Sexuality

Reproduction And Childbirth

Asker: I’d like to know some information on the procreation process for your species. Basically obviously you have some kind of intercourse that you just told us and a cell is there and then a physical being is there and the physical process is again as you would say practically identical to your own with the exception for the most part of what you term to be the gestation period. How long was that?

Bashar: Seven months.

Asker: At what point does the consciousness enter the body?

Bashar: The same as your own just prior to birth. However, the agreement between the parents and the conscious beings coming into the body is made prior to the physicality.

Asker: What would be an average weight of a child born in your terminology?

Bashar: Approximately 5-6 pounds.

Asker: So if you say you’re on your spacecraft and you have sex on your spacecraft as the child is conceived, do they go back to the planet to have the child? Does it happen instantaneously?

Bashar: It can occur upon the craft. There are facilities for such. Recognize in this way that many individuals are on craft for quite long periods of time may not in this way return to what you term to be home planet for many of your years.

Asker: So they could have the child would be conceived, the child would be in gestation and would actually come out physically from the other being on the spacecraft. Has that happened many times?

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: Do you have doctors to facilitate that or is basically the process pretty easy at this point?

Bashar: It is, as you say, relatively smooth. In this way, almost what you term to be anyone can assist.

Asker: Is the father usually present for the birth?

Bashar: More often than not.

Asker: Well, is it a ritual like ours is?

Bashar: Not really, except in the constant mental communication with the consciousness during the process.

Asker: So you don’t give out the guards then, right? Do you breastfeed the babies?

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: Do you use bottles for that?

Bashar: Oh.

Asker: When the child is born, do they have immediate vocabulary skills or is there a process like in ours that they can make all the sounds that are in your vocabulary?

Bashar: Now understand in this way that with our civilization that which you call language is even for myself a remnant idea.

Asker: Great. Thank you for that. They do not communicate vocally at all, telepathically.

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: So then you don’t even they’re already developed as soon as they’re born and obviously the consciousness is there and you’re aware of that and therefore it can express itself in a certain methodology according to the newness of the physical body. In a sense you would perceive it to be in like manner as your own children, thus manipulate the language in a more simplistic fashion. You will find that the ability for the communication once in the physical form will be somewhat limited. They will require some time to expand that concept, but it will usually not take in your terms any longer than three of your physical years.

Asker: Do they have to develop motor skills or do they already have some?

Bashar: Yes. But can they walk immediately?

Asker: No, they have to crawl or they just—

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: How many years does it take them to be mature?

Bashar: What is your definition?

Asker: Like 20 years from birth to become an adult.

Bashar: Now understand that your own cycle by which you call adolescence, your word puberty, in this way in your own cycle will be approximately 12-13 years, not 20. In ours you’ll find in this way somewhat similar, the idea again approximately 11 years of age, that which you call the beginning of adolescence. Though there will be again from three years onward the ability to communicate for the most part as any being in our civilization would be able to mentally.

Asker: Are the telepathic skills not fully developed from birth to 3 years old or are they fully capable in that respect to some degree?

Bashar: Although again the communications will be for the most part not diversified. Do you understand that term?

Asker: I understand the term but I don’t know how you’re applying it.

Bashar: In this way understand that the being newly born will still be for the most part used to non-physical existence. And in this way, the majority of the telepathic communication will come in whole concepts without direct reference still to some degree for the society into which the being has been born. It will be in somewhat the same manner as your infants making sounds which have no basis in your particular language. Yet you understand that there is communication. You understand the intent for the most part of the sounds. With this communication of the savatic nature, the concepts are translatable to physicality because they are closer to the non-physical.

Asker: Sort of they are still homogeneous in a sense, not diversified into the specific reality into which they have been born. Sort of analogous to the dream state not being fully translatable into physicality.

Bashar: Yes. Very good. It will be abstract to a great degree. Until it receives the codification of the entire mass consciousness and assimilates its own consciousness therein, thus forming and using the archetypes present in our own consciousness to relate to our specific civilization.

Asker: Is that why our babies born here also communicate not with specific words? It’s not that their speech skills aren’t developed up to that period of time you call three of your years in terms of any civilization which reproduces in similar manner to you. In this way you will find that it will be quite similar from civilization to civilization. For the infant from 1 to 3 years they will all almost be all the same.

Asker: What my question was was that on this planet we’ve interpreted the child’s inability to speak as just lack of skill, lack of development. Whereas I’m seeing here that it’s not so much that as the fact that they are thinking in undiversified terms and if they were immediately talking—

Bashar: The skill and development you are speaking of are the skills and development with regard to the specific physical reality they have projected themselves into. It is in that way a matter of skill and development but not in the intrinsic sense of not being able to conceive of concepts at all. They simply find not yet the translation mechanism to be fully functional.

Asker: Well, I’m thinking if they were instantaneously able to communicate in a diversified way, as you said, their ability to develop their speech skills would be much faster, I would think.

Bashar: Do you mean in your civilization? In a sense.

Consciousness And Channeling Process

Asker: When you came on you spoke to us about sex and we told Daryl about the channel before that all of that which is impregnated into the physical channels mentality we can draw from. I know you so you’re in contact with D’s personality all the time. There is always an open link. So there’s a double—anything that the physical channel will know we can know directly.

Asker: How come Dao doesn’t remember anything that happens when you are there?

Bashar: In this way recognize that the physical channel’s consciousness is locked into its own experience. It knows what it experiences. It does not experience what you experience. It is having a different experience than you are. Recognize in this way if you wish to use an analogy, the consciousness of the physical medium is standing immersed in the path of the communication existing within the energy of our mentality as we are blended with his mentality. In this way for the physical channel it is an I’ll say more direct experiential without thought idea.

Asker: So you guys feelings, emotionality, there will be pictures many of which will when recalled be abstract but the feeling and the emotionality will always be recalled. Simply there is no way without the thought process being involved to make sense out of how many times those feelings and imagery will apply to what you recall as a specific conversation. So there’s no brain work only in an automatic sense as we are through our energy activating the motor nerves, the electrical conduits to allow then to choose what you term to be concepts in your vocabulary that match the concepts that the physical body is receiving. It is acting as a translation device.

Belief, Emotion, And Thought

Asker: But there is no feelings unless we have thought. The thought form comes.

Bashar: No, no, no. One more time. First is existence above and beyond all. Then knowing. Then belief. Then emotion or feelings. Then thought last.

Asker: We cannot affect the emotion too at all.

Bashar: You can but understand that many times your emotionality will come first even though it may remain hidden within your subconsciousness. Many times the thoughts you will think will be a product of how you feel about what you believe. But many times you can use thought to bring forth that emotional energy which already exists. This is what—but your thoughts are the product of your emotionality which are the product of your beliefs. But with the thought you can change your belief.

You can in this way change your belief through your knowingness. Your thoughts give you the opportunity to see what your beliefs are. You can in this way recognize that when your beliefs change, your thoughts will change. You can in a sense change your beliefs with thoughts. But recognize that that is only an illusion. You are creating the idea of a cause and effect when in reality it is all one event. Your beliefs, your emotions, and your thoughts all change together simultaneously. Even though you may think that a thought actually affects a belief, you already have the belief that your thoughts can do so. And so they do. The belief that your thoughts can change your beliefs is a belief before it is a thought.

Asker: You have taught me to be in the feeling, to tell myself what feeling I wanted to choose.

Bashar: Understand again all we have suggested to any of you are all as we always say simply different ways of allowing yourself to be in touch with your own reality. It is not that you have to do it that way. It is simply a suggestion based on your own particular methodology. It may be in that way easier for you, but that does not mean it is the only way and does not mean it is an accurate description of exactly how it is being done. It is all tools, all symbols. It is all an act, all an illusion. It is all an idea.

You can simply allow yourself to know that you can deal directly with your beliefs. Recognize many individuals upon your planet have expressed that they are worried that many times they find themselves reaching a state of mind where they do not feel the emotionality and yet they are very certain of what they are doing and they think “Oh something must be wrong with me. I do not feel the emotionality yet I know what I am doing.” It is precisely because knowing and belief precedes emotionality that when you come from a place of knowing, you do not always have to create the symbolic manifestation of emotionality to know what you are doing. Emotions can be used to trigger your awareness, but that does not mean they have to come first.

We are emotional beings. You are also beings of thought and beings of belief and beings of knowing and you are beings of existence. You are not any one thing. That is how you choose to look at it. That is why you feel that way. You can come from any one of those viewpoints. They are all valid. If emotionality is more valid for you than the idea of thought or belief, then that is how you will discover your emotional connections to your thoughts and your beliefs and how you will be able to activate those ideas for yourself through your emotionality. But you can come and approach yourself through and from any facet of the crystal that you are.

Past Lives And Skills

Asker: I once had presented to me a concept that from a past life one could pick up a skill that one had learned like playing the piano for instance or another language—pick up the facsimiles of that and plug them into the motor controls of the body and do that again. Can your people do that?

Bashar: Yes.

Asker: How could I go about that?

Bashar: Understand first of all that you may remove the concept of past, present and future and recognize that all your lives exist simultaneously and in the moment you can become any one of them. You can be that identity, that personality. Allow yourself to channel yourself, all your possibilities. Allow yourself the freedom to flow as your imagination will lead you. Do not worry if at first you find there are still blocks and that it does not sound correct. You will be able to feel it out.

Sexuality And Reproduction Continued

Asker: With regard to sex, how do your people get sexually stimulated? You know, there’s a pretty female turn you on, that sort of thing.

Bashar: The energy of the love being shared, the purposes being viewed in much the same way as yourselves. The energy and the event which we thus allow ourselves to flow into.

Asker: So it’s basically mostly a sharing that begins. Sort of a telepathic feeling of sharing something.

Bashar: It is the same with you. Many times you simply do not recognize it.

Asker: How old do the females start having children? Is it the same as our planet or do they wait 100 years or so?

Bashar: The capability exists in this way upon an average of what you term to be 16. Some have been sooner, but the average of beginning is 16.

Asker: Do they have menopause?

Bashar: No, there is a time when the evolution of the consciousness will have acted out the bearing of children. This will range from the 200s. It will vary, but the process will again upon the average usually cease somewhere in the 200s.

Asker: But you guys don’t even have years and things.

Bashar: Yes. Didn’t you say that the same length of year that we have is that the same as you have? It is almost the same. It is only off by very little so that you would recognize within the span of a year only there to be a difference of several days.

Asker: How about the day? How many hours is the day?

Bashar: You said in this way recognize again it will be almost the same for there to be only a slight difference in an amount of a year of only a few days between our two different cycles.

Asker: Is there night and days too?

Bashar: Of course

Asker: Are all those answers that you’re giving us in regards to because you are mirroring us?

Bashar: Of course.

Asker: So as an Essassani was formed in a copy of the earth not literally?

Bashar: Understand in this way when we say we are mirroring you by communicating with you, we are reflecting in that way that which you contain within yourselves so that you in this way are allowing us to assist you in discovering that which you already know because it sounds like real stories sometimes when you tell us. Of course, they have no basis in your physical experience. But so what? Understand in this way, if any individual upon your planet were to tell you a story of another country, to you it is still a story if it is not within your experience.

Asker: Do the other channel that come in, other entities that come in, they come from other planets?

Bashar: Some. Some come from other dimensionalities of existence, not physical in any way that you understand physicality.

Asker: And is now non-physical.

Bashar: Non-physical. But it was physical on this earth was 35,000 years ago. Once.

Anita And Future Events

Asker: I have a question about an earthling named Anita. She seems to she talks of our choice being moved up that you’ve been talking to us about in terms of our consciousness and the choices we’ll be making positive or negative whatever. And first of all, I’d like to know who is this person Anita?

She seems to be somebody very much like herself. She’s here on a health basis and she’s giving out similar information, talking about the planet having the choice and she’s even citing dates and times. I wanted to know who is Anita in relation to this person giving us this information.

Bashar: You may consider for now the energy and the consciousness to be something of direct association in a future self sense to the physical being doing the channeling.

Asker: Very much like there are beings?

Not quite the same, but not in a sense. Could you give me some more information?

Bashar: Recognize many times that when we ask you this, it is an opportunity for you to realize that in our perception many times individuals in your society when they seek specifics in this way are looking for limitations within their own process.

Asker: Well, my point in doing this actually I have not seen any but a couple of people who come to see you all have gone to Anita and since she couldn’t be here tonight that’s why I’m asking the question on her behalf. This does not answer the question however in terms of why the knowledge is desired.

Bashar: Okay because she basically gave dates on when we would be making this choice. And when we had spoken with you about it, as far as I can remember, you did not give specifics, but you more or less said during a time of the year in the spring, that sort of thing. Do you mean April?

Asker: Yeah, but she seems she has moved it up to December.

Bashar: Not that specific event, not yet. There are other ideas taking place.

Asker: Okay. Well, basically I guess that’s what she really wanted to know. Is that the same event that you were talking about?

Bashar: No, not directly.

Asker: Would you care to say anything about this December event?

Bashar: Throughout that month there will be an increase in what you term to be also connections from Sirius.

Personal Experiences And Dreams

Asker: I’ve been feeling the blending of the energy a lot more these days and I’ve been feeling a real softness in my being. And like I’m living in the dream—my dream state and my waking state are blending much more. And I also experience a magnetism like I’m attracting situations that—

Bashar: Yes. You are experiencing the ecstatic explosion of coincidence. Your own flow. Your own synchronicity. Your own perfect timing. As you always will when you integrate all the portions of your consciousness. You are the automatic creator. You are the automatic flow. Everything when you know it is perfectly timed will always be exactly when and where it needs to be to allow you to continue your momentum forward. Automatically.

Asker: I had a dream the other night and I’m wondering if you could clarify it for me because my understanding is that it had something to do with it. It didn’t feel like a dream actually. I was surprised that it hadn’t happened when I woke up. So I experienced I suppose living in that dimension simultaneously to this one.

Afterwards when I woke up someone said “Oh, that sounds like what they did in Aztec times.” But it was a very clear symbol of my arms kind of pinned out and I felt my skeletal structure and it reminded me of Zouri jewelry or something—the silver with the inlaid stones in it.

And what was happening was I along with other people was being tossed off of a cliff and I just felt very ecstatic with that and I was told that they did that as like they had human sacrifices in that sense in Aztec times.

I’m wondering then today I met with a Peruvian man who was very involved with shamanism and I just felt like I’m being led toward the southern hemisphere right now. There’s something going on with me in the southern hemisphere. Can you clarify that for me?

Bashar: What needs to be clarified? You have said everything you need to say. Follow your instincts. Continue your journey. It will all be clarified in time. Realize in this way that when you are in the middle of a process, stopping it will not get you where you are going.

Asker: I feel very sometimes though with this I feel we really feel a lot is what goes on.

Bashar: May I suggest something? Recognize many times that individuals in your civilization when they express what you are expressing—there is no need to create such an awesome sense of mystery about this process. Of course you are feeling, you are creating, you are integrating, you are exploding inward and outward. Follow yourself. Live, continue, explore, experience. Let your curiosity and your imagination be your guide. That’s what they are for. Find yourself by knowing that you are all already all there.

Asker: So in other words, you have nothing—I want to if we were to tell you that you had in this way ideas of past life connection, what would that do for you?

Bashar: No. Well, I’m trying. Every time I come to talk with you, I seek a way to enlarge myself in what I’m already doing in my life. How can you do that? I keep noticing I can’t at all.

Very good. The only way you can do that is to keep living. Understand again as we have said every—and we do mean every—idea that you have chosen to experience in this physical life will fit in between your birth and your death. Nothing will be left over and you will not find yourself finishing early and having time on your hands.

Everything you have chosen to experience, you will experience if you simply keep living. Follow your instincts. They and your imagination are the ones with whom you really desire the conversation, not with us. They will tell you where to go.

Asker: What purpose would I have with you?

Bashar: You are allowing us to reflect to you simply that which we are saying. The idea that you do not need us. The idea that you are your own teacher, your own student, your own blended sharing being and that you can trust your own imagination, your own intuition. And by all means, give yourself the opportunity to have your grand adventures wherever you wish to take yourself. Be joyful and explore. That is all there is to life. Be joyful and explore. You will that way always then create more and more and more of your life to experience as you chose to.

If you feel so drawn to that area, go there. If you change your mind, do not. If you go there and wish to come back, come back. It is all up to you.

Asker: I always wonder, Bashar, why people have questions to ask you then?

Bashar: So do we.

Asker: Again, I come here. Why I knew I came here is because I felt a lot of love and I felt this would be a very loving place. But I never feel like I have anything or you know after a certain point you always have something to share.

Bashar: Yes. Always your own energy vibration, your own ideas, your own viewpoints, your own path—that path that you are always, we enjoy. We are not saying you do not have to in this way communicate with us but understand that sharing is enough. You do not have to have questions to speak with us. And we would in this way as you say prefer that you know that when you create a question it means you already have the answer otherwise you would not be able to perceive the idea at all.

Have the boldness and the conviction. When you have those intuitions, when you have those curiosities, act them out. Follow them through physically. Yes, I get it. When you choose to talk about it, talk as if that is what you are doing. You are that explorer in that way. Say all right. I have had these sensations. I have created these intuitions for myself.

These are the images I have seen. These are the feelings. This is how I am drawn. Therefore, this is what I will do. And then we will say, well, thank you very much. That is very exciting, very enjoyable that you would share your particular path with us and for all these individuals as well. So we may see one more way that all that it has of expressing and experiencing itself. How very exciting. Thank you for your sharing. Now do you get it?

Asker: Yeah. What I was getting more was that I felt like I wanted to make sounds to you that didn’t have to do with that—didn’t have to do with verbal questions.

Bashar: If you wish, you may always say but whatever you wish does not matter to us.

Asker: No, I just felt like I wanted to make a tone and I just felt like that.

Bashar: Then why didn’t you?

Asker: Because people on earth don’t particularly, you know, do that that I feel they don’t.

Bashar: We perceive that they make tones all the time. You heard her sing before. Yeah, that’s true. And above and beyond that, what do you care what they think? Do your own thing. This is what we are saying about the boldness of conviction. Are you who you are or are you who they think you are or who they think you should be? Who are you? That is your question.