Relationship and Trust Issues

Participant 4: I went to New Jersey and I saw Sandy Stein.

This is a person that 18 about 18 years ago I’d gone out with a few times and um I didn’t like him much then. And this time I liked him better except I still had uh I didn’t trust him totally.

But there were times where I felt like we had a really nice time together. He taught he told me he was glad we were friends and he wanted to remain friends and and he enjoyed my openness and um he said some really you know nice friendly things to me in our last conversation before I came back um to California from New Jersey. Nice. It’s okay. So I felt really good about that and I also was building up ideas in my mind romantically that have since um aren’t quite there anymore like that. It was like kind of like when you’re initially with in that fantasy thing for maybe about a week and then reality sets in. But um another reality sets in. Another reality comes in. Okay.

So I went and asked another um another entity who’s channeled through someone called the agent and I asked him about the relationship and I told him that I I you know like this person yet felt like he was dishonest and he assured me he was very dishonest and he assured me that he didn’t care well he said at that point that he said this person Sandy doesn’t care as much about you as you think he does and that he doesn’t it’s not that he’s lying to you but he doesn’t tell you kind of everything um that and I said well is it true that he really wants to be friends with me and he said well yes you know and there’s just other things that he doesn’t tell you and uh I felt tremendously sad.

Bashar: Why well I felt sad because I felt like it was important for me um to the time that I spent with him was really nice and and I felt like the things that he said he really meant but when I was sharing with this other entity I wasn’t so sure at that time. All right. Well, understand this as well. The idea of the things that he said felt nice because you created them to be nice because your vibration and your reality will always create the idea of the positive manifestation now that you are moving in the idea of yourself in that manner. Again, you can form relationships with any type of individual. recognize that no matter what they are in the relationship for, you will always benefit in a positive way if that is the type of reality you have set up for yourself. So while they may be being in your terminology dishonest, the idea still will allow you to utilize whatever information comes from them for yourself in a positive way. Okay? And then for you, you can recognize that what is honest about the information is that it is a valid symbol that you have chosen to co-create with them for you.

Participant 4: Well, okay. But I’m a real Yes, I understand everything you’re saying. And yet it it feels important to me to know how another person really feels.

Bashar: And what you’re saying is we actually create what they’re feeling, too. I mean, in a sense, yes. I mean, how would you know for sure then how a person feels about you? I mean, if someone says they care about me, understand that the idea, so to speak, is not so much that an individual that is collected within total integration and self-love. It is not so much that that individual needs to know how other people feel. They will simply be able to perceive all the ideas for which they have attracted any particular relationship. They may know how another person feels. They may not know exactly how another person feels. But the idea is this. You in your integrated self-love do not need to differentiate the idea of how they feel precisely to simply recognize what you are allowing the relationship to exist for.

Participant 4: Well, I Yes. And I think that’s very well put and I I um and I have made that an important part of my life. how other people feel about me has been yes has been important to me.

Bashar: Um all right but understand again even that idea as you are now describing it still does involve little bit of the idea of judgment even though it is not so much that you are concerned about how they feel about you but just to know how they feel is still a judgment of differentiation. There’s not so much the need to really pick that out and diversify that from all the other ways in which they might feel if you are simply willing to allow the interaction to be known to you for the reasons that you have co-created it. Because you see, when you are in a knowing state, you do not necessarily have to go through the panorama of feelings to know what it is about. Okay.

Participant 4: Well, that’s that’s a different reality for me that I’m learning about now that I’m it’s like I’m in the midst I’m in the middle some it’s I’m making the switch but I haven’t quite but that is why you attracted that type of an opportunity to show you that you are no matter what another individual is offering to you going to translate it into positive effect for yourself. And so it is not so much that you have to know what they are really feeling per se because you simply do know that no matter what they are in the reality for they are still being of service to you and you can feel that and only the service that they are doing. Okay. Okay.

Now and then I just have one more thing and that is that I I have a feeling that this person um has sexual relations with a lot of people. He’s a very sexual person and I because I distrust him. I I feel like at one hand I don’t feel like I’ve picked up like any any disease or anything from him. I don’t I don’t really feel that. But but there’s a part of me that the part that doesn’t trust him thinks like that would be something he would do. You know what I mean? Like they wouldn’t tell me or something. Oh, right. But you know that is not what you need. Okay. All right. Yeah. You’re right. All right. I But I do have a fear that okay, I could create something like that out of my own fears of sex, my own things that I have going on about sex. Like, oh, that would be convenient way out, you know.

Bashar: Then all you need to do is get in touch with the fact that you love yourself unconditionally. And when you are integrated in loving yourself unconditionally, you will always be consciously knowledgeable of the fact that you will never need to do that to yourself. So even if I have that fear, it doesn’t mean that that fear is going to cause it to happen. You can understand that you can recognize something that might be a probability without instilling energy behind it. Okay? So I don’t have to be like afraid that certain fears I have are absolutely going to manifest in my life. I can just recognize that they’re fears and that not you know once again the library. You may read every book on the shelf. The ones that are frightening, the ones that are joyous, the only ones that will become your reality are the ones you check out.

Dream Experiences and Contact

Participant 5: I perfectly understood you to now say, “I do not know how to express myself.” And you express that idea perfectly.

we got to New Hampshire and um I was first four days I wasn’t all that I wasn’t thinking too much about, oh, the contact’s going to happen. what’s it going to be? Um, but as the days went along, I started thinking, well, gee, one day less, one day less. When’s it going to happen? I I was centered. I wasn’t driving myself crazy.

Bashar: All right. Remember what we said to you before you left about expectation?

Participant 5: Yes, I remembered that. All right. I really I I was proud of myself. All right. Um, before we got to New Hampshire, when we were in New York, I had some dreams that I think are related. All right. I’d like to mention them briefly and maybe go right ahead. I think I had uh contact a lot of contacts on the trip with the leaves. Um one of the dreams I had was three three contacts. Yes. Dream. Yes. That that’s perfect. That’s exactly what I have written down. Um the first one was it was in an office environment and I’m sure that’s symbol I created, right? Um, and there were many employees in this office, but there were certain ones that wore these pink robes and it was understood that the people wearing the pink this secret club membership and it was almost like we were having a large convention or a conference and I don’t remember a lot of the details. I just remember that my friend Butch was in the dream and he was one of the people and I got a a pleadian feeling. There was a lot of people from that area. All right. Um but as far as dad’s concerned I just felt I woke up and I felt like it was a very large meeting of you. Am I correct?

Bashar: Yes. Do you want to love it? Simply the idea that you were recalling, recreating in the present the idea of in your terms a past visitation in astral state that you had made with regard to the idea of learning what you needed to learn to set up the type of system you want to set up on your planet. Now thus it was formed the idea of conclave to illuminate to you all the methodologies that had been undertaken to that point so that you could pick from among them all the ways that you wish to implement upon your planet this time.

Participant 5: Yes, that sounds good coming out of your mouth. I couldn’t verbalize that but that’s not how it helped. Um the other one was I believe I I categorized it as a memory um of my early studies with black when in their early days. This is also in a sense when the meeting took place. I see. Okay. This uh was really interesting because I Yes. And I would physically go to and from wherever they were holding the teaching. Nice. By myself in the physical. And I remember leaving one of the the learning days and I was going home to where I was residing and um I I remember feeling that I did not really quote unquote like these people that were teaching me. I didn’t agree with a lot of their methodologies, but there was a reason why I wanted to be taught this.

Bashar: Understand that ultimately they also did not agree with their own methodologies. Yeah. That is why many of them are upon your planet again now because they have realized the idea that in attempting to meet the opposition on their own level, they only drew the opposition to themselves so that they could be wiped out.

Participant 5: Yes. Um anyway, I was going home and I just knew I had this terrible purpose. Oh, terrible. Well, I’m sorry. asked from a book and I just take it off all of a sudden. Um, where I came from. Anyway, I was standing at the shore. There’s a river. This is this is really beautiful. I’ve never experienced anything like this before in a dream. And I had to wait to cross the river. And it’s much like when the tides would go out on Earth. However, the tides here went out like a 10-minute interval. And what they do is it was almost like the splitting of the Red Sea. Certain pieces across the river would just split and there would be a walkway and you would walk through and I was just sitting there waiting for the tide to split that and that’s what I was thinking that I was unhappy. I didn’t really like the people that I had to learn this stuff. So I was wondering if I vision if I imag whatever imagined that correctly if that was in a sense it was also symbolic for you in the idea that you attracted yourself to that particular symbol to represent the idea of the split that would have to take place the idea of the creativity flowing in both directions. one realizing that it could no longer use the methodology that it had already chosen and the other realizing that the so-called rectification of that previous methodology would take place in the other direction you were performing the idea of beginning to set up to co-create with many other individuals the 180° opposite direction quote unquote in case the original idea failed so to speak. So you were in this way willing to institute in this time frame this transformational frame the idea of the type of network that would allow them in your terminology to have something to fall back on later.

Participant 5: Yes. As you said, I’m not quote unquote a member of the Black Lead. I’m like a Yes. Yes. Okay. Um and now you said there were three and I had two others that are worth mentioning. They’re very brief. One was um a friend of mine for Christmas gave me um I call it a crystal crystal. It’s it’s two quartz crystals and fused together in a way where you can hold it and it’s just like a a pistol, a laser gun. Yes. And I didn’t bring it with me on the trip, but when I got to New York, I um had a dream that some being or being were teaching me how to use it and that it was a tool for me. Nice. And the alarm went off and it jolted me so much I couldn’t bring up that that conscious I couldn’t bring the memory in my consciousness.

Bashar: You will when you allow yourself a little more freedom in play time.

Participant 5: Thank you. Um the other dream, if this was it, I don’t know. Entity appeared in the bedroom I was sleeping in New York when I and um it was a man with dark hair and a mustache. He had three quartz crystal balls in his hand. They were they were small. He held me towards take these. If you learn to scry into them with patience, you will begin to have visions. And that was it.

Bashar: Very good. Yes, you have given yourself all that you need and you have consciously brought forth contact.

Closing Message and Guidance

Bashar: Does that do I think that mean okay if I start scrying that or or is it more I don’t know I really am I’m having [Music] would you in this way proceed physically to walk before the channel’s body standing in front. Facing. Yeah, he’s facing the three fingers with your own with your imagination. At this point, can you allow yourself the freedom to scry into those spheres to know that you can create for yourself if you wish the idea of attracting yourself to physiological representations of those spheres if you wish. You may have them physically with you. You may find your own versions of those ideas so that you may utilize them in that way. You may also simply keep them in your imagination if you wish. In this way, all that you need to do is endeavor to perform the act that you perceived was being suggested to you in any way, shape, or form, whether you have the physical spheres with you or not. And you will allow yourself in relaxing into the idea of that type of meditation to be able to see through them as doorways and to contact in that way all the information that you need with regard to the fundamental triad foundation you will form within the particular network that you are forming upon your planet at this time and you will understand how you can build a basis that will always support itself flawlessly as the tetrahedron, the pyramid, the three-sided pyramid will allow you to recognize that it is the most stable form and the simplest form of solid you can have in your three-dimensional density. Two sides always supporting the one. The one never letting the two come apart in this way. You will understand as you begin to scry further into the idea of yourself, your own triad partnerships, your own unity in this way that you can simply take it for granted that you are a being of play and allow yourself the freedom to roam in your imagination. Allow yourself the freedom to love yourself in this way. Cherish yourself. Take care of yourself in this way. Play and endeavor to love unconditionally all that you are. For then you will find that in unconditionally loving what you are, you will be able to share that unconditional love with all those that you will attract to yourself as you have chosen this exemplification of the hub of the network, the nexus that you will perform this service with this transformational life in this particular civilization.

Understand you are surrounded by these ideas. You are surrounded by friends. Each and every one of you all know each other on some level in this way. You are all part of the same network. You are not special. No one is special. But you are all unique. Allow yourself the freedom to express your uniqueness with conviction and the shortity that it can seem as simple as simply following your intuition, playing in your imagination, and allowing yourself the freedom to know that that is how you can unfold the entirety of your life. Nothing needs to be complex. You can allow yourself not to become childish, but childlike as you already are in that way. Allow yourself to know that as you make the sweet sounds of childhood, those will be the tonalities and the harmonies and the bells that will be ringing in other individuals’ ears for they have heard them themselves in their own lives and it will strike a chord. You will attract yourself to them. They will attract themselves to you.

Collect, if you wish, three crystal spheres to represent the idea that was suggested to you in the astral contact that you had. But you do not need them. It is up to you. It is up to you to determine the nature of your toys, the nature of your symbols as you create them in this reality. Understand, my human friend, understand, my dear child, understand in this way that you are God. God is all that is. That you are crystalline in nature. You are the spheres. You are 360° outward in yourself and at the center of yourself simultaneously. You are a projection and you are real. You are everything you want to be right now. Allow yourself only the idea of the unconditional love. Feel yourself, love yourself, and go into the depths of yourself and explode outward in this way in any way, shape, or form your imagination tells you is valid for you.

Bashar: Are you following along?

Participant 5: I’m following you very closely.

Bashar: Uh-huh. Now understand that there are messages of appreciation from the league in allowing you to allow them to play with you in this way and for cocreating the idea that they now understand the idea simply of offering freedom of choice equally between positive and negative reality. So that in this way all things being equal, then all beings can choose. And that this is the way. This is the way they were seeking. The way they were seeking to circumvent the negativity that they were creating in their own systems. And in this way, you are a part of the illumination. You are a part of the overall idea that they now understand within themselves. Now understand they have been a very serious allowing themselves to come upon your planet in this transformational life, they will only love you all the more for simply allowing yourself to completely be who and what you are for. In that way, you will be illuminating brightly the path that you are and they will enjoy seeing you very much.

Participant 5: Thank you. Thank you. If I could, I’d kiss now.

Bashar: You already have.

Participant 5: I feel really wonderful. I don’t Thank you. I hope you can feel the appreciation.

Bashar: There is no need to hope. Understand that the degree of appreciation that we have for your entire civilization is infinite.

Question on Politics and Government

Participant 6: Um, I’d like I’d like to relate the visual Same. You may a little bit later. Okay. For right now, allow me to underline the idea that what we were just doing with you is something that you can do with anyone in your society. You have given yourself an entire playground and it is full of children. Thank you very much. Y have time for a question always. Okay. Would you consider politics or the political system in this country of a positive polarity or negative polarity?

Bashar: Understand that the idea of politics in and of itself as you have created it generally upon your civilization has come out of the negative manifestation of the separation of yourself from the all that is that you are. But this is not a judgment. It is an observation simply that the need for which you have created politics has allowed your politics to be negatively manifested.

Participant 6: How could that be switched?

Bashar: Change yourself.

Participant 6: And then the rest of the people too. You talking domino effect or they got Yes. Yeah. Understand it is not even so much that idea. It is that every individual already exists on every level of existence that there is to exist upon. As you change yourself, you are looking out of new eyes. And those new eyes only can see upon the level in which they exist. So you will only see the other portions of those individuals that only exist on the level you have been willing to change yourself to. They will seem to have changed, but it is you that have changed. Now understand simply, you are your governments. You are your governments. You are every idea in your civilization. When you act the way you want to act, the way you would act if you were the idea of a government in peace, in love, then you will be radiating to other individuals the opportunity to think of themselves that way as well. For you will be an example of the possibility to see yourself in that way. Then if they choose to, they also can understand and share and cocreate that idea of seeing themselves unseparated from their government, which is what you have done with it. Taken your responsibility and pushed it away from yourself, given it over to someone else, given your power away, take care of my life for me. I have many fears, but you will protect me. In creating your government out of your fear, you have created a being a consciousness that born out of fear must generate fear to sustain its existence. You follow me?

Participant 6: Yeah. What good would it do to join? How can you change from joining? You join I mean change it from the inside. I’m talking you know like on a bigger sense understand again immediate sense. You are your government. You are your government. Change yourself and act like you have changed. Act like you exist in a world where there is peace. But not from the idea of judging what you have, simply preferring what you want. As I have said, you do not get peace by hating war. You get peace by loving peace. So do not hate your government or you will only be the hateful government that you perceive. Be the loving idea of sharing equally. Take back your responsibility for everything that occurs to you. Take back your power. Take back your fear. And in this way, you will act like the type of individual that other individuals within your civilization can look at and say that person is showing me that I also am my economics, my government, my religions, my everything, my life, my reality. Therefore, the idea of responsibility is not blame but freedom to choose what I prefer. I am completely responsible for everything in my reality. Which is the same thing as saying I can choose whatever I want in my reality. You cannot in this way change anyone else if they do not wish to change. But you can change yourself and not perceive nor experience them anymore if they do not want to change. For you will be in another idea, another reality, and you will create for yourself the existence on that level in which exists all the other types of individuals of the same nature that will cocreate with you the type of reality that you want to experience. You will think it is the same reality changed. It is not the same reality changed. It is a completely different universe. Do you follow me?

Participant 6: Yeah. Are you sure? Well, yeah. For the most part, I’m going to get the tape after.

Bashar: All right. Could you tell me something personal about business? Are you allowed to give up? Can you like prognosticate commodity markets? Understand the idea that we call prediction. Yeah, I remember that part. I’m just wondering if you could give like definite possibilities of the parameters or give me a formula for computing them on a on a I don’t know the most efficient system for doing that. The most efficient system is to simply know the second most [Laughter] guess. Thank you.

Physical Pain and Body Healing

Participant 7: Thank you. For sure. Nice. I have um four months now. My right shoulder, my right arm has just been hurting so tremendously like I can hardly lift something up and a lot of physical things lately.

Bashar: And what do you do with your right arm?

Participant 7: I work I lift I what I’ve been trying to do is to do more with my left arm and my left side as opposed to my right it out.

Bashar: Why?

Participant 7: Because I felt that maybe I was doing too much with I was too right sided or something. He and besides it hurt so much he couldn’t do anything. All right. So I had to work with my or you know do anything with my left.

Bashar: All right. Can you simply imagine? Can it be sufficient reason for you that you may have chosen the idea to incapacitate your right side so that you could learn to use the other side to integrate the hemispheres of your brain?

Participant 7: That had crossed my mind. But understand that if you know that that is the reason, if you can allow yourself to feel that that may be valid, then you know you do not necessarily have to create it in such an unconscious fashion and you do not need the pain in order to simply allow yourself to know that you will continue to integrate. Do you follow me?

Participant 7: Yes, I I do. I follow you. I wanted validation on

Bashar: Put both of your hands up in the air. Now, as you do this, feel both hemispheres of your brain. Feel the left hemisphere connected to the right hand and the right hemisphere connected to the left. Feel the analytical you that you may feel tired of controlling the right hand and the creative you that you may wish more experience with controlling the left. But allow the left and the right to both be equally valid in the functions they have performed. You may relax. Allow both sides to be valid equally in the functions they perform and allow the symbol you have given yourself to be a valid symbol. Do not judge it. Do not try to get rid of it in trying to get rid of it. You reinforce it. Allow it to be valid in the way you have created it. for it has served the purpose of reminding you that you want to integrate and balance both sides of yourself. Now that you can know that is what you give yourself the symbol for. It has served its purpose and has delivered its message to your consciousness and you can let it dissolve into something else knowing that you will continue to balance yourself and do not need to nag yourself to remind yourself that you will continue to do so. You do not need to drive yourself to make the integration. You do not need to whip yourself to move forward. You do not need to pull yourself agonizingly, straining yourself. You may simply flow. Do you follow me?

Participant 7: Yes. Um, my body feels like it’s been hit by an lasting months.

Bashar: Nice. And it’s very sore and it’s very tired. It feels like it can sleep for five years straight. Go right ahead. Why? Why? Uh why is that? What?

Bashar: Understand simply that you are, as is your nature, giving yourself a crash course in acceleration. You are impacting yourself very rapidly into the new idea of yourself. And so you are creating many ideas of friction between the idea of an old you and a new you with such rapidity that you are basically beating yourself up. How do your ribs feel?

Participant 7: My ribs? Yes. Under your arms? They feel fine. I’ve had muscular pain up my chest and my back.

Bashar: Nice. Can you take slowly slowly three deep gentle and loving breaths in and out. As you do so, close your eyes and float and describe whether it is what you call a physiological sensation or not. Describe in your imagination what you feel as a sensation in any portion of your chest area as you do so.

Participant 7: I feel a tingling.

Bashar: Any temperature change?

Participant 7: Yes. Very good. It is cool. Yes. Can you allow this idea, this sensation to extend itself into all your extremities? Can you then feel the air rushing through you? Can you feel that?

Participant 7: Yes.

Bashar: Can you allow this feeling of atmosphere of coolness of mint to exude from your pores and fill your auric field so that you breathe the atmosphere in creating a cycle?

Participant 7: Yes.

Bashar: Take your right hand and follow what I do. Now relax and tonight at your time as you sleep know that you are talking to yourself and you are talking yourself from your higher consciousness to your physical consciousness into a state of relaxation. And when you arise, the idea of the symbol of yourself will be more and more with every breath of your auric field, more assimilated, more centered and more present. Understand that when you reach for things in the future, you are always going to strain yourself because the future is not something you have to reach for. You will be reaching for infinity. It is all within you. It is all right in the present. Do not strain your reach because simply you already know that your reach as all that is already contains everything that you need. Do you follow me?

Participant 7: Yes. Thank you.

Bashar: For sure. Yes.

Question on Death and Fear

Participant 8: Hi. This is the first evening that I’ve come to um see you. I’ve been listening to tapes for quite a while now for my husband and I’m really enjoying you.

Bashar: We are enjoying you all as well. Thank you.

Participant 8: I have a question about our concept of death. All right. When we leave our physical body and we go wherever we go, right? It has been for a while now that I’ve been very bothered by the thought. Yes. I’m having a hard time trying to sort in my own mind and understand what it’s all about.

Bashar: All right. But understand every time you try, you will have a hard time. Yes. Okay. Now, what do you feel it is quote unquote all about?

Participant 8: Um, what do I feel? Okay, I feel that. Well, I I it’s I can’t explain it. That’s the problem. I I’m trying to understand exactly what I feel. Okay. Excuse me. No, I feel fear.

Bashar: All right. Very good. Okay. Very good. Now, why? because I don’t know what it’s about. So, so what are you trying to tell me?

Participant 8: I’m not trying to tell you anything. I simply said so. Okay. Now, is it that my

Bashar: All right. All right. All right. Use your imagination. What do you think will happen when you die?

Participant 8: I’m going to go somewhere. I don’t know.

Bashar: Where?

Participant 8: At this point in time, I don’t know. I choose to go. Okay. Very good. Okay. All right. Now, what I want to understand too, my feeling, my One moment. What? Do you believe what you just said?

Participant 8: Yes, I do. You will choose to go wherever you want. Yes.

Bashar: All right. Now, if you believe that you will choose to go wherever you want, what are you afraid of?

Participant 8: Good question. uh trying to understand where I’m going. Uh no, that’s not it. Well, thank you. The fear I understand that yes, I will be going somewhere wherever I choose to go when that time comes that I leave my physical body.

Bashar: Are you afraid of death or are you afraid of pain?

Participant 8: I’m sorry, that’s hard to answer. Probably both. Maybe I’m trying to think that is there somebody close to me that I’m having this feeling that maybe they’re going to die and that’s what’s frightening me.

Bashar: Are you telling me that your feeling about your fear of death is specific rather than general?

Participant 8: Right or no? Well, yes. I’ve got myself confused.

Bashar: All right. Elaborate on that. Spec is specific or general. Do you feel that the idea of death is a separation, a loss?

Participant 8: Uh, if it was me, no. Somebody else. Yes.

Bashar: All right. Now, why not if it was you?

Participant 8: Cuz I didn’t go anywhere.

Bashar: All right. Very good. Now then, do you not know that when they die, they don’t go anywhere either?

Participant 8: Well, yeah, true. But they’re not there.

Bashar: Oh, yes, they are. You can physically see them. Okay. Well, you can sense them. Yes. You can know that you are still connected to them as you always have been. Okay. So what you’re saying or what you are trying to show me is that if someone close to me does die, then I should be able to accept it as that and still be able to feel their vibration or sense that they’re still there. All right? In a sense. Now, there is no should about it. You do not have to should anything. But recognize in this way it may be that if such an individual were to choose to offer you the gift of transforming from physical to non-physicality for you it would be something that would be a gift for you to reflect within yourself your belief systems about those ideas and perhaps that is what you chose it for. Recognize also that in this way you can form the analogy that if you have a friend that you are talking with one day and then you see them the next day wearing a different set of clothes. Well, do you tremble in fear because they have changed their clothes? No. You still recognize them as your friend. The idea that they have left their physical body is simply a change of clothes, so to speak. Why fear the idea that you have lost them simply because they have changed their clothes? You can still sense the idea of the relationship. You can sense the consciousness. Now, understand this. Everything occurs within perfect timing. And therefore, if someone that you know should physically die, it serves a purpose in the co-arrangement, the co-agreement that you all made. Therefore, understand that what is happening is in accord with what you agreed to experience. It is up to you whether to make a negative or a positive experience out of it. But agree to experience it you did. And if you know you agreed to experience it, then you can. You do have the right to assume that you chose to experience it for a positive reason.

Participant 8: Yes. To try to understand.

Bashar: To understand. Okay. To understand in whatever way you as the being that you are, as the personality that you are, chose to understand it. Therefore, do not be hard on yourself when you think you do not get the whole picture right away.

Participant 8: that I guess you’re reading my mind. That’s that’s it. You know, it I I can’t get the whole picture. It does frighten me. If it could be maybe my husband uh dying, God forbid, that it would happen right now, like you say, that we may not this moment right in this time right here, but in what we call the future.

Bashar: Let me ask you something. Do you understand that you have many physical lives?

Participant 8: I’m beginning to understand that.

Bashar: All right. Do you understand that when you choose to have a physical life while you are still non-physical as you would say in between lives so to speak? Now we are speaking linearly because you are in a linear time track. Although all your lives are actually simultaneous because there is only here and now. But as we are talking linearly while you are in non-physical state choosing your next physical life understand that there are certain ideas about that life in that life that you wish to experience to fulfill another idea of yourself as a total being. Now in choosing those ideas that you will experience, understand this. You will experience every single one that you chose to experience. You will experience nothing extra, nor will you miss any of the things that you chose to experience. By living your life, you will live through and live out and experience every idea that you chose to experience and create this life for the purpose of experiencing it. Therefore, since there is no extra time, since you are going to experience everything you chose to experience, you have set aside the idea of a certain number of events that we call timings. Now, the amount of time in which you can have the experience of your timings can vary depending upon how you choose to go through the experience of the timings. If you choose to negate it, to judge it, to separate yourself from the event, you will create that much more time that is needed to get through the experience. Things will drag as you say, you will get stuck in a rut and you will become frustrated and tired. If you choose to go through the event to experience the timing from a positive point of view, then it will be very highly accelerated because you are willing to integrate and less time will be required to experience all the timings, all the events you chose to experience in this life. But when you create your timings with the other individuals, when you create yourself to have a life with other individuals, you are co-creating your timings to merge and blend and always fulfill each other’s timings at exactly the right moment. Therefore, no one is ever ahead of anyone else. No one is ever behind anyone else. And when someone in a sense finishes what they have chosen to do in a physical life and moves on, they are not leaving you prematurely. You are not leaving them prematurely. They are leaving in exactly the right time and timing that they chose to and that you agreed to. Therefore, understand that if you have agreed to stay physical longer, then their leaving first provides for you one of the experiences you chose to have while still physical. So that you can learn from it. Okay? You are going to quote unquote catch up to them eventually.

Participant 8: I hope so.

Bashar: You do not have to. Oh, okay. I will. Yes. Okay. Okay. One more question. Now, one more thing before your question. Yes. For sure. The recognition that every event in your life serves a purpose can be the choosing of the positive way for you to learn the idea that you are thinking about cocreating that event for perhaps in a negative way. And by assuming that it serves a positive purpose and learning what that idea might be about before you need to experience it in a negative way means that it doesn’t necessarily have to happen in a negative way for you to get the message. You follow me?

Participant 8: Yes. Then you have the situation wherein you have the so-called prediction of the oh horrible catastrophe coming up. But the idea that you now are aware of the prediction itself lets you understand the reasons for why you attracted that idea. And if you understand the reasons, then you may say, well, now I understand the purpose of why I would have created a catastrophe. So I no longer need to experience it as a catastrophe. I can now move ahead to the next thing. Okay. Thank you very much.

Second Question on Health and Pain

Participant 8: Thank you. My second question regarding health. Yes. Uh just like the young lady was about pain. Uh I have been experiencing excruciating I determine excruciating headaches pains starting from the crown of the head in the front of the forehead past the ears down to the base of my neck. All right. I also have experienced infection in the nose and in the upper part of my stomach. Now I have decided that

Bashar: So you have what is called post-nasal drip.

Participant 8: Uh yes I do.

Bashar: Thank you. Okay. Now I was told that well no excuse me I decided to go to the doctors. I have tried for uh two weeks maybe two and a half weeks to try and meditate concentrate with my power rods my crystals everything to try and try try try. Yes. Excuse me. Uh distribute or eliminate the pain that I am feeling. I couldn’t succeed in this. So I went to the doctors. He ended up putting me on medication. All right. Okay. I did.

Bashar: What do you think about yourself for having created the idea of pain?

Participant 8: I don’t like it.

Bashar: You don’t like yourself?

Participant 8: No, I don’t like creating the idea of pain.

Bashar: All right. But what do you think about yourself for having created the idea of pain?

Participant 8: What do I think about myself? Yes. Well, do you love yourself?

Participant 8: When I create pain, no.

Bashar: Why not?

Participant 8: Because it hurts.

Bashar: So, well, why am I going to love myself if I’m creating pain?

Bashar: Perhaps so that the pain will go away. Okay. You see, if you put conditions upon your love, then you will always be creating a doorway through which one of those conditions can remind you that they are there. You follow me?

Participant 8: I follow you. Okay. How about the medication?

Bashar: Okay. The medication has helped me.

Participant 8: All right. I have not been a my tool as you say, our different tools that we need to help assist us in whatever the situation may be. It has helped you.

Bashar: Yes, it has helped me.

Participant 8: All right. Is that okay by you?

Bashar: Why not? Do you feel that I could concentrate on myself alone without the drugs to be able to eliminate?

Participant 8: I feel you have that potential. Yes. I just have to find it.

Bashar: You do not have to find it. You simply have to be it. You have to live like it.

Participant 8: I don’t understand. It’s just like right now I’m experiencing the pain in the upper part of my stomach. Now, you made the comment of the post-nasal drip. Are you telling me that the post-nasal drip is causing the pain in the upper part of my stomach?

Bashar: No. What was the the connection to your future self is the connection to my future self? Understand that the majority of the idea of energy distribution in connecting to your future self, to your higher self, to the idea of the you you think you are becoming usually occurs through the solar plexus. And this is why as you understood in this way as I have said myself in a sense to be the future self of the physical channel you see before you. Why we usually and used to in the idea of the frequency as we were acclimating the physical channel to the connection with us used to regulate the idea being in front of the solar plexus of the hands of the physical channel to form a link and a bridge so that there would be an easing of the idea of the blending of the two frequencies so there would not be pain. Recognize in this way the idea is simply that as you create the idea of a future self that you think to be so much better than you at a higher frequency than you, then you are creating a friction between the frequency you think yourself to be now and the frequency you think you are becoming because you are putting the two together by comparison and a slower vibration and a faster vibration creates friction and that friction is felt in your physical form as pain and disease. When you allow yourself to be the future you now, then you form an automatic blending that alleviates all need for the symbol that reminds you that you are still separating yourself in the present from the idea of your future self. All pain and disease is the product of your separation from other portions of yourself. Therefore, it is a reminder or can be viewed as a reminder that you are still separating what it is you are seeking to become because you are seeking it rather than simply acting like you already are it. And the more you seek, the more you may double over.

Participant 8: It hurts.

Bashar: So maybe I should like now as you breathe in a relaxed manner, recognize that as you breathe in, if you wish an analogy, if you wish a symbol, as you breathe in, then draw to yourself the future you with every breath in. And as you breathe out, you are taking what you have drawn in as the future you and gently placed it into position around you as your reality. In this way, you can ease through the rhythmic vibration of the centering of your being, through the energy of the breathing, the centering of yourself, the identification of your present self with the future self to make them one thing. And you can ease all of your pains and separations. Now to some degree the intensity that you have been feeling in this area is representative of the idea of your third eye crown and channeling chakras opening up to accept the you have said you are on your way to meet. But they’re standing wide open waiting for you to be that person. And you are still walking with them wide open waiting to get there. So allow them to relax. You are holding everything open under tension and you are making them hold open under tension for a very long time because you are creating the idea of being your future self in the present as a very long journey that you need to accomplish. Relax.

Participant 8: Okay, one more thing and then I’m done. What I’m experiencing right now, I have in my hand here is a crystal. Okay. A raw crystal which I meditate with and I feel things with. Yes. As I’m talking to you. Yes. Experiencing. I’m sitting here and my body is shivering. Yes. My temperature is warm. Yes. What is Can What is your Is your whole body warm or are there portions that are cold?

Participant 8: My toes.

Bashar: All right. What about your hands?

Participant 8: My hands are sweating.

Bashar: All right. What about the crystal itself?

Participant 8: It’s very warm.

Bashar: All right. Now, that vibration right now, does it feel like something that has great potential in it?