creates. And perhaps that is one of the reasons why the child may not have to quote unquote “stick around” if she will be willing to learn that she is never Barren on any level.

All right. Okay. Once that is understood, then one of the primary reasons for the existence of the child may have already been fulfilled. Also, no offense, 46, she is still a child to me. [Laughter]

Allow her to realize that one of the other ideas the child is sharing with her is how to always function in that childlike mode. And that when she does function with her child now, then she can live in that modality as an ageless being.

For once again, recognize the transformational age. One of the reasons for it is to learn how to live in the moment. Now, we are not saying act in a childish manner, but in a childlike Manner. And in this way, your society allows you to act in a childlike manner two times: when you are young and when you are very old.

Recognize therefore, since you know that this childlike behavior is actually very closer to your natural state, many of you will allow yourselves to create the idea of physical age so it will be all right to act like a child again. When you allow yourself to act like a child now, you won’t have to age to be able to do so. And that is one of the things that will make you ageless when you learn how to play now. Tell and share this with that individual.

Asker: I will. Thank you very much. Oh, you’re welcome. She thanks you and so do I.

Bashar: One moment now. This may be only as it translates through our interpretation of your energy, but we will share this with you. See if it means anything at all. It may not consciously to her. And again, this is only our interpretation, and Her Imagination May provide her with a vibration that is closer to what she feels to be more appropriate or accurate for her representation of this idea. But we will share this one word about the child: Step.

Asker: The principles that you bring forth and when you answer almost every question concerning interaction and when you come in contact with another entity, when they act as a mirror unto yourself.

When you run across somebody that you perceive that you’re coming forth in an in an act of Love, unconditional love, and they come through with what you perceive as a judgment… does not mean we are talking about a one-to-one reflection. Many individuals will attract individuals into their lives to allow that other individual to see in them the lack of judgment that the other individual is putting forth. So there can be polarity mirrors as well as one-to-one mirrors. So it’s not necessarily yourself that you’re seeing.

You are seeing an aspect of yourself that you certainly have the potential to manifest, but if you simply know that that’s not the aspect you are manifesting at this time, then simply take it for granted that you may be then functioning in that person’s life as something they need to see because they may be considering ways to change whereas you have already considered, and the way you are is the way you wish to remain. Then you give them an opportunity to see that they also have the potential to create in their lives the stability you have created in yours. You follow me?

Asker: Yes. So it’s okay to perfectly be in a um, a lack of communication like one person presents one thing and another presents the like a polarity yet, but that is not a lack of communication, right?

Bashar: It is very powerful communication. Okay.

Simply it does not necessarily represent the vibration of the reality that that you find you create experientially in your life. But you can still communicate and do communicate back to them that your reality is the way you prefer it to be, and they can decide whether what they see in you will work for them or not. And if not, they can be on their way. Right.

And likewise, you can choose, “Well, if I don’t want to interact with this person because I keep getting that that judgment or that reaction from them…” Then if you choose… but recognize, if you are in a reality that is non-judgmental, you won’t feel it negatively.

You may recognize that they are doing it, but you won’t take it personally. So it will not affect you that way. So you won’t care whether they interact with you in that sense or not, because you will perceive anything they have to say as something that you can glean something positive from. Right.

And then when they see how you treat their attitude, then is when you are showing them the way they can deal with themselves.

Asker: Yes. It is not a matter of cutting them off. If you have attracted that individual into your life, then obviously you have also co-created it for a reason. An individual you do not need to experience in your life, you never experience. Right. So if they are there, obviously they are there not only for their reason but for your own as well. One of your own being that you can be of service to them and also learn on your part how to not accept their offer of being affected by their negative point of view. Follow me?

Asker: Yes. Is the only way to do that then to stand there and reflect who you are? Right. Give them the echo back to what they have given you that represents the way what they have given you changes when it hits you and bounces back. If they say “I hate you,” say “I love you.”

Bashar: Yes. Otherwise, then you are simply offering to reinforce the reality that they are coming to you with, and then you are creating that reality for yourself. If you judge their judgments, you follow me?

Asker: So, you never choose to walk away from any anything. You can choose that attitude, but you never really can, right? Because everything is right here.

Anything that is in your life is obviously there for your own good reason. Begin to trust that you know what you are doing, and then you will allow yourself to realize you are in control and the things that exist in your life are there because of your own choosing for some reason. Deal with it. Accept it. Acknowledge it. And you will understand why just by being true to yourself.

Gratitude for Negativity and Opera Singing

Asker: I’ve been taking a neutral Viewpoint and um, oh God, there’s so many.

I’m certainly not going to take time here to to give all the specifics, but oh, everyone can feel them. You don’t have to. But but the idea that um, I decided to really do this, really really do it, to really really honest and truly do the idea of being just as grateful for the things that I judge to be negative or or reacted to even slightly negative or or judgmentally…

Bashar: There is a difference between accepting negativity in your life and preferring positivity. Just because things occur in your life that may be negative in that way or negative manifestations, we are not saying that you cannot prefer positive manifestation. But that the way to allow the negative to transform into the positive is to realize that it is not truly or necessarily has to be negative. That that is only a value judgment.

You bet. So what? Yeah. That that’s really what I was going to say. Um, what I did… what what I did was what I know when I did that, what I what I noticed is the things that I created as being quote “negative” or things that I didn’t desire would start coming up and they would kind of sneak up—excuse me—and go, “Okay Pammy, how are you going to deal with this one? Huh? Huh?” And it was almost like a tease that I created for myself.

Like, “So so, what’s it going to be?” And all of a sudden, I actually had this feeling of joy and I just thought, how humorous that can sneak in there too. Yeah. But it what it was was was just simply that I would, you know, we’re just going to keep presenting this to you until you get it straight. And and of course, I’m doing this for myself.

Bashar: Yes. Um, perfect. Uh uh, anyway, it was just so wonderful. And I I decided I I a ah… did you hear that?

Asker: I decid… no, no, no. Yes, that too. But anyway, it was so wonderful. That’s any way. It was that’s right. B, that’s it. That’s really, I mean, I can’t even find words to say this.

Bashar: I’m oh, you have found them perfectly. And again, when you radiate that knowledge, you don’t need as many words. Everyone can see the light. You don’t have to describe the light when you actually shine.

Asker: That’s really true. Um, thank you. I just uh, there’s one more thing I was going to say about… oh, I I said something like, “All that is is always guiding me to my highest expression,” or something like that. I decided to just operate on that. And then then I had some realizations about when I used to perform. I used to be an opera singer and I used to love performing. And you know, people always saying, “Well, ego, ego, ego.” Wasn’t ego at all. What it was… I was describing this to someone the other day and I realized something about it in in um, it is simply the same format as when a bird sings. That is not ego. And also, when when you have the total attention of the audience, you are the focus of it, and that’s a lot of energy to take in and focus and shape and and give back. And that’s the same thing that All-That-Is does for you when you allow it. And since you’re an individual, you get to shape it even though it’s all part of you. It’s all one thing. It’s like a circle. You’ll know what what your planet is sounding less and less third density all the time.

Bashar: Are you sure I have the right [Laughter] planet?

Asker: Yes, I know I have exactly the correct Planet because we believed and knew when we began our interactions with you that this is what you had already chosen to understand.

Asker: Yes. Even the parts that are that we were all kind of afraid of and uh, scared by and all that that stuff was fun. Yeah. All the limitations. Oh God, we’re just so… I’ll tell you something. Since i’ since I’ve been on this, it’s just a constant thing. I can hardly… I’m numb actually. I actually feel so much energy searching through me all the time, all the time. Yes. That I can hard… I I’m actually numb from it. Yes. Um, I can’t sleep at night. I’m so excited I can hardly breathe.

Bashar: And yet you are breathing just fine.

Abundance in Beverly Hills

Asker: For the first time, I controlled one of my violent dreams. And that was really joyous, amazing.

It was because I had controlled something in my life. It it reflected in that way.

I just have one question because most of my questions I am answering myself um, continuously now that you have created freedom in your life. Definitely. Definitely. Which I’m very grateful for. But one thing that just hit me today is this: I’m boring. It was like a jolt.

It was like a all right, another Awakening. Yes. You um, I am exploring the idea of abundance meaning being able to do what I what I want to when want to and all of that sort of thing and all of that sort of thing.

Yes. Um, oh, very exciting. I I am wondering why is it I just realized this? I started a new job about… it’ll be three months in a couple of weeks. This is uh, I am at the lowest level of abundance as far as money that I’ve ever been in my life. In order things I want to do or as far as as being able to do the things that I want to do, which require that, which require money to do that. Anyway, I’m I I’m I have no no money, but I’m working in Beverly Hills. Okay. Which is like the richest community in the world. This polarity. This polarity. I mean, I am creating this. I am poor and I’m working in Beverly Hills. And I I I want to be able to flip the coin. I mean, the other side is there.

Bashar: Listen. When you are in your your Beverly Hills, listen and look around you.

Asker: I do constantly.

Bashar: But not out of desperation. For with that attitude, you are saying, “I am not one of you.”

Asker: I’m learning that.

Bashar: Okay. Relax. No matter how much time you choose to create, up to the point where you realize you are completely abundant, when that point comes, you will not care how much time went before. When it hits you, it will hit you, and you will be abundant, and it won’t matter how long it took. So relax. Mhm. All right. Simply begin to identify with those individuals. Mhm. Mhm. Be as them. Right. Flow in that school. Swim in that school. If you have created and attracted to yourself the opportunity to surround yourself with an environment that represents abundance, then realize you are giving yourself the tools you need at whatever rate you truly can handle them. Right. So relax. Know that if you have the ability to do that, that is representative of abundance that is inherent within you, or you would not have attracted yourself into that local. If you didn’t have that vibrational ability, you would never have experienced that reality around you. Right. You are that vibration. So you are giving yourself the opportunity to get used to that. You are surrounding yourself with that environment much in the same way that you know you learn what you call a foreign language best by living in that country and having to use it all the time and only hearing it all the time. So now you are living in the country of abundance. Let the language rub off on you. Use the language. And when you use the language, when you use one symbol, you will learn how to use all the others. Let it flow into you. Mhm. Do not be impatient. For then you truly keep it away. You create desperation. You reinforce the belief that you are separate. Right. If you are there, you are not separate, or you would be somewhere else. Right. So enjoy.

Asker: What is amazing is I have felt and I’ve heard you say that to me these… I’ve been feeling that all the time. And when I do get impatient or at times when I do get wild about it or desperate about it, I hear that “Relax,” you know. This is thank you for creating that reflection within your mentality.

Bashar: Thank you very much. Search within yourself also at the same time and explore. There may be different things that you can do to attract that abundance to you that you may not be doing because you are sitting and waiting rather than doing these things. You are now in a new modality. MH. Do the different things. Have the different attitudes that an abundant individual has. See things the way an abundant individual sees them. With that type of abundant perspective, look at everything and see everything as another expression of abundance and another opportunity for you to exercise your abundance. Well, there’s another way. It’s not what I prefer, but there it is.

Bashar: Then when you know you are truly surrounded by it, then you will not be surrounded by it; you will be immersed in it. As long as you still believe you are surrounded by it, you are not a part of it.

If you are surrounded by it, all of that which surrounds you 360° had to come from the center: you. So it’s all you. So there you are. You are abundant.

Integrity and Calling in Sick

Asker: I would like something clarified if possible. All right. Um, You said about the don’t confuse accepting negativity with whatever you said. I don’t even know uhing it. Okay. Um, all right. In terms of every effect can be positive, is that a true statement?

Bashar: Situation can generate a positive effect. Right. Um, which of course in of itself, effects are also situations.

Asker: How does the issue of Integrity, for example, an act that is highly out of Integrity, that that which causes segregation, that which reinforces the belief in separation—in other words, what you colloquially refer to as forcing or domination—generally are representative of your belief that you are not inherently connected to infinite abundance and must Force something upon someone else to get what you think you need in your life, not believing that you have all you need right at hand to create whatever you want without having to hurt anyone else or yourself in order to create it. Okay. So the issue of Integrity is far from a follow the rules y y y. It’s far from a strict one.

Bashar: Oh, yes. Okay. Very very pliable. It simply means acting in an integrated way. Okay. Knowing that you are the total you and have access to Total infinite ability, abundance, and power. Negative situations, negative expressions, are acting in a separated, segregated, limited way: “I don’t have the ability. I am a victim. I have to manipulate everyone else in order to get what I want. I have to force this on someone else in order to make them listen to me in order to validate me because I do not believe I can validate myself.” That’s negative. Total validation, self-love, integrative. Lack of self-worth, guilt, invalidation, judgment, segregative, negative. All right. Understood. In terms of homogenizing oneself, any suggestions either for me or for everybody?

Bashar: Simply that when you allow any Creation in your life, whether it be positive or negative, when you allow yourself to let yourself look at it and say, “All right, that may have been a negative act. It may have been functioning without my Integrity. Now I recognize that. Now I prefer to understand I do have the ability to create what I want while functioning within my integrity. That’s the way I prefer to exist.” So in having created this negative act that has allowed me to learn that I prefer now to only generate positive effects, so now even that negative act has transformed into a positive one because I have learned something positive from it. Everything is on the same level. Everything is equal. Then when everything is on the same level, I can choose and pick what I prefer because I don’t have to reach for it as some sort of unreachable ideal, nor do I have to climb up from something as some abysmal act I can never ever ever redeem myself from.

Asker: Okay. I’m I have a question about whether I was manipulating in a in a specific way. Sometimes I find that for example, when I want a day off work, yes, and there are people that I see at work that create illness in order to get a day off work. I choose not to participate in that. All right. Thus, is it manipulation to call in sick, something simple like that?

Bashar: It is acting outside of your integrity. Basically, it is, because you are not communicating the honest vibrational situation of your being. You are thinking once again that the way you are is not reason enough to create the reality you want, and that you have to In This Way create an illusion to get someone else to go along with it. When you know that you are as strong as you need to be to create whatever you truly need in your life without having to manipulate the true signature vibration that you are, then you can function totally always in harmonious Accord with your integrity, your integral vibratory signal, and still attract into your life what it is you truly need. And also ask yourself many times why you may want that day off. Perhaps it is an indication that you actually do not want to be where you are at all. Perhaps then you can attract into your life whatever it is that will support you and bring with it automatically a schedule that you can live with. Then you won’t have to make excuses because you will attract the job that represents the being you are, and it will automatically be patterned and structured in the way that represents your flow.

Asker: Okay. The the the way that I used the calling in sick was to postp… postpone something. And if I had shared my honesty…

Bashar: Yes, they would have said, “Oh, oh, oh.” Assumption. Assumption granted. But it may be true. However, again, no matter what they would have said, it would have been an honest reaction to an honest communication, and that would have let you know. If they had said, “All right, now that we recognize what your idea is, what your attitude is, we cannot deal with you. You cannot be a part of this idea.” Mhm. But so what? Then that means you free to attract into your life the idea you can be a part of. They have actually given you the opportunity to recognize within yourself that perhaps that job is not for you.

By truly giving them the honest idea of who you are, then you truly learn the quickest whether a job is for you or not. Why stick around someplace that really is not representative of the vibration that you are? Why would you want to stay around there anyway? Why not let them tell you it’s not going to work? “That’s not who we are. You don’t blend in.” What they are really saying is, “Be who you are. Find and attract into your life the job you can live with.” Because if you don’t want to be here, then you are not being of value to us anyway. You are not serving, and we cannot serve you because you are not where you want to be. Attract the job into your life that brings with it the schedule that is all right for you. Then you will be able to serve them and let them serve you. You follow me?

Voices and Parallel Universes

Asker: From your point of view, what is the mechanical source of voices that come that start talking to you?

Bashar: It can be many different things.

It can be portions of your own Consciousness that you have created a vocalized symbol of so that you will hear them in the way you are used to hearing things. It can be a vocalized symbol of communication from another Consciousness alt together. It can really come from anywhere.

When you hear it… thank you. It is also a way from time to time to allow them to instill within themselves a degree of further trust. They will make it seem as if the voice is removed so that they will not at first have to think that they’re doing it. Then when they get used to the understanding that they’re communicating with another portion of their own Consciousness—no matter who it is they are communicating with, because they’re always communicating with their own version of that idea anyway—then they won’t necessarily have to experience it in that way, although there’s nothing wrong wrong with doing so.

Asker: When I create uh, parallel universes in which I fly down Hollywood Boulevard as Superman or in a sleigh, you know, y, some of my goody games here. Um, I want to be able to parallel the visual with the same um, experiential pattern that you get physically through the body. Can you assist me in being able to develop that perception more?

Bashar: If that is your dream, act it out. Act it out. Act it out. Put the suit on. You mean? Is one way. That’s what being a thunder dreamer is all about. That’s what the idea of a Hoka is all about. When they have a dream they know represents the idea of the being they are, they create, replicate that, and create that in the physical dream as well as the non-physical dream. It will give you an opportunity to truly experiment with the threshold of your believability.

Asker: Go get the reindeer in the sleigh and start moving around here. Besides which, even though there may be individuals that choose to think you’re out of your mind, many other individuals will enjoy it. And most importantly, if that’s what represents your reality and if you know you are doing it with an Integrity, go right ahead. Yeah. And again, you may find that the second you do that, you may get another way, another way may come to you that will also be a way, also be a method that the majority of individuals may also allow into their lives to be possible.