Suicide and Excitement

Physical Symptoms And Relationships

Asker: I have a friend who is having some physical problems and he asked me if you had any information on anything physical that he could do.

Bashar: Your friend has situations within relationships which do not allow for the freedom of expression. This leads to a pain in the neck.

Though it be extremely painful to him, it is far less painful than the emotional conviction of facing the reasons.

Asker: Yes, as it would involve the restructuring of the relationship in ways that would cause him anguish.

Bashar: Yes, because he doesn’t want to hurt the other people.

But you can allow your friend to begin to understand that every relationship has a purpose. And right now the only purpose that your friend is allowing the relationship to serve is the one that will allow your friend to stand up on his own two feet and have conviction for his own beliefs while at the same time granting validity to the beliefs of the other individual within the relationship.

Understand that if the other individual does not wish to grant validity to his viewpoint, then that will have been created co-created by this individual to allow them to recognize the great degree of fortitude they will require to allow themselves to stand firm from their own viewpoints without judgment of the other, without fear, anger, argument, but simply an allowance—a willing allowance which can then allow the other person to also understand much of the same idea.

They are growing together in this way. But also recognize that a lack of willingness upon the part of the other individual at this time to not grant the viewpoint that your friend finds so important to him will be something that can change but will not be made to change until in that way it is allowed to change by your friend allowing himself the validity of experiencing his own beliefs, or at the same time recognizing that this in no way shape or form will remove validity from the other individual.

Asker: So there’s nothing quote unquote physical in terms of taking anything that he could use as a symbol to assist him in the process?

Bashar: There are a few ideas, but allow me to say the strongest idea at this time is his frustration at not being allowed to express himself. These will completely override any physical symbol that he would give himself.

Suicide And Depression

Asker: I have a friend named Paul Silver who lives in Houston. A lot of his friends are concerned that maybe he may commit suicide because he goes up and down a lot with depression. I was just wondering if there’s anything I could tell them.

Bashar: Concern will only reinforce the idea that he is incapable of making decisions for himself.

To recognize that the individual may be playing out certain ideas within their own mentality will allow them the validity to live out those experiences and not necessarily interrupt their own stream of timing.

An individual who does decide to interrupt their stream of timing will always return and return within a similar situation until they allow themselves to play out that stream of timing.

Asker: is there anything that I could tell him? He feels like he doesn’t have any—he’s not in touch with any purpose. He doesn’t feel like there’s anything that he’s interested in or anything that would make any difference.

Bashar: Let him start from scratch—become a child again—completely allow them to completely create for themselves a new childhood from scratch as far back as they care to go. Allow them to know that the childhood they had can now be considered another life.

They have just allowed themselves to be reborn and are now creating a childhood like unto that which they would desire.

Then by allowing this individual to explore their child in this way—which was stifled during the first life, the first part of this life as you understand it—they now, because they are an adult in a sense, are able to now pick and choose consciously what they wish their childhood to be other than what they had.

In that sense, now they will be given the purpose of completely restructuring, designing, creating, and living the life that they would prefer to design, structure, and live. This will be a lifelong project and will take them to the end of their timing. Allow them to get excited about realizing that they can quite literally—this is no fantasy exercise—they can quite literally redesign their life from zero and live that which they now then consider themselves to be creating as their real life.

This in this way will not be for this individual a shunning nor a sharing of that which they had. For they will find, as they do restructure their life in this way from scratch, create the childhood that they do desire from scratch, as you say, they will be—quite surprisingly perhaps to them at first—drawing upon information that they are not yet at this time consciously willing to realize they do have access to. That they did receive during their actual childhood and adolescent times. They will then allow themselves to open up those memory centers and so be able to use the information they did in fact learn which they are not now in touch with, and they will then apply that as they see fit to the new life they are creating for themselves, designing for themselves.

Allow them by the suggestion to design it in whatever manner they so deem to be. And it can be many different manners that they find most exciting, most enjoyable. Allow them to—I’ll say for now—forget the idea of having to look for a purpose. Right now the only thing that they really need is to simply enjoy themselves.

And if they do not enjoy this, recognize that you are doing this again to give yourself an opportunity for positive effect.

Understand that as long as you are willing to give your power away to what seems to be something that you have to do over and over again, you are simply willing to not believe that it is serving a purpose. You are still looking at it as me versus it.

Bashar: Yeah. You may also understand once again—as we know this analogy has much meaning for you—that the you that you are in this moment is not the you you were in the last moment. You are now another you.

I have that you can be anything, anything, as long as you understand that this fragment you will be a reflection of whatever you are willing to be as an interaction, as an idea overall. For that determines in a sense what this fragment will be from moment to moment to moment to moment.

Asker: Okay, but it uses this physical fragment as a sensory device. It uses it to get the idea you call feedback through your conscious awareness into the separation you have created called unconscious awareness, and gives you exactly what your conscious awareness creates for itself in terms of belief structure. Because that is what type of agreement it has made with you as a fragment in order to allow the fragment to experience what the purpose of having a fragment is for.

So your higher Consciousness, the big you that is you, is going to… sense listen to the feedback that you the fragment is telling it—you want to experience. Allow yourself to be in touch with the overall you, be in communication with yourself in that way, and then you will be able to coordinate the experiences between you rather than feeling shut off.

FOOTBALL INJURY AND ASTRAL JOURNEY

ILLUMINATI

Asker: My perception of the events of the last two weeks which were the Pullum effect you described. You said that there were arguments within the factions, both positive and negative, of the Illuminati. Then the negative and positive met and agreed as to what was to happen with the Cadian contact.

Bashar: The Illuminati idea has long been over. You are only catching up to your own image of it. You are beginning to realize that there is a lot of energy being spent running around worrying about the conditions of this and that when many different things have already achieved a balance. Feel that all is well.

Having made the choice at this time of being in this physical life at the time of the transformation and knowing what part you will play—that for you, the scenario has already been arrived at in terms of a peaceful agreement.

Asker: Yeah. Which which happened Monday? Or at least the play out of it for you? And now how does that relate to—so with that scenario being played out now, the Cadian contact will go ahead smoothly at this time.

Bashar: Unless there is still lack of willingness to be of service. So there’s still other people playing their scenario out. When there are vibrational agreements that are made, they serve a purpose. They do not really hold you back. If you should then allow yourself to go ahead, stick to that agreement and play it out.

Recognize there was what you turned to be within this week of your time—a symbol created by yourself that we interacted with that would have allowed you in a very specific way to be of service to a specific individual.

To allow you to know you were right there within your own timing on the right track. And in that sense you have chosen—and an opportunity to recognize that the overall message of the entire idea is that everything unfolds when you are willing to be of service to others rather than of service to yourself in terms of feeling that there must be somewhere you need to rush to get. The fulfillment of the timing is in the relaxing into the idea of being of service to others.

Service To Self Vs Service To Others

Asker: Tell me about service to self and service to others.

Bashar: When one serves All-That-Is—which you may say others—one is automatically serving the self because one is also part of All-That-Is. You follow me? Yes. Serving others is automatically serving the self. Serving the self is not supporting All-That-Is, and as a part of All-That-Is, then you automatically remove support from yourself and others.

Asker: Will this have explained the idea here, or do you wish me to proceed? Proceed.

Bashar: Recognize that the idea you call service to self in the negative effect sense is the idea of separating the self from All-That-Is. When you cut yourself off at the source, but yet recognize still within your higher Consciousness that there is a connection to All-That-Is, but still are only willing to recognize that connection through service to self through separation—the only way one can form a connection with the rest of all the others when one is separate from All-That-Is is to have domination over all the others, to force them to gather under you.

When one is within service to All-That-Is and is integrated within that idea, then because one recognizes each and every path as equally valid, one is supporting everything—every expression All-That-Is has created within the Multiverse. And yourself as one of those expressions becomes automatically supported and automatically provided for by your willingness to be of service to the rest of All-That-Is. You automatically cover yourself because you are within integration.

Asker: That’s great. So service to self and love of self is two different things.

Daniel: How long is this transformation?

Bashar: There are many different periods within the transformation. But the crux, the nexus of the transformational energy will have solid actualization within the next 30 years.

Compassion Vs Pity

Asker: What is pity? If somebody’s in trouble and if I have pity or compassion on them, that’s reinforcing what?

Bashar: Compassion is not pity. If I have pity for a person who’s in a problem, then you are saying to yourself “Oh yes, this person is having a problem. They are within the vibration of something that they cannot change.”

So how can I relate? How can I know whether to do something?

Bashar: you can always do something.

Do something for somebody or not because I have pity

Bashar: No, no, no. You can always do if the doing comes from compassion. Compassion is the unconditional support of that individual no matter what they are doing.

You know that what they are doing is of their own choice and is valid for the path they have chosen. Not that they are to be pitied and need your help. They do not need your help. You are willing to be of assistance first of all by having the compassion to create a visualization within yourself that this person is already as strong as they need to be and they know exactly what they are doing on some level of their Consciousness—whatever level is important for it to be on.

Compassion then will be the unconditional support or love that you will give them to allow yourself to act in whatever manner they have attracted you into their lives for. You will be acting according to the mutual attraction, the mutual agreement that has been made. You will not be reinforcing unless that is what they have attracted you for—reinforcing the sad State of Affairs you think they happen to be in.

Now many times that will be a part of the agreement, but understand what we are talking about is your ability at this time in a sense to rise above the ability to reinforce someone’s victimhood.

There is no need to reinforce their victimhood. There is only the need in that way then if you wish to be of service to act through compassion—which is affording them the knowledge within yourself that they are already as strong as they need to be. You are simply acting in service to them as they require you to act, knowing all the while that you are acting this way not because they need you but because they have agreed that you will reflect to them a certain set of symbols that they will then be able to use for themselves to create whatever other type of reality they so desire.

You by acting in compassion are affording them an example by which they may then choose to change their reality to follow.

Asker: Yes. So once again very simply—

Bashar: Pity is the reinforcement—you are saying “Yes, you are to be pitied. Yes, you are helpless. Yes, you are a victim. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. That is all very valid.”

Compassion is: “You are doing this for a reason—your very own unique reason. I will aid you to form, to act as a reflection, as a mirror, so that you will then be able to use me to show yourself why you are doing this.

And so if you do decide to change it, you can change it because you know that you are not getting from me that you are a victim and things do not happen to you outside of your control. I am sending you the unconditional compassion and love of the energy that I know. I grant without a shadow of a doubt that you have all the ability you need to change the situation should you choose to.

I will still assist you. I will love you. I will act as the mirror. I will go along with the shade, but I will be sending you the energy of knowing that you can change this any time you wish. And I will be more than happy to share—not tell, not force, not make—but share my ideas as to how you may go about doing this. But it is always your choice. I know you are not a victim even though you are playing that game now. Do you understand the difference?”

Sirian Connection And Healing

Asker: Yes, Jo. What—how you come up with—well, I’ll just let that on hold. I know why you do. Yeah. Would you like to share it?

Bashar: Well, I think it has a lot to do with what I’m doing right now. I have come to this—I know what living life is all about, and it is wonderful. All right. And it’s so simple. The simplicity of it—we can make it so difficult for ourselves.

Bashar: Oh yes, you are very creative—and difficult. Right now I’m in the whole thing of just only creative.

Bashar: You are always only creating. I know, but what I’m saying is consciously—yes, consciously, you know, yes. And I’ve been doing some healing of other people with my hand. All right. And I was in Phoenix, Arizona this last weekend and I was compelled to just sit in a pool for hours.

Bashar: Did you have a good time?

Asker: I had a great time. But what I’m saying is that it was not only for me physically—it was like I had to sit in there because it was comfortable. I had to relax my body because I’ve been going through so much.

Bashar: All right. I saw the insides of my body which was filled with this beautiful blue light, but it was like moving nicely constantly throughout me. And it’s been continually doing that, but it’s like the amount of energy there is—the water was soothing to kind of help balance that. Yes, you know. Thank you. And I know it’s had the serious influence. And I was wondering—well, I don’t know why I’m asking this question, I already know it. I want to hear it. Go ahead.

I was going to ask you if I was—am I a Sirian? At one time I—

Bashar: I am.

Asker: Are you allowed to answer that?

Bashar: We are allowed at this time to say you do have a life there. Yes. Now may I ask you—I think I have the answer—but Sirius is—is that a planet or a star, a sun?

Bashar: It is your definition of a star, and that’s a hot light. Yes, okay.

Asker: Now I had thought at one time that maybe they were living on this planet—that they are the planet in a sense. They are the planet, yes. The light. They are not the star per se, though in a sense they are—there is by your recognition a planet which orbits the star that you would consider to be the planet on which they live. But in an overall sense it would be very different from anything you understand to be a planet because they do make it in a sense from their mentality. Right. It is more an environment in which they exist as opposed to on which they exist.

Bashar: Okay. Now that is just—now I get from them lots of blue light, yes, and they do guide me with the healing.

Bashar: They form an identification which you gladly accept and then use to guide yourself.

Asker: Right. I get total—just like their environment is just total like yes, just sparkling blue light, and they are light.

Bashar: Yes. Understand that our terminology in that way even for what we call ourselves and what we call you and what we call them and what we call every being in the universe is living light. There are different manifestations of that idea to your perception—they would seem to be more so living light. Yes.

Time

Asker: What is time?

Bashar: Time is one of the defining symbols that create physical reality. It is the creation of the separation from All-That-Is of a particular type of experience.

You yourselves have a colloquial saying about time which does in fact really sum it all up: “Time is what keeps everything from happening all at once.”

Because everything does exist right now. Therefore, in order to have the experience that you can have separate, discrete experiences apart from the rest of All-That-Is, you create the idea you call time and space—which are really the same thing. You do not have space without time. You do not have time without space. It is one thing.

Patience, Aggressiveness, And Creation

Asker: We continue with the question that you touched several times this evening when you mentioned timing. I mean an example of when I first asked a question and the timing was wrong—second time the timing is—

Bashar: Never wrong. The timing is simply what it is. Elaborate, please.

Asker: You are making a judgment that because you did not get what you expected, that the timing was wrong. The timing was manifested perfectly in terms of what it was that had occurred during that interaction. It served the purpose that it needed to serve. You follow me?

Bashar: There is a difference—you spoke to this lady over here earlier on the ease of creation. Yes, surely the ease of creation is to be able to relax into the timing, into if you like a nice coincidence of events, into the timing. Yes. Therefore if you create a circumstance for yourself that causes conflict, then surely you are putting your timing out?

Bashar: No. Understand that the timing was for you to create conflict, otherwise it would not have manifested. Period. Understand there are no such thing as interruptions in your path, in your flow. Even though you have free will, if you do create the experience, then you are creating for yourself the idea that you have a need to so that you can integrate in such a way as to take advantage more consciously of the remainder of your timing. Understand that the conflict was created within timing, but the problem per se that you are having in that sense is that it was not created consciously. It will give you the opportunity if you allow it to be valid within the timing to then after that point further create more timing consciously. You follow me?

Asker: Yeah. Will this advantage your question?

Bashar: It lead me to my ultimate question.

Asker: All right. Oh, ultimate question. Oh, we love ultimate questions. Proceed by all means. We are very excited. Not often we run into ultimate questions.

Asker: I can make it a pull? Thank you very much.

Bashar: Keep the—

Ultimate Question: Pursuing Goals

Asker: Right. I have goals that I don’t have necessarily set for myself but have appeared to me. I have found things in my life that not only give me joy but that I feel were my purpose in and above simply being here—as if there were a difference. All is one. I am torn between pursuing the goals aggressively and thus forcing myself into the starving artist syndrome, or being patient and letting these things come to me in the form of time.

Bashar: Thank you. Now may I say that if you become patient, it will be the same thing as feeling like you are forcing yourself. Recognize that if you are enjoying life, you do not think about needing patience.

Patience and forcing yourself is much the same thing. If you have enough free time in a sense to recognize that you need to be patient, then you’re not living. Follow me?

Asker: You have to run that part me again.

Bashar: All right. Patience is only recognized—you only recognize that “oh, I am exercising patience.” Recognizing that you are exercising patience is the simultaneous creation of impatience. You are simply living. There is no need to experience patience or impatience. You do not need patience when you are always doing now.

The idea of allowing yourself to flow within what excites you is the recognition of allowing yourself to act out what you know you are. The idea is that if your excitation exists with regard to a certain idea, you can know that you are that idea. That is what your excitement is for—to tell you you are that idea. If you know you are that idea, it is not a matter of forcing it to happen in any case or feeling that you need to be aggressive about it, unless aggressiveness to you is simply the acting as you are the idea. That is a form of aggressiveness—being the idea, knowing you are the idea, aggressively acting it out—not aggressively chasing it down. There is no need to chase down something which you recognize to be you. You are already right there.

Patience likewise is something that reinforces the concept of time. Patience makes time stretch out. There is no need to exercise patience for something you already are. Patience creates a separation between you and the idea. Then you say “Well now we must wait a certain amount of time before I allow myself to recognize myself as the idea once again.” But it is all a process. It is all an experience. It is all a tool. It is all a way of looking at yourself. And all of it fits the timing.

Once you have gotten that out of the way, you can then simply appreciate the idea that you already are what you know yourself to be by way of the excitement you create within yourself to let yourself know what the vibration is. Therefore, you can simply relax and at the same time be very excited and very aggressive about acting out all of the ideas you find of yourself within the relaxation. They both go hand in hand. As you say, you are excited and relaxed at the same time.

Recognize that infinite momentum means you are everywhere at once. And if you are everywhere at once, then the feeling of being everywhere at once is the same as standing perfectly still.

Symbols And Perception

Asker: Joy, yes. May I also say to you—as with the enjoyment of your pool of water—and to all of you, symbols are where you find them. Simple as that. Whatever you find is a symbol for you because you have created it to be there because you are on the wavelength of that perception, or you would not interact with it. It would not be in your reality. Therefore in your reality is a symbol for you if you wish to make it so.

Now do not by yourself go nuts going around saying “Oh little pebble, what is the symbol you mean to be?” All the next time over the next you will spend a long time on the beach. But you may recognize simply that when it occurs to you that a grain of sand is worth noticing, then that can be allowed to be a symbol. When it occurs to you that the entire Beach is worth noticing as an entire beach, that is worthwhile as a symbol and equally valid as the grain of sand for whatever it is the entire beach has to show you—whatever you have to show yourself with the idea of the entire beach.