Homosexuality

Topic: Relationship Dynamics (Friend’s Husband)

Bashar: What could they do to make their relationship better?

Does this individual, this friend, does this individual feel that there is something that the other individual should say?

Participant: Yes, I think so. Sharing what is occurring on the business cycles and also being interested in what’s going on at home with her and with their children.

Bashar: All right. Does this individual feel that this situation allows her to begin to become aware of other aspects of her own consciousness that she may not have realized are there and that she can begin to pursue on her own right because she needs to look for other things if she cannot find it in him within herself.

Participant: I find that the conversations we’ve had because of this has bought out these aspects in various things and I think she’s beginning to be aware of that too. She’s had conversations with you concerning aspects of herself that are developing and expanding and coming to force. She’s a person that had had intense migraine-like headaches when she was beginning to and that just before big events would happen and you had told her that as she began to open up and…

Bashar: Sensitive to the electromagnetic field. Right. Recognize also that the individual you may call her husband in that way in the relationship may also be reflecting from his point of view that there is a fear within him that the sharing of certain information will be let us say perhaps overstressed, overanalyzed or demands will be made upon him for things he does not perhaps feel he can deliver if he shares much of this information. This is an opportunity for both of them to realize that openness and honesty and communication will alleviate any so-called self-created problems rather than complicate them. But at the same time, it is an opportunity for the friend to recognize that there are many forms of communication and there is much support in silence at times. You follow me? In this way therefore it can be an opportunity for that individual to support the other individual unconditionally in the way they are choosing to be for they can function as a reflection for each other in that way. She can support him to allow him to know that she will not let us say twist the ideas into something he does not feel he can live up to. In a sense creating within him a need to guard himself for fear that there might be portions of himself that he is letting get out of hand that he is not in control of. You follow me? He knows he can do this in the relationship because they are close in that way and he is in a sense unconsciously relying upon her to recognize that at this point he may have a need to experience this fear so that he can come to terms with himself that there really is no need to feel that anyone really can take anything away from you including the idea of controlling your life or that you are somehow enslaved or that he is somehow enslaved to someone else and that he only lives for someone else and not for himself. You follow me? In this way, at the same time, it will allow the friend to get a handle on certain ideas that she can also pursue to replace certain ideas, so to speak, not utterly replace them so that she will no longer experience these ideas from him, but at least for herself create her own versions of the things she thinks she needs to learn from him so that she can learn some of these things on her own from herself by herself in her own avenue in her own point of view without relying upon him to supply her with some sort of stable foundation she cannot discover within herself. You follow me? It is an opportunity for both of them to use perhaps in that way. There are many more levels and many more facets. This is very intertwined in many different ways which we cannot go into completely right now. Allow her to rely upon her own higher self in her dream state and ask for assistance and guidance from those that are there to assist her and rely upon her own imagination in her relaxed period of our being at that moment. And it does not have to come through the idea of the compilation of a series of discrete discontinuous compilations of study or remembrance. It does not have to be a collection of memories that creates knowledge. You are understanding that from the point of view of making knowledge a collection of memories. Well, things perhaps can get a little weighty from time to time if you have to carry all those memories around in order to know anything you need to know at any given moment. But if you are willing to simply recognize that the baggage so to speak is always with you when you need it that it is more in the form of let us say a device you have used in your society many times that you may refer to as a magic bag that really while you carry it around is quite empty but when you reach into it for the thing you need that is what you pull out. You follow me? Therefore in that context it need not weigh anything. Knowledge can be looked at as the potential to know what you need to know when you need to know it. And it does not have to contain anything at all until the moment you need it. You follow me? Also, I want to say merry Christmas in that way.

Participant: From you. Merry Christmas in this way.

Topic: Forgotten ET Encounter

Participant: Venue. Um, about a year and 3 months ago, we talked about the possibility of me having an experience when I was about seven and having an exchange with ETs for lack of a better longer word. And that within 3 months or certainly within this year I would remember that lost time. And I have yet to do so. I realize we have a week to go.

Bashar: Anything can happen. Now do recognize first of all that you have had some recollection in dream form but you have disguised it according to things that make sense to you according to the things you are working through in your physical life. You simply have not recognized some of the communication for what it is. But you will awaken into that as well. Also, the environment towards what you call the end of the year that you will be placing yourself into will have a lot to do with opening up some of those doorways even though it may be within the last as you say 2 or 3 days of your year.

Bashar: The things that come to you in dreams in a different way. They will begin to be a little more apparently different when you place yourself in what you call the Hawaiian environment. And the last time you were there, you in a sense set the stage for what it is you will make a connection to this time.

Even though it may seem certain changes may wait as you say till the very last moment, it is always the precisely perfect moment. And it does not really matter how much time preceded the change. We know that to your eyes many times it may seem that well the longer it takes to get to that point, the less likely it seems that that change will ever come. However, understand it only takes a moment for that change to occur. So when it does occur, it won’t matter how much time it took to get there. Things will still be different. And you will not relate to the time it took anymore. Every moment is zero. Zero.

Homosexuality and Balance

Participant: Recently I have become very aware that there is a new well new 2 or 3 years old influence in my life that I am attracted to and that is to homosexual men and I’ve never um well I wouldn’t say never but it does seem to be a new focus for me. And I’m wondering if…

Bashar: As you are now beginning to blend with the idea of your own masculinity and femininity within yourself and allow the marriage of the masculine principle and the feminine principles to take place with equalness within you. You can be of assistance to individuals to allow them to blend the ideas within themselves in that way so that they no longer necessarily not that it is right or wrong but need to manifest the idea of an imbalance in one direction or another. Therefore recognize even though someone may not be in your terms homosexual, they can still reflect an imbalance. And this is what your society has basically done for many thousands of years is reflected the imbalance and not been willing to understand that each and every individual does contain the potential of the balance of the masculine and the feminine principles. It is a denial of that equality within the self that has created the need for the tool of homosexuality because those individuals were willing to reflect in no uncertain terms to the mainstream of society that each and every individual regardless of their physical properties contained masculine and/or feminine principles completely diametrically opposed to what their physical reputation was. The mainstream of your society still did not get the picture and still to this day bequeaths the idea of judgments and invalidations upon those individuals which then taking those judgments to heart have created the idea of many of the diseases they are now experiencing in the idea of your society. But these diseases in that way are still a reflection of the opportunity that your society has to now in being forced to drop its barriers of immunity to new ideas now must face the idea of the blending of the male and female principles within each and every individual. They must now force themselves to be open to these ideas and that is what they are doing. You can be as you are beginning to learn to identify with these individuals. Of great assistance to them in learning with them how to blend your own aspects further and teaching them by seeing in you this reflection of the blending, how to blend their masculine and feminine aspects in a more balanced state. So that they will understand that when all individuals marry those two aspects within themselves equally, both what you call the homosexual society and both what you call the heterosexual society, learn to balance these ideas within themselves equally, then there will be no need of any form of disease in your society whatsoever. And you will find once again, not that it is right or wrong, that there will also probably most likely not be any more homosexuality in your society simply because it will no longer be necessary as a tool. Because the society when they choose to be born as either a male or a female will still as a male or a female exhibit the emotionally androgynous properties of the balance of both while still expressing themselves fundamentally physically in the form they consciously chose to be born in. You follow me?

Participant: Yes, I certainly do.

Bashar: You can be of great reflective assistance in aiding these individuals to balance this idea and so allow themselves to balance across the board by recapitulating many of the different experiences that many of them have of all of you has had the idea of male and female lives alternating back and forth many different times. Allow them to know they contain both. And when they can allow themselves to be both simultaneously, then they will allow themselves, not make themselves, not force themselves, not take themselves, allow themselves to go back to the zero rest balance point. In which definition, no imbalance can exist?

Participant: All right. And I am a Libra.

Bashar: As is the physical channel.

Participant: Oh. Oh, very good.

Bashar: Thank you. One moment. Are you through?

Participant: Uh, well, there was one other thing I wanted to ask.

Bashar: All right. Can you wait?

Participant: Yes.

Bashar: All right.

Topic: Violent Dreams and Disconnection

Participant: Um, some weeks ago, I mentioned a negative relationship that I’m now moving away from. At least distancing enough so that I can…

Bashar: You are transforming it into whatever format is necessary for you to learn the next thing you need to learn.

Participant: Exactly. And about 2 weeks ago the man that I’m living with had a really really violent dream after we had had a particularly nasty argument. And in it he was carrying a severed head under his arm and it was dripping blood and gore all over the place. I wondered if you could shed a little light on this dream. He does seem to have a violent nature but not that violent.

Bashar: Perhaps he has been hanging around with that other individual over there. Again recognize this as an opportunity to know that many things are played out in the dream reality that perhaps let’s say would be socially unacceptable in physical reality. The idea at the same time that he can use this as a release is also an indication that perhaps he is not within a belief that he is connected to the portion of himself that controls his life. You can allow this individual once again to understand that he is simply reacting to beliefs he has bought into and that you can teach him this. Every individual is as strong as they need to be to create whatever reality they desire in their lives without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to create it. They do not have to cut off their own head. They do not have to spite themselves in that way. They do not have to feel that they are disassociated with the portion of themselves they think runs their life. Wow. All right. Share your unconditional love. The experience you have had with other individuals that may have seemed to be negative also gives you the tools you need to work with this individual. You follow me? If you find that you have been able to identify in other individuals patterns of what you would call violence, then you now have in your tool box a recognizable model through which you can assist other individuals.

Participant: Uhhuh. Yes, I see. Thank you.

Bashar: Thank you. Don’t lose your head.

Participant: Ace.

Topic: Back Pain and Suicide Dream

Participant: Ace. Okay. I have a couple sharings. Two weeks ago I shared a dream about a suicide that I participated in and there was no ill feeling or anxiety or whatnot. Last week I created in my physical structure a very acute low back disc syndrome which was so very intense for 5 hours that I actually contemplated going to a hospital. But it was the sense that I couldn’t find a place to sit, lie, walk, stand, anything for more than about 15 seconds and I vomited for a great number of times and a friend, a fellow chiropractor came over, couldn’t touch my back, but ended up after an hour of frustration basically by adjusting my neck and alleviating about 70% of the pain in about 20 minutes. Which I then have in the last week gone to about four different people each, you know, seeking a certain aspect of their ability to bring me back to a much more stable place.

Bashar: Okay. Now the question and that’s the scenario.

Participant: Yes. My perception was and I’m going to use terms of like from the Bailey books that I’m accustomed to that there was a certain tension in my lower chakras, the solar plexus, sacral, and root chakra that directly related with some type of agreement or a movement that was going to be connected with my throat chakra or an expression. So there was a tension that I’ve been holding. And during my life, I’ve always had sort of a cutting edge to my words. And so the way I look at it is that there had to be a shift, an actual blending of the lower centers to be able to bring more of the next center up, which would be the heart center into my expression, my communication. And it was funny that my back went out while I was creating a Christmas card. Did you laugh?

Bashar: Yes, I laughed a lot.

Participant: I went out for about the first half hour or so and then the next four hours I was crying. But um so I wanted to share that with everyone because I didn’t… I don’t really… I was anxious for those five hours until I could finally find a place to lie. But it seemed like there was… you know I have created the need in my life to bring through a physical experience to represent change to myself.

Bashar: Well, in that one instance, yes. The idea also of the connection to what you call the suicide scenario now allowing you to represent the idea that you gave yourself a strong enough focus and an urgency to understand that you are connected to other individuals and that they can be of service to you. That you do have a connection to life that you are capable of attracting into your life. Those things that will allow you from the idea or the scenario of death and running away in your terms to come into a new birth. Christmas after all is a birth. And in this way allow yourself the experience that while suicide usually is the product of belief that you are disconnected from reality and have not got the resources to create the life you want. You gave yourself the opportunity through that focus of intensity to realize that you were able to attract into your life all the connections that you have to be able to support you and alleviate any tension that you do have within you.

Participant: Right? And it happened so quickly. Most of my clients takes three months for this type of event to go. Did not need it to hang around very long.

Bashar: Exactly. It served its purpose. Each individual fell in synchronistically.

Participant: Absolutely. All right. Thank you. I have one question about someone else.

Bashar: All right. Thank you very much for that sharing though.

Participant: Thank you for yours. For you only unfold more and more of yourself and allow us to reflect what you already know. We are teaching you nothing new.

Topic: Infertility and Karma

Participant: Okay. I have a friend, her name is Michelle Iverson and she’s had three surgeries concerning her reproductive organs, scar tissue and blocked fallopian tubes and she’s really wanted to have a child and her husband has really wanted it. So they went through all this expense and surgeries, two surgeries first to do this. And she really was focusing on drawing together her relationship with her husband by giving up some of her work in the aspect of a photographer and being an artist to be more with him and be more conscious of a union. And then she proceeded after working this past year very hard of getting a tubal pregnancy which is… well she didn’t lose her tube and I mean she didn’t lose her life or anything like that but she’s really confused as to all the work that she’s put into her life to this point and to still come up with something that’s now put back into the bed basically for four or five more months.

Bashar: Some of this in our immediate perception perhaps is a remnant idea of guilt from something that she may have felt she was neglecting in another life and now creates for her a sensation of being drawn close to this other individual that she may have felt she abandoned. The idea in this way therefore is that in her own mind this abandonment of this being, now her spouse then her child, has allowed her to remain fixated on this struggle to give birth while at the same time creating barrenness and a great deal of struggle and complexity in the process of getting closer to the individual she abandoned before. She does not need to carry this idea in this way anymore. Perhaps even the simple relating of this idea to her will unlock certain ideas in her unconscious that will allow her to see that she no longer needs to create punishment upon herself and that the idea of karmic balance can always be created in positive ways as well. Just because you may have done something negative in one life does not mean you have to perpetuate upon yourself negativity in this life to balance it out. It can mean you can be of assistance in positive ways and that will also balance out the momentum. For do remember karma is self-imposed and in no way, shape or form truly represents a retribution or a punishment. It is simply the indication of a balance of polarity and momentum that you desire to experience from one life to the next. But in this way she is exploring this idea of abandonment. And so she finds that the idea of childbirth abandons her so that she will be forced in a sense to let go of the things that truly are her children, the things that excite her the most to adhere to the individual she felt she abandoned before. But this is not about needing to abandon the things in life that truly are her children, which are her interests, which are the things that excite her. That will only compound the difficulty. She can simply forgive herself and recognize that because this individual is in her life again and in a position to be of support to her that this individual loves her unconditionally regardless of the relationship and regardless of the way she treated this individual in the last life. You follow me? She is already forgiven. Allow her to forgive herself. Then she will in many ways give birth on many levels. So she should return to what excites her the most, her creative aspect. Allow herself to recognize that there really is nothing to forgive. Then she will sense within her the urge to return and at the same time she will become in a sense pregnant on many different levels. Pregnant with new potential and perhaps even in what you call the future pregnant physically. All right. Thank you very much for her and myself. I will also add this at this point. When in her physical future, she may choose to cocreate a physical pregnancy with another consciousness now that she already has in her life the child she had before as her husband. She does not need to worry that what she is going through now will add physical difficulty to the birth. She can completely retransform her cellular structure by getting back into what it is she enjoys doing. It will rejuvenate and refresh her entire body because she will be giving birth to her energy children, the aspects of herself. And this will prepare her for any physical birth that she might agree to have. Thank you. Thank her for us and share this information. It will make a difference in her consciousness and open many doors that she has held tightly closed simply out of fear and self-doubt and guilt.

Participant: I will share.

Bashar: One moment. Ace.

Topic: Drug Addiction and Empowerment

Participant: Yes, Michelle. I’ve got a young female client who is a heavy drug user. And she makes in the general sense makes improvement in this area and then relapses and continues and goes back into heavy drug use and it’s been a quandary for me.

Bashar: Do you know what this individual does wish to do in life? Is there anything at all that excites this individual?

Participant: That’s funny you mentioned that because that’s exactly what we’ve been talking about the last couple of sessions. And she’s not coming up with anything.

Bashar: All right. Perhaps you can suggest some alternative exercises or techniques that will allow this individual to get in touch with that they can create similar experiences to what the so-called drug seems to give them, but that they can do it without the drug since they are doing it anyway and the drug is not really doing anything for them. You can initiate from your imagination and through your own research a series of exercises that you can feed to this individual that they can gain the same sense of empowerment out of that they think they gained from the drug but will allow them to begin to rely upon their own energy bolstering their cellular structure bit by bit as they proceed and progress through the series of exercises. One of which will be the technique we have shared many times with getting in touch with the blue crystalline sphere of energy that is your auric field and beginning to identify with that energy. And one of the assistive techniques in getting used to dispersing yourself through that energy or identifying with that energy is the idea of the immersion in the body temperature water and extracting from the water the crystalline power potential that will allow for identification to take place within the cellular structures of the body so as to realign and become a more clear conductor for the fact that she herself is creating the empowerment. You follow me? Use your imagination. This is your opportunity to discover your own creativity. You are right on the threshold of allowing yourself to be able to in your sense invent a package of tools that can be very beneficial for many individuals that will touch them on many generalized levels. Taking them through these techniques will allow them to wean themselves from the externalized addiction and begin to rely upon themselves by feeling within themselves the spark of power they always assumed came from the drugs. Then they will discover it exists within them and then they will know the drug never did anything for them to begin with that they did it.

Participant: Thank you. I just got that on several levels. Thank you.

Topic: Sleep Disorders and Biofeedback

Bashar: You all. [Laughter] There will be but a few moments remaining for this interaction this evening of your time.

Participant: I sure… one moment you then you… you’ve discussed this topic several times but it’s concerning sleep. At various times it seems like I could be driving down the road and I have a suggestion to myself or something that the word sleep will come across my mind and it’s like I have what’s the term narcolepsy or something?

Bashar: Narcolepsy. Yes.

Participant: Yeah. It’s like I just drop into a… it’s not like normal times like the afternoon thing that you’ve discussed you know in our bodies. Now, in a sense, your own time is your own normal time. Okay. But it seems a little more if abnormal, if you will. And it seems to be the only thing that I’m really having difficulty with that I have not seemed to get some kind of…

Bashar: Have you had your physiological body checked out by the belief systems that you might call your medical practitioners?

Participant: Yes. Oh, yes. Yes.

Bashar: And have they found anything?

Participant: Nothing. Nothing at all.

Bashar: Have they given you what you call EEG?

Participant: No, I have not.

Bashar: We would suggest that for they may discover certain patterns within the neuronic paths of your brain that will be indicative of certain chemical states that may be being created by your belief system within your brain that may cause this fusion to take place and in a sense remove you from conscious reality. This is nothing serious but we would suggest that you go and see what you can discover with this tool.

Participant: Well, just recently they did find that I do have an abnormal, if you will, heartbeat that is just it isn’t a regular heartbeat and several other things.

Bashar: This is don’t worry about, you know, it’s just kind of indicative of you as an individual. Yes, in a sense that is correct. But it is also indicative of this particular anomaly pattern within the way your neuronic circuits fire in your brain, the ones that automatically regulate your heartbeat.

Participant: Well, I have spent quite a lot of money lately going to medical things and if you will, I’d like for you to suggest something outside of the medical.

Bashar: Thank you. You can begin to first of all when you place yourself in a meditative state to realize as you already well know that individuals upon your planet have exhibited many times that when they place themselves in certain states of meditation they utterly have the ability to regulate what you call their heartbeats and brain wave activity. You follow me? Therefore, we would suggest that perhaps very beneficial for you would be allowing yourself to get in touch with methods that will allow you to regulate what you call biofeedback systems to allow you to get in touch with what type of brain waves you are producing and when you are producing them so that you can learn to recognize them when you feel them and learn how to transform them into what you need them to be when you need to maintain certain states of consciousness. You follow me? What you call biofeedback techniques may be of assistance to you. You may find that there may be many quote unquote clinics which exist which are in your terms are not the idea too much as you say of expensive if you explain the idea that you desire to get in touch with learning how to control the idea of your different brain wave frequencies. They can perhaps point you in the direction or be of some assistance to you as to different methodologies to go about learning how to do so.

Participant: Well, for some reason I understood that wherever we’re going, things are happening and to get us there.

Bashar: Yes. Okay. And but you see, the idea may be that you’re giving yourself an opportunity to explore an avenue that will allow you to gain the type of conscious awareness and control over the variances in your brain activity that you need to to do what it is you’re going to be doing. This may simply be one of your methods and one of your tools to get in touch with the fact that you can regulate your body systems. Even the ones you think of as automatic and unconscious. Exploring the idea of what you think of is unconsciously regulated in your body, such as a thing like your heartbeat, will put you squarely in touch with the blending of your conscious mind and your unconscious mind. You follow me? Explore the idea of your alpha, theta, and delta brain wave rhythms. Research your literature. Research your techniques. Many are available simply through the idea of what you call your books and do not involve the necessity of the purchase of expensive equipment.

Participant: Okay. Under the look under the heading of biofeedback or brainwave activity.

Bashar: And there are once again many individuals now that you have in a sense put it out there that are around you even right now that may be able to as you say turn you on to some of these directions. Do remember every thought you have actually physically changes the neuronic structure of your brain. So when you start thinking in the ways you will be thinking when you explore the idea of blending the different areas of your brain, then your neuronic pathways will begin to indicate and reflect that type of thinking which will put you squarely in touch with the blending of your conscious, subconscious, and unconscious reality, which is what you have desired to do.

Topic: Remembering Dreams

Participant: I very rarely remember my dreams and I’d like to find out what this is all about and what I can do to remember them.

Bashar: It is not always necessary to remember them. You can and many times you will. However, you do not necessarily have to put upon yourself the demand that you do.

For many times, you will find that certain things you learn about in your dream realities are quite a distinctly separate lives from what you are doing here.

There really is no need to mix the two in that way. Also, you will find there are certain things you do in your dream realities that even though they have to do with this physical reality, you don’t want to necessarily have absolute conscious analytical awareness of until you spontaneously live through the experience you have set up from the dream reality. So, you will learn what you need to learn rather than simply intellectually know it already and not get the spontaneous experience of life out of it. You follow me so far? Not exactly. Let me put it more simply. Everything you do in physical life in a sense you have worked out in the dream state. You follow me? Sometimes what you work out in the dream state, you don’t want to remember when you wake up so that you will remember what you need to remember after you have lived through the experience you set up in the dream state. So you don’t have a memory of the dream because it would tip you off. So it wouldn’t be spontaneous.

Participant: Okay. Now also another reason why you may be creating the idea of not remembering dreams. Although we do understand that in your society there are things sometimes which you do not want to face and sometimes when they come out in your dreams you will not remember them because perhaps you fear to face them. All right, no big deal. Allow yourself to simply recognize that you will learn what you need to learn when you need to learn it. But also recognize that the fourth density reality is the idea of living your dream. And what you colloquially call a dream is a symbolic tool to form a connection for you between a physical and a non-physical reality that you don’t believe are connected. When you therefore wake up into physical reality, you have a dream memory to let you know there is a bridge and a link and you were doing something when you were asleep. When you begin to blend your dream reality and physical reality into more of one reality, you don’t need that link because you’re always aware of the fact that you are awake and dreaming at the same time. So in fourth density, you will find that people will not so much wake up and remember a dream as much as they will simply know they are always awake and always dreaming at the same time and don’t need to create the separation of physical and non-physical reality and the link of the dream to let them know that they are aspects of the same reality.

Bashar: At the same time, simply as soon as you lighten up on yourself with regard to needing to remember these dreams, most likely you will begin to understand this first of all and take this to heart. Are you paying attention? Repeat after me if you will. I am dreaming now. This is a dream in a sense. Therefore, very good. Therefore, when you understand this is also a dream, this physical reality is also a dream, there will not be as much separation for you. And therefore, it will not be such a big deal. Oh, I’m going into the dream reality now. Well, big, dark, nebulous place. I probably won’t remember anything about it because it’s so unlike my life. When you understand you are dreaming right now, you will allow the dream reality to become familiar to you in a way that will allow you to think of it as a normal experience and not something so esoteric that you can’t possibly apply the idea to your physical life. Then you will begin to let the two blend. Then you will have whatever memories of it you need to have.